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Jins get their cinnabar dot as soon as they are babies, it seems.
Which is ok, since they can’t really take it off, or generally mess with it.
But at what age do Lans get their headband?
#headbands are so important#but you wouldn't trust it to a baby#and CERTAINLY not a toddler#so when?#silly child of 6?#Idiot kid of 9?#it varies from child to child?#maaaybe#the untamed#mo dao zu shi#mdzs#cql#lan clan
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Warriors of the Mind
aka Nadia and Mama’s Boy Scar
#hhau#vex gtws#hhau nadia#yes the caption is from epic. ange infected me#and I know the song doesn’t 100% fir them but it’s what inspired this sooooo#fit*#link draws#scar is the favorite child of the commune shhhh#he and nadia are very similar#also his wings are BIG#we decided that#the size can kinda vary depending on the strength of their magic in the moment#but Scars are naturally very large
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Ngl definitely thinking back to the cartoon-making chapter now we know that Twilight doesn't realise studying/pursuit of knowledge can be fun. No wonder the cartoon he made sucked. He was approaching it purely from the educational angle with zero idea of the entertainment aspect that makes edutainment programming effective.
It's not that he was really bad at writing the fun parts. He plain didn't realise there were meant to be any in the first place for it to work.
Copying the aesthetics with no understanding of what was underneath.
#like yeah you could tell the first time around he had all his priorities wrong but with the added context from the latest chapters#you realise just how ridiculously off base he was#spy x family#sxf manga spoilers#anyway something about how he's tried to adapt his teachings for anya to some extent but a mix of anya's upbringing + his own has stymied#this. anya doesn't do well with 'traditional' study methods + has associations with those but also loid thinks what worked for him could#work for her. and he's (as he spells out) learnt purely for survival. it's a very different situation + anya doesn't /have/ to.#but loid has tried. yuri has tried. both with varying levels of success for all their missing info on anya. until finally siggy's approach.#sth sth community to raise a child but also different teaching styles but also being willing to meet on anya's level.#making positive associations with learning rather than the negative ones everyone else has
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Just had the sleep-deprived idea of combining my Cryptid Batfam Au with @phoenixcatch7 's Possessed Doll Au into a combo au, some distant timeline where the two combine and meld into one thing.
Honestly would be slightly body horror probably, maybe with Bruce starting with building wings and then it... escalates. There's a reason that people don't go down in the caves under Gotham, and Bruce is incredibly lucky that It welcomes him. Perhaps welcomes him too much, what with it seeming to build him another body each time he gets injured, even if it's just bruising. Not to mention that another is forming when he takes Dick in, and then another when Barbara joins them.
There's something not quite the same the first time he wakes up in a body that is his but not, something organic but not. Testing on it is fine, small tests that is, anything larger and his head starts to pound and ring. It's easier to just accept the shadows' gifts than question it.
Honestly I like to think the body is something between inorganic and organic, like veins of flesh and fur wrapped around bones and metal. Like a flesh puppet of sorts, starts all skeletal and mostly metal and wood but the veins of black and red start to grow over time as the whispers about the Bat spread.
Honestly I also like to think it's more animalistic than the original possessed doll au, the wood easily mistaken for things like chitin, especially with the segmentations. Combine the chest cavity with the harness that the kids cling to, and you have a back cavity lol. The 'Spine' seemingly splitting open to hide things inside. Bruce probably does have clothing for the body, but I wanted to figure out the general body first lol.
