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t00pr3ttyf0ry0u · 5 months ago
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my cg has gone to sleeppppp so i have some comfort items with me
i have to try sleeping by 12:30am so im going to watch youtube until 12am and then read Hawkeye
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squarebracket-trickster · 1 year ago
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By the way, lurkers are welcome on my blog<33
Yeah, yeah, Writeblr is a community and all that. But I get it.
Some of us have anxiety disorders. Some of us are (or were once) minors on the internet who had it drilled into us to never make our presence known in online spaces lest we get stalked or groomed.
It's okay if interacting is outside of your comfort zone.
Some of us aren't actually on tumblr enough to make making a Writeblr intro worth it.
Some of us prefer to take a few months, maybe years, observing the community to learn the rules. And let's face it, there is a huge learning curve to Tumblr culture. I came here from Pinterest in like 2018 and hooo boy was it intimidating!
Like, I was that 17 year old pinterest lurker with an anxiety disorder who was taught that internet safety meant "never comment on anything" who took a few years before I felt comfortable enough with tumblr culture to reblog things with tags, let alone make public posts.
So I guess what I am saying is, I can't judge. Because I've been there.
Writeblr is a community. And the community (for me) is the best part. And remember that if you don't contribute to the community you don't get to complain about it either. But this is also a public space. Silent observers are to be expected. And on my blog you are welcome.
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starry-agere · 8 months ago
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hihi <33 you have a rly nice account ^_^
Could you give some ideas for getting (and hiding!) gear? I really need ideas OwO
tyyyyyyy
hi! thank you :D
tips for getting gear:
look on etsy! there are lots of shops on etsy that sell pacis, sippies, teethers etc. i, personally, bought a custom sippy with my name on it that came with both a sippy cup lid and a regular tumbler lid, so it's easy to show someone the cup with tumbler lid if they ask what you bought! i will note that most plain pacis on etsy are way overpriced (usually $10-15 from my memory?). they're cheaper on rearz.ca and pacifieraddict.com, but they ship from canada so shipping can be a bit expensive.
follow agere shops on insta! there's tons of deco paci + general agere shops on there that do discreet shipping. some of my favorites include: @/chubbi_quorn, @/inkys.pacis, @/pups.paci.agere.shop, @/littlest._.creations, and @/baby.shark.binkies.
amazon! you can buy adult pacis on amazon, as well as teethers and baby toys.
check out your local target/walmart/etc! there's tons of cute teethers, toys, snacks, etc made for babies and kids there. plus, you can always order from these stores online and have stuff delivered!
note: i do not recommending buying or using pacis made for babies, as the teats are too small for an adult's mouth and extensive use can cause your teeth to move around. adult pacis were originally made by dentists (to prevent snoring) and are safe for adult mouths!
more under the cut!
tips for hiding gear:
when buying from a shop on etsy, check if they have an option to hide the paci in a stuffie! some shops will ship the paci inside of a stuffie, either with a zipper in its back or they will sew it inside.
keep gear in a bag or box inside of your clothes drawers, closet, or desk. for a long time, i had my pacis inside of a painted wooden box in a desk drawer.
you could also wrap your gear inside of a shirt and tuck it into the back of your dresser or closet
hide gear underneath your bed
get an opaque storage container and keep gear in there
you can buy fake/hallowed out books and store things in there on your shelf
tips for if someone finds your gear:
pacis:
if you're a snorer, say that it's used to prevent snoring at night
say that it helps you calm down from panic attacks
say that it helps with teeth and mouth pain
if it's a deco paci, say that you think it's pretty
teethers:
say that you use it for chewing stims
say that it helps with teeth pain
say that it helps to have something to bite when you're mad
workbooks/kids books:
say that you're collecting for when you have kids in the future
say that you like the pictures
say that they make you nostalgic
say that you like the author so you want to support them
i do want to note that if someone finding your gear would compromise your safety, it probably isn't worth it to buy any. your safety comes above all else, and you're a valid regressor whether you have gear or not!
that ended up being a lot more than i expected! i hope that helps, and you're welcome to send in an ask if you have any questions <3
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slutsosweet · 2 years ago
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read before following please!! <33
hi hii!! y’all can call me livi or kitty or baby or sweetheart or literally any other pet name; i’m not partial to any in particular. just the affection and praise is enough to make me melt into a lil puddle :’’)
if you are not at least eighteen years of age, please do not follow or interact with me or my posts. i will not engage with any minors and if any minors attempt to engage with me they will be blocked with no hesitation whatsoever.
this is a blog for my hard kinks because my attention-loving self isn’t satisfied unless i can make myself known everywhere lmao. there will be themes on my page that are triggering for some people, including cnc/consensual non-consent/rape play, and ddlg. full disclaimer: i do not support or make excuses for actual rape or pedophilia. anything i post implies prior consent between adults of sound mind and body, full stop. these are just fantasies, just scenes. if you are uncomfortable with them i completely understand and ask you to click away from my blog for your own safety and peace of mind.
i have a few hard limits that, should you bring up during horny talk, i will immediately block you or delete the ask or both:
- incest (even just mentioning my family at all tbh)
- pedophilia
- beastiality
- blackmail
that being said: i am 22 years of age, afab, and use she/her pronouns. in case you haven’t guessed yet, i am extremely subby and obedient. currently i am owned and taken by my boyfriend/dom, and i am a member of a pack. i am not looking for any online play partners; i am only looking for friends and likeminded acquaintances. i don’t mind interacting with and befriending doms online, but do not attempt to make me your sub. i am only comfortable with in person dynamics and that is final.
even so, you can still treat me like a sub, and i may address some doms using titles and respect, but that does not put us in a dynamic with one another.
i am here purely for icky horny thoughts of my own and reblogging stuff that makes my little cunt throb, but i am extremely friendly (and also a tad shy haha) so please don’t be afraid to reach out for literally any reason!!
please stay safe and take care of yourself <33
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lonniemachin · 10 months ago
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Arwa reached out to me to help share her fundraiser. She is urgently raising money to help evacuate she and her 5-person family from Gaza to Egypt. She is almost halfway to her goal at kr223,990 NOK raised out of kr500,000. Let’s help her get all the way there by sharing and donating, and if you can’t donate, please still share!
