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on the note of clothes not falling right or warping in the wash, the way you lay out your pattern matters. unfortunately, this often means that you cannot cut fabric as conservatively as you would like.
selvage: factory edge of fabric
warp: the fabric grain that runs parallel to the selvage; non-stretch fabrics have little to no stretch along this grain
weft: fabric grain perpendicular to selvage; non-stretch fabrics may have a small or moderate amount of stretch along the weft
bias: diagonal grain; i have yet to meet a fabric that doesn't have at least a small amount of stretch to the bias. maybe leather.
generally speaking, you want the warp of the fabric to follow the vertical line of your project; like the side seam of a pair of pants or the length of a sleeve.
if the cut of your clothes follow the bias or weft too much, they won't drape right and they'll stretch out weird. you see it a lot with fast fashion t-shirts; ever noticed your side seams start to sort of migrate to the front or back? can't quite get the shirt to lay perfectly flat when you're trying to fold it and you kinda feel like burning it instead? yeah that usually means it was cut poorly.
also: don't forget to change the needle of your sewing machine every so often, especially if you're working with light fabrics like silk. i usually know it's time when it snags a thread and throws me into a rage :) (sometimes you can fix that by just scratching it back; water can help)
i also recommend leather thimbles if you're like me and hate the little cup ones
Things I wish I had read in "beginner" sewing tutorials/people had told me before I started getting into sewing
You have to hem *everything* eventually. Hemming isn't optional. (If you don't hem your cloth, it will start to thread. There are exceptions to this, like felt, but most cloth will.)
The type of cloth you choose for your project matters very much. Your clothing won't "fall right" if it's not the kind of stretchy/heavy/stiff as the one the tutorial assumes you will use.
Some types of cloth are very chill about threading, some are very much not. Linen doesn't really give a fuck as long as you don't, like, throw it into the washing machine unhemmed (see below), whereas brocade yearns for entropy so, so much.
On that note: if you get new cloth: 1. hem its borders (or use a ripple stitch) 2. throw it in the washing machine on the setting that you plan to wash it going forward 3. iron it. You'll regret it, if you don't do it. If you don't hem, it'll thread. If you don't wash beforehand, the finished piece might warp in the first wash. If you don't iron it, it won't be nice and flat and all of your measuring and sewing will be off.
Sewing's first virtue is diligence, followed closely by patience. Measure three times before cutting. Check the symmetry every once in a while. If you can't concentrate anymore, stop. Yes, even if you're almost done.
The order in which you sew your garment's parts matters very much. Stick to the plan, but think ahead.
You'll probably be fine if you sew something on wrong - you can undo it with a seam ripper (get a seam ripper, they're cheap!)
You can use chalk to draw and write on the cloth.
Pick something made out of rectangles for your first project.
I recommend making something out of linen as a beginner project. It's nearly indestructible, barely threads and folds very neatly.
Collars are going to suck.
The sewing machine can't hurt you (probably). There is a guard for a reason and while the needle is very scary at first, if you do it right, your hands will be away from it at least 5 cm at any given time. Also the spoils of learning machine sewing are not to be underestimated. You will be SO fast.
I believe that's all - feel free to add unto it.
#i learned how to use a machine before i learned anything else#made a skirt where i did not pay attention to the grain lines of the fabric#yeah it got stretched out and weird#i saw some mention of machine finger guards in the notes#which is a great tool for ppl who are nervous about their machines!#it will help you gain confidence#i always took it off at school then work tho bc it just got in my fckn way lmao#leather thimbles and fingerless gloves are great for hand sewing if u get sweaty hands#sewing
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I think you're really awesome. You're gorgeous, you're funny, you have great taste in star wars memes. I wish I could be as cool and confident as you, but I'm honestly not a very good-looking girl. I know I can always work to improve myself, and I am trying, and honestly you're a bit of inspiration to keep me going. So thank you.
Honestly my love, I wish I was actually as cool and fabulous as I can come across on this blog! And I also wish I had the confidence to tell other people how much I adore and respect them in the way you have managed to do.
We all look at other people and see something we admire and aspire to, and i think that is such a beautiful thing, as long as we can find a way to do the same for ourselves!
