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My hot take is that system littles wanting spaces where they can talk about not child safe things isn't because they aren't "really children", but because adults creating spaces for children become way too coddling and sanitized.
I am really my age and don't have emotional regulation or skill development of an adult. I also don't need to be handheld. Both camps are taking it to extremes and making it harder and I hate it.
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#littles in traumagenic systems have often experienced some of the WORST things that happened to their system#and i feel they do need space to talk about those things with other littles#and not have their conversation censored#a space like that should be carefully monitored to make sure predators dont try things#its needed in our opinion#endo friendly#plural community#pluralgang#plurality#pluralpunk#pro endo#mixed origin system#traumaendo#survivor systems
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what do you value most in someone?
At *least* a 2x resistance to ground type attacks. My last partner died due to a 4x weakness to earthquake and it gave me SUCH an ick :/ likeeeee I haaaaate it when my partner gets one-shot by earthquake spammers. its such a turn off.
#LMAO but in all seriousness just someone who can match my energy.#I guess the short answer is patience. BUT also social compatibility.#i don't care if we have nothing in common#BUT i care immensely about our social chemistry.#I'm a pretty hefty home-body and my social battery dies pretty quickly unless I do a lot of mental prep before hand#so if you're the type of person that absolutely has to be talking all the time#or desperately needs to fill the silence we probably won't click#I'm very comfortable in silence and I'm also very okay with us doing our own thing in the same home#so if that makes your skin crawl we definitely won't work lol i am so introverted when I'm at home#i also really appreciate bluntness. if I'm pissing you off just be straight up about it.#OH i also value confidence. like sticking to your guns and loving who you are in spite of what other people think is so sexy and rad and ho#if you like something that i don't and still try to enjoy it despite my opinions i think that's really admirable#I've had too many friends / partners that would give up on things they liked because i didn't like it#and while i get the intention that type of thing just makes me feel bad#because you shouldn't be stopping on my account. do what you love and love what you do. who tf cares what i think of it if you like it?#like just because i hate taylor swift doesn't mean you gotta bottle up liking her ya know?#sorry i feel like this is a very broad question that doesn't have one individual answer in my mind lol#I'm very open minded when it comes to clicking with a partner#but i wanna learn about all your hobbies and interests even if i don't personally care for them.#like if its important to you its important to me#answered#ramblings
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longlegs fucking sucked 😭
#talkys#sorry for movie opinions post#i didnt know anything abt it going in other than serial killer and Mystery and i was soooooo so interested and enthralled#for a good chunk bc wow i like the framing the pacing the shots!#and then it gets to a point where its like oh...!#and then 📉📉📉📉↘���↘️↘️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️#like how did that movie feel like 3 hrs long#all that build up for the most eyerolly unsatisfying payoff#do u guys think its possible for horror movies to be Satisfying anymore?#saying dis as someone not as acquainted with the genre#we were talking about how like hereditary was Good but it wasn't...Scary....but its fine bc it was good#idek what im saying anymore but we regret seeing it we shouldve gone with our parents to bingo 😭💔#the main character rocked though...so awesome will graham#so extremely funny seeing ppl being like ''ummm sorry ur someone who thinks horror movies need to be jumpscares and dont like psychological#horror :/'' this was NOT psychological horror. it was a really interesting like Mystery for a good chunk and then at that Certain Point its#like oh. horror movie version of the ''and then he woke up'' cop-out to me. how boring. what a boring conclusion#not worth the whole previous hour of Good#i will say the shots of the hooded figure with the eyes unnerved me tho i had to look away 😭#MY SISTER LITERALLY FELL ASLEEP LMAO but at that point i was still very interested and hopeful#and then.
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also kyper going so hardcore about 1634 today saved me..... "34 wants 16. he doesnt want 88, he doesn't want anybody else. he wants him." he said it with SO much conviction, it's killing me. like that's how me and the oomfs speak bro, welcome to the club. also the use of their numbers to make it less personal like these guys dont wear their numbers like a LIFELINEEEE......