Arwa’s Twitter/X account: @ArwaDwaba
From Arwa’s GFM:
*Please note that the conversion rate is 1 USD =10 NOK
10$ = 100 NOK
50$= 500 NOK
100$= 1000 NOK
200$= 2000 NOK
I orgnize this fundrising on behalf of Arwa Abudawaba who i know and want to help to get her family out of Gaza. For more informastion her instagram is: @arwadwaba
I am Arwa from devastated Gaza, and this is a picture of my beautiful family. Just 5 months ago, I had a father, two brothers, and a very beautiful home that we bought just 10 months before the war. My beloved father passed away just days before the war after a 4-year battle with brain cancer. Then the occupation decided to completely demolish the intelligence towers, so we were forced to flee from our home multiple times in search of safety. Our home and the entire neighborhood were destroyed.
On November 17, 2023, my brothers Mohammed and Mahmoud were martyred. Mahmoud, the handsome one, was 19 years old in his second year of university. Mohammed, the brave one, was 33 years old, a father to two daughters, Nahla and Naya, who like the moon. I wish I could have hidden them in my heart.
On the second day after their martyrdom, we were forced to flee to the south through the so-called safe road claimed by the occupation, amid our tears that hadn't dried yet. We have nothing but the clothes on our backs, and we couldn't even protect ourselves from the winter cold.
We were separated from Noha and Naya, the daughters of my martyr brother Mohammed, and his wife. Our family is now scattered, some in the north and some in the south. Only my mother, my younger sister Nebal, and I remain. My mother suffers from chronic diabetes, and since the martyrdom of my brothers, her health has been deteriorating, with no medical care or basic necessities of life in Gaza.
I never imagined losing my young brothers and being left without support. We lost our father, my brothers were martyred, the occupation destroyed our home and my martyr brother's home, and I lost my source of income and my personal project—I had an online clothing store with $5000 worth of inventory inside the house. I was also deprived of completing the second year of my master's degree and preparing my thesis. We are now homeless and destitute. Everything is difficult now.
So, I ask for your help in raising the funds and travel expenses for six people. To facilitate the evacuation of my family from Gaza to Egypt, I am preparing a GoFundMe campaign to raise $5,000 for each person:
my beautiful mother,
my younger sister Nebal,
my martyr brother Mohammed's wife,
and Noha and Naya, the daughters of my brother.
and me .. Arwa
This means $30,000 to evacuate them from Gaza, not to mention their expenses for living in Egypt, renting a house, and the living expenses for 6 people without a provider.
Help us reunite our family outside of Gaza. Your support, whether big or small, will make a big difference in ensuring our safety. I am grateful for your sympathy and generosity at this difficult time. Please share this link with friends and colleagues. Thank you for standing by us. Help us start our lives anew. Even though there is no life without those we have lost, it is life.
Thank you for your time "
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lilassbigchannell44455 · 2 days ago
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Intro
(Because i forgot to do one in the past)
Call me Sammy or Sam!!
I won't be sharing too much my information online but I'm 13 and my birthday is on October
I'm a huge fan of @greglow03 works so muchh and I love their ALOTH fanfic Au so muchh <33 (I adore that fanfic)
I'm in the fandoms of: GGY, FNAF, OMORI, MP100 and ectt
My favourite characters are Gregory (It's already obvious. Loll), Luis Cabrera (I ate up his little screen time), Vanessa, Tony Becker, Ellis, Cassie, Mr Burrows, Edwin Murray, Crystal (From the GGY book) , Jinx, Ekko, Argos (TWOMP), BOK-SU (MARRIED IN RED) and More..
My ships are Beckory, Luis x Vanessa, Ellis x Gregory, Tony x Ellis, Cassie x Gregory, Jinx x Ekko, Argos x Mr Plant (TWOMP) and Also more Lol
IMPORTANT NOTE:
(I'm a multishipper but dont worry I also respect you if you don't ship my ships and I'll respect your ship choices ≧⁠▽⁠≦)
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Please don't make dirty jokes in my channel or posts!
Please don't rush me into things like my unfinished projects or posting something new! (Reasons: School, Vacation, Doing Assignments and ect)
DNI: Proshippers, Homophobics, Racists, P3D0FILES OR MAPS, Rude ppl (I don't care if you leave a hate comment under my page. I'll just end up deleting it anyways lol.) , NSFW accs, Zoophiles Ect.
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captaindibbzy · 9 months ago
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The closest I come to sounding conservative is when companies and the government start telling me what to do and I start screaming about the nanny state.
So I want to read erotic books? No. Do I want audible to restrict my search to remove erotic content automatically? Fuck no.
See also: sugar is bad for you so we're gonna remove and replace it for your health.
See also: you can't say naughty words herem
See also: fatty foods need to be restricted because you can't be trusted to make your own decision.
