#learning how to deal with grief
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"The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal, and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again, but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to."
- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
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"The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal, and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again, but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to." - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
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my baba bozorg passed away earlier today ):
#i only saw him in person twice in my life.. ☹️#we were gonna have a family reunion sometime later this year too 😭#anyways. um. learning a lot more about how i deal w grief…
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2024 reads / storygraph
The Loudest Silence
YA contemporary
a newly Deaf-Hard of hearing girl moves across the country and starts a new school, struggling with navigating her disability and love for singing and lost friendships - determined to not make any new friends for the year she’s in Florida
and a boy struggling with family expectations and anxiety, after being made the fútbal captain even though he secretly ways to be on broadway, who quickly befriends her
bi & aroace-coded MCs
#The Loudest Silence#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#hm this was okay! it’s a sweet and light YA contemporary focusing on friendship and disability.#It’s a little cheesy; and I liked the immediate easy friendship (well; after a few false starts) and how welcoming Hayden's#friend group/family were. I like how they all jumped to learning/practicing ASL.#I liked how Casey was dealing with her newfound Deafness with a lot of positivity - the main frustrations being how other people treat her#but there’s also the underlying isolation and grief. At the same time it didn't go as deep as it could have with that?#The friendship is central to the story - but honestly I feel like Casey and Hayden’s relationship doesn’t develop past ‘they’re friends now#[continues other subplots] - it ends up being a bit telling not showing their friendship. And then she gets a love interest.#I feel like if you’re centering your book on being a platonic love story - rare in YA! - giving one a love interest kinda goes against#what’s supposed to be unique about it? Like it wasn’t overwhelming and I thought it was sweet actually; I just didn’t come here for that.#I always find it a little odd when YA contemporary books don’t explicitly name their aroace characters as aroace -#obviously I prefer an exploration of experiences to just using the word and nothing else; but in this genre; why not both?#considering various other identity labels are used and discussed there were various points where it felt like it was walking circles#around where it would be obvious to say “no I’m aroace” lmao?#And there’s a point where Casey mentions seeing an ace sticker on his guitar - the only reason it wasn’t an aroace sticker is bc#that would have ruined the minor subplot of her assuming he’s gay/dating his other friend. It felt like a slightly odd way to mention it?#but also I guess I appreciate it being evident throughout but also being a non-issue plot wise - while there’s a couple of moments#of people making romantic assumptions about them;for the most part it’s just treated normally for a boy & girl to be friends (as it should!#It does get points for mentioning people watching by conan grey LMAO (not that it really explores him feeling that way specifically;#but I mean same lol)#Overall plot-wise - there were kind of a lot of things going on and it petered out a bit? I wanted some more depth in some areas.#Also I feel like some of the references seemed out of date for current teens haha.#i do love the love for unusual pets (hairless cat and iguana)#aroace books#bisexual books
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drawing sad rain world slugkitties for valentines
#my art#rainworld downpour#rainworld#the artificer#the hunter#artihunter#i love them a lot helloo#and this game aa#plz learn how to deal with grief via sadness not anger thank u#mwuah
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Ink October day 16: Cryonics
The cryopreservation of a person with medical needs that cannot be met by available medicine until resuscitation and healing by future medicine is possible.
#mouthwashing#mouthwashing curly#mouthwashing anya#mouthwashing daisuke#mouthwashing swansea#mouthwashing jimmy#blue boi draws#ink october 2024#ink October 2024 day 16#I Am Not Immune To Hit Video Game Mouthwashing#I might end up redoing this one digitally to get down how it looked in my head#honestly I don’t have anything to say about this game that hasn’t already been said#ink october#I love Anya lots and lots. Daisuke and Swansea are fun (and tradgic#I think Curly is interesting. Jimmy sucks but I like him as a framing device. quality character shitty guy and all that#there’s a little post game story bopping around in my head where Curly gets found and gets alright treatment and hast to live with himself#because the only other option is dying. it’s a lot of him just marinating in his own grief and guilt and how he can’t DO anything because#the people he wants to help or make amendments with are dead and gone. he has nurses/medical people come over daily to help him with stuff#and ends up properly befriending two. one who reminds him of Anya and Daisuke and the other who reminds him of Swansea.#they help him deal with moving on while also being reminders of those he lost and wronged. they can do both.#it’s a lot of Curly being able to communicate again and struggling with that as well as him processing what happened in his own words#and dealing with life suddenly being mundane while also being so much more restrictive then it was before but learning how to live with that#might maybe draw stuff about that one day
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Actually here take this fun little idea.
Growing up, Elrond and Elros used to watch Maedhros grieve. They used to whisper to each other, for they were told that Elves who suffer and Feel too much may fade from their grief. Yet Maedhros has so much, he wraps himself up in his loss and his despair and guilt looms over him and makes his shadow even longer than his height. The twins whisper and murmur, coming up with wilder and wilder reasons for how an Elf so full of grief can go on.