I am so proud of the hours it takes me to put together a look for you guys, it shows my dedication! and I find my star wars posting very sexy of me.
#If you ever want to talk skin/hair/makeup/fashion/aesthetic thoughts or tips or questions or brainstorm then my inbox & Dms are always open#I love hearing/learning/talking about all of that stuff and you deserve to gain the confidence you seek!!#That would also help me gain confidence as well tbh bc i am so out of practice when it comes to talking to humans#Asks#I love when beautiful girls say beautiful things to meeeee#Ft todays makeup look.... Me as a purple flowery worm too sleepy to take pics....And Sabine at her favourite cafe where the staff know her#for your viewing pleasure
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my princess nonsense is being encouraged watch ouyt imabout to be eneaabled
OK WHATF ATHAT'S SO CUTE I HAD TO MAKE IT i know realistically there's little to no chance that rei DOESN'T know how to work heels 🤣 BUT IMAGINE.....ING.... YAKUMO GENTLY GUIDING REI IN HEELS, WEEKS BEFORE THE BIG GALA AND HAVING NONE OF HIS NORMAL FEAR OF PHYSICAL TOUCH BC HIS [TEACHER MODE] IS OVERRIDING HIS INSECURITY
#rei looking directly at the camera like why are you subjecting me to this. i do not need any of this. i know how to do it#rei wearing stilettos the size of your head so he becomes ur very tall bird goth gf#you know how yakumo gets when he instructs someone on how to cook something#he becomes confident and just tells ppl how to do stuff without his usual amount of stutter and secondguessing#i'm gonna pretend that after his stiletto training in misty vale he gains a TINY MOLECULE of confidence due to experience#like [i can help you if you've never done it before?]#honestly i can't imagine this scenario happening because i am so SURE that rei can walk in heels HAHAHA even tho nothing has proven that#SOMETHING COME PROVE ME WRONG SO MY DELUSIONS CAN SLIDE CLOSER TO POSSIBILITY#anyway even if rei didn't know how to wear heels#would he ever mention it? would yakumo ever learn of it?#rei would probably be all . i don't need to wear heels. they can't even see them under the dress. i'll wear my practical shoes#but if he can't get away with that and will be forced to wear heels at the party...#maybe he'll go [meh. i'll figure it out] and just not wear them until the day of the dance#at which point his feet will hurt after 20 minutes and for the whole night he takes any chance to sit down#rei can be frequently spotted on SOME surface SOMEWHERE in the palace. sitting all splayed out and uncaring of propriety#because he is in PAIN and these shoes are STUPID and why do people wear them for ANYTHING . Royals are so IMPRACTICAL#yakumo keeps trying to avoid heels for the dance because he doesn't want to be any taller than he already is#i bet there's a full convo about it between him and eiden#eiden trying to reassure him that if he wants to wear heels then he shouldn't let others' perception stop him from doing so#but if he genuinely doesn't want to wear them then that's ok too#eiden craning his neck up at yakumo in heels like you're my pretty princess 1-2 heads taller than me your height doesn't matter 🥰#i'm now torn. yakumo and rei both wearing heels now? in order to stay at similar heights?#or. rei starting out with heels. getting tired of them. going barefoot for the rest of the night lol#yakumo and rei still dancing in their ballgowns together but a much shorter rei leads a yakumo in heels#yes. yes this is the vision#yakurei#replies#nu carnival yakumo#nu carnival rei
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AU I made when I was REALLY fixated on Pokemon Violet where I just put everyone in the fucking academy as transfer or exchange students. Originally it was just the SuMo squad and I had some comics (unfinished) about it, interactions between everyone, ect! Then I got distracted and months later I pick up White 2 and well. Back on my bullshit LMFAOOO 🫡
Unfortunately Lillie and Gladion look much better in person, did not show up on camera well 🥲
All of this is just proof of concept anyway!! Espppp trying to get a feel for color palettes and having fun pushing the uniform rules to their limits LMFAO, and also wanting to show how a character wears a uniform can also be a reflection of themselves!
