#it is a very important distinction
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my therapist recently told me that there's a difference between hurting someone and harming them. we are, inevitably, going to hurt people throughout our lives. our opinions are not always going to align. the boundaries we set are going to receive backlash. that's totally okay. sometimes, our existence might hurt people a little, and we have no control over that. but we do have control over harming others. that's the deliberate, calculated, cruel things we do and say to intentionally cause pain. that is what we are called not to do as followers of Jesus. we can always choose to not harm people. just because someone's feelings are hurt doesn't mean you did something 'wrong'. your intentions were good, and that's all that matters
#it is a very important distinction#because i have both hurt and harmed people in my life#but i should only regret and take responsibility for the latter#and it's important to note that just because someone might be hurt by something i.e. setting a boundary#does not mean that you shouldn't have done it#you can live your life trying not to hurt people#but it's not possible#we are going to let people down#we are going to make mistakes. and other people are going to be sensitive to things we don't even consider#and that is okay#as long as we try our hardest to not harm others#we'll be okay#jesus#boundaries#it's hard#but yeah
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Faiza performing the Kagnoma Odo (pretty literally 'lion dance'), a weapons dance and one of the more important ritual duties of Odonii priestesses. A relatively new addition to this traditional dance involves the musket as the primary weapon, which is fired mid-twirl into the ground at the climax of the dance. Faiza is experiencing an 'oh fuck' moment because her shot is more than ideally diagonal, but she’s being so cool with it.
This is a wholly ceremonial performance at the onset of the pilgrimage, performed in full regalia and lion skin (of the small, semi-domesticated strain) but no armor. It’s also distinctly a display of political allegiance between the powerful and beloved Odonii priesthood (and its loyal military) with the increasingly reviled and destabilized imperial family, with Faiza prominently wearing a bracelet of the royal serpent, which was gifted (along with the musket) by the usoma Stavis Amanti himself (Usoma is the Wardi word for king, which has been retained in the context of emperors).
The Kagnoma Odo is the ultimate demonstration of the Odonii as an embodiment of the Lion Face of God and living vessel of military might and sovereignty, demonstrating her fitness and proficiency with weapons and as a spiritual unifier for soldiers. It is accompanied by drumming and occurs in stages, running through the three keymost weapons used in war- the spear, the sword, and the musket. The musket is of the most significance, given the weapon has developed a particular esteem as the ultimate embodiment of might and superiority. Assistants (almost always other priestesses, occasionally high ranking soldiers) load and prime the musket to be fired at the climax of the dance, where it is shot into the ground as the priestess leaps out of range of the shot. The firing signals the end of the dance and the rite itself.
While not the utmost exemplar of trigger discipline, only fully inducted and senior (and therefore very thoroughly trained) Odonii are permitted to perform the dance, and injuries during actual performances are quite rare (though are known to occur during training, more than a few Odonii have burns and wounds on their feet).
The most important renditions of this dance are performed upon declarations of war and before battles (in this case, generally done in full armor along with the lion pelt). It is also done during some trainings (while a dance, it is carefully choreographed to include naturalistic maneuvers of the weapons involved and helps soldiers limber up and learn to move their weapons). It is regarded as an impressive and motivating sight and a morale booster, and, seen at a distance, potentially intimidating to enemies.
A special variant of this dance is performed as means of fully incarnating the Odomache, which is done in full nudity with the body covered in the blood of the freshly sacrificed lion and cloaked in its raw pelt (the lion has become the corpse of Odomache in the moment of death, as part of its recreation of God's sacrifice). Her public, full nude appearance once (and only once) in this act is what allows the Lion Face of God to incarnate within her. Those in attendance see the spiritually vulnerable, naked human body obscured with the sanctified and deified blood and cloaked in the sanctified and deified skin. It is a merger of the contradictions of mortality and divinity, the boundaries between the two indistinct in flickering firelight and the flash of musketfire. She is witnessed by her people, dangling in between humanity and divinity and leading them in dance, and and is thus transformed.