#i love it every time but it gets me EXTRA EXTRA when ppl with inside information are so fucjing convinced abt it lmfooooaosksoso#i literally never listen to kyper n bourne n the show today was mid as fuck in general#im tired of mens opinions n they have literally no conviction or logic abt some stuff whatsoever bht i love thst they#all know this specifically to be true like i could liteslltkdkd rant svt this for an hour i need to chill but HDKNSDJ#shoutout lou for pointin it out but wow . wow#austons energy level n magic touch gracing our besutiful screens the second hes back w mitch and everyone jsut having to give into that fact#TIME AFTER TIME AS THEY ALWAYS DO#sam being like. use it sparingly like girl what do u mean#ud rather chase games and have to cstch up n throw together pairings and HOPE it pays off ? LMFOA#anyway.#nick is so annoyigngj too bringing up the fact that auston paced better w bert n domi like im sorry but those sample sizes dont add up#that is NOT a valid comparison#hfskndkdkd angway. LOL#this is crazy#sorry not nick JUSTIN i mean#i always get their first names swapped its so funng how long i was convinced tehy were each other#justin literally looks like a. nick and vice versa TELL ME IM WRONG
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Guys. Ok.
You have a series written by an author who strives to be a fair, gentle, good person that does not do harm. That is raised in a deeply catholic, western european, dominant culture, in an imperialistic country. Part of his strong relationship with faith, through which he sees the nature of good and evil, are monarchist beliefs, are some strong anti science sentiments. Not all of those sentiments are right but not all are of course wrong, especially when you even think of the times he had lived in.
He is a genius, a once in a century creative, worldbuilder. He writes a series of books that become genre defining. Any interaction with said genre after that is automatically measured to his mettle, that is how great is it's impact.
And those books being written by him end up naturally reflecting his beliefs, which happened to be dominant belief of western society - and dominant too in those liminal, outskirts of the west that have been under its boot and influence and strived to join, appease it for its own safety, for centuries. Like mine, for example.
And for me, as i am just a single example of someone who might come at these works from this position - of an author i greatly respect, whose choices and reasoning and context i understand - i was raised in this exact same dominant philosophies. They pervade so much of my environment, these same perceptions that are not entirely wrong but have so many holes and sharp edges that hurt people, hurt me.
And so, is it really that hard to believe that in interaction with such work and all associated ones, i would question its presentation of Good tm, disect it's ability to actually be what it claims, would empathise w Evil tm i have been associated with in real life for the most flimsy reasons? And then, there is also another layer, another group of people i belong to. People who have know in their life, been around bad people and saw a bit too much of how they become those bad people and how they stop being bad and what you gain as a community when they manage to do so who want to genuinely question societies perception on what we should do about them and how much collective responsibility for them we have?
Of course it shows up in interaction and transformative work of literature because literature is art and art at it's core is another means of communication.
At a risk of making it too serious, sometimes i feel like people see you playing too deep in the mud they prefer to be fascinated and entertained by from distance and use as character building for other characters and get irritated that you actually want to get into the dirt of it because they just want to keep seeing the mud and only mud and not anything thats hidden in it.
#That last metaphor is so shitty and idk if it translates anything properly but i dont know how to say it anymore#guys i want to have a serious discussion about it just a respectful one and w/o personal judgement#we're all fulfilling our personal needs w literature at the end thats what fandom is#nobody spends this much attention on it if its not personal on some level#lets be gentle here#trop#lotr#sauron#i also do feel like theres some moral judgement under a lot of ppl who criticise this#even if not intended. we exist in this context when just discussing and dissecting someones motivations showing empathy is seen as excusing#theres this automatic jump there. if no hate and condemnation if empathy present = immediately “lets not do anything about it”#is that also just natural for regular ppl and my autistic ass fails to understand ?#or is it a popular cognitive shortcut and maybe unnecessary one because it hinders productive discussions? Idk i only know my own opinion#but just how unpopular it is?
