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I count the colourful suits I see in stores even now and there are some colours in the men’s section these days… and every single one stands out and is all the brighter for how recent that change is
We can get there
We can get men some colour back, and it’s starting
I’m not sure how well that translates to the body language though, so I hope that’s gotten better too
still so fucking weird to go from real life, where a cis man being flamboyant/effeminate/camp is judged like 70+% by how he speaks and carries himself, to online queer communities, which often seem to have no concept of male gender non-conformity that doesn’t involve wearing a skirt
#men’s fashion#queer men#let men have feelings#and wear things they love#the only coloured shirts my brothers owned for years were the ones i got them#and oh boy i obnoxiously got them colours#cuz i saw them smile when they opened them#and everything else is fucking grey#(and like i do also have sensory seeking adhd grey grates on my brain it was not pure altruism)#(but they my brothers so they’re more likely to have some flavour of the same adhd)#sister knits them neon socks and they love them
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pussy eater divide:
the guys you should be more than happy to open your legs for and let them eat to their hearts content:
higuruma, choso, ino, kusakabe, nanami
the guys you should be borderline scared to let get between your legs:
toji, sukuna, gojo!!, geto
#higuruma#choso#ino#kusakabe#nanami#toji#sukuna#gojo#geto#i have thoughts about MEAAAAAN eaters#all of the ones in the second category... pry your legs apart and mock you for being so scared... promises they'll make u feel good#but its all a RUSE#dont let these men get between ur legs!!!!#jjk#jjk smut#jjk x reader#jjk x you#jjk x y/n#choso smut#toji smut#gojo smut#geto smut#nanami x reader#nanami smut
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every time i see that post chiding trans men for using women's restrooms i want to chew on somebody's head. you think i LIKE using the women's restroom? you think i LIKE having to make a grim hobson's choice of "which bathroom is least likely to get me yelled at" every time i need to pee? i'm fucking flabbergasted that this is seen as "men invading female spaces" or "AFABs flexing their privilege" as opposed to, oh idk, a vulnerable group of people doing their level best to avoid being harassed and assaulted. like we are not the ones in the wrong here
#i do not pass 90% of the time and let me tell you#most cis men do not take kindly to having a 'woman' standing in line for the cubicles while they pee#so yeah i'm gonna use the fuckin girls loos and i don't appreciate being made to feel like a predator for it#thanks!#be shh now
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sorry I'm not a photoshop master but would someone mind hanging this up in the SNW writers' room because I think we have all had enough
#Nimoy's portrayal of Spock is INTENTIONALLY Jewish coded and visibly queer coded#you can claim ignorance as a casual fan but as a writer it's your JOB to know and honour this shit#SNW has done ok with autistic coding of Spock but the erasure of the other stuff feels deliberate at this point#like cishet white nerd men want him to be like them so they make these bizarro choices that feel like a totally different person#sorry but he's not FOR you#he was NEVER for you#you already have everything else please just let him be the way he was intended to be#let us have one gd thing#why are the opinions of people who don't care about Star Trek's ethics and legacy more important than the opinions of the those who do#star trek#strange new worlds
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There are some ships that you just know would be 100% canon if they were an M/F ship, and that's mainly what pisses people off the most in these situations.
It isn't just about the ship; it's also very much about the homophobia (whether the creators know it or not) that is preventing the ship from being canon when they otherwise would be.
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#(@ Antis: DNI. KEEP MOVING! I know many might like this post but y'all ain't welcome here! 👋🏽)#I know this happens with F/F ships but I mostly see it with M/M ships and I think toxic/fragile masculinity has something to do with it.#Even from woman writers. It's these pre-conceived things we're fed about what men should be. 🙄#So I was going to say ''If they weren't both men'' but I decided to let this post be fully accessible.#(Also I feel like people would yell at me for that. 😟 Even though it's... just where I see this issue happening the most. 🤷🏽♀️)#stuilly#romancek#sterek#hartwin#harringrove#nygmobblepot#chadthan#subscorp#stucky#stony#blerena#dan x chuck#julie x helen#lgbtq media#lgbtq representation#homophobia#heteronomativity#I'm not *absolutely certain* about Hartwin since so many people have an issue with their age gap. (Even though Eggsy is A GROWN MAN. 🙄)#txt
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I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.