See also: the online child safety act still allows adults to view harmful content and that's bad.
It goes on and on and I sit here trying not to sound batshit while screaming FUCK YOU I'M AN ADULT!!! I had to put up with this when I was twelve but I'm fucking 33! If I want to make the worst decision known to man that's my god damn choice!!!
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mariaofdoranelle · 2 years ago
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Look at Us Now — Ch. 2
Fic masterlist
Thank you for all the love on the first chapter!! I hope you like this update <33
Warnings: language, parents fighting, Fenrys
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Rowan heard the chorus of Fenrys’ students before he even got to the place.
“Thank you… Moonbeam!”
He stopped for a second and then hurried up, curious to know what was going on in that class.
When Rowan graduated as an engineer, it didn’t even cross his mind that he’d end up working as a drill instructor for the Air Force. And liking it.
It started organically. His subordinates were trained well enough, but something was off with their coordination while marching, or sometimes they thought it was okay to show up with a stubble. Rowan was doing this job even before being offered the position, or so Colonel Darrow pointed out a few years ago.
It wasn’t what he’d planned for himself, but it worked out perfectly. Rowan was reaching the age of settling down. His cousin Sellene was currently facing a difficult pregnancy, and the thought of being deployed and leaving someone at home like that didn’t sit well with him. Instructing new recruits gave him the stability he wanted without having to leave the Air Force. It wasn’t perfect, but it was exactly what Rowan needed.
His current issue wasn’t the newbies, though. It was the instructor.
“Thank you… Moonbeam!”
“Thank you… Moonbeam!”
Fenrys was sat on a chair, grinning like Hellas himself while all of his students were shouting “Thank you… Moonbeam!” while doing push-ups.
“What the fuck are you doing?” Rowan whisper-yelled so only Fenrys could hear.
His friend turned to him smiling, unfazed. “What does it look like I’m doing? I’m training my little munchkins.”
Unbelievable.
Fenrys was fucking unbelievable.
“So you’re telling me that you borrowed my drive last minute for your class,” Rowan snarled, “Only to get here and teach my class instead?”
“But it’s the military! Exercising is everyone’s class.” He did a double-take on Rowan’s dissatisfied face and continued, “I went through hell as a newbie, it’s really fun to do the same to them. It’s a psychology thing, you should look it up online.”
“You’re supposed to be teaching them gun safety.” Rowan took a deep breath, trying to calm himself down. “Starting tomorrow, if I hear a word that you taught them something that doesn’t involve guns, and safety—“
“Okay, okay.” Fenrys waved him off. “There’s no need to snitch me to Salvaterre. Let me fix this.”
Before Rowan could stop him and say he didn’t have time left to start his actual class, Fenrys turned to the 40 new recruits who were still chanting Thank you, Moonbeam and shouted, “Okay, instead of my name, you’ll say Whitethorn. Now!”
“Thank you… Whitethorn!”
Rowan stared at them speechless. Whenever he thought Fenrys couldn’t be more unserious, his friend outdid himself.
“Thank you… Whitethorn!”
“Thank you… Whitethorn!”
”That’s not what I asked you to do at all, Lieutenant.” Rowan added, a hint of resignation in his voice. Sometimes giving up was the smart thing when it came to Fenrys.
“You deserve it. By the way, did I tell you…” he trailed. “Fuck, I lost count. How many push-ups do you think they’ve done already?”
“One more reason you should stick to your job. You suck at doing mine.”
Fenrys chuckled. “You little shit.” Then turned to the recruits again. “Galathynius!” Fenrys shouted. “I want push-ups, jumping jacks and crunches. I want twen-“ He sneaked a glance at Rowan. “Thirty of each! You’re counting for me this time.”
“Yes, sir!”
Rowan’s whole body froze.
He knew that voice. Rowan had long, wet daydreams and nighttime fantasies about that same voice saying Yes, sir to him again, but in a completely different tone and situation. He never thought he’d see her again.
His heartbeat was going a mile a minute when he slowly turned around, and there she was. Fierce blue eyes already trained on him. Rowan forced himself to look back at Fenrys.
“Did you say Galathynius?”
“Oh, that’s what I was going to tell you!” His friend’s eyes sparkled like they did every time he had good gossip. “She’s the class’ nepo baby. Brigadier Galathynius’ niece.”
Oh, that’s great.
Fucking a student was completely against his moral code as an instructor, but Rowan wouldn’t blame himself since it happened before he knew anything. That student’s uncle happened to be the man with highest rank working inside this Air Force base, but if nothing happened in the six weeks following Aviator’s Ball, it wouldn’t happen now.
These weren’t Rowan’s biggest issue.
His biggest issue was wanting to do it again. Which was completely off-limits.
“Rowie, you listening?”
He wasn’t, and Fenrys knew that.
“Sure. Go on.”
“So I’m trying not to be too hard on her because I really want her to put in a good word for me—“
Rowan’s eyes bulged. “I cannot believe you’re giving her special treatment because of her connections to the brigadier—“
“What?” Fenrys barked a laugh. “No! I’m not giving her special treatment because of her great-uncle.” He tilted his head. “He kinda gives a daddy vibe, though… but I’m doing it because her boyfriend’s playing hard to get.”
Rowan could swear his heart stopped for a beat. “Her what?”
Fenrys let out a heavy sigh. “Her boyfriend, Dorian. Hottest man on earth. We matched on Tinder a few months ago. I just explained you the whole thing.”
Months ago. Plural. Which means they were already dating when Rowan slept with her.