#remind me to elaborate later#what's out there au#possessed doll au#possessed puppet au#batman au#cryptid batman#cryptid batfam#The Caves: look at this tiny child that fell in and is so scared <3#The Caves when Bruce is an adult: Aw look he's being scary now how adorable <3#The Caves: The baby is adorable and has adopted another baby to be terrifying together <3<3#The Caves: They deserve a gift for trying so hard <3<3<3#Bruce just building wings:#The Caves: *Gasp* We should give him a pair in both forms for being such a good little guardian#Bruce waking up in the second body the first time:#Bruce:#Bruce: ALFREEEED#The kids think it's awesome (especially since they're growing up around it)#Well if it's more of the Genesis timeline where they all start as kids varying from like 5 to 12 when they join the family lol#Damian probably looks/feels Off even in human form if he was made via stolen blood#He's already something between the two bodies but was too human for the League's wants since the puppet bodies were gifts from the Caves#They don't like their shit getting stolen lol and Bruce is their favorite child who brought them even *more* children#Honestly It might decide to alter their human bodies too at some point#I mean in the base cryptidverse au the fam already made Jarro a mech suit for a civilian ID and vigilante work lol#Tumblr don't eat my tags challenge#If it's alright with Phoenix of course lol#No idea what to call this Au but if u have any ideas I am open lol
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me at my bookstore job to the 27th young adult straight edgy fantasy romance to come in this month
#full disclosure in case this blows up somehow because of booktok or something - IT'S NOT JUST BOOKTOK CRITICISM OR HET ROMANCE CRITICISM#this is me getting annoyed about the fact that the genre itself is oversaturated with too many of the same cookie cutter plot#girl in magic land meets guy and they hate each other but they don't really!!! but their love grows over the tides of the kingdom's war.....#<- THIS PLOT RIGHT HERE. I'VE SEEN FIVE SEPARATE AUTHORS DO THIS#and again - to clarify - it is NOT just booktok with this oversaturation issue#regular fiction is oversaturated with WW2/victorian era romance dramas - where the plot is good! but then A GUY SHOWS UP#AND THE WOMAN MUST MAKE A CHOICE..... TO SUPPORT HER CHILD OR LEAVE BEHIND HER OLD LIFE etc etc WE GET IT. FUCK.#and it's not just fiction too!!! the charts are oversaturated with crime novels in general right now#granted - most of them are good and try to be original - however there's just too many in the main chart#i won't list all of them to prevent drama - but in two past 'six new chart topper' deals - four were crime#and they haven't sold well. even bringing in popular authors didn't help them sell well#there needs to be a shake up. i don't want to be elitish or snobbish - PEOPLE CAN 100% WRITE WHAT THEY WANT#everyone's art is unique and beautiful because they did it#and they have the freedom to do so#but writers nowadays are falling too much into keeping with trends that it's actively tiring out consistent readers#write your fantasy novel - but lean into the worldbuilding. write your world war novel - but elaborate outside the characters.#write your fiction or crime - but try to vary up the beats of the plot to surprise readers more#stop trying to cater to what you l they want and what works - try and surprise them with something new and unexpected.#anyways rant over. i can talk about this for ages but i won't. but i could#spark talks about nothing of relevance#clip from the shadow the hedgehog rtfd 👍 thank you devil. from bible.
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and another thing about vocal synth fans: we will always find some adult male voicebank to turn into a funny little clown for our amusement. some guy to communally bully in our talkloids, the miserable straightman to the shenanigans, the sad little freak punchline to our jokes. it happened to kaito. it happened to gakupo. it happened genbu. it even happened a bit to kevin (although he seems to have looped around somehow). and it will happen to you too, frimomen. it will happen to you too.
#hell its already begun. or maybe he was born for this role. his origins being that of which they are#the other day i saw a favourite meal announcing dragon parody 'list of past girlfriends' with frimomen#and of course the joke was him going silent for the listing part <3 a classic but it still got me LOL#i dont know why we need to do this. i feel it too though. i see a grown ass man vocal synth and im like I NEED to make him swagless#child and teen vocal synths are mostly safe from our wrath (although we've definitely done a good bit of len bullying)#but the second i see a guy who pays his taxes i NEED to make fun of him <3 <3 <3#a vocal synth tradition. its a tradition#i dunno i was kinda thinking about genbus characterization and how in the japanese fanbase he kind of varies from what ive seen#sometimes hes a nice and calm guy with a tsundere edge. sometimes hes a goofy loud straightman to shenanigans#but overwhelmingly in the english speaking world in talkloids we turn him into this high energy beloved little freak LOL#and i love all characterizations. my own personal version is kind of all combined LOL hes friendly but a little too hype#to me he seems chill at first but is like 0-100 in like seconds <3 like his voicebank <3 <3 <3 i think he feels every emotion so so much#and absolutely suited to the straightman to hijinks role with his grumpier edge when hes embarassed#i also sometimes like to give him a bit of an unearned ego sometimes because of voicebank deprecation#hes clunky but he was the first!!! he was the first!!! hes not owned!!!! he slowly turns into a corncob#thats another characterization that mostly comes from the english speaking side LOL#TO ME genbu is like if ll nico was trying to put on a nice calm guy exterior instead of a cutesy idol exterior#which might be why genbu's becoming my favourite LOL nico was always my fav.....#going back to our favourite little guys to bully i will say nowadays kaito isnt bullied as much. because we have gakupo to bully instead#the bullying can pass on. frimomen. it can be inherited frimomen. watch out frimomen