#was going to make a post about how much i hate that women aren't allowed to hate their oppressors but i decided to spin it into something#positive instead#this is supposed to be the feminist site that makes reddit mgtow piss their baby diapers so let's go back to despising men and not coddling#their feelings and let's dye our hair blue while we're at it#i am so tired of this new wave of guilt-tripping and gaslighting women who hate men and don't trust or want to be around them#i hate how we're made into villainesses or the problematic ones for not valuing them in our lives or for wanting to guard ourselves or be#safe from our oppressors#and i'm tired of people who don't know the first thing about feminism being like 'BUT THAT'S TERF RHETORIC WHAT ABOUT X MINORITY MEN'#guess what women can also be x minority that you're trying to protect the men of and we get to hate men too#trans women are included when i say women btw and trans men are included when i say men#if anyone has the right to hate men more than anybody else it's trans women esp trans lesbians because they put up with so much shit#from men that even cis women do not and they especially know how vile men are behind closed doors#so#terfs fuck off#radfems fuck off#and if anybody tries to make this post more appeasing to men or 'not all men's this post you are getting blocked and hit with a hammer#feminism#misogyny#sexism#patriarchy#tw men#tw rape#tw abuse#misandry#terfs dni#radfems dni#feminists need to go back to being scary and unpalatable for men none of this 'but some of them are good!' bullshit#men are entitled to nothing from us#and if you try to prove me wrong then you are just proving my point if you have nothing good to say then simply keep scrolling#ok? ok.
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figuring out how i want to draw the twins w hairstyle headcanons! hitting them with a male pattern baldness beam ✨
#pokemon#submas#subway boss emmet#subway boss ingo#pkmn#pla#i feel like they'd have sibling squabbles over their hair#emmet being smug about having slightly more hair than ingo#it always ends with them trying to smack each other's heads#anyways don't mind the tiny milo in the corner#that ''let's give jimmy rapturous enjoyment of mustard'' meme but it's me giving milo my appreciation for men w long hair#pkmn idsi#star scribbles
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fortiche studios please make her a canon dyke please and thank u
Men DNI
#seeing her shipped with men disgusts me on another level#sorry not sorry this is a DYKE#first. eughhhh#saw her w s*lco#ew#and then someone was talking sbout viktor#EUWGH#get those scrawny rats away from her#the straights have mels mom#sevika is for the girls#‘but it’s harmless!! let people have fun!!’#no❤️#I am mentally unwell about this woman!! it DOES harm me seeing her w a man 👎#im gonna manifest#🕯🕯🕯🕯👩❤️💋👩Lesbian Sevika👩❤️💋👩🕯🕯🕯🕯#and before any whiny bitches get defensive#no i do not see her as a lesbian because she’s muscular#i see her as a lesbian because i really really love her and i like to self project onto my fav characters#sorry to rant but christ ik someone out there feels the same 😭#sevika#arcane#I need shimmer sev so bad omfg like#just look at her#meowwwwwwwww#meowmeowmeow
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i see A LOT of sad chilshi posts about how ohh senshi will live so much longer than chilchuck!! it's gonna be so sad. YOU'RE WRONG. (unless the wiki is wrong hacks coughs). CHILCHUCK IS 28. GIVING HIM AROUND 20-25 MORE YEARS SENSHI IS 112. In chapter 51, it's said dwarves live 2.5x longer than tallmen, and tallmen live for ~60 years. This means dwarves live for around 150 years. AT MOST. ON AVERAGE. SENSHI WOULD LIVE FOR 13-18 YEARS WITHOUT CHILCHUCK. In my opinion at least, that really isn't all that long (at least not for senshi)
#we have no clue how long they'll actually live this is just averages#i get everyone wants a little angst BUT CMON NOW#senshi would be sad for a little while but it's not like they don't grow old together#dungeon meshi#chilshi#let my old men be happy for once#also there's a chance chil could live a lot longer than 50 (to be fair that means senshi could also probably live a lot longer)#my point is i feel like their deaths really wouldn't be that far off from each other#under certain circumstances#chil might actually live longer than senshi
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Omega! Logan who was born in the 1800s when secondary gender roles were very prevalent but it actually really suited him and he wanted to be a home maker and have a bunch of pups but he was always too big and hairy and and not seen as a good Omega. Alphas would sleep with him but never treat him the way they would a “proper” omega and they didn’t ever want anything serious because it’s like almost shameful to have a big hairy omega.