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Y'all just cool with clicking kudos on darkfics? Nah bro I'm not ab to out myself like that ima close the tab giving the 20min experience of reading that a silent thas crazy and thank u tho
Fr I see the list of kudos accs names and I'm like..... Should I make a second acc for reading vs my one for writing cus. I won't lie I'm not THAT honest 😂
#dw im making it sound worde than it is#or am i.....#lol jk fr its not that dark depending on the type of genres yr used to but also most ppl would tie my ass to a pyre & light a match#but like thats me on a regular tuesday so honestly depends on where ur cuming from#i think im being too shy tho bc KS has worse than what im reading and alot of the time i continue out of curiosity and good writing#like i deadass saw a fic that was like the most deadest of doves tags n the bio/descrip was like “just felt like writing it”#like BABE thas CRAZY. i am ASTOUNDED and ENVIOUS of ur IDGAF energy#like. just so casually *posts the most despicable content then like ~ anyways i gotta gotta make breakfast ttyl 💖* i truly admire the#lack of care for anyone elses opinion. honestly i think the world needs more of that. but like. not involving them tags bro that shit CRAZY#anyways i appreciate u ao3 authors u sick fucks stay hydrated go to therapy and dont skip breakfast!!! 💖💖💖#& u know if this is shocking me then its some shocking shit. but like. dead dove do not eat is what it says on the label 🤷🏽#ao3#archive of our own#ao3 memes#ao3 authors#ao3 writers
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if i dont get into [college redacted] im straight up dropping physics. that school is the only reason im taking this secret layer of hell disguised as a class. i am not gonna put myself through another semester of this bullshit if i dont have to.
#boycritter et al#ill find out if i got in december#so i have plenty of time to drop the class if necessary#THE TOPIC IS FINE I JUST HATE MY TEACHER SO BAD ITS SO BAD#SHE TALKS DOWN TO US ALL THE TIME#someone asked if we would have a review day for our test soon (very normal thing to ask in my opinion)#and she was like 'if you dont know how to study for this class by now then im sorry but yr not going to do well. sometimes you need to take#some responsibility in your life. if you havent studied before ever you need to start now.'#like CHILL OUT
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reading takes about last nights game from people who eye-test their way through anything is so funny like. they are watching something so entirely different than anyone else. it's almost commendable how stupid you can soundlkfjdsl
#am34 coasting... top line looking terrible(?).... nylander career year ahead based on effort... our only chances came from perimeter#girl what the FUCK were u watching. the inverse of all of that is literally true and backed by stats what are u even saying klJFDKNSL#its like. incredible in a way. to be so wrong.#eye test is just like. my subjective opinions are right :) lkJFKLD and then u see any of the breakdowns after the game#this sport needs to integrate stats even fucking more so i can stop seeing the dumbest among us emboldened
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severance ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#severance spoilers#<- anyone wanna discuss the latest ep????#bi devon yayyy i hope she gets a divorce and marries me!!!#also i 100% think fields is the doctor we saw. he is evil and the he does not believe in the church story#he lied about that just to convince burt (or if he didnt thats absolute insane behaviour as a partner... like youre going to hell i need a#bf in heaveen??? even ronan didnt do that in trc..#anyway anwyay the 10 vs 20 yrs at lumon. i think that burt was the first severance employee fields is insane mad scientist style and invent#invented the procedure by trying it on his husband#it explains also why fields is the one who told burt to invite irv for dinner#so that the board man tattoo guy could go and look inside the house#+ the whole its as if the priest was listening to our conversation...#the markhelena flirting was insane like actually good for a second i forgot i hate her????#actually wait back to bi devon. she should date reghabi they should kiss next episode maybe#dylan is still breaking my heart :(((( and gretchen too like i want her to be happy#o dylan doesnt seem bad he was good with the kids but just irresponsible compared to i dylan and she is definitely falling for him :((( awf#awful#anyway i miss ms casey when are we gonna see her :((((#and dylan should ask gretchen to go look for irv in the outside world..... and mark s like he literally knows their names and can describe#them and theyre lumon workers in a tiny town.. it cant be that hard#i love also how helena was like. mark im basically the head of the company like BESTIe you are not. no one asks for your opinion ever!!!#loser girl trying to steal her twin's bf... insane behaviour#helly also broke my heart idk its so sad#idk what mark is gonna do with 4 gfs though he has to like choose 2 max because 4 is too much#and milchick and that child... man idk i used to feel bad for ms huang but i dont anymore
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ive recently been having a lot of thoughts on politics and science and social media and the intersections of & interactions between the three
