#integender

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Two pixel hearts of various flags in order being Intersex and Integender. End ID]

[isobug]

i'd kill for some liomogai blinkies honestly

*vibrates like a bug on a leaf* send me flags ( preferably ones that can easily be translated into the long-and-short blinkie format ) and I will queue them up

[inter-sex]

Day five of making the #intersex tags happier!

Links:

Integender, Advenagender, Dionyfluid, Mallardhoarder, Duogender, Exparium, Intersex Genders in General

[masquerade-flags]

Ulter + intergender could be untergender or iltergender?

Iltergender flags

Using this and this intergender flags, and this integender(which is a synonym for intergender) flag.

[vampiremogai]

[PT: Vampirekin Flag.

for @/integender! colors based off pallets + general colors that aren't just "red & black" that we associate with vampires!

[banner reads: Do Not Interact: truscum, anti endogenic, gender critical, anti MOGAI, anti neopronouns, anti mspec gays (lesbian/vincians) :end id] End PT.]

Vampirekin Flag

for @integender ! colors based off pallets + general colors that arent just "red & black" that we associate with vampires!

[banner reads: Do Not Interact: truscum, anti endogenic, gender critical, anti MOGAI, anti neopronouns, anti mspec gays (lesbain/vincians) :end id]

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

BTI Pride Flag

BTI (B2I) (binary to intersex): a term for those who are intersex and were assigned binary at birth or identified as binary before knowing themselves to be intersex; an umbrella term for FTI (female to intersex or F2I) and MTI (male to intersex or M2I).

Useful for exparium, intergender/integender, ultersex/ultergender, and ipsosex/ipsogender people (plus trans intersex people). Note this isn't something meant to be transitioning to intersex, as it's an innate aspect.

[intersexfairy]

Teingender

A gender identity and modality for intersex people. Teingender people’s gender identity or expression doesn’t conform to the expectations they are held to based on their gender assignment(s) or identity. It may be considered an intergender and is an umbrella term; intersex people of any identity may be teingender.  More info, etymology, & flag symbolism under the cut. [ID: Image 1: A flag with 3 stripes of equal width. The stripes from top to bottom are yellow-orange, off white, and warm lavendar. Image 2 is the same as Image 1, but in the center is an off white circle. In the circle is a dark gray Mercury symbol. /End ID]

Examples of intersex people who might identify as teingender:

Transgender, ipsogender, adgender, etc. people

Inte(r)gender people

Nonbinary & genderqueer people

Gender & sex nonconforming people

People transitioning or receiving gender affirming care

People who identify with, but not as, other modalities

The term is a combination of the prefix ter-, meaning "earth/land," and the prefix inter-. The prefix inter- comes from the prefix in- and latin word terra (Earth). This was chosen to reference the word intersex, and the Earth as an intersex symbol.  The yellow-orange stripe signifies freedom and happiness. The off white stripe signifies inner peace and variant experiences with gender. The warm lavendar stripe signifies community and empowerment. The Mercury symbol signifies intersexness.

[boywithbear]

Coining some identities with their flags because I need one of them for myself

Absentgirl (left flag) and Absentboy (right flag).

I want to give it a vague definition to leave room for variation in experiences: basically where you would/probably would identify as a girl/boy if you were not intersex. May be in relation to being intergender or apart of an inte(r)gender or advenagender identity/experience.

Absentgirl is for those who would or think they probably would identify as a girl if they were perisex and absentboy is for those who would or think they probably would identify as a boy if they were perisex. Absentgender can be used as the blanket term (and as I am making this vague, I would not mind if people made their own terms and identities based on this under what would be the absentgender umbrella)

Peach chosen for the absentgirl flag as it is between pink and orange, pink a color assigned for girls and orange, a non-gendered color; and mint chosen for the absentboy flag as it is between blue and green, blue a color assigned for boys and green, a non-gendered color.

It is called absentgender because that's your gender that is absent (just felt like it fit right).

[Flag IDs: Left flag is a flag with 9 stripes. The middle stripe is peach and each stripe on either side going outward becomes paler peach until the last stripes on the outside are almost white. The right flag has the same layout and theme but instead of peach the color is mint. End of ID.]