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#revolutionary girl utena#rgu#rgu akio#akio ohtori#fan art#rgu anthy#anthy himemiya#rgu dios#You know how Akios color switch from white when he was Dios to red is also part of his angel/god to devil theme#And Anthys been dressed in all red ever since she was a child and then later on as the rose bride as well#Perhaps as a symbol of Anthy 'corrupting' or 'staining' Akio#As well as a constant commemoration of sin#And with the whole bride thing it also just reminds me of that one guy who wanted his wife to wear a red dress to their wedding#because she was 'impure' (hadsex before the wedding)#But the red has never been absent from Dios Design#Note the Cape#In all likelihood Anthy's color has only been red because of Dios#I mean when she leaves by all means it would make sense for her to be wearing her own colors but she isn't wearing red#But that's obviously not the whole of it#Color in rgu is so varied and vast in meaning that this is just like a small thing on the corner of a circle
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In typical fashion for me, I have fallen into AU hell for Doctor Who and I am really living it up over here
#this is me begging someone to ask me about one of them#i would write them but they always ramble away from me#read: my bad wolf rewrite fic of pretty much everythibg and also my modern/human au fic#which features all the incarnations of the Doctor#a fifth doctor au where Adric Nyssa and Tegan are all like 8-12 and it Isn't Fluffy#there's also a Deca fic au I came up with where Theta ends up in the Celestial Toymaker's domain alone and doesn't return#and the aftermath of that#and a fifth doctor era au where Adric Nyssa and Tegan are like 8 - 12#and the doctor manages to not be a father to any of them#like unironically everyone keeps assuming it and he's like... I'm desperately trying to get these people somewhere safe#when Turlough turns up he's like exactky the same and is like...those are children#and the doctor is like...I am *trying* to get rid of them...to varying degrees of annoyance from the three of them#there's also an au I have where the creation of Jenny goes wrong and she's a very weird child#and also that that episode happens near the beginning of series 2#also the experiment au and the sibling au two human aus that focus on various incarnations of the doctor#my brain does not stop thinking up these things#Doctor Who#Fae Rambles Into The Void
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Thought about making a ghost town au jason design but kinda bluescreened when I realized he wouldn't be a doll tbh
#ghost town is a story if mine ^v^! its mostly just design fun#and yeah ghost doll isn't a fit for jason. well maybe it could depend on time when/how he died#but both of his proper deaths ive seen he wouldn't make a doll ghost. maybe a broken or cracked doll#he gets close. so i can see it happening for him depending#doll ghostss are people who often hide their own feelings and will try to make themselves better or more appealing for others#often at the harm and loss of themselves#theres also an element of being something to display to it#so like. all of my doll aus#thinking about his batarang death. DEFINITELY a ghost thatd have their injury clear#cant tell if i want him actually drenched in blood or like. stylized blood. like that pearl necklace#kinda want him in a suit of armor tbh. for funsies. im varying between that or just his normal self#well actually i fully believe a post utrh death jason would look like his child self. but shhh we're exploring other avenues right now#i cant WAIT to finish my jason todd design so i can start dressing him up hehe#unfortunately figuring out just like. normal designs. is harder for me than au outfits so its taking me a bit -~-#and/or doll ghosts can be from incredibly passive people bc that is like attached to my previous explanations. squares and rectangles tho#not related to jason
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I've found that, when interacting with others (or myself), it's useful to consider the lessons I'd want to teach a growing child.
If a child makes a mistake, I wouldn't want them to feel shame. I wouldn't yell at them, humiliate them, or in any way indicate to them that their mistake is a reflection of their worth or of who they are as a person.
Instead, I'd want them to associate the process with love and joy. If they say something that hurts someone's feelings, or otherwise ostracizes someone in some way, I'd compassionately explain to them. Ideally, they'd walk away knowing why they said / did it in the first place, how to handle similar situations in the future, and would accept the consequences (e.g. if a friend no longer wanted to hang out with them).
While the consequences may sometimes be painful, I'd do my best to instill in them that mistakes are human and natural, and that the process of learning from these mistakes is an opportunity to improve connections with others and express love.