Its Ages later when Elrond has the answer. Sometimes, when it seems you have lost everything, everyone, the only thing left to do is to continue on for them.
#amber rambles#Silmarillion#silm#maedhros#Elrond#i like to think the reason why elrond is so good at handling all the shit hes had to deal with#is cause if there is one thing Mae taught the twins#is how to work through grief and loss and pain of just Living without those who arent with you anymore#all the feanorians would be good with grief i think cause they had to handle their dad and his Moments#and as someone who has a dad with PTSD over someone who they lost you just learn to help ppl through grief#but mae has had so much shit happen to him that he would be a master at it#even if he did let the grief consume him in the end he still would want to make sure the twins would be ok#and handle their emotions and be able to Live
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They, he and Ice and sometimes Slider too, used to spend hours watching Bradley play around their little garden. He was five, then ten, fifteen and crying over some girl and then some body and then he was eighteen. Then they stopped spending all that time outside because Bradley wasn't around anymore and Maverick was back on a jet far far away to not deal with all the bullshit but still find the way to make peace with what he did.
It's not a garden but a beach, Bradley passed his twentieth birthday by a decade and only Slider is there with him. Some days they laugh about the Daggers and somedays they leave before Penny can send their drink out because, sometimes, Bradley says or moves his head in a certain way and both of them can see Goose and Ice in him so much it's like having them there. Mav knows, and Slider does too, that Bradley is more than just them and sometimes it does good to remember about it and sometimes it only helps as a reminder of what, who, they lost.
#sad hour prompt#empty chairs at empty tables and all the space you left behind#pete maverick mitchell#ron slider kerner#bradley rooster bradshaw (mentioned)#they know it's not just just ice or goose there but sometimes is so easy to forget for an instant#about grief and learning how to deal with it#dead tom iceman kazansky#dead nick goose bradshaw#icemav#hint of sloose#(but only if you want to see it)#post movie#top gun: maverick#otp: i heard from the heavens that clouds have been grey#idk in which english this stuff is written so the grammar is probably pretty bad 🌈
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And finally, this year came to an end. As the fireworks shine in the sky, I'm sitting on my bed. No parties, no drinking. No friends around. Just me, Jerry, my whale plushie and my plants. This year was the first brick of a life I'm not allowed to discover just yet. I've been more alone in this year than in my 21 years of life. And I lived for so little. I remember how many times I thought about ending it all, and being this close to death that her breath felt like a delicate veil. I've been betrayed and abandoned in ways my heart didn't know it was possible to even experience. I've faced traumas I didn't know existed. O made some new friends along the way and lost others. I talked to myself an uncountable amount of times. Monologs and poetry have saved me this year. And I want to thank the hopecore, who taught me so much in so little time. I found out so much about myself.
I learned a lot.
I've changed a lot. And a lot changed.
Im learning to leave the past behind. I'm learning to be myself a bit more. I'm learning how to receive love, affection, care and kindness from others. I'm learning to be kind, tender, and delicate. I'm learning to set boundaries. I'm learning to let people go if they don't wish to stay any longer next to me. I'm learning to be alone. I'm learning to live.
I ask for one wish only to the Universe: May this year be kinder to my soul and heart. May this year be kinder, to me.
Happy New Year kid.
#poems on tumblr#warmcore#hopecore#healing#lovecore#new beginnings#soul#new year#love#life quotes#grieving#love quotes#life lessons#life worth living#learning how to live#little things#dealing with grief#dealing with depression#imyoungandimlearninghowtolive
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I mean it really isn't even the point of anything with my story here tbh at its core because he is searching for the answer to their nature in terms of their immortality (and how and why Dazai was able to die) not specifically abilities in general and what is going to happen between him and Chuuya is more important though it is related. Why do I always have to do so much world building. Why do I do this to myself.
#*this is about grief. chuuya suffering. fyodors bullshit. and them learning from each other in the end through fucked up dynamics*#*proceeds to world build an entire AU spin off from beast including government corruption and shit beyond the standard ability thing*#we didnt need to do that lue. we really didnt. now look what we are dealing with.#idk i already purposefully was taking liberties with what i was taking from beast and the book fuckery what is one more thing#blah blah blah#900 words in and i was like wait how did i describe chuuya in chapter one. lets go reread for some inspo. aw shit i forgot i alluded#to my fyodor killing his mom accidentally. mother. fucker.#glad i realized before i continued though.#-pers#not even alluded really. wrong word. it was pretty clear.
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BEAUTIFUL! GORGEOUS!! AMAZING!! FLAWLESS!! STUNNING!!