#faiza haidamane#Not really relevant to the core post itself but I don't have anywhere to put this#Faiza is a pretty extreme cultural rarity in that she's something along the lines of agnostic (regardless of her priestesshood)#It's a culturally specific form of agnosticism where the notion that God continues to exist and interact with the world in spirit form is#questioned. She personally gets the distinct vibe that God truly and wholly died in the act of creation and is no longer present#This isn't just a Her Thing it's a concept that comes up in some strains of religious philosophy but it's pretty rare#Orthopraxy is SIGNIFICANTLY more important to the faith of the seven faced god than orthodoxy so her merely thinking this isn't#a fundamental issue as long as she performs all expected rites and behaviors and etc (which she does quite devotedly) but it would#definitely not be socially accepted to openly proclaim (least of all from a senior priestess devoted to maintaining the connection of God's#spirit to Its lands and people) and she keeps it to herself.#She is the only main character who WHOLLY doesn't expect the pilgrimage and rites to end the drought. She doesn't fully DISbelieve#either (kind of like 'well maybe?') but for her this is all a very pragmatic political maneuver to stabilize the crumbling empire and#regain the people's faith in its leadership. It's not fully cynical like it means a lot to her but in a sense of very practically protectin#her beloved empire rather than a more spiritual sentiment.#It's very complicated for her like she takes her role very seriously and cares deeply for her faith while not actually believing#in it in any personal sense. More about what it represents to her than what it's supposed to literally be.#the white calf
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#ts4#ts4 globetrotter#globetrotter challenge#sim: starling#it was very important for starling to make the distinction of chicken eggs since his best friend is a duck#it’s nice to play something new in ts4#all my attention goes to plc. this is fun too#very low energy#unlike my zombie save where it’s a story. and plc where there’s so much commitment to those sims (and their story)#this is very low stakes for me
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Those wacky skeletons ♥ (Patreon)
#Doodles#UT#Sans#Papyrus#Handplates#You can tell because of Sans' gloves lol#Getting-used-to-them-again doodles as well as just expressing Feeling <3 Happy towards them! Want them to be happy too!#It might seem silly for these - how many sets in now? - to still be getting used to drawing them again lol but it's because they're adults!#Their clothes and the way they hold themselves - but also especially Sans lol I dunno why I have such difficulty with him at times#He's got a cute face and I still find myself like ????how your face#Other than that tho it's just silliness hehe ♪ My favourite lads :D#I feel the need to make the distinction: I do actually have different favourites based on the AU lol#Like for example in classic I still love Flowey just a tiiiiiny bit more than Papyrus but it really is constantly neck and neck#Whereas in Handplates it's no competition even a little bit lol - Papyrus is just my Very Favourite#But Gaster is my favourite Handplates-specific character since he's unique to the AU! It gets a bit in the weeds lol#Sans isn't far behind at all of course the trio are very important! The duo even moreso imo#Going back to gloves tho I did carry over one of my quirks from my original UT doodles about Papyrus' gloves lol#I initially envisioned them as combination mitten-gloves with a free index finger and all the rest together#I still rather like the design! But it is admittedly not Handplates accurate lol#The occasional dip into self-indulgence who me? Lol#Sleeping on each other is important to me as well!! It is such a favourite hehe#Honestly I just imagined Papyrus getting so exhausted that he fell asleep in the snow lol poor lad#Sans teleported in but it's also funny to imagine him just walking up like ''you good? yeah he's fine'' *flop* haha#Silly lads <3 Do love 'em ♪
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gamers i dont think i did it right
#parkour civilization#parkciv#thats ... probably all the tags used#the (s2) is a very important distinction#after s1 i was still normal
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every time i see a post saying that kim dokja exists only in the "third" round because he dies on the subway in all the other rounds i want to scream. he doesn't die on the subway. SP cannot find him there because in every other timeline kim dokja does not make it to the subway at all.
#I FEEL CRAZY LIKE. DID I READ A DIFFERENT BOOK OR SOMETHING??? AM I GETTING THE EVENTS WRONG???#LIKE. idk.#i feel like everyone knows that kim dokja is suicidal. and the only thing that kept kim dokja alive was WOS.#but then people fail to take that one step further to connect it with the fact that#in the other rounds where WOS isnt a thing...kim dokja succeeds in his second attempt. he does not make it to the subway.#like. not to get Very Personal in the tags but as someone who has Been suicidal it's an important character distinction to me#that This Is The Reason Why he's not there when SP checks the other rounds#beso babbles
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pov goggle v is beating the shit out of you
#sentai#goggle v#you know what? i actually really like these helmets#the whole gem + ancient civilisation motif is literally never important but like#they're nicely distinct from each other and imo very expressive#nutoriously easy to please man likes the silly helmets who would have thought#ok the gems are important once but very early on and for like half a second#anyway get bonked idiot
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Wild how we know that Elizabeth Woodville was officially appointed to royal councils in her own right during her husband’s reign and fortified the Tower of London in preparation of a siege while 8-months pregnant and had forces gathering at Westminster “in the queen’s name” in 1483 – only for NONE of these things to be even included, let alone explored, in the vast majority of scholarship and historical novels involving her.