Then times change and Omegas start breaking out of the cookie cutter roles and they go into the work force and what not (feminism but it’s omegas) and Logan is very happy for them he thinks they all deserve the right to choose, but still no one wants him. And everyone expects him being an omega with the way he looks to be at the forefront of the movement to want the change for himself, but he doesn’t.
And over the years he toughened up and stops looking to start a family and put his dreams on the back burner to become what everyone expected of him.
And then everything happens and all the sudden Logan finds himself in a universe without secondary genders, where he isn’t a too big and hairy omega, he’s just some guy.
And unintentionally he finds his way into the role he’s always craved, where he takes care of the home and the dog while Wade makes the money, and it’s the closest he’s ever been to the life he wanted. He mostly retires from fighting and heroing, but now he’s ready for a new challenge. And being near Laura has only served to dig up that old desire and instinct he tried to bury so long ago
And I mean, even if the mutant hate wasn’t as bad as it is in Logan’s old world there was still a time here not to long ago when mutants were ran out and scattered around the world. And now with the people at Xavier’s working on getting the Mutants back into the city trying to re group with their still dwindling numbers. I mean Logan and Wade should help with the mutant re population efforts, who better to do that then two very eager immortals who can heal from anything and with a whole gang of friends around them for free child care.
#I just think Wade should get Logan pregnant over and over again#barefoot and pregnant Logan#and all the old x men coming back to the city#and they heard that a Logan from a diffrent timeline is here#and they see him and he’s freaking pregnant and holding a baby he just had a few months ago#and he’s happier then they’ve ever seen him#and Wade is just so damn happy to keep getting Logan pregnant and having babies#and all their kids would have super cool powers#they get a lot of help with their gaggle of kids but all the kiddos know they are so loved by their dads#ugh just Logan having given up on this dream so long ago and then he finally gets it after he thinks his whole life turned to shit#and he’s finally treated like an omega with a loving alpha that he’s always wanted#and hes not even in the omegaverse anymore and wade isn’t an alpha#feminism isn’t about all women going into the work force#it’s about the ability to choose#Logan fully supports omega and women’s rights#i might delete this later#sorry about this post#omegaverse#omega logan#poolverine#deadclaws#and Wade always wants to show Logan off#as like the hottest guy ever#and Logan who has always been treated like something to hide is just giddy with it#and he’s getting properly dotted on and cared for in bed#and after so Long of logan being treated like something to hide something to not been seen in a relationship with#he would never let Wade feel that way#he thinks wade is so handsome#just the absolute perfect alpha despite not even being an alpha#plz DM me about poolverine im going crazy
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I FIXED IT YALL WE CAN GO HOME WITH OUR HAPPY QUEER CANON
Edit: Fixed it bcs the burn scar was on the wrong side ;-;
#Bato just took a little tumble and is feeling kinda under the weather :) Hakoda is helping him feel better with 'moral support' :)#whaaaaa? Me???? EDIT THIS????? Ahahahahahahahahahaha you're so funny- yes take the shot TAKE THE SHOT TAKE THE SHOT NOW PLEASE-#I didn't have the heart to edit the kiss. let the old men kiss with tongue#He gets his BOYFRIEND BATO instead of a LITERAL COLONIZER!!!#Bakoda#Bato x Hakoda#Hakoda x Bato#Bato#Hakoda#ATLA#Avatar: The Last Airbender#Avatar The Last Airbender#My Art
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Imagine if Isabela got to visibly age. Just imagine how emotional it would be to see her with wrinkles and grey hair and all the body changes that come with getting older, knowing that DA2!Isabela’s life was about surviving from moment to moment and she probably never expected to live that long.