#pokemon#ALSO MADE THIS AU BEFORE I KNEW ABOUT THE DLC AND HOW WE'RE GONNA BE EXCHANGE STUDENTS (EXCITING)#video games appeal to sick male fantasy such as. *squints at notes* having friends and a good time in school#i need ALLL OF THEM to be friends SO FUCKING BAAAD#like beyond the obvious arven/lillie/gladion friendship/solidarity/processing trauma ect (which i do have concepts for btw)#i NEED arven and hau to be best friends actually. like fucking yesterday.#AND nemona/gladion and now hugh as endless pursuit of strength buddies. nemona is SO EXCITED ABOUT IT#nemona is ALSO VERY enthusiastic about helping lillie gain confidence as a trainer as well!!! much like how she was w protag#also gladion/penny wolf t-shirt kid solidarity. walked the mile. are you listening to me.#and obviously for years now i've been wanting a hugh/gladion friendship like come on!!!!!!!#roz/rosa can fit in anywhere tbh i just want them here. also moon is canon in the au but idk what they're up to. somewhere abroad.#rival hugh#trainer rosa#pokemon lillie#gladion#hau#arven#nemona#trainer penny#my art
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COUGH i keep looking at beginners looks at reading music cause I ain't walking in choir like a moron-
#Sigh +I you have help PLEASE#I GOTTA LEARN SOMEHOW#Looking at a guide rn :>#Omg singing ...tbh I've gained confidence so I believe in myself >:]#To sing in crowds that is#Just thoughts
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If you’re plus sized and have a hard time feeling comfortable and confident in your body, I strongly recommended following some plus sized folks with NSFW. Obvi if you’re not comfortable with that, I totally understand but like even just people who post lewds and selfies will make a huge difference.
Like I follow quite a few and it’s like “that person is hot, and they have a similar body to me, so therefore my body is also bangin’” like I feel like seeing bodies like yours can be just so cathartic and validating
#personal#okay to rb#absolutely a game changer#it has helped me feel so much more confident#especially as a femme person like it’s amazing#but I can imagine this would be helpful for anyone#there are also plenty of plus sized folks out here who are getting funky with their gender#which can be validating in a whole new way#plus sized bodies are hot this is a fact#were you thinner before and have gained weight for any reason?#you are still hot regardless and you do not need to lose weight to be attractive#I promise you#this is coming from someone who has been recovering from an ED#and an obsession with my body that literally started when I was like 4 or 5
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like it feels . Strange when you can tell the writers are Aiming For Straight Men? also i like romance in my games and in the ones i've played where you can pick between a male and female protagonist it feels like There's A Tangible Difference in how female love interests and male love interests are written and because. heterosexuality assumed, i play female protags for male love interests because female love interests are written so weird
oooh yeah i can see where you're coming from. god. like even though you can have platonic routes with the female members of ur party in persona it always seems like it's leading towards romance?????? like. fucken HARU. god. haru i love you but please (if you've never seen her s-link when you get to the one where you can choose to romance her or not if you reject her she gets all sad and it kinda makes you feel guilty for??? not wanting to romance her???)
like its So weird.......
#at least p3re made it so you don't have to romance every girl anymore............. i was so confused why every girl was gettin mad at me#when i was just hanging with chihiro bc i wanted to help her gain confidence :( and then i learned that if you finish a girl's s-link#in base game or FES edition of p3. you. are forced to romance them?????????????? like. i just wanted 2 help her..............
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i send my friend suggestions of tourist places to see in his new country (his contract was extended, lucky him!) or messages about friend of friends i have living there that he could maybe meet for fellow americans to talk to, and his response is always that he doesnt have time. and not in that exaggerated way that people do to seem busy. but in that bone tired way i recognize from him here in LA, that i recognize in myself.
#jrnlsht#i watch the lives of my friends who have Made It on social media and its like looking through glass into another world i cant relate to#theyre so happy and confident and successful and its beautiful#you know whats a funny thing about LA#so many people on the on*line da*ting apps put *successful* on their list of requirements in the people they want to date#like theres a bar of entry and if you haven't reached a certain goal post like... blue check marks on your social media or a level of wealt#then they arent even going to want to get to know you#and its so antithetical to how i was raised i cant even comprehend#and yet i see it happening to my own relationships#in pittsburgh i had friends from literally ALL walks of life from people who made even less money than me to comfortable to fairly wealthy#here my friends are almost entirely of one professional class#and i have been observing how my hyper wealthy friends self select in who they interact with to maintain this wealthy bubble around them#i dont think it's entirely intentional but its also not not intentional if you know what i mean#anyway its one of the reasons i fucking loved the talk on saturday oh my god those two were a breath of fresh air i needed so much#these smart genius dudes built their own life and instead of constantly looking up for more and more personal gain#they paused and looked at the people still desperately trying to rise#and were like if i have gotten this far why cant i help you do it too and then they DID IT they actually started helping#i think that is the true meaning of success
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I reeeeaaaallly really like Brave Bernadetta....finally they didn't do my beloved Bernie dirty....