Did Aelin use him to cheat on her boyfriend that night? Rowan had vivid memories of her saying she wasn’t married.
He sensed the building ache of his fingernails digging into his palms, hands clutching into a fist.
She didn’t exactly lie, but he felt as if she did.
Rowan should forget about Aelin and her boyfriend. They weren’t his problem.
“So he’s cheating on her?” Rowan asked.
Fenrys shrugged. “He told me they’re in an open relationship, but I don’t really care. If I’m nice, she’ll like me. If she likes me, she won’t mind me fucking her boyfriend.”
“I don’t think that’s how relationships work, Fenrys.”
Relationship. The word felt heavier than Rowan predicted before he said it.
“You have very little faith in what a pretty face and dazzling personality like mine can do, Rowie.”
Forcing himself to not slump his posture in front of the new recruits, Rowan just closed his eyes and lowered his head, rubbing one temple. He felt tired. He didn’t want to argue with Fenrys now about something as meaningless as this.
“Just give me the flash drive, Fen.”
He turned to the newbies again. “Galathynius! I need the flash drive on the desk near the door.”
Great.
If Rowan didn’t play his cards right, he’d have ten weeks of hell ahead of him. A lifetime, depending on which part of the Air Force Aelin was going to after her basic training.
Analyzing her stance now, she seemed a lot sharper the day they met. Recruit training did that to people, though, and the first few weeks always felt particularly ruthless.
Rowan had an extended hand, ready to get this over with, when she shook it.
She shook his hand instead of giving him the flash drive.
Rowan dropped her hand as if it’d burned him.
“Ten on the floor.”
Aelin blinked. “What?”
“Ten push-ups on the floor, Galathynius! Now!” Rowan shouted.
He was right on track, considering this is the same treatment he usually gave to the other recruits. She was supposed to salute him, not make physical contact. These were the rules, and tough was part of the job. Rowan wasn’t teaching children, he didn’t need to be soft.
Aelin didn’t think so, from what he saw as she rose up from the floor. Her fierce eyes were burning into him, eyebrows scrunched.
Rowan would be lying if he said it didn’t send a thrill through his spine.
He didn’t acknowledge it, though. Just grabbed his flash drive and left.
He had been dreaming about another man’s girlfriend. For six weeks. It didn’t sit well with him. Staying the hell away from Aelin Galathynius. That’s what he needed to do. 
Rowan flexed his hand, still feeling her touch against it.
Today’s reaction was just the shock of seeing her again, ignoring Aelin would be easy. If he kept it together, he could finish these ten weeks and walk out like this never happened.
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“Look, Dada, I ate all the broccoli.”
Rowan kissed the crown of his daughter's head, trying to give her attention while low-key freaking out. "Well done, Mai."
He had completely forgotten to buy Maisie's strawberry yoghurt. Should he go to the store with her and destroy today’s sleeping routine? Ask to borrow some from Aelin's and destroy his pride? Or maybe not get the yoghurt at all and destroy his sanity tomorrow morning, when she inevitably throws a tantrum.
The latter wasn't an option, though. Mais already had a hard time before going to school, she deserved that strawberry yoghurt.
"Daddy, the ice cream?" she asked, snapping him out of his thoughts.
"What do you mean?"
Maisie sighed, as if she was explaining something obvious. "I was a good girl and ate all the vegetables. Now you give me ice cream."
Aelin.
This new rule had Aelin Galathynius written all over it.
Rowan took a deep breath. “Mais…” he trailed, trying to think of a good way to explain this to her. “I can’t give you ice cream every time you eat your vegetables. It’s not good for your body.”
"Daddy."
"What?"
"That's not showing love."
Rowan pinched his lips together, somewhere between frustrated and amused. Getting cranky on a sugar withdrawal and arguing with him. Her mother’s daughter through and through.
"I don't even have ice cream here, Mais."
"We can walk to Mommy's. She always has ice cream.”
He knew it.
Maisie crossed her arms. "I'm going to count to three. One... two... Don't let me get to three, or...”
"Or...?" Rowan raised an eyebrow.
Maisie's little green eyes drifted around as she thought of an answer, then she shouted, "Or I'll call you!"
It was like time had stopped, his chest feeling tighter each millisecond.
I’ll call you.
He and Aelin argued about their calls every week, but he was so careful about not letting their daughter listen to their fights. How in hell did she pick up on that?
"Honey, I'm home!" A familiar voice sing-sang from the living room, making Maisie leave the kitchen running.
Rowan relaxed for a minute, sighing. This wouldn't solve any of his issues, but it was enough to distract his daughter from the ice cream issue.
He could hear Maisie squealing before he got to the living room. Fenrys was checking the mail Rowan left on a side table while Dorian gave Mais his trademark bear hug.
“You need to change your address at work,” Rowan quietly complained as they watched Dorian pretend to wrestle Maisie and roar like a bear while she shrieked with laughter.
It took Rowan a long time to adjust to Dorian being around, but as Aelin always says, every kid needs a cool, rich uncle with no kids. He was good with Maisie, so Rowan sucked it up until he got used to it.
“You know I won’t,” Fenrys finally answered.
Rowan looked at his friend dead in the eye. “You’ll come here to get your mail for the rest of your life?”
“You’re so dramatic, Rowie.”
“You moved out years ago.”
“And you love my visits,” Fenrys cheered. “So does your little munchkin.”
Well, Rowan had begrudgingly accepted that Fenrys wouldn’t change his address at work before he retired. But Maisie? She loved those two idiots. Probably because they had the same level of maturity as her.
