#let them be messy

[shaylogic]

Charles' Polo Colors Shift Post / Jayden Revri's Charles Playlist

[indieedgycool]

idk why people want topmew to be a cute wholesome couple??

like obviously top is supposed to be a sleezy playboy we already know and he doesn't bother hiding it either like: 'once was enough for you and me' ; 'I never not get what I want'

like?? we are being set up for heartbreaker force obviously, this man had no qualms admitting he wants to be with mew because he finds it 'interesting' that he's a virgin and has quirky interests

and that public confession i feel like that was just a way for him to pressurise mew into saying yes and catching him off guard especially since boston just instigated him in the bathroom

I mean I'm sorry but I do want a non-domestic, messy forcebook dynamic

not to mention mew isn't what he seems to be which the cast has made obvious like a million times

[daffodil-screaming]

Sometimes i am painfully aware that i do speak in “therapy speak” but that’s possibly because i have been in actual real therapy for over 6 years now and when someone is struggling i find myself echoing what my therapist(s) has said to me when i was similarly struggling.

But god does it drive me insane when people who have just, zero grasp of anything use their interpretation of “therapy speak” to try and shape every interaction into this fragile balancing act with two outcomes, either you bend for them or they are the victim. It feels so controlling and manipulative and i dont think these people understand that they are holding the people around them to such impossibly high standards that they are punishing them for trying to be close and interact. It becomes so clinical and void of humanity. no relationship is flawless, so please stop using this language that you dont understand that is incredibly weighted to punish friends for having flaws.

[invincibleweasel]

My Life Would Suck Without You by Kelly Clarkson is for real Tauradonnacore. From who’s perspective? I’ll let you decide. :3

[soosoosoup]

Chord Striker Au by @thatbennybee

[lilivampire]

so say it ditto..

[ambeauty]

The most obvious and consistent issue with Sydney and Carmy is their inability to communicate honestly about what they are feeling when they feel it. Instead of telling Sydney that he needs her and that he doesn’t ever want to lose her or for her to leave him.. he drafts up a marriage contract partnership agreement. And to apologize for dumping the entire opening of their restaurant on her and to let her know that she’s all he ever thinks about… he gifts her a custom made designer chef coat🤣😩😭

This man is so fucking stupid! I CAN NOT!

[y-akkun]

Fuuuuuuuka

[sunwyrms]

only thing i can think of when i think of loopdile sorry.

[id in alt]

[overnighttosunflowers]

other people have said this better than I will here, but every time there's an imodna conversation, I start hearing noises about the their relationship being codependent, unhealthy.

and, look, yeah, individually? they're mentally unhealthy. they are! they're fucked up and traumatized and trying to hold on long enough to get to the other side and each of them individually struggling to believe that's even possible.

but their relationship? how much they love each other? how much of a harbor they try to be for each other, how they do their best to help each other, steady each other, even while they're grappling with their own shit in ways that make that really really hard?

of course they're not always gonna get it exactly right. sometimes, one of them—both of them—needs support. needs reassurance. needs their partner to be there for them.

two fucked up people are never gonna have a relationship where they both behave perfectly, healthily, every time. (in fact, no relationship is gonna have that, but that's neither here nor there.) they won't have a relationship that's all sunny skies and calm waters, not until they can calm their own storms.

but they can give each other the space to be both fucked up and loved. to promise to hold each other's hand while they do what they need to do to get through it, and to promise that there is something on the other side. that it's worth fighting to get to it together.

needing each other isn't inherently codependent. and loving someone who's struggling isn't toxic.

and there's so, so much love.

[whydotheycallmechimney]

have elijah haters ever stopped to consider that he’s a single mom who works two jobs? who loves her kids and never stops?

[theusernameiwantisntavailable]

Lights out

[harmonysixx]

send this to ten blogs you think are lovely and deserve a boop on the nose!! 🥰 (also - i saw you had art/sketch reqs open. if you're still up for that, maybe lu hyrule? no pressure though! 👀)

Get reverse booped by Fairy!Rule 🧚🏻‍♂️

[ladyhavilliard]

mo dao zu shi tarot

the hanged man:  pause, surrender, letting go, new perspectives

wheel of fortune | jin guangyao

death | wei wuxian

the tower | jiang cheng

[pastebunny]

im just letting the hyperfixation carry me wherever it wants to rn

[soosoosoup]

Fluffy rearing