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yrsonpurpose · 7 months ago

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red, white & royal blue script easter eggs

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doomdoomofdoom · 6 days ago

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Every now and again I wonder if maybe all trans people face roughly the same amount of bigotry and one just gets more attention, but then i have to read terf posts and.

wow.

obviously every group of trans identities faces their own struggles and unique oppression but there's this incredibly vitriolic kind of hatred reserved for transfems and its sickening.

#ramble #trans #i have a lot of thoughts about terfs i wrote them down somewhere at some point but really theyre just misogyny all the way down #transmascs are poor misled little meow meows who dont realize they just have internalized misogyny. transfems are the embodyment of all evi #nonbinaries are... not talked about. because they ruin the bioessentialism if you think about it critically #to be fair any amount of critical thinking ruins bioessentialism #if gender isnt a social construct why do different societies have different versions of gender. do you never sit down and think for a momen #and like so much of the ideology is wasted hating individuals rather than the actual systems that produce them.#the sex worker thing pisses me off so much. how can you claim to protect women while you shit on the most vulnerable.#“sex work bad because no woman actually wants to do it” like even if that were true (it isnt) the problem wouldnt be sex work #the problem would be capitalism and people having to do things they dont want to make a living.#dismantle capitalism not gender neutral bathrooms #being a man isnt genetic and neither is being evil. the former at least has a genetic predisposition.#whether some people are born evil is like a massive philosophical debate on top of the socio-biological #and like. dont you have anything better to do in your feminism?#like actual problems to fight rather than someone down the street? what progress are you hoping for here?#were losing access to reproductive rights but hoo boy good thing we get to share a scapegoat with our oppressors? really?#theyre not gonna give you equal pay just because you refuse to engage with biology past the 6th grade.#actually im pretty sure we already covered some rudimentary sex/gender stuff in 6th grade but my school mightve been an outlier #definitely compared to the us school system but whatever the point stands #crimes against the gender convention #long ramble in the tags apparently #transgender #queer

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aleixis · 14 days ago

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reo, otoya, karasu, or aiku ?? pls choose one :3 ( for a secret project i'm cooking up !!! )

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bumblingbabooshka · 4 months ago

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Stonn x T'Pring and Sybok x Angel are the only SNW ships I like. Honestly, with the way the show is written, I'm rooting more for the Gorn than the Enterprise at this point.

With how that show's writing Vulcans I'm like 70% sure they're gonna make Stonn a bad guy or make T'Pring cheat on Spock so their relationship ends with "They both cheated!" or so that Christine can comfort Spock as if he hasn't been cheating on T'Pring pretty much the entire time he's been on screen. I watched a 'short trek' I think they're called? Because I heard T'Pring was in it but it was REAAALLY bad like humor I might have laughed at in middle school...anyway T'Pring was only in it so they could make a joke where the premise was "T'Pring keeps breaking up with Spock because she falls in love with other people and Spock is SOO sad about it" and I was like Hey. Are you even WATCHING your show???? You're taking potshots at the WRONG CHARACTER. Like, even if you wanna make that joke - Christine'd make more sense because Christine and Spock ARE actually 'keeping it casual' and Christine DOES actually date around whereas T'Pring is committed to Spock in SNW and trying at every turn to make their relationship work. It still wouldn't be funny if the girl constantly breaking up with Spock was Christine but having it be T'Pring literally doesn't even make sense. You can say "it's just a funny little joke" (as people say about a lot of SNW'S issues) but T'Pring is a female character who's been viciously maligned for YEARS and if their 'jokes' or 'comedy' come at the expense of their characters or the message of ultimate togetherness and hope in the galaxy then I don't find it funny. SNW isn't supposed to be a comedy I don't know why they keep trying to be 'funny' at the price of being earnest. This isn't a marvel movie. The pro-eugenics trial, killing the disabled character, killing the chronically ill character (and framing this as a beautiful relief), 'being disabled is worse than death' messaging, turning the Gorn into horror movie killer monsters (especially when they could have just made up another species), the bioessentialism, constantly maligning Vulcans as racist bullies (with Spock's half Human blood saving him) <- Which I hate ESPECIALLY when Spock has always been a symbol for mixed people in which he struggled equally with feeling belonging in BOTH cultures whereas in SNW it feels like "If he could only be released from Vulcan's evil clutches he could be happy!" + The laziness of cheating being a plot point in so many main characters' romance stories so far. [La'an wants to be with Kirk but that'd be cheating, Spock is cheating on T'Pring with Christine, Pike sleeps with another woman in 'Lift Us Where Suffering' despite having a girlfriend <- They COULD be open but I don't think this is explained. That's Five or Six characters involved in potential cheating and more if you count M'Benga wink-nudging Spock and Christine's relationship when he most likely knows Spock is engaged to T'Pring.] I just have no faith in SNW. It doesn't feel earnest, and it doesn't feel kind and I don't want to watch a show where they'll sacrifice someone's character at any time for an ultimately meanspirited joke.