(Full disclosure: I haven’t played Veilguard, so this isn’t any kind of commentary on the game itself. This is just me being grumpy about Isabela’s design/outfit, because I’ve seen enough of that to know I Don’t Like It.)
#the same applies to morrigan#LET WOMEN (REAL & FICTIONAL) AGE#and stop mandating that they “age well”#whatever that means#also… some of us have been following these characters since we ourselves were a lot younger#i was twenty the first time i played dragon age origins#(fifteen years later…)#it would be super cool to feel like they were also getting to age out of their 20s/30s but apparently that feature is exclusive to men#isabela#bioware critical#veilguard critical#veilguard spoilers#i suppose??#again: i have not played the game so this is purely about character design
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thinking about charles doing wheelies in his wheelchair
let him do cool tricks 😿
#honestly feel like the movies are just going#‘He’s in a wheelchair! he can’t do anything because his legs don’t’#PISSING ME OFF#i don’t know what his limits are but he literally has the most powerful brain in the world#LET HIM GET IN THE ACTION#HE HAS MILITARY TRAINING#just give charles xavier a gun#this brings me back to one of my older posts#the comics seem to insist on making charles walk#GIVE HIM A CANE#WE NEED DISABILITY REP#have him wack people with the cane#or have it be like a sword cane like i remember another person mentioning#he barely does anything makes me sad#treating him like a damsel in distress#THAT MAN FOUGHT IN A WAR#charles xavier#professor x#x men#cherik#i didn’t even mention erik i just gotta include cherik 😔#wish does not shut up
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hi @hotvintagepoll I've made a letterboxd list with all the actors from this tournament if anyone would like an easy enough way to see all the guys and the movies they've been in <3
#sorry I'm addicted to procrastinating work i actually have to do by making letterboxd lists#i think i got em all but feel free to let me know if i missed anyone#the round 3 lads are ranked by how high the percent of their winning vote was/how close they came to winning#but after that its just the order the polls were posted in because i Cannot Be Bothered#anyway im unreasonably invested in this thing despite not really liking men it's just fun I like it#can't wait for the actresses tournament <3
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Id actually let Jean, Scott, Storm, Morph AND Nightcrawler pull me apart like some monkey bread I'm so serious
#x men#marvel#scott summers#jean grey#morph#kevin sidney#kevin sydney#kurt wagner#nightcrawler#ororo munroe#storm#PLEASEEE LET YHEM BE REAL GOD#FUCK!! DONT LET MY ASS IN THAT XMANSION#Morph especially...#i have a feeling no ones ever treated them right. well EYE will. cmere sweetcheeks
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scribbles... pre-relationship onsen trip
#witch hat tag#orufrey#partial nudity /#cause i miss the onsen. it feels silly to say 'pre-relationship' bc you just know their anniversary is going to be the date oru moved in#ignore my weak attempt at painting qifrey's face. i want to get better at that style lol..better at everything..oh god i am trying#might be getting the hang of it at least#i feel like zozah has european mores in that being uhh naked around ppl is probably a bit like. Whats all this then#but sensei purposefully puts in japanese flair - sake bowls - sitting on the floor - they are japanese men. To me. Get in the bath :)#but to oru it would feel more normal and to qifrey it would NOT - they do have those public baths at the assembly#but he was surely in the corner wanting to die and splashing himself once and then running away hating everyone#beldaruit will have a private bathtub with claw feet that his carers help him into - good god let that kid use it too
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