#it helps that Bernie does genuinely gain a bit more confidence and self esteem post-timeskip#but I've been not super psyched about any of her school-phase alts in FEH so far#especially the most recent one with Goldmary because they literally put her there JUST to make her uncomfortable#which imo is bad enough on it's own but then you add the fact that it's a swimsuit alt#which. to me is extra yucky?? like putting a teenager in a swimsuit with someone who wants her to show off#and meanwhile she's extremely uncomfortable the whole time??? gross. gross gross gross#anyway. love Bernie to death and I'm rly happy with what they've shown of her brave alt#Bernadetta is my beloved little anxiety noodle who is so so traumatized#and I'm really glad that they're not playing on that SO hard this time#cause like. obviously she IS extremely anxious#but playing it for laughs every time when it's born from the severe abuse she's suffered from her parents is#I don't like it. Bernie deserves better#Bernadetta Von Varley#Fire Emblem //#FEH //
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Thinking about Brooke again
#HMMMMMM SO MANY SO MANY THOUGHTS#Cartoon Brooke was WASTED#she was a GLORIOUS MCGUFFIN#she did the sAME THING IN BOTH SPECIALS SHE WAS A MAJOR PART OF AND SHE DID NOT HAVE ANY CHARACTER GROWTH OR ANYTHING AT ALL#BUT WE'RE SUPPOSED TO BELIEVE SHE DID#SHE COULD HAVE HAD A MUCH MORE INTERESTING CHARACTER ARC IN WAY TOO WONDERLAND#HAVE HER FACE REPRICUSSIONS!!!! HAVE HER BE AFRAID TO HELP AGAIN BUT HAVE HER BE UNABLE TO DENY HELPING BECAUSE SHE LOVES THESE PEOPLE!!!#THEY TRIED. THEY TRIED SO HARD WHEN BROOKE DENIED HELPING THEM FOR .5 SECONDS#''NaRrAtOr'S hAvE rUlEs ToO'' YEA RULES YOU DIDN'T CARE ABOUT BREAKING IN THE LAST SPECIAL AND LIKE TWO EPISODES AGO IN THE SAME SPECIAL#AND YOU CLEARLY HAVE NO PROBLEM BREAKING THEM FIVE SECONDS LATER#GIVE BROOKE THE ARC SHE DESERVES YOU COWARDS#THE WAY I SEE IT YOU COULD GO TWO ROUTES WITH BROOKE AFTER SPRING UNSPRUNG#ONE IS BASICALLY JUST THE BROOKE REFUSES TO GET PUNISHED ROUTE WHERE SHE RUNS AWAY AND FUCKS SHIT UP#AND IN THE OTHER BROOKE IS WAY TOO AFRAID TO GET PUNISHED AGAIN AND WITH THE COMBO OF HER PARENTS BEING UNABLE TO HELP HER NARRATE SHE JUST#FEELS LOST AND AFRAID BECAUSE SHE NEVER HAD A SOLO NARRATION AND SHE GAINS MORE CONFIDENCE IN HER ABILITIES THE MORE SHE GOES ON#SHE WAS SCARED OF HER FIRST SOLO NARRATION IN THE BOOK#SHE WAS EXCITED AND AFRAID#SHOW HER BEING AFRAID!!!!#SHE WAS SOOO PUMPED AND EXCITED AND ANTSY AND QUICK TO JUMP THE GUN IN THE LAST SPECIAL LET WHATEVER PUNISHMENT SHE FACED BRING HER DOWN#TO A POINT WHERE SHE'S TOO AFRAID TO EVEN OPEN HER MOUTH TO SAY THAT THERE'S A COUP#TO EVEN MENTION IT#LET HER PARENTS BE THERE TO KEEP HER IN CHECK AT FIRST TO MAKE SURE SHE DOESN'T BREAK THE RULES AGAIN#LET HER BE UNDER JUST SOOO MUCH PRESSURE#AND ONCE THEY'RE GONE SHE CAN SHED HERSELF OF HER FEARS AND INSECURITIES THE LONGER SHE GOES ON NARRATING ALONE#AAAA#ever after high#eah#brooke page#i am off the deep end
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Copper Queen, meet the Copper King
Read on Ao3!