An idea struck Rowan, so he quickly gripped Fenrys’ arm and leaned closer.
“Do you think you can watch Maisie for a minute?” Rowan quietly asked. “I just need to get her yoghurt—“
“Babe, we’re babysitting tonight!” He screamed to Dorian, then crouched on Maisie’s direction. “Munchkin, why don’t you show me your new toys?”
Rowan had no expectations of those two making Maisie follow through her nighttime routine, but this would do. He quickly thanked Fenrys and Dorian, then left to the store closest to the Air Force housing complex he lived in.
Since Maisie was relatively well-assisted, he decided to wander through the aisles and get a thing or another that was also running out.
Rowan could swear he saw a very familiar blur of golden hair, but it was gone before he knew it.
He was thinking about getting some new foods and seeing if Maisie accepted them. He’d recently found a pediatric dietitian online that gave great advice—
Right there, examining every bottle of wine available.
He frowned. Why was Aelin buying wine on a Thursday? Did she have plans for the weekend? That couldn’t be, this was her turn to spend the weekend with Maisie.
Rowan was ready to go talk to her and talk about today’s ice cream issue, but he saw her peeking at him from the corner of her eye and focusing back on the wine.
Oh. That’s how it’s going to be, then.
Well, Rowan didn’t care. She didn’t want to talk to him? Fine. He was busy anyway. They would talk tomorrow after pick up.
He went to the cereal aisle. He got Maisie’s favorite, but what if he tried giving her a more nutritious one?
He started reading the nutrition facts. Picks one up, too much sodium, puts it down. Picks another one, too little vitamins and minerals, puts it down as well.
“Tough choice, huh?”
“Sure.”
This one seemed nice. It also helped that there were some cartoon animals on the box, so—
Rowan felt a hand gently stroking his arm, which made him jerk it away and snap his gaze to the person next to him. A woman. Pale blond hair, pale blue eyes.
“Do you need help to choose?” She asked.
Rowan relaxed. She probably worked here, even though she wasn’t wearing the staff uniform. Maybe something happened with it? He tried to remember himself that some work environments were a lot more forgiving than the military.
“I’m trying to choose a cereal.”
“I always pick that one,” she said before pointing at a box near them.
Organic, vegan and gluten-free. There was no ice cream in the world that could make Maisie eat that.
Rowan grimaced. “I’m not sure my daughter would like this one. I’m actually between these.” He showed her the two boxes and its nutrition facts.
“You have a kid. Cute.” She sneaked her hand on his arm again. What was wrong with the staff today? “Let me show you something…”
Then the inappropriate employee showed him an app that scanned the bar code and rated the food from zero to one hundred.
Rowan’s eyes widened.
This was fucking genius.
He thanked the woman and started scanning everything.
She stayed close for a while, then went away once she was sure Rowan was well-assisted by the app.
Right now, Rowan was no better than Maisie when she got a new toy. How had he never read about this app?
He scanned some to decide, and others just to be judgmental and prove his point. He knew those colorful little things were worse than sugar cubes. He should tell Lorcan know about this app—
“Where’s Maisie?”
Aelin snapped him out of his thoughts, squinting at him with crossed arms.
Oh, she wanted to talk to him now?
“At home. With Dorian and Fenrys.”
She looked unimpressed. “Well, I didn’t know you liked to leave your child to flirt with other women.”
“Are you kidding me?” His mouth opened, then closed again. “I was talking to an employee.”
Aelin’s eyebrows rose up. “You want me to believe that? She clearly doesn’t work here!”
Rowan frowned. Was Aelin telling the truth? The arm thing was weird, maybe she was trying to flirt. Over cereal?
“You know what? I’ll tell you if you tell me what’s all this wine for.” He pointed to her small cart.
“I do not need to tell you what I’m doing during my days off!”
She only wanted him to question what she was doing on her days with Maisie? Sure, he’d do exactly that. “Fine. Then at least tell me why does Maisie think she will get ice cream every time she eats vegetables.”
“Because she’s a kid! She’ll try anything to make you do what she wants.”
Rowan crossed his arms. “You’re telling me you have nothing to do with that?”
Her mouth fell open. “That’s exactly why I don’t want to talk to you between pick-ups. I need a fucking break.”
Rowan let out an incredulous laugh. “A break from your daughter?”
“No, a break from you.”
Rowan pinched the bridge of his nose. Of course. How could he ever forget that Aelin needed space because he was the cause of all her issues?
“Could you please…” he breathed deep. “Just please, give her less ice cream?”
She inched closer. “Could you please, just please, not question the way I take care of my child every fucking day?”
“I don’t—“
“Yes, you do! She’s four-year-old girl who threw a tantrum because she wants ice cream. It’s not rocket science.”
Rowan looked away for a second, trying to calm down and talking in a gentle tone this time. “Okay, but maybe she wouldn’t do such a big tantrum if she had healthier dessert.”
Aelin frowned. “Healthy dessert?”
“Yeah, like grapes, watermelon—“
“FRUIT? You’re giving Maisie fruit and telling her it’s dessert!?”
“Fruit is dessert.”
“When it’s on top of a pie, Rowan.” Aelin’s eyes bulged like he’d just told her the most absurd thing.
Rowan bit his lip, trying not to laugh at her observation. They had talked about this many times already, and he still didn’t know if he found her stubbornness on this subject more comical or frustrating. Probably the latter, at least depending on the day.
He glanced at his phone. Fuck, it was so late. Time really flies with that food-ranking app.