#anti snw #Q&A #anon #& regarding La'an I was talking to a friend who told me that they basically #just took an Asian Male Stereotype: Unemotional Honor Bound Man and gave it to a woman instead - so yay progress #racial stereotypes are now gender neutral #also: I don't know for sure since I couldn't stomach whatever episode it was in but I've heard stuff about how they made #M'Benga like 'the most vicious killer in the army' or whatever for their war ptsd storyline bc of course they have a war ptsd storyline #against the klingons #and I don't like THAT because of how much black men are already feared and seen as inherently 'violent' and 'animalistic'#If you want to say 'it's to contrast how gentle he ACTUALLY is - war is hell v_v' then why not give that title of 'most brutal killer ever'#to christine???? I just don't feel like SNW is very thoughtful about real world issues and how they're reflected in their shows #or worse - they do recognize it and just don't care #Anson Mount is also a zionist so WHATEVER

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acerikus · 3 months ago

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the funny thing is. i ALSO went into the game already knowing The Twist but i FORGOT like almost instantly. so i was squinting at loop trying to figure out their deal forgetting i was already told by my wonderful mutuals on tumblr dot com. it was great

SFFSHDFHFHHDSGGDHF THAT'S AMAZING

I don't think I'll be able to forget exactly but I still have the timing and exact specific and the how of the whole thing to see and learn about and I'm excited

#skiddlecat #ask #what's funny is years ago i went into this one anime (ygo zexal) fully aware of a massive twist in the second half #(though In that case a 'good' character who was revealed to actually be a major villain in disguise who was already sorta established)#and though I never forgot the more i got to know the character i started to convince myself i was wrong (bc how COULD that be him?)#i gaslight myself so hard that i was still shocked at the reveal lol #anyway yeah i doubt that'll happen again but this game's got me thinking of the show again so it came to mind lol #especially bc the stuff with loop vaguely reminds me of a funky lil astral being guy (gender neutral) in that lol #isat basically just reminds me of everything I've ever been Extremely Totally Normal About and I'm fascinated #forgive the random anecdotes w hardly any relation. it's almost 5am and i woke up out of nowhere and feel a lil off lol

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thxrgism · 5 months ago

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wait did getting un-shadowbanned un-green me on shinigami eyes. how does that work.

#tbf the green looks bad with my custom theme and i dont think its that hard to figure out i am trans (and not transphobic)#and i have a bit of beef with some recent decisions behind shinigami eyes (mainly the opinion on the word “theyfab”...)#(which is 4chan transphobic shit and i dont really appreciate people trying to retroactively revise it to be about transmisogyny #considering transmisogynist is already a gender-neutral word.. and making someones gender into an insult is.. transphobic. actually.)#i know any crowdsourced platform is going to have difficulties agreeing what is or isnt sufficiently bigoted/friendly but like still.#anyway #i might green myself again at some point idk

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bishonenspit · 6 months ago

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god does anyone remember when colleens manga recs saw like something vaguely resembling hypothetical critique of their shoujo history video on here and then had like a micro freakout on twitter about it and started talking about shoujo elitists or something