False woke up in a pile of sand.
She wasn't sure if she was surprised by that or not, given the recent happenings. False forced her eyes open and stared up at the clear blue sky, the bright sun still high. At least that meant she hadn't been out long, or so she assumed.
Groaning, False pushed herself up and looked around herself. Apparently, it was not, in fact, a pile of sand. It was a desert. Wide and seemingly never ending, everywhere False looked was just more and more sandy hills. Vultures cawed overhead and she took that as her cue to get up and move.
Stumbling to her feet, she picked a direction -one that was, for some reason, drawing her in- and started to walk.
As she did so, she thought. The last thing she remembered was the shock that shook the world, the dozen or so names that had popped into the world chat, and a rush of adrenaline. And then, just as suddenly, she was here, alone in a desert.
False frowned and dug through her inventory and pockets hoping to find something. There was nothing in her inventory, not even any of the potions she always kept on her, but she did still have her communicator. Sighing in relief, she popped it open and read through it. The most recent was, obviously, the notification that she joined the game.
She paused quickly, glancing around her. Was this spawn? The group she knew decorated their spawn, yet the area around her was barren. And, by a quick scroll through the rest of the chat, this world was not. It was also filled with the group she had been… well, not friendly with. Acquainted with probably worked.
So, to review, False was in a desert with no memory on how she got there, not in the same world but with the same people, and had nothing to her name except her com.
Could it get any worse?
About an hour later, as she fought off the third pillager group she had run into, False learned to regret those words because yes, it could get worse. Much worse.
False ducked and rolled as a pillager took a swing at her. Sand went flying everywhere, including her eyes, and she had to waste precious few seconds to scrub at her eyes.
Hearing footsteps, False jumped to the side, catching herself with a hand to keep from plummeting into the sand again. She seemed to have jumped just in time as, in the spot she had been occupying, an axe was embedded in the sand.
False bit out a curse and lunged for the axe the same time the pillager did, wrestling with the mob to take the weapon into her own hands. Luckily, False's strength won and she got claim over the weapon.
With a swing, she chopped through the pillager's arm with surprising ease. The mob screamed and backed away, but its buddies rapidly approached in defense of it.
False quickly stood up, axe held tight in her hands, and growled at them. One of the braver ones -or, in her opinion, stupider- rushed forward with a snarl. False, raised the axe higher and charged in with a yell.
An arrow shot through the air. False skidded to a stop, watching as the arrow flew and struck the pillager in the forehead. Nothing moved for a moment. Then, the pillager fell to the ground, liveless, and exploded into dust. False took the risk and turned to try to spot whoever just saved her.
A few feet away, already notching another arrow, was a man who looked startlingly like the historian of the Ancient Capitol. Pixlriffs. Though, not quite.
False didn't get a chance to fully take in the stranger who looked like her… trading ally. Another pillager ran forward, the other two quickly followed. Strange Man shot arrow after arrow at the mobs as False ducked down and swiped at the pillagers' legs with her axe.
An arrow, one with clear hostile intent, shot an inch away from her cheek. False froze. Whipping around, False stared up at the outpost to see another pillager aiming its crossbow at her. She crouched down, ready to roll out of the way, when Strange Man saved her once again and killed the pillager with another perfectly aimed arrow.
Shoulders dropping and axe slipping out of her hands, False turned toward Strange Man and was only slightly surprised -mostly startled- to see him closing the distance between them, curiosity sparkling in his eyes. Another similarity to Pixlriffs besides his looks.
"Are you lost?" Strange Man asked with an easy smile. "Are you from Mythland or the Grimlands? You must be far from home, if that's the case."