I have a tendency towards excessive guilt. Memories in which I've said / done something ignorant or hurtful are infused with this guilt and shame- but ideally, I'd feel a sense of love and peace, and perhaps happiness, when looking back on them. Because they were moments of growth, moments I learned how to be more compassionate (even if the actual learning came years later).
So I'll put this out into the void:
When you make a mistake, that is not a reflection of you as a person. It is a moment in time, a moment which was informed by your past experiences. Humans are not static labels, or monsters in an RPG game. We are social creatures who live and learn and react and grow and experience and love. Be gentle with yourself and move forward knowing you're doing so in accordance with your values.
#parenting#internet culture#self compassion#i'd also want to teach them critical thought of course - there are varying ideas of what constitutes mistakes or ignorance or harm#and that's a messy subject which is often a challenge to teach and is beyond the scope of this post but it's important#to avoid being subject to manipulation or becoming reactionary#but anyways#to clarify something in the tags here: it's okay of course to feel bad. that's a normal response. but it's not necessary. and a culture of#shaming people for their mistakes isn't helpful in the same ways it isn't helpful to do that to a child. people become defensive and/or#self-hating. divisive and reactionary and more easily manipulated. fearful and ashamed and avoidant. afraid of disagreements or of trying#anything new. increased all-or-nothing thinking and blowing things out of proportion. it just doesn't help in the long run#sometimes when someone says something i want to express hatred and mockery towards; i think of my trans friend who's full of light and love#and compassion. who came from a smaller more conservative community and used to have some of those same stances (and may still hold some of#those feelings/anxieties). and i remember that i can be firm on my boundaries and spread love and acceptance and safety *without* spewing#vitriol at anyone who makes even a minor mistake. i want people who were impacted by oppression and bias to have space to grow and#find safe communities and be able to think for themselves. i dont want to push them away or be another person in their life screaming at#them. there's always a person behind the screen.#like that doesnt mean i have to interact with them. in fact in most cases it's better to step away. and there are still unsafe people out#there- but yelling at them won't do any good either. saw a tip to focus on the people you want to help rather than the opposition#and that's been super helpful for me
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Anyone else see The Spider at the ass crack of dawn every morning but only when opening your right eye or is that just me?
#this is a joke i know it's a hallucination#i just. need to say something where people can laugh with me instead of being concerned#it only happens when i wake up between like 5 and 6am and it varies from tiny to huge#this morning it looked ai generated and it's ass was yellow and almost bejeweled in how it looked#it's always a weird experience#cause like i know it's not real and i try to touch it to make sure#and I'm not unsettled like i am by a real one#and if i took the spiritual part of my pagan practice more seriously i might take it as a sign#but i know psychosis runs in my family and I've had hallucinations since i was a child#including ones induced by religion#so like I'm skeptical#it's really annoying and stupid though so i want to post where someone might laugh instead of telling me i have to tell my psych right away#like I'll tell her at my next appointment (the end of this month) but she's never been concerned about my hallucinations#i think that's cause i don't get command voices#i just get hallucinations that scare me or keep me awake#idk#i just felt like posting about my hallucinations today#they're always small things so it's not a big deal#anyway#drink water you heathens
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*watching the OWCA Files*
Perry being stuck with his gang of trainee agents, one of whom is Doofenshmirtz, is just making me laugh because yeah this is exactly how it feels to work with little kids, except, surprisingly, there's been less biting. But we're only partway through episode one, so there's still time. But yeah, most of them are nonverbal, the one that is verbal won't stop talking, one knows a handful of sentences and keeps repeating them, everyone's distracted, one kid laughs at everything-
Yeah, watching Perry try to do my job is really funny. xD
#phineas and ferb#the owca files#perry the platypus#dr. doofenshmirtz#silliness#my life as a paraprofessional#me when I get stuck watching six kids with varying disabilities by myself#some people on phineas and ferb posts: doof is so annoying#me: well I can see why you would think that if you're not used to a small child trying to talk to you nonstop for six hours every day#I can think of one from each classroom I've worked in that fit that description akghfjaghjfaslkgdfa
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Look, I'm not saying that the entirety of the Galvan race would be gamers. That would be ludicrous. I'm simply saying that if they found out about the existence of video games as well as how to program them,
Damn if only they didn't have tadpole children otherwise they'd totally have iPad toddlers smh smh- no doubt on Galvan Prime (or whatever edition of planet they're on if you don't retcon it's destruction in the Highbreed arc) they'd already found an interest in many variations of video games, even if predominantly it's not socially acceptable in most galvan cultures to be an adult in full pursuit of a gamer, not that there isn't a market for it because expectations breeds exceptions.