“I have to go now, but I’ll call you—“
Aelin shook her head. “Personal space. Boundaries. We just talked about that.”
Rowan pinched his lips together, then remembered Maisie’s words from earlier. I’ll call you.
“Tomorrow after pick up, then?”
“Sure.” Aelin nodded and went away.
He did a mental note to see if someone could watch Maisie tomorrow evening. They’d probably end up having a huge fight about needing to have fewer fights. It’d be a shitshow.
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The real shitshow was getting Maisie to go to bed, though. At least that was how Rowan felt when he was finally ringing Aelin for her goodnight call with Mais. He didn’t know what felt heavier, his limbs or his eyelids.
After grocery shopping, Rowan arrived home to the loudest state his home has ever been. Maisie’s squeals sounded louder than the TV. There was half-eaten chocolate in the couch. Fenrys was holding Maisie by one arm and one leg, spinning her sideways by the sound of *You Spin Me Round* while Dorian filmed everything.
Right before bedtime.
Rowan immediately felt his stomach fold into a tight knot inside.
This was every parent’s nightmare.
The rest of the evening went on exactly the way Rowan predicted the moment he stepped his foot into the house.
Maisie didn’t want Fenrys and Dorian to go. She cried when Rowan told her it was time to wind down and stop playing. Her uncles told him they didn’t bring the chocolate, but Maisie refused to tell him where she got it from.
By the time Rowan almost literally wrangled his daughter into bed, he was afraid he’d sleep in her tiny bed during story time before she did. It happened before.
He was now outside Maisie’s bedroom, giving her privacy with her mom. Aelin would complain about his calls the whole week, but Rowan was a dead man if he didn’t call her to say good night to her daughter.
“Daddy?” Maisie had her hand outstretched when he peeked into the room. “Mommy wants to talk to you.”
Rowan forced himself not to sigh, squared his shoulders and grabbed that phone. An officer going into battle.
He felt too drained to have another fight.
“Just so you know, I don’t give her ice cream every day.” Aelin’s voice sounded a little too quiet, or maybe it sounded like this to him because she wasn’t screaming.
He relaxed. ”Okay. Good.”
“I don’t keep track of how many times I give her ice cream, but it’s probably a lot less than you think.”
“That’s good to know. Thanks.” Rowan meant it. Not knowing or not being able to control some things left him more uneasy than he’d like to admit. Aelin probably knew that.
The silence stretched a little, and he tried to figure out if there was something else he needed to warn Aelin about.
“Good. Rowan, I need to—“
“I found some illicit chocolate today,” Rowan interrupted. “I think Maisie found your new stash.”
Aelin sighed. “That kid is outsmarting me.”
“She is.” He snorted.
“Rowan.”
“What?”
“I need to go.”
“Sure. See you at the pickup.”
“‘Kay, bye.” She hung up when the silence stretched for too long.
Rowan put his phone down and managed to lay on Maisie’s tiny bed. She hugged him, but only settled after squirming a little.
“I miss Mommy.”
“You’ll see her tomorrow.” It was a common thing, Maisie missing one parent while staying with the other. The trick was to acknowledge his daughter’s feelings, but not prompting her further enough to start a meltdown.
“She gives better cuddles.”
Curious, he chuckled and asked, “Is that so?” He’d never not be amused at his daughter’s bluntness.
Maisie nodded. “Mommy’s all squishy and comfortable.” Then she poked his abs so hard he grimaced.
He wasn’t focusing on Maisie’s sudden show of strength, though. He was currently fighting the wave of nostalgia flooding him after his daughter’s comment. Rowan used to know Aelin’s body like a kid knows their favorite toy, and he wouldn’t call it squishy. It must’ve changed after the pregnancy. He wouldn’t know.
He forced himself to focus back on Maisie, who was still frowning with her head laying on his chest. 
“You can’t comment on your mom’s body like this, Mais.”
Her frown deepened. “But she comments on mine!”
Rowan held on a sigh. She was a very argumentative little girl, this one. Much like her mother. The ‘but she’s your parent’ explanation was never well-received, so he had to try another tactic. 
“But she’s a doctor. She can comment on people’s bodies, it’s her job.”
“I don’t like it when she says I have baby cheeks. I’m not a baby.”
Rowan snorted. “So you’re reading on your own like a big girl tonight?”
Her eyes went wide. “Daddy, you’re mean! I can’t read.”
He chuckled and kissed that light blonde hair. “What am I reading to you, then?”
“No reading!” She exclaimed, “I want a story from your head.”
Rowan hummed and scratched the back of his neck, stalling. God, he was terrible at this.
“There was a family of birds—“
“Doggies.”
“Okay, doggies. There was a family of doggies. There was the Mama Doggie, the Dadda Doggie and Doggie.”
“Doggie needs a name, Daddy.”
“Okay, the dog’s name is—“
“Fleetfoot. Now tell me the rest of the story.”
And Rowan would do, if Maisie hadn’t slept halfway through it.
Which left him time to think about his day. And Aelin. And how they needed to talk about what Maisie said today during dinner. Rowan already knew what he had to do, though. He needed to distance himself from Aelin. Boundaries, like she always says. Forget about the fact that this had already been his goal for a good part of the last five years.
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femmienine · 30 days ago
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44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean?
Bottom of the ocean. Don’t get me wrong Im a total space girlie, but I’ve loved the ocean since I was a kid and if I could go down there with the guarantee of safety I would. Imagine all the cool fish you’d see!!
66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends?