Mythland? Grimlands? False furrowed her brow in confusion as she continued to stare at the awfully cheerful person before her. She knew she wasn't familiar with the other's empires, but surely she would've known their names.
Realizing she had yet to answer Strange Man, False forced a laugh and said, "Uh, no. I'm not from there, but, yes. I am very far from home. It would seem. I'm sorry- who are you?"
Strange Man's expression softened. He held out his hand and said, "I'm Pixlriffs, the Vigilkeeper." False was going to scream. "And who might you be?"
"I- um," forcing down the scream, False choked out, "False. I'm False. I think."
"Well, False. How about we get you out of this sun and something to eat?"
False, despite her general unease, readily agreed.
False sighed as she sat down on the centerpiece of the city, a sun hat keeping her shaded and a cold potion of strength held in her hands. Now that she was safe-ish and no longer running the risk of overheating, she had more time to think.
She took a sip of the potion and glanced over to where Strange-Pixlriffs was talking with a ginger man with dragon-like wings. This Pixlriffs acted the same, though was a bit less willing to bump shoulders like the Pixlriffs False knew. Something similar could be said about his looks; while his appearance was nearly identical, this Pixlriffs had less gray hair. Small differences, but noticeable.
This city, the one Pixlriffs had mentioned ruling over, was also certainly not the Ancient Capitol. Sure, it looked ancient, but it was bustling with people and music and life. A stark contrast to the empty Capitol which was silent save for occasional footsteps and bird calls.
It all put False on edge. Which, if she was being fair, wasn't that hard to do. Her point still stood.
Strange-Pixlriffs walked over to her, another potion in his hands. He handed it to her with a smile and a laugh, "You seem quite suspicious of me."
False's face lit up with an embarrassed blush. She had thought she had been subtle, but apparently not. Taking the offered potion, she cleared her throat and mumbled, "You remind me of someone I knew."
"Oh?" Strange-Pixl inquired. Instead of doing what she was, sitting on the candled centerpiece, he dropped to the ground.
"Yeah, he…" how much was False willing to share? This could all be one elaborate trap. It could be a dream or vivid hallucination. But, if the man wanted to hurt her, he would've done it already, right? False took a deep breath. "He looked like you. A little older, though."
Strange-Pixlriffs huffed, taking the two empty potion bottles from False, "I'll take that as a compliment."
"He's a historian. Doesn't quite fit, however. He brought back dodos, so necromancer is probably a better term. It fits considering he's trying to revive a dead city."
"Well that's exciting."
False nodded with a hint of a smile. For a reason she couldn't place, being able to talk freely with seemingly no possible reproductions loosened something. "He and a few of the others have helped me out at my place. It's not much, but I'm working on it. There still the issue of my iron farm-"
False may be stuck in some strange place with people who seem like her friends but aren't, but she felt inexplicably safe, and for now, until she could get back home, that was enough.
#thank you cougar38 on ao3 for helping me find the fanart by dailyfalse that inspired this. i owe you my life#pixlriffs#falsesymmetry#my fics#slowly gaining confidence in posting these look at that!#anyways them <3
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and what if i post a ficlet here. what then
note; its set to AO3 users only!!
tw; this piece is heavy!! keep that in mind and be careful when you read!!
