#lesbian? tings

[treebranchy]

been thinking about my sexuality recently. wondering if I should be calling myself a lesbian instead of queer.

when I first came out to myself, what, 10 years ago, it was as bisexual. and then somewhere between then and now I just considered myself queer bc I still liked men but I LOVED women. and now even though I still have some passing attraction to men I never want to date them or have them pursue me really.

so like, am I a lesbian? lmao I call myself one jokingly, but why am I holding back from calling myself one seriously?

I think im thinking like if there's the smallest ever possibility that I might fall for a man everyone's gonna be like "huhhh I tHoUgHt YoU wErE a LeSbIaN"

[leikeliscomet]

I'm gonna be completely honest I'm starting to get tired of people going 'aces can have sex' 'asexuality is a SPECTRUM' in my reblogs every time I post about asexuality where I literally haven't implied or said otherwise and I've honestly thought about deleting some of them. Like... I know guys. I know. I'm either speaking on my own experience which isn't sex favourable or from a Black and/or lesbian POV of asexuality which would include sex favourable aces anyway so it should go without saying.

It's getting similar to how I see 'lesbians can have sex with men'. I'm fully aware lesbians have the physical means to do so, but I wouldn't wanna hear that in a lesbian space for centring the experiences of people who don't, especially lesbians who were coerced and/or forced into doing so. As long as lesbophobia exists, that statement can't be neutral and the wider context will always shape how I see it. I don't need to be reminded I can conform to the thing I'm actively going against. I don't want to and I can't.

We can acknowledge how diverse and varied a community is but it's disingenuous to pretend there's a single uniform experience throughout. Going 'everyone is valid' is cute but it doesn't address the specific problem, which is compulsory sexuality. In this case, the constant need to derail sex repulsed, averse and indifferent aces in our own posts and conversations does compulsory sexuality's job for it. I'm reminded of my 'wasted' sexual potential on a regular basis I don't need my own community doing it too.

As respectfully as possible, not every single asexual post is gonna personally represent you. I don't go into aro spaces and expect to be centred or represented because those weren't made for me and that's okay. Asexuality is a wide spectrum with lots of sides. I'm not part of all those sides and that's okay.

[scorpiuscomplex]

my daily dose of sweetness

[battalez]

Not to be annoying but I hate when people imply Marcille doesn’t like Laios even as a joke… that’s her friend…. They are besties….. stop this….

[sexwithsophie]

Watch as I expose the entire 2024 Paris Olympics Gender Controversy for the utter horseshit that it was, and STILL use the IBA's arguments against them to prove that ALL women (cis, trans, or intersex) unequivocally deserve to compete in sports.

I don't care if you are a woman with XY chromosomes, a woman with high testosterone, a woman who used to be a man, a woman with a penis.... If you say you are a woman, you are a fucking WOMAN!!! Check it out, weigh in, and please share!

[thealienstud]

Finally got a new cologne and omg it smells so good on me 🙌🏾😩

[im-a-creator-im-a-sandwitch]

Just Couple Tings

Silena is really special to have not one but two of her childhood friends (Clarisse and Luke) harbor secret crushes on her, not tell her for almost ten years, and then become her side pieces a year apart from each other

[ky1ie123]

I just wanna be skinny so if I get in a relationship I won't hate myself.

How can I love her if I can't even love me?

🦋

[confessions-of-an-old-cassette]

I love the mcs of my current wip because one is former nobility who was thought to be destined for something great before a shocking coup forced them to rethink their life forever and then just Some Guy from New England

[leikeliscomet]

I've grown tired of posts that 'affirm' queer sexuality that throw asexual queer people under the bus. I'm tired of puritan sanitisation being blamed on the boring sexless frigid queers and not the long history and system of sexual puritanism which, spoiler alert, never supported sexless queer people ace or not regardless. I'm tired of 'progressive' compulsory sexuality being promoted and supported with a 'oh yeah some people are ace' slapped in at the end. I'm tired of every single post about how the sexless uwu pink sapphics and flowercrown gay boys or whatever scapegoat we're picking today is causing the downfall of the community and representation and not y'know, actual lesbophobia, homophobia etc. I'm tired of everyone assuming to be an asexual and/or sexless queer person means being white, feminine, delicate and soft because they can't imagine Blackness and masculinity as something compatible with being ace and/or sexless. I'm tired of asexual and/or sexless queerness being acknowledged as long we accept we're a niche minority and different from 'normal' and 'real' queerness. I'm tired of every recognition of asexual queerness being adlibbed with 'this is valid but remember most queer people are NOT like this' 'you're valid but remember the real queers fuck and we're not boring like these lot!' because the idea of a lesbian, gay, bi, pan or trans asexual is that uncomfortable and 'bad representation' for people to comprehend apparently. I'm tired of asexual and sexless being used as insults to attack other queer people and characters who 'fail' to live up to their queerness. I'm tired of queerness being that needs to be lived up to in the first place and not just something you are. I'm very tired of every post that's supposed to affirm my identity always degrading the other. I'm tired of being an other in a group of others.

EDIT: Obviously any aspec can and will relate to this post but I'm specifically talking about the erasure of lesbian asexuality and gay asexuality in general and how despite there being a rightful push for destigmatising gay desire, gay ace desire isn't seen as real or it's seen as lesser. This isn't an aroace post it's an ace lesbian one please don't remove that.

[eighth-circle-criminal]

I’ve been patient. I’m curious if anyone’s been thinking about me. 💖

[scorpiuscomplex]

Match me babe 🍑

[spokenlikeatruequeer]

I'd absolutely love to tease a needy sub's cunt rn as she drools all over her ball gag, making me jeer at her for being such an irresistibly usable object...

"You want something to suck on so badly, don't you? Mhm. That whorish mouth of yours always wants to be used, now look at you!"

Taunting as I slap her blushed cheeks and squeeze my fingers around her throat.

"You thought you were gonna get what you wanted, hm? Tell the truth— you thought those pretty lips would be wrapped around my dick instead of being helplessly stuffed with your special chew toy... Well, that's what you get for thinking!"

I'd plunge in and out, her tender hole making those blissfully erotic squishing sounds entwined with whimpers of pleasurable pain... Watching her eyes roll and flutter, trying to contain herself, yet failing. Completely mentally lost in Fucktoy Heaven.

"If you cum hard enough for Daddy, I'll let you taste.... That's what you want, isn't it, baby? To taste yourself?"

I'd coax, hand still clasped around her throat, peering down at her. Such a beautiful, pathetic, whorish mess... She looks divine, truly. When her breath quickens and legs start trembling, I know it's only a matter of time before she's literally gushing all over me...

"I. Want. It. All. Don't. Stop. Cumming."

Each demand punctuated by a deep pelvic thrust; ensuring that she understands I mean what I say. I feel her twat clench around my girth, then soon after, feel every warm ounce of built-up "needing" release.... Kissing her nipples and shoulders, praising her for such a good performance (as always).

"And that's exactly why you're my only special girl. I love you so much, sweetness. Have your treat now."

As I remove her chew toy (ball gag).

[pkmn-edits]

Random Pokemon x random Pride flags edit!

[wooahiexist]

I don’t draw ladies a lot…

They’re in love …

[ashestoshadows]

The Ruinous Pokémon

(Credit isn't needed but I'd appreciate it <3)