I don’t think I like either more. In my head, my online friends are the exact same as my irl friends. I love them all <33
129. What your zodiac sign?
I’m a virgo, but don’t actually to explain anything further than that… I don’t know anything about the signs, so if any astrology girlies wanna explain it to me that’d be greatly appreciated so I won’t look like an idiot next time someone brings it up haha
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borkborkheresadork · 2 months ago
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checking in on friends, mutuals and following list, How are you? feel free to use this ask to talk about recent life happenings, something you're passionate about, or anything <33 remember I and I'm sure others care about you and your posts <33
I'll start with the good bits.
The semester is officially over for me and once i finish up work and once I go on break next week, ill have 3 weeks for break. I get to meet up with a online friend irl and spend time with my family and friends during that time so im actually very excited to go back home for so long! Also, I just gained 2 boyfriends and am in a wonderful throuple now :3. Next semester I'm taking classes that are easy but also fun and are less focus on my degree and more focused on my interest, so I'm hoping that will help with my burnout. Over the course of the semester I also got involved with a progress group up here and have been assigned to be their mutual aid coordinator!
I started writing more (nothing that will be posted to this blog) both with music and fanfic. It's nice that I'm at a place where i can (mostly) freely write my ideas.
There's a lot of bad bits, though.
So I've come to the very difficult decision of cutting off my mom. After break i'm going to get a bank account separate from hers and cut contact. There was a bit where we were both communicating well, but I got into a fight with her after she tried to guilt trip me into calling her on thanksgiving (I wasn't talking to her outside of documented forms of communication since she is a habitual gaslighter and likes to say she didn't say things when she very obviously did, and I like to have my receipts when I call her out). After idk maybe like 10 years or something she finally admitted I'm on the spectrum but only because it was convenient to aid in her argument of 'you never understand me and thats clearly because you're autistic and not because im in the middle of a manic episode and i'm not being rational'. So that will be fun to deal with, especially since I'm worried for her safety if I do cut contact, being her only child and her telling me pretty consistantly throughout my life that im her only reason to live. Scary stuff, but necessary for me to stop holding on to that guilt and working through a lot of trauma.
I finished my semester withdrawing from 3 classes and likely failing another, and feeling burnt out to keep going. I need to go to college for a lot of reasons (degree required for the job I want, first gen student/family pressure), but im considering taking it at a considerably slower pace.
I just got on testosterone but thanks to an insurance complication I might have to go without it for a bit. I was previously getting it through my school, but I just got on state insurance and that fucked with my access to it. The good news is that i will likely have a lower co-pay, the bad is that I'll probably have to wait another month to get back on it. One step forward one step back.
The person I thought to be my best friend dropped me out of the blue, which sucks on its own, but the fact that it's been a consistent pattern of people in my life ghosting/dropping me with very little reasoning or with one's ive not found to be true just sucks. I think I'm a loving person in my own way, and the fact that I was called selfish when I A) show a lot of affection towards my friends and B) know my own boundaries when it comes to my relationships with them, it makes me upset. The other person wasn't entirely at fault, I did handle the situation kind of poorly, but I also contributed more to that friendship then that person ever did. I bought food. I made the plans. I hosted. And I thought when the argument that broke us up happened, we just needed space from each other. I guess that wasn't the case and it's sad that the person couldn't communicate their needs earlier so we could have resolved the situation. That being said, on a less neutral perspective. Fuck him. He claimed to be loving and whimsical and had no patience for anyone. Everything pissed him off and he didn't cope in healthy ways and when I tried to help him he didn't take it. He was uncommunicative and disrespectful of other people's boundaries and expectations for friendship. I wish him the best with the realizations he's going to have later in life.
Even though I'm excited for family during the holidays, my dad is coming to town and I'll have to navigate them with him. I stay with my grandmother during breaks, so I'll have to look for another place to stay while he's in town and crashing with her. I feel a little ostracized knowing that they'll accept a bigoted abuser into their homes and make me wait upstairs until he's gone.
Then there's everything else. I live in a country that refuses to care about it's people. I'm one person dealing with a world full of struggles. Those previous things are nothing compared to what's to come, and I'm shocked that I'm rethinking my morals to live and feel safe. I'm a trans guy fresh on T, who, for years thought guns needed to be restricted, and i plan on strapping up over the break. Everything feels broken and I've been dealing with a lot of suicidality since probably late september or october. The horrors are persisting and I don't have much silly in response. I can't even scrape by with my job. And my physical health is catching up making things worse. I don't think I've thrown up this much since I was getting bullied in elementary school. So, uh, yeah.
Not to e-beg, but if you've read this and wanna help me out my venmo is in my bio. I don't have the energy to link anything rn but there's that.
Thanks for letting me rant o7
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miupow · 10 months ago
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lia omg I’ve just gone through and read your posts 😭 I hope you stay safe ml you did nothing to warrant that some people clearly have nothing better to do other than troll :( I hope you’re doing okay and remember to always put your safety first!!! <33
hi nadia <33 tysm hun, i'm alright. stepping back a bit until i'm 100% sure i'm alright. working on my cybersecurity and encripting my information online,, didn't think that would be something i would have to be worried about lol
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lighthouseas · 1 year ago
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2 15 21(i just want ur birthday) 33
2 - what would you name your future kids
i really, really, REALLY like the name maxine (not just bc of st i promise) and the nickname max so probably that
15 - personality description
uhhhh...quiet most of the time lol i have a reaaallly quiet voice. but also very loud around people i like. very silly. kind of airy ? if that makes sense. friendly. dramatic. basically how i am on tumblr lolsies
21 - age and birthday
wellll im in high school and that's all i'm saying because hashtag online safety!!! my birthday is october 30th though :D
33 - something you want to learn
how to cook without setting off a smoke alarm please
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mycelium-collective · 11 months ago
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Hello! We are Mycelium (he/they) and are a suspected osdd system :)
We are currently in the process of getting diagnosed!! This blog is just to track system info as well as let all our parts be themselves and let loose a little!