#i speak#none of them fully formed. not even enough to really initiate a discussion on it#i need to find someone else who has also thought about this and chat. hear other opinions to concretize my own#maybe ill look up some papers this week since i have a break#but like. the role of a scientist in politics and politics in science and how much should they be allowed to overlap#social media allowing laypeople in both areas to speak as though they are experts and creating dangerous noise that muddies actual info#how do we manage to work through that to properly get our messages across to try to handle public discourse and keep it grounded in truth#while simultaneously changing the way we teach future generations about logic; the scientific method; and how to interpret meaningful data#because obviously the way its taught now isnt working#etc etc#in the end it all comes back to my belief that logic and/or proofs and/or broader philosophy should be mandatorily taught in schools
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designing graduation albums must be one of the cringiest thing ever kids im sorry i know if u'd see it u'd feel sooooooo cringe
#atp i dont get it bc i hated school idk. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa dear god#+ like yk. neighbourhood specific. idk how to explain in eng but тебе нужно пояснять and its like a scary thing actually#<- this is why i feel anxious posting somethin here haha i think. one of the reasons#But anyway. I think when its bout teen & kids u need to talk to them like#Fkin interview them tet-a-tet... They all r so different & vivid. Like im enamoured how#Our theater treat kids/teens (<- they also have actor study not only theater. Like teachin kids etc)#And how they always sooo respectful to kids & actually interested in their opinion & give them freedom#So easy to tell that our director is pisces... We share one braincell & believe in the same believes
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going back to 2022-2023 realiblr posts does make us want to start killing people
#its kinda dizzying being in an echo chamber about our ahos and uto shit that seeing people regard them and have opinions#on them without us needing to be there makes us feel illlll#we took it all for granted... pls come back everynyan
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as if the cheating wasnt enough.. 😒
#break me out of this toxic relationship#adri loml#im going to kms#also im going keep outing our business#until u get your act together (confess ur undying love for me)#also do u think i shouldve ordered a shwarma for myself? my brother got one and i took a bite and now im craving it#but also im not supposed to be eating anything outside ka rn but its so tasty :(((#^ that was random but im blocked and i need your opinion bitch
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have i finished the nik duology? no ... but i do think it's vital that at some point after zoya's reign (or perhaps during!) there begins a process of dismantling the ravkan monarchy. alina personally is rather indifferent on the subject politically, and if she'd been queen she would likely not have begun the process herself — in a way she owes her life to the monarchy, as she was taken in by the nobility. she was housed, fed and schooled by them, it makes sense she'd be brought up with a pro-monarchy mindset. it's only when she lives at the little palace and sees the royal family and its dysfunction for herself that she recognizes how problematic this form of government is, yet at the same time it's such a permanent institution in her mind that what can you do but to improve it as much as possible?
#❴ ⟢˚ ˒ 𝕾. ❵ does the bird feel the weight of its wings? ⊰ notes#watched our king's new year speech over breakfast and had a little thought#alina is not dumb. she's not uninformed. it's only that until she begins to summon she's too busy trying to keep her ailing body alive#to form the radical political opinions she would have otherwise.#also re: row... i got a case of grishaverse overconsumption and needed a break from actual canon content#after the show premiered and now it's been nearly four years... oops. new years resolution for 2025: finish row!#AND HAPPY NEW YEAR MY POCKET FRIENDS!!! hope you're all well kisses and hugs <3#the holiday has been chaotic. what little writing i've done has been on my multi. but... my alina hive mind is awakening
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Personally, I felt like episode 8 was the show telling us it wasn't going to be renewed. After 7+8 I never had any hope for its renewal. It just felt too final, and not in a good way, but rather that the show had no confidence that it would get renewed either. If it had ended on a cliffhanger I would at least felt something like sadness towards the show not getting renewed.
And even if it was renewed I felt like it wouldn't be able to fix any of the issues that season 2 had, but rather just continue them further. Max seemed really ready to sabotage the show long before it even was renewed, and with the various production restraints that the show encountered during s2 I can only figure as much.
Like if the issue was the budget, that'll still be a problem, if its the pacing I have no confidence that hbo would renew it for more than 8 episodes, and if the problem was executives changing the show and altering beloved characters thats not going away either.