#out of cards#mun stuff#p3r spoilers#((my baby girl is gonna have SO MUCH GODDAMN DEPRESSION GOING THROUGH THIS!!!#can’t wait for her to be extremely sad and see her learning to be more human and learning how to properly deal with grief and loss#but also seeing her and Orpheus together just made me so happy heehee yes I may have giggled :3))
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Rewatching Boston Legal is so crazy bc on the surface it doesn't seem like Alan changes *that* much from who he was at the start—he's still naughty and irreverent and dirty and brilliant—but when you really think about it. How lost and reckless and self-destructive he was in The Practice, still deep in grief and his own self-loathing, so very alone... then to see him by the very end of Boston Legal, finding so much direction and purpose in committing to his best friend and following his dream help people who need it and above all else being happy
#I started crying typing this sometimes a fictional character can be a buddy you are so proud of#even the coast guard auxiliary plot makes me emotional 😭#alan shore#we never learn how long he’s been a widower but I think it wasn’t too long before the show started#and throughout both shows he’s dealing with entirely unspoken grief. he’s pushed it so far down#anyway. I just like that he’s kind of sad but he’s mostly happy. he finds it hard to be a person but he loves being alive#he struggles but he always keeps trying#I don’t think I am much like him but I want to be#alanalysis
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Me looking at my own mood boards like “oh yeah this guy gets it”
#💭#📓#I love you friendship and midnight gospel and Kaluah and I love listening and hearing stories and laughing so hard and being full of joy and#and and like questions and sadness and grief and fear and all these things that are I usually deal with with isolation on codependence w my#mom like now I feel like I’m given the space to be a person and to be around someone who truly listens and lives and I’m realizing places#(stuck point.comma.therapy term) where I am finding myself uncomfortable with the way I handle a conversation specifically how I listen to#people I care about and listening to understand instead of listening to respond (not usually an issue with ppl I like) or listening to#relate I struggle a lot with that I tend to use immediate interrupting with my own thing to show I get it and that can quickly be overdone#and I’m starting to notice when I do it and I’m learning how to balance that with also learning to shut my mouth for a second and like give#people (Levi) (but also people in IOP actually) space to talk and feel and finish a thought and trying to validate (ew therapy term) and#fully listen and understand in ways that aren’t from my own perspective bc that’s a thing I struggle with but I am also comforted by the#fact that Levi will not punish me or be harsh to me if I mess up in the moments when I notice I’m doing it and maybe when I find myself#doing it I could say it out loud and apologize or like ask if there was more to say like idk I want to work on my listening#and not to use an excuse or whatever but I feel like I have been so isolated for so long like four years ish and I have not fully gained the#skill of listening to people at this stage of my life when I’m not in a direct classroom setting where you are almost allowed to interrupt#in order to add to a conversation but that’s not how all conversations are made to be and obviously (well maybe not obvious) but friends#can understand and discuss boundaries and feel comfortable over talking and speaking up when there was something you wanted to say and#having me wait a second idk idk how to explain it
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im turning into a completely different woman as we speak btw 🤨
#if u even care….#this is a true pseudoironic post bc im talking about to listening to ethel cain while the mahagony dye works in my hair#i never had mahagannny color!!!#and im simultaneously Also in a butterfly metamorphosis stage of my life!!! where im learning so much about myself constantly!#and im learning how to deal with grief and guilt and shame and depression and all that jazz!#but this is mainly about the hair dye!!!!
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me playing landslide: this is about grief
me playing wish you were here: it's about grief
me playing angels: this one's also about grief
me writing my own songs: yeah at the core really all of these are about grief
me playing the guitar in the first place: yup, grief again
me, just going through life: yeah this is really just about grief isn't it. we live and we breathe and we experience and we must die and all things must come to an end. really all of life is just about grief and grief is really about love and how finite it all is. it's all grief. all of it
...... lads i may have gotten myself a grief shaped hammer or something 😶
#couldn't possibly have anything to do with how my friends death anniversary is less than a week away#it's been five years. five entire years of not knowing how to deal with this grief#it's just bubbling up under the surface and touching everything im sorry.#a lead role in a cage.#trade your heroes for ghosts etc#hot ashes for trees!! hot air for a cool breeze!!!#cold comfort for change#IT'S ABOUT GRIEF OKAY#it's about grief. all of it. all of it#i just. i really do. just#wish you were here#i need a tag for my own rambles#learning guitar#grief
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violante will be as edgy as to say that "by age seventeen, i cried all the tears i had" just bc she doesn't want to let it be known that she cried for 7 days straight after killing ruven
#rena.txt#it is fair to say she probably never cried again after that but whatever#she cut off most of her hair in the ugliest style also and tried to pluck out her eyes hoping that would stop the tears#her patron having to stick back together pieces of her like: can u stop doing this can u fucking GROW UP for a second#hm actually that part of the undying pact that goes 'partially indestructible by physical means' does that mean she might not die as easily#by things like getting stabbed and all bc i can picture her stabbing herself in full grief until blood almost chokes her#if you read until here sorry. it's bc she never learned how to healthy cope with strong negative emotions#gore tw#<idk just in case i have no idea how to tag these posts she's so out of a horror movie#smth smth shadowheart's 'you can tolerate a great deal of suffering so long as it has meaning' smth smth cleansing through pain smth smth
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