#fnaf#fnaf dca#fnaf daycare attendant#dca fandom#grayy writes#NEW GRAYY TAG?!?!? couldve never imagined /j#i DO plan to write more!! i just finally got the courage to actually. post my work#fnaf sun#fnaf eclipse#fnaf ruin spoilers#ruin spoilers#i love sun but i have to bully him on a daily#i also have to show the toxicity of the DCA's relationship to itself. if no one else does then goddamnit i will#im slowly gaining confidence!! slowly but its gaining either way which is so very special to me#thank you to everyone that gives it a read!! you're helping me so much on the road to higher confidence in myself <3
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yk i was working on a post where i tried to guess the next relations event after the kurumi and miiko relations but ig i was gonna be wrong either way bc there wasnt going to be any relations after that lmfao 🥲
#crow talks#d4dj#d4dj groovy mix#lol.....#i'll just say my guess in the tags....#since this is going by unit and we already got a peaky rondo hapiara photon and lyrilily ones the next one wouldve been M4 (RIP M4 fans...)#it seems to me they were saving the really important relationships for the other units or guys we already saw get close so it wouldve been-#(probably) dalia and rika relations or a marika and saori one#bc we know how dalia and rika met (road to d4fes) and their relationship (kinda of) so we might've learned about their older brothers.#something about rika's older brother and how his illness affected younger rika and dalia's brother with how badly he wants to be a chef--#but is struggling bc he has something missing he cant see but his father can.#or maybe we can finally learn more abt rika's savior complex and dalia's self-consciousness about her eyes. maybe those can connect.#marika saori relations..... hmmm. a bit hard but my guess is:#since some of the relations events (of course) build off info from the last one marika might be trying to audition for a role in a film bc-#she told towa abt it and how she wants to be more confident and cool like..... rika.#she kind of opens up to saori about how unconfident she is with acting and saori helps her out by acting with her. kind of gay thing ensues#what im saying is something similar to the aoi and haruna relations but it's another play/movie and both of them gain confidence#that or it would've been marika rika relations and a saori dalia relations hm.#idk is this an interesting relations premise? you tell me.
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Reading through the nice tags people have left on my art never fails to make me smile
#thank you everyone!#i always read every single one#and while feedback is not why i draw#it has helped me gain a lot of confidence with my art#i started playing flight rising during a massive burnout#and now i've drawn more than in those years combined
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The thing about writing advice is that generally the people who insist the hardest that "you HAVE to listen to writing advice or else you're just some stupid kid/loser who will never get better and thinks they're better than everyone else" are the ones that are mainly into writing critique to huff their own farts and feel as if they're intellectually superior, or think that babbling out some sort of half-assed vaguely analytical critique actually counts as critique.
In fact, I might even venture to say that writers (particularly ones who are young and/or only doing it for fun) shouldn't worry about asking for criticism at all should simply write as much and as often as possible, because when you're young and passionate and inexperienced the best way to learn is to just keep practicing again and again, not to get your hopes squashed by a bunch of pretentious strangers online giving you "critique" that may or may not be actually good.
And if/when you do decide to take criticism on your writing, please for the love of all that's holy take criticism from people that you know, and those people should be generally intelligent, insightful, creative, and kind. Can't stress enough that getting bad critique from a bunch of strangers who barely know you or your work <<<<<<<<<<< getting critique from one or three trusted people (friends, beta readers, teachers, professors, etc) who actually have your interests at heart and know what kind of writer you want to be.
#squiggposting#i think ultimately only you will know whether the criticism you receive is good or bad#and the ability to separate helpful feedback from unhelpful feedback is something that you gain#once you've written enough to understand your own style goals etc for writing#i would also like to add that it's also possible for people to be good at like analyzing stories but not so good at delivering feedback#if you have someone who you show your writing to who's like that#it might be worth sitting down and explaining to them what kind of feedback you want or like. specify which things you want to work on#getting critique of your writing (or art) shouldn't just be you sitting meekly accepting every criticism you get#it's a reciprocal process in which you have to respect the critics but they also have to respect YOU#and a process which requires you to have a strong sense of self and confidence in your writing#so that YOU can decide which feedback is helpful or not#JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE CRITIQUES YOUR WRITING DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW THEIR ADVICE EVEN IF YOU ASKED FOR CONCRIT#not sure what brought this on exactly besides the previous reblog maybe
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Having a very shitty day after yesterday, will probably just focus on the doodles and don't do anything more today ✌️ but that depends on how I'll feel later
So, sorry if I don't end up replying to many asks today
#thylacines can talk#Trying not to get other people's comments get to me but you know how it is. Especially if it's something I was already self-conscious about#Feeling like I got all the momentum swept from under me. Like somebody just pushed a block onto my path#I will still continue posting. Because it makes me happy and I know it might make others happy and help them gain confidence to post what#they love. If nothing more I will do it to spite my own inner critic.#Idk why I'm talking about this here I guess just like. If you read this far don't let other peoples opinions and even your own insecurities#stop you from doing what you love. I want to be completely transparent that even if I try to stay positive and preach cringe culture is#dead I still feel self conscious about these things and it's alright if you do too. It still shouldn't stop you from doing what you love#don't let yourself or others prevent you from experiencing little joys in your life
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