#lol I don't remember writing this - I found it when I was searching for something else in my drafts. But it's 100% true so I had to post it.#elizabeth woodville#my post#Imo this is mainly because Elizabeth's negative historiography has always involved both vilification and diminishment in equal measure.#and because her brand of vilification (femme fatale; intriguer) suggests more indirect/“feminine” than legitimate/forceful types of power#It's still bizarre though-you'd think these would be some of the most famous & defining aspects of Elizabeth's life. But apparently not#I guess she only matters when it comes to marrying Edward and Promoting Her Family and scheming against Richard#There is very lacking interest in her beyond those things even in her traditionally negative depictions#And most of her “reassessments” tend to do diminish her so badly she's rendered utterly irrelevant and almost pathetic by the end of it#Even when some of these things *are* mentioned they're never truly emphasized as they should be.#See: her formal appointment in royal councils. It was highly unconventional + entirely unprecedented for queens in the 14th & 15th century#You'd think this would be incredibly important and highlighted when analyzing late medieval queenship in England but apparently not#Historians are more willing to straight-up INVENT positions & roles for so many other late medieval queens/king's mothers that didn't exist#(not getting into this right now it's too long...)#But somehow acknowledging and discussing Elizabeth's ACTUAL formally appointed role is too much for them I guess#She's either subsumed into the general vilification of her family (never mind that they were known as 'the queen's kin' to actual#contemporaries; they were defined by HER not the other way around) or she's rendered utterly insignificant by historians. Often both.#But at the end of the day her individual role and identity often overlooked or downplayed in both scenarios#and ofc I've said this before but - there has literally never been a proper reassessment of Elizabeth's role in 1483-85 TILL DATE#despite the fact that it's such a sensational and well-known time period in medieval England#This isn't even a Wars of the Roses thing. Both Margaret of Anjou and Margaret Beaufort have had multiple different reassessments#of their roles and positions during their respective crises/upheavals by now;#There is simply a distinct lack of interest in reassessing Elizabeth in a similar way and I think this needs to be acknowledged.#Speaking of which - there's also a persistent habit of analyzing her through the context of Margaret of Anjou or Elizabeth of York#(either as a parallel or a foil) rather than as a historical figure in HER OWN RIGHT#that's also too long to get into I just wanted to point it out because I hate it and I think it's utterly senseless#I've so much to say about how all of this affects her portrayal in historical fiction as well but that's going into a whole other tangent#ofc there are other things but these in particular *really* frustrate me#just felt like ranting a bit in the tags because these are all things that I want to individually discuss someday with proper posts...