#and then like added words from that alleged critique to their bio. what was that #sorry i am not done yapping today #i cannot remember whose post it was about it was somebody i follow. if its a mutual then hiiiii. that was weird #i have them blocked on here so i feel comfortable bringing this up. but also if they see this its fine #i already have like a handful of shoujoheads who dislike me so. lol #i watched that video and also thought it was solidly middle of the road in terms of quality shrugging emoji (gender neutral)#but also i think if you're talking about anything japanese you should learn how to correctly and accurately pronounce things.#also i dont have actual beef i just blocked them on here to feel something bc they annoyed me slightly on twt. im the blocker

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phagodyke · 1 year ago

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in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns-#that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭#to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space #like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use-#to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol)#to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum-#or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else #other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh #to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn #i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding #and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt #unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world...#its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow #and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while..#anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation #abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol #and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever #and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress #i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters.....#altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes #like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up #a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl #ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs #im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌#another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo #.diaries #zzzzz

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rowantown · 2 years ago

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Here. Have some y/n doodles I made while I procrastinate writing the next chapter. Ignore how lazy this is I’m in complete low power mode since classes started back

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rxttenfish · 4 months ago

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i absolutely cannot let myself get started on another fic until im at least onto chapter 5 of caecilian but the temptation to write something of aaravi taking miranda monster hunting and describing the entire EVERYTHING there is real

#all the care guide says is 'biomass'#miravi.txt #mostly in the duality that is #what aaravi actually does as a monster slayer and the context that it exists within both in her own life and within the world #and with the fact that miranda doesnt actually sincerely identify as a monster nor care about that divide #to her this is landfolk on landfolk problems that merfolk have absolutely no involvement in #she only gets labelled a monster by landfolk who care about this and using criteria that wasnt made with merfolk in mind #and goes with it because really shes trying to do her job and serve an ambassador role and Whatever #its the same as her picking a gender basically at random. there wasnt a none of the above option that was offered nor applied #to her aaravi is basically a mercenary and thus her feelings are the same as a mercenary #shes not meaningfully different than anyone miranda already knows through bellanda #and aaravi has. complicated feelings about it.#aaravi has complicated feelings about all of this #miranda occupies a role like aaravi herself where she fails to fit into either side of a duality #but aaravi also has a rising guilt about her involvement that she has to explain to miranda in the first place #and all of this parallels miranda's role as princess too #about how little aaravi knows about her atrocities and what shes done and what it MEANS for her to be what she is #as someone who was never subjected to it and has no context for how bad it really is #theyre very much two sides of the same coin tbh #very alike each other but in opposite contexts #which tbh is part of why they work so well #its the combination of understanding and support and yet just enough challenge to stop them from buckling down harder #theyre able to call each other out because they know personally exactly whats happening in the others mind #which is also why i dont like ships that just wholeheartedly encourage aaravis whole everything without understanding whats going on #the same as why i hate ships and endings that have the other person just joining miranda as royalty #like. no. no these are not neutral endings here. you do not get to absolve anyones involvement here.

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knifesxedge · 2 months ago

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so i can find this again. finally bit the bullet and changed my kjs city names to differentiate them from my ocs so:

party — ash london coleman (ooo lady fagita)

kobra — james “jamie” eric coleman

jet — danielle “dani” camila reyes-yoon

ghoul — edward “eddie” maxwell mochizuki ii

#pi's personal #danger days #hcs #<- so i can find it #erica i literally don’t want to hear anything about it okay.#getting shot and killed for kinnie crimes #damien as a name was derived from father karras from the exorcist so why not give him a different gayboy horror movie name #my backup name for the siblings was blackwell but i prefer being a kinnie thank you #for party it was close between max and ash #max is cuter imo but that would make their deadname MAXINE. sorry to any maxines out there but we #do NOT like it.#thanks #i judged it in part based on what gender neutral names i would change mine to if i didn’t like the associations with my birthname #and i like max better but ALAS #unrelated but my parents already have trouble with my pronouns i feel like their brains would explode if i changed my name also #and yes ghoul is named after his dad. his family buys big into bli’s way of life with conformity and gender roles as a part of it #these names might actually be better than the old ones. with the exception of alex party will always kind of be alex to me #but these have more thought behind them. yippee #party’s struggles with not feeling feminine or pretty enough as a girl thus traumatizing them and feeding into their eating disorder etc etc #and their mother named them ASHLEY LONDON. YIKES GIRL #party seeing who’s first in their class and ooh it’s ‘edward maxwell mochizuki #the SECOND’. oh lah di dah. that might make them hate him even more tbqh. rich boy ass name #jamie is still jamie just a nickname for james instead of jamison #also i think party’s name changes from ashley -> asher when they transition in the city but they go by ash because. gender #if erie finds this post and hunts me down for sport it was nice knowing all of you