[19-bellwether]

Imagine the crowd pop if she took a stunner from Kevin Owens to set up an integender match. She's built like a tank and booked like a Supergirl. No one would be against this.

I am begging WWE to get over their hangups and let Rhea have a match with the men. It's not like she's doing anything with the women's division. She deserves so much better than being a cheerleader on the sideline of every Raw main event.

[varsex-pride]

Intenby

Intenby is a gender identity for those who's gender has a connection to them being intersex, and are also non-binary. (source)

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

hi, please could i request the intersex and integender flags?

Yes! They will be posted Tuesday :3

[mogaicore]

maybe a doll with the princian flag? (it's on @pridewiki's blog!)

Sie’s a pronoun hoarder, but paws favorites are sie/hir and paw/paws! 

Has four rescue cats sie loves very much. 

Loves to go to night clubs and dance all night. 

Very friendly and an extrovert!

[genderstalgia]

solian, lunian, and mesque sheep maybe? :O

ill be doing these now!! :3

[queercripintersex]

I'm gonna add to this that there's also the term ipsogender for intersex people whose gender identities match their assigned gender. I'm ipsogender and honestly the term "cis" just doesn't feel right to me - in so many ways I relate more to trans people than I do to cis people, and my gender journey has been deeply affected by my intersex-ness. Also the fact that (coerced) medical intervention happened to make me appear feminine adds to me discomfort with the term cis.

Because my gender is tied to my intersexness I identify my gender as as an intergender ipsogender gnc/genderqueer woman. To me intergender, or integender to avoid the confusion with the term created by and used by androgyne enbies, is a modifier, but for some people they feel it does a more complete job on its own of describing one's gender.

(I’m a cis perisex person so I’m sorry if anything here comes off rudely)

I’ve been reading some of the stuff on your blog and I’m a bit confused about how an intersex person may see themselves as cis or trans. I know that some people use intergender either as their whole gender or as a prefix to man/woman so maybe it’s just a matter of being slightly different to everyone (which is totally fine, I’d just like to understand it a bit more). If an intersex person sees themself as cis, would they generally use intergender or identify with just man or woman? Also does intergender come under the umbrella of non-binary genders?

It’s important to remember that the definition of “cisgender” in terms of gender experience is somebody who identifies with the gender that they were assigned. 

What this means for intersex cis people is that, whatever sex they were assigned at birth, the correlating gender associated with that sex is the gender they would identify as. For instance, if a person who had ambiguous genitalia at birth was assigned female sex at birth, and they grow up and identify with female/womanhood as a gender, they would be cis. The same goes for those who may be assigned male. 

It’s a little more complicated for those who had their sexes re-assigned. There are cases of intersex people being reassigned to female or male during their lives and identifying with their birth sex but having to transition back. Those people may consider themselves cis, but they may also identify as trans (this is where it is up to the individual to decide whether they feel they are transgender or cisgender). There are also those who are re-assigned a sex identify as cisgender after their re-assignment (One of my best friends in high school was like this). 

Intergender, in the context of intersex-intergender, is a word that is both a modifier and a whole identity. "Intergender” is defined as a way of expressing that one’s intersex existence influences their gender identity. Hence people may identify entirely as intergender or may say they are an intergender + whatever genders they feel (for example, an intergender transfem nonbinary person, or an intergender genderqueer man, so on and so forth). It’s important to note that previous to the intersex adoption of the term that “intergender” is also another word for “combined genders” similar to bigender in its notion of being both a man and woman (although bigender is not always someone who feels like both a man and a woman, and can be any combination of 2 genders). 

Intersex cis people can also use ‘intergender’ and still be cis. This is because intergender as a word can act as a modifier. It does not denote inherent trans/nonbinary identity. Another word that intersex cis people have used in the past to describe their relationship to their intersex experience while still identifying as their assigned sex/gender is Ipsogender. Ipsogender refers to an intersex person who identifies as their assigned sex/gender. 

Intersex cis people can use whatever words they want to identify their gender. Most of them refer to themselves as a man/woman, depending on the gender they were assigned at . 

Intergender can fall under the non-binary umbrella, but it does not always fall under it. Again, this is because the word has multiