#is this gender envy or am i trans??

[psplf]

i just want to loved by a man in a GAY, very soft, tender, romantic way, and im sad that i can't!!! like why can't i be loved in those big arms while my own big arms are around them in turn??? bodies were a mistake. God needs to go back to the workshop and give us shapeshifting abilities with bodies that weigh 0.2 ounces sopping wet

[justdavina]

Carolina from Gran Canaria, Spain. How long you have been cross dressing?I’ve been cross dressing for 12 years now. I feel amazing when cross dressing and I don’t let others get me down. So my experience have been very good so far. I love feeling feminine and catching men's eyes.!

[uncanny-tranny]

The thing that sucks sometimes about transition envy is that, I guess you almost expect yourself to "grow out" of it the more you transition. I used to feel so much envy, and it was something I hoped would stop once I transitioned medically, and while it's absolutely less frequent... man, when I experience transition envy, it's still just as bitter a cocktail as I remember. It can be hard to move past that, and almost... resent the other person/s, but what helped me is knowing that the person you're envying isn't specifically trying to make you, personally, feel like absolute shit. Just as you can't always help what you are envious about in other trans people, they can't help that they have traits or transition experiences or opportunities you do not have, you know? And absolutely, it sucks. But it's something that helped me because then it's a reminder that the world isn't Out To Get Me, you feel?

I think a lot of us can relate to the experience of transition envy, and it's shameful to admit to it, I suppose. It's hard to admit to envy in general, but it's important to not be judgemental about yourself. Your transition is as unique and beautiful and worthy as literally everyone else's and I hope you remember that forever

[the-devil-is-dead]

do you guys ever get artstyle envy? well i do every day, so please enjoy a snufkin doodle in a completely different artstyle than what i've posted so far.

ALSO!!! sweden won gold in beach volleyball yesterday and i'm so happy about it!! yippee!!

[parkercore-69]

The age old question of: Do i find these men attractive or do i just wish i looked like them?

the answers both, i think- i think it’s both.

[chaotic-toby]

Frederick looks like a sick Victorian child and it gives me gender envy

[mangomagicaart]

Why am I getting gender envy from my own sona

[dont-hug-me-its-yuri]

Trans coffin you will always be real to me

[flowersinmidgar]

happy june!!

[candygriff]

being non-binary is fun. I wanna be a car

[laufxsons]

[ WIP ]Just some timed doodles of my favourite ethereal/occult beings. Trying to simplify and stylize my drawings more.

They are so in love, your honor.

[whatsnacks]

i love every trans experience so much.

i love transmasculine people who are comfortable in their femininity. i love transfeminine femboys who identify just as much with being men, and perhaps non binary, as they enjoy modifying their bodies and appearances. i love non binary people who feel comfortable in their assigned gender presentation, but experience far more complexity than what they have been confined to. i love trans women who have found their comfort in hyper femininity, and trans women who have found they’ve circled around to loving their masculinity as much as their femininity. i love trans men who don’t fully feel as though they are binarily men, but still feel as men above anything else. i love people who experience multiple genders, whether at once or fluctuating over time, who cannot be confined to any binary at all!! i love people who are binarily trans but still understand gender as a construct, and so do not confine themselves to the expectations and roles assigned to their gender. i love binary trans people who DO find comfort within the binary, even as it is constructed, and live out their lives in a role that fits them most authentically.

i love that experiences of gender are so diverse that i could not possibly list every single one in a post.

most importantly though, i love that all of these people are completely and authentically themselves. the more trans people i meet, the more experiences i witness, i can’t help feeling more and more like trans people are humanity’s rawest and truest form. i honestly believe that if we broke down the gender binary, that all of humanity would most resemble our communities. we have found raw humanity, and i think that is so beautiful.

if anyone sees this, i would love for you to share your personal trans identity and journey in the reblogs and tags in any way that you experience it. i yearn to learn more about this community, and understand and know as many experiences as i possibly can. and i am also curious to hear from any cis people about their experiences with gender, especially if you understand it as a construct, and what your relationship to gender is!

[misiahasahardname]

“she’s just like me fr”,

a shitpost based on a message my partner sent me when watching ridonculous race for the first time

(said message)

[ford-mustang-1969]

chat

gender crisis in tags

[mintaikk]

I want tits but like in the masculine way

[greghatecrimes]

getting a bonus in my paycheck on friday and i am using every ounce of self control to not spend part of it on a mcgill sweatshirt like wilson’s