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butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway · 3 months ago

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#i have had the same reaction to the discourse around how gendered words like guys are in the english language for as long as i can remember #yeah sure cool if it's offensive to you to use it as a gender neutral phrase i won't do that around you #but i will also likely gradually start to avoid you because i am already hypervigilent about my speech to a degree i can barely tolerate #so if you're going to add to that process for me i have to actually enjoy our friendship enough to keep being that retraumatizing to myself #and for whatever reason that usually doesn't end up being true with people i know who find the word guys to be misgendering #i don't have a point or an opinion here just an observation that when we ask others to remove triggers on our behalf #it may take the work of managing those triggers off our shoulders #but it doesn't go away #it just gets moved #and you need to keep track of how many triggers you're asking another person to manage on your behalf or you risk #overextending your friends' love and care for you in relation to their ability to love and care for themselves #so maybe try to share the weight when you can rather than handing it off.

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callmecadian · 1 year ago

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concept: a Dom who chooses your gender for you (every day if it's a 24/7 dynamic or just for whatever scene you're doing)

like forced fem, except sometimes it's forced masc and sometimes it's "you don't get a gender today; you're just an object"

#this may not work for people who have a stronger internal sense of gender than i do but its v hot for meee #especially bc i dont actually care if im called ''good girl'' or ''good boy'' so i prefer more dehumanizing gender neutral alternatives #like ''good toy'' or ''good pet'' or whatever #(note that i already had that tag saved bc ive already discussed this exactly thing lol. anyway.)#both bc being dehumanized/objectified is Hot and also dealing with gender is just kind of a bother #but if we make a Thing out of it. well. that changes the game #nsft txt #nb nsft #queer nsft #cadian.txt

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autistic-shaiapouf · 6 months ago

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Hey nerds come check me out on artfight ESPECIALLY if you have an ultrakill oc

#just saying the name of the game should trigger tags so that being said. if you have an ultrakill oc send them my way #I'm already scrolling the tag on the actual site for ocs and i wanna get a whole bunch drawn #i want to draw YOUR cool little guys (gender neutral)#shai speaks #ultrakill #i want to keep up this year and i think the autism will fuel me. I Love This Game

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quibbs126 · 2 years ago

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Something I noticed about the Elemental’s Super Epics, at least with Sherbet and Stardust, is that they seem to have the same/similar origins to their Legendary counterpart (Sherbet and Frost Queen were both Frost Children, while Moonlight and Stardust were made from the same moonlight-infused dough)

Assuming that the other elemental Legendaries will be getting their own Super Epic, I imagine this trend of them sharing the same origins will continue

Granted we only have two examples, so that’s not a solid pattern, but it’s still 2/2, so you can’t deny the possibility

#cookie run #cookie run kingdom #legendary cookies #sherbet cookie #stardust cookie #frost queen cookie #moonlight cookie #speculation #theory #I suppose we’ll have to see whenever Fire Spirit Cookie’s Super Epic comes out if the trend holds #assuming that leak is true #also question is Dark Enchantress an elemental Legendary?#from what I understand in Ovenbreak she was considered one of them #but I don’t think so in Kingdom #I dunno I just want to know if she qualifies for a Little Guy (gender neutral)#I know she probably doesn’t need one considering the CoD and White Lily already being Cookies connected to her #but for the sake of curiosity #actually I just want to know what all their Little Guys would be #random stuff

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evilsanlang · 1 year ago

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the way all the invasive advertising in brazil relies on english buzzwords and the way younger lgbt people are forgoing our own rich terms for the sake of english words even in small countryside towns get this demonic language OUT of my country

#nar.txt #I give english gender-neutral terms a pass #but even still we're already coming up with our own alternatives #actually get this other demonic language (portuguese) out of this country too but that's a different discussion

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