Because of the majority of galvan intellects steer towards the sciences, galvan video game developers probably tend to target younger fresh-out-of-the-pond adolescents with educational games, a combination of fun and learning. But these are galvans we're talking about, so no Mario Teaches Typing or Leap Frog levels of baby smarts games, more like Brain Training and significantly more difficult than what you get here. It's not to say 'fun for fun's sake' games don't exist, just that these are really the only games that early learning galvan really get until they have control over their own financial responsibilities.
I'm not saying that galvan who prefer more entertaining games later in life are unintelligent, but I am saying that Blukic and Driba seem the type to game for fun-
#ask#anonymous#galvan#blukic#driba#ben 10#xenotechnology#headcanon#something something 'the ability to learn anything given enough time' yada yada when unmoored from society you can do whatever you enjoy#am i making blukic and driba gamers? sure. am i joking or being serious? yes#i like blukic and driba because they are unlike any galvan that we have seen and it's just marvelous variety#more adult targetted galvan games would be a lot more varied than games for younger demographics#galvan parents may tend to steer away from 'fun for fun's sake' games or never catch their child dead with an 'adult game'#which has different connotations in galvan culture as far as general audiences go#very heavy study culture- not a lot of room for adolescents to have unnecessary fun#make education fun so they don't dip out but it's still education#there are 'cool parents' that let their kid play much more entertaining games#games that aren't just exams in gaming form#maybe they'd have a rating system that's probably more represented through school year and graduation status#'mum can i get this?' 'oh dear- this is rated graduated- maybe when you've completed uni and got a job you can play this'#heh- i love world building
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phew... that hit a nerve for me
#child haters already piss me off#but also add people who look down on queer people for wanting to have kids???#grrrrrrr. angery#also i've been going on about gay people specifically#but this whole thing also for trans people!!#i keep seeing ppl present the concept of trans people having kids as this baffling or impossible thing#bruh i know of (and have known) so many trans men who've gotten pregnant#and have experienced varying emotional responses to it#from hating it to loving it. humans are complex!!!#also im sure trans women having kids is a thing too. i've heard of that#and even if i hadn't. i can assume!#as long as The Junk works it is possible for a person to have kids. never assume something isnt happening in the world
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refusing to buy a new vape bc i dont want to contribute to exploitation in the congo but also still being addicted to vaping leads to me just chiefing on the deadest oldest nastiest vape and wondering why i feel like shit every time i hit it
#but fuck vapes man they are literally designed to get children addicted to nicotine#like pre juul most vapes were obnoxious big box rigs that blew huge clouds and stank and were very noticeable and also deeply deeply uncool#and then juul came out with a little usb stick that blew almost imperceptible clouds and actively advertised it to teens#and dont get me started on the nicotine itself#box rigs have juice that has varied nicotine content anywhere from like .05 to 5%#disposables where i live are almost exclusively 5% so its a much stronger rush compared to other vapes#its just sad seeing what could have been the generation that stopped smoking almost entirely become incredibly dependent on vapes#and it really shows where peoples priorities lie#nobody cares that the batteries are deeply exploitative of child labor#nobody cares that they are creating a massive surge of plastic waste#and i can guarantee that Big Tobacco is either getting kickbacks from vape companies or is getting a huge wave of new consumers#because guess what!!! cigarettes are cheaper than vapes!!#and now that vaping is so mainstream cigarettes are becoming the cool artsy thing again#we live in hell actually
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I’m wondering if I’ll need a “pureblood culture” for my fic because aside from the rules and rituals for babies, nothing else is really mentioned except in passing.
#hp#pureblood culture#the rituals vary from family to family but the societal rules stay the same#no holding the baby unless you are the parents/grandparent/sibling until they're six months#aunts/uncles can touch the baby but NEVER hold#married in relatives or cousins can never hold the baby until they're six months#also have to have hands visible to the parents until the child is six months#then a huge celebration is held since the baby survived and all those rules go away#also pureblood parents get 3 months off to be with the baby which is nice
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