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BYI:
We also have schizoaffective disorder type bipolar and ADHD (both diagnosed) which drastically effects the whole system!! We also may post triggering things with warnings! please take care of your own triggers!!
DNI:
Any nontruamagenic "systems," dsmp supporters, minors (sorry), rcta, trans(id), basic dni
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Alter Intros:
Reminder: not all alters want to participate in online sys stuff so not every part is here ^^ we are only listing the most frequent users
Also please dont be weird about littles, all the active ones on here would like to be treated as an adult. They are still in an adult body and understand adult topics as well as internet safety.
Bunny she/he/it. im an introject (factive) and truama holder. im 22 and probably gonna be the most active on here ^^
Thistle it/they/that/thing. am just a silly little creature doing its best. im 19 and our addiction holder. please be respectful :/
Berry she/her. i am 16! i live everything cutsie and sanrio and im a bunnykid!! :33
Nessa it/they. I am 20 and the anger holder as well as one of our protectors. I am emo sorry
Petunia she/her. i am a little and truama holder. please dont be weird :// i can still function as an adult. ive been around the longest in the system!
Rott or Ida he/they. Recovering persecutor, please be kind! Im trying my best
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antiradqueer · 1 year ago
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Dunno if this is the right place to ask this, but I need some advice.
So there's this guy in an online writing group I was previously in that writes straight-up, really bad CSA material on AO3, and no matter how much I try to tell other people in the group what he's doing, nobody believes me or fucking does anything because "aw, you've got it all wrong, he's a great guy he's just going through some stuff, and it's not like it's real anyway."
He is not just "going through some stuff", he's a 30-something self-admitted pedophile who assaulted his own teenaged sister and almost assaulted his own child niece, and feels zero shame or guilt about any of it. I don't know who he is offline so it's not like I can contact the police, but anyone who interacts with this guy regularly and considers him harmless has a right to know he's really, really not. Which is why I'm sending you this, in the hope that you might know a way for me to get the word out about him without having to post on my own blog and have him and his friends come and harass me for "making shit up".
The only reason I even dug around and found out what he was doing is because some of the stuff he said reminded me of the man who hurt me as a child, and there's no mistaking that once you know what it sounds like. I am NOT "making shit up".
first of all, I believe you. I want to put this first.
I don't have the best advice ever, but if you know he did those things, you must have proof in some way? (/genq) screenshots, audios, etc? I'm talking about the rl assault, the AO3 content prooves itself of course.
I understand you don't want to call him out on your main blog, but maybe you could make an entirely seperate Blog (like, a seperate main, not a side blog) and post proof there?
unfortunately, depending on where you live, fictional content dealing with CP doesn't have to be explicitely illegal - I'm not from the US and Idk if you are, but just as an example, from what I understand: fictional CP is not covered by federal law in the US (feel free to correct me on this!). So, while I very much agree that what he does on AO3 is not okay, it doesn't have to be something you can hold against him legally.
but honestly, my biggest advice would be to distance yourself from him, his friends and that group entirely. sounds like a very toxic place, enabling harmful behaviour and I don't want to imagine what could happen there. stay safe anon!
for real, always remember, your own safety comes first. always. and this goes for everyone! if you feel like something is putting you in physical danger, like it takes too much of a toll on your mental health or is otherwise harmful - take care of yourself <33
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disdaidal · 2 years ago
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17, 33, 36
😘
Eyyyyy 🥰
17: Someone you miss
Besides talking to certain online friends of mine from time to time (:D), I actually can't wait to see this one friend of mine after such a long time. I made friends with him before co-vid, then we kind of didn't see each other at all during that time (we both had a tough time, etc.). But we recently started talking more again and actually had so much to talk about, so it seems like we're both on solid ground once again. And so I think it might be good for me (hopefully for him as well) to get out of the house and socialize and catch up with each other. :'D
33: What words make me feel the best about myself
I don't know, I guess stuff like 'that's smart' and 'that's clever' etc. It makes me feel so much better about myself than, say, being complimented about my looks or other superficial stuff like that. :'D To know that I've accomplished something and that I'm not a total tool 24/7 lmao.
36: Where I would like to live
I keep thinking about this so much sometimes. :D I honestly don't know if I'd like to live anywhere else but Finland right now because, well, everything's pretty good over here - education, safety, living conditions, culture - even the climate (though I like to complain about it :D). But honestly, maybe Norway or Iceland? I love the views, and they're not culturally too different from Finland, so. I might actually fit in. D:
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sickly-sapphic · 6 months ago
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ID: A tweet by lispeaks_ in response to a tweet by the same person, which reads; "just get your kids off the internet" is the abstinence only sex ed of internet safety.
A short comic strip shows two mothers and daughters. In the first slide, the mother smugly says "my kid doesn't need sex ed because she would NEVER have sex!" An arrow points to the stressed daughter and says "14, pregnant".
The second slide also shows a smug mother, who's saying; "I don't need to teach my kid internet safety because she's not online!" An arrow points to a child sneaking out of a window, and says "running away to live with her 33 y/o 'boyfriend'". End ID
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