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Sandsurge with Eyes of Blue
I originally started this in August when I finished my Blue-Eyes Fandragon, and then I kind of... stopped working on it? It's been on my mind ever since, but I sort of lost motivation. I tried touching up on it but I wouldn't call this finished (There's no shine on her or anything like that, which I am too unmotivated to open now). I still want to post it so its out of my mind for now, maybe I'll revisit one day. By the way the pose is roughly inspired by Spirit with Eyes of Blue because they announced it at the time and it's one of the poses I thought fitting (that didn't include Blue-Eyes flying)
Hopefully I'll get started on drawing my other fandragons soon (and finish making them)
#Flight Rising#FR Art#dragon#blue-eyes white dragon#fr fandragon#fr fan dragon#“fan dragon” and its just a dragon to another#who gaf!!!#Yu-Gi-Oh!#Yugioh#ygo#“why didnt u name her kisara” its because this isnt supposed to be kisara its blue-eyes from the tee cee gee very important distinction#one day ill talk about my reasoning for everything and write lore but im NOT motivated so WHATEVAS#also dis pater everlux planned soon i .love those thangs#art#sandsurge fr#sandsurge flight rising
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Anya got rejected to medical school eight times, but tbh that's not as bad as it sounds. Originally, I thought it meant that she got rejected for eight application cycles/years straight, but she probably just applied to eight schools and got rejected from all of them. She's mentioned to have no savings back at home and applications are expensive asf, so I think it's realistic if she applied for only 2-3 cycles/years to only 2-3 schools and got rejected eight times from that. Imo it's less realistic that she only applied to one school for eight years and kept getting rejected (despite this, I still think she's in her late twenties/early thirties tho)
But tbh it's not even unrealistic to think that she applied to eight schools in 1 cycle/year. Was talking to my TA who's applying to medical school, and she applied to seven. Medical schools are ridiculously competitive hard to get into, so tbh it's not even that bad that she got rejected eight times, nor is it any indication of her being "incompetent" or "stupid" (,:
FUCK Jimmy's and his stupid comment "Because she's... you know." Getting rejected from medical school isn't uncommon and she's evidently a great medic bc she kept Curly alive in his state (I'm ignoring plot armor and giving all the props to her)
#anya mouthwashing#mouthwashing#anya mw#nurse anya#mouthwashing headcanon#i always get so annoyed whenever ppl get nursing and medical school mixed up#two diff professions! they're both very important yet distinct and anya wanted to be a doctor not a nurse#nursing school is not for ppl who failed to get into medical school!! it's its own thing that u gotta go to school for#and anya didn't even go into nursing school (which takes around 2 years for the actual program) she took pony express courses#talk to me abt pre-med anya headcanons i know a bunch abt the process since i used to be one too lol#textpost
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idle clone^2 food for thought (cw gun tw murder) and. thinking about how danny in canon is very protective of his people. and as a collective fanon we like to make him go Batshit when his people are severely injured.
and im just mmmmm,,,,, danny would kill if damian (or anyone in his family) got extremely hurt. but only under very specific circumstances. like they've been backed up into a corner and can't get out and it's either kill or be killed. like his go-to is non-lethal force but then someone takes out his little brother, whose breathing but not getting up and hurt badly, and there's nowhere for them to escape and these guys are gonna do much worse soon.
but there's a gun nearby and within danny's reach, and the guys who have them trapped are gloating and only half-paying attention because what are they going to do now? they have him trapped.
and they hurt his little brother.
and danny doesn't see red. everything just goes into cold, static focus instead. and he puts a bullet through the stomach of the first guy he sees.
And i'm just picturing Danny with this stone cold fury on his face, his hands shaking, as he looks the main guy (who know he's a clone) in the eye and says "your first mistake was thinking i'm batman"
#dpxdc#dp x dc#dp x dc crossover#dpdc au#danny fenton is not the ghost king#dpxdc crossover#dc x dp#dpxdc au#clone^2#tw murder#tw gun#“your second mistake was attacking my brother”#“please i have a family” “so do i”#i think it would neat is all. clone danny is very similar to bruce in many ways. but not this.#and i think it would be a very neat (important?) contrast is all beyond the other differences#because they're both vigilantes. they both love their family. they both are protective. they both are so similar to each other#and yet so different. i think there should be at least one major difference between them both. danny doesnt agree with murder and is usuall#the 'i would die for my family' type. but under specific circumstances he would flip the script and become 'i will kill for them'#and there is NOTHING WRONG with the fact that bruce doesn't kill. this isn't to bash bruce for not killing. but i think it would be#a neat distinction between them both. thats all.#bruce is not the 'lesser' person for not killing.#“i dont kill based on my respect for life.“ ”my respect for life ends with my brother/family.”#“and you hurt them. so now all bets are off”#stay tuned yall i may or may not post a rare thomas wayne au post today
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ok so as a khux Understander do you have any idea how long the span of time between the beginning of the mobile games (foretellers era, daybreak town) and the mainline kingdom hearts games (1,2,3, the "10 years after bbs" stuff) is? i'm halfway through watching the khux story cutscenes comp and the uncertainty is driving me nuts.
First, I'm honored to be known as a khux understander thank you. Second, sorry but there's no concrete reason as of now. If you squint there's some evidence at a time frame but literally shit has been retconned already which is crazy. So I'll just tell you what I DO know!
