#its gonna be ok

[bitter---wing]

hello I am here in ur phone! when ur worried or anxious or miserable or in public, etc. take me to school and work with u and ur never really alone! I am here !!!

[saynomorefic]

Does anyone else feel personally victimized by mercury retrograde because...

[yourfavvgal]

i dislike flying so much omg

(please save me 🙏)

[amongemeraldclouds]

Will be away for a bit. I’m still cheering on all my lovely moots from afar 🫶🏻 You guys are the coolest. Will lovingly stalk some of you when I’m back 😘

I have some content scheduled to go out while I’m away.

[may-fall]

I cried last night while listening to yume nikki osts...

[killingflies]

not to sound like one of THOSE tool fans but. . when they made Lateralus. . ..yeah they did that....

[nsolo]

My baby

Link to song: https://nsolo.streamlink.to/urdead

[enn0s]

just keep goin...

i know... i know everything feels like its on fire, and your support system feels like its crumbling and your body is being used as a testing ground in order to plead at the feet of doctors that dont respect your decisions.

i know the hormones make you gain weight and they make the suicidal thoughts so so so loud again

i know your 10 year fixation on bts has to come to an end by forces way out of anyone's control

i know it hurts to wake up every day again and it makes you hide away from your loved ones

i know you isolate when you're hurt because you're more prone to emotional outbursts than you are a civilized conversation about what you need and thats just... its not who we want to be to our people

i know your hands and wrists are held together by duct tape and bubble gum and you still go to work and use them to heal others because you need to make money and you're so so good at your job even though its well past the time you need to step away from it for your own health and safety.

i know you've lost 3 people in the span of 2 months and it feels like the grief is eating a hole through you from the inside out

and i know how much its screaming inside of you to just fucking rest but you hold so many people in your head and your hands and your heart and they need you and you are still learning how to say that you need someone too...

im you....of course i know.

but you cant hate yourself out of this

no matter how much you internalize your anger and your hurt and your sadness it wont go away

it will just keep slipping through the cracks and seeping into your bones and screaming through the knot in your throat

you're just a person

you're doing all of this for the first time and this is the start of a lot more to come

its gonna have to get worse before it gets better

we're gonna have to change and find new safe spaces and adjust again to a world that was never built for us

we gotta do it scared, we gotta do it ugly, and we gotta do it alone

and we just gotta trust that we're still here and ok enough at the end of it all

remember to take a big deep breath

just keep goin

i love you

[thepenguinlad]

no offense but why can none of you experience the wonder and vastness of nature without making it indifferent or malicious? to the oceans and the mountain you are miniscule, a curiosity, one which could die if abandoned in their far reaches. but by the same metric, she has tended and cradled other humans for millenia. her bounty exists alongside her brutality, and if you show her respect and learn her ways, maybe she will cradle you too.

ok so i made the mistake of standing on the beach in the dark and listen…….. listen. there is nothing that cares about you less than the ocean in the dead of night. it is tangible. you can’t fuckin see a thing. there is no horizon. it’s a ceaseless void and she cares for no one and loves nothing. you have to respect her bcs she clearly has no fuckin love for you and if she wanted she could take you and NO ONE WOULD KNOW

[crowkip]

yeehaw, baby!

[roastedmoth]

I cant believe i finally am happy with my life

[corbits-comet]

How to comfort a deppressed person: the nitty gritty

-NEVER say “I’m sorry you feel that way”. This indicates that their feelings are subjective and they could feel better if they tried. This is also generally very dismissive and will leave them with an icky taste in their mouth 

-NEVER use the term “right now” (EX. Sorry u feel like that right now, sorry it’s hard right now) much like the last tip, ‘right now’ is rather dismissive and can open up floodgates for the person about how this dark spot is going to last forever, potentially causing them to spiral 

-NEVER say “I’m sorry this is so hard for you” this phrase indicates that this is only hard for them, and someone else would be handling this a lot better, this can make the person feel disappointed in themselves they can’t fix their issue

-PRO TIP, avoid starting a heartfelt or empathetic message with ‘ I’m sorry’ you can certainly work the message in that you feel for them but especially if you close avoid saying that first because it’s just kind of a catch all blanket term and while not totally horrible certainly won’t get through to the person. 

-PRO TIP your goal should always be to get through to the other person, you want to make sure that your not just flinging kind words at a steel dome, where they’ll slide right off without even grazing the person underneath. The goal should NEVER to make you feel better. 

-PRO TIP go hard on the problem easy on the person. Fucking annihilate that problem, drive it into the ground. This is the worst fucking thing to ever have happened. The person did the best they could, and it’s gonna be okay just maybe not right now

Yes. Go forth

PS. Don’t feel bad if you’ve said these kinds of things before they’re not actually horrendous. But not using them is definitely more comforting

[elphabalathropp]

Why are long distance boyfriends so much better than the real life ones

[swifteainthesummer]

Repeat after me

I DESERVE GOOD THINGS

I DESERVE GOOD THINGS

I DESERVE GOOD THINGS

[cordially-despised]

[xxplastic-cubexx]

obligatory beach divorce doodling

bonus rough cover redraw of x-men #41 (1995) But Beach Divorce below cut