I remember reading that s2 underperformed compared to S1 and it also ended with alienating a large (and active) portion of the audience, but it in terms of online interaction it still out performs many of the shows on the platform that have been renewed and is a well rated show that has an audience. We already know that the head of warner bros is a turd of a man whose only interest is money for himself, and whose choice surrounding HBO/Max has been incredibly stupid and demeaning towards all forms of filmmaking
I feel like it was intentionally set up to fail, because all Max wants is cheap TV or at least a show that can be drawn out forever and make as much money as possible, which Ofmd isn't, its a 3 season show with sets that have to he constructed, vfx that needs done, and costumes that need sewn. They cut the budget, shortened the episodes, and influenced the story all to make it look bad, so they could justify their decision of not renewing it while also getting to rack in money from ofmd's fanbase one last time.
#ofmd#our flag means death#and yes some of my opinion might be influenced by being apart of side that got alienated#but i feel like s2 just sucked dry what was so fun about gb in s1#and the ending was just so abrupt and random but hard to get out of or continue without needing to change the show or undermine ep8#it just lacked confidence that there would be a season 3#there was no cliffhanger to make a viewer excited for s3 it was just over.#and a shot of a grave of all things too 😬 like telling you the shows dead#i didn't make this post to debate izzy or whether the show is good actually#i think that we can all agree that s2 had a lot of really good scenes in it. but theres a lot of things#in it that don't stand up to scrutiny. or even follow its own set universes rules in sloppy ways
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cant sleep gonna say my thoughts.
I think what a lot of people miss about tumblr (and especially unfocused blogs that, say, aren't fandom oriented) is that it's essentially an open journal. it's a microblogging website, and all blogging micro or macro is fundamentally a web log (where the term comes from!). if it seems like I'm not talking ab something enough, it's not because I don't care at all.
It's because first and foremost, this blog is a piece of my soul that I am choosing to share. I'm not trying to be an activist on the internet, I'm not trying to sway anyone to my opinions. I'm saying the things I think and feel. If I talk ab american politics too much, that's because im american. if I'm writing frustrated posts about performative internet activism, that's because it feels exhausting to be out there doing the work (because that's what it is. Its work. Its boring and taxing and it feels like youre getting nowhere. Until you see how far youve come) and having to come to tumblr and seeing people say I didn't talk about [disaster 30000 of the past ten years] enough.
if I seem angry and upset and scared and irrational, its because i am those things. you have to understand. in spite of my rather large follower number, this blog is, first and foremost, for me. I am writing things down and allowing strangers and friends and wanderers to read it. I won't call it a privilege that can be taken away, bc its not like some of my thoughts are exactly a treat, but it is something to keep in mind.
if you ask me why I'm talking about the supreme courts recent decisions but not similar decisions in other countries, the answer comes down to "one of those directly affects me, and therefore i can fight back."
but I shouldn't have to announce where and how I'm fighting back. if for no other reason, my own fucking safety. but also bc this blog isn't any sort of guide to activism, it's not any type instruction. it is, at best, my diary that I published.
and that isn't a bad thing!! and it shouldn't be!!! that's why I harped so hard on the carrd post. that's why I'm vaguely annoyed with my reddit posts. that's why I shared my marital status and sexuality for a long time. that's why i have a rwby icon. that's why my blog title which hasn't changed since 2018 is what it is.
I understand that sometimes I have opinions people don't like. oceangate in particular has proven to be a fantastic example of that. But i am, at the most basic terminology, venting my thoughts and feelings.
that's why I'm talking ab the supreme court and their awful decisions. why I may not be talking about issues that don't directly affect me, but might affect some of you. it's not because i don't care. It's never because I don't care.
It's because my target audience is a mirror.
#you need to understand.#im well aware of my bad reputation for not reblogging dono posts and for defending teenagers into dsmp#(not even dsmp itself! just the people who like it.)#i am MORE than aware of the evils on my carrd post im the one who has to see it.#but ultimately i stand by the things i say unless i change my mind.#if i change my mind its because i have more information than i did before#(ie. again. oceangate. i went back and forth as info came out. because i wanted to have an *informed* opinion)#but if i believe in what i said. if i hold to the principle i am espousing#its hard for me to apologize for anything more than i might have worded it weird#but at the end of the day#of the month#the year#life.#this blog. MY blog. is a record of alex storm-of-feathers#if someday a historian figures out our internet and how to access it#i want them to know#i want YOU to know#my name is alex#this is my journal#this is not any type of record on historical events#this is not me trying to organize activism#this is simply me.#my name is alex.#please remember that.#please remember me.
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