I can tell you with certainty that all of khux takes place over the course of about 4-5 years because in the later part of union cross there's a cutscene that literally says "4 years ago." iirc khx/chi takes place over the course of one year while unchained chi/union cross takes place over 4 years.
Besides that though, it's an undetermined amount of time between khux and the start of missing link. Here's a piece of dialogue from the finale of dark road:
This is a great indicator of time between khux and khdr but unfortunately this was literally like immediately taken out with an update so it's unclear whether or not this is canon, which would probably make the span of time between khux and khdr about 100-ish years I guess? (if you want to read more about this script change go look at Kat's post, but maybe after you finish khux/dr since you said you're in the middle of it)
And on top of this, Xehanort and Eraqus are about 15 in dark road and during BBS it's been confirmed they're both in their 80s. With certainty I can 100% say that dark road is about 70 years before bbs but that's the only concrete mobile game answer I have. But you could estimate with the original screenshot and this that there's about 170 years between khux and bbs. Again just an estimate, nothing canon, and I'm sure that one edit must've been made due to the development of missing link. Hopefully khml will give us a better answer on time frames!
Hope this helps (as unsatisfying and unconfirmed this is) and feel free to come back with any more questions I love talking about khux :]
#personally I believe it's probably longer than 170-ish years#but this is just from the standpoint of what we have in front of us#btw my distinction between khx and khux is important if you haven't figured that out by now at the part of the game you're at#also very happy to explain that as well#ask#khux#khdr#khux essay#anon
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One last thing before bed. Know the difference or what have you
#I think Marckus still needs glasses but they haven't been able to afford a pair with specialized prescription for him#also I think a very important distinction in my head between the two ☝️ is the fact that Magnus has bit more of a resting bitch face and-#Marckus had bit more of a resting pathetic thing expression on him but ya#I don't think I was good enough at portraying that in this moment#SHIT I FORGOT MARCKUS'S FROWN LINE#whatever. I'm heading to bed now ok#at like 3 in the fucking morning#because of course I am#art#digital art#artwork#my art#digital drawing#marckus#htp marckus#htp#emperor tts magnus#magnus the red#if the emperor had a text to speech device#emperor tts#bigeloo's scribbles
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me and the pathetic loser I pulled by being a pathetic loser myself.
#hehe#takajin#persona 3#takaya sakaki#jin shirato#i originally kinda wanted to draw them less thin; scarless and with naturally colored hair#as i am actually deeply disapproving of writing jin as just fantasizing about the epic gay sex in itself. that's not what this is about#it's not ''i wish my wife stopped bitching about her headache and just let me get balls deep in her already 🙄''#it's ''i wish my beautiful wife didn't have a headache and felt good enough to maybe want me balls deep in her herself :--(''#very important distinction#that said it would unfortunately spoil the joke. and takaya's funky too long too thin limbs just so happen to be really fun to draw 🤷#body image cw#suggestive
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Not getting into the dumpster fire that is the shota chilchuck discourse but I think one very important thing that sets him apart from the average "looks like a kid but is much older" anime character, shows that his portrayal was made in good faith and with actual thought put into it is that Chilchuck is completely in control over his sexuality throughout the manga, it doesn't feel like he exists to be appealing to the viewer or the other characters.
Like, he's not sexualized, but he's still allowed to be sexual and do whatever he pleases with his sexuality, whether it is sharing it or keeping it to himself.
It never feels like a performance for the audience, when he makes a sexual joke the gag is that's its pathetic and awkward and doesn't land, he sees the succubus as a horde of hot blondes because of course he does and all we get is him there in the corner of the panel getting his dick sucked we don't see anything because its not for us to see.
It's just a normal, almost boring detail, because that's how he prob sees it, just a normal part of his life, has been for the past sixteen years or so.
I don't really know what I'm getting at. I guess I'm glad Chilchuck is allowed to be horny in a tired middle-aged divorced way.
#like I think that's a very important distinction to make when people compare him to the 1000 years old lolis or whatever#because the whole point of those characters is that they don't have autonomy over their sexuality#either they're innocent and pure despite being so old because the age thing is just plausible deniability#or their sexuality is a performance it exists for whoever is watching and perceiving them#but Chil is allowed to just be#dungeon meshi#chilchuck#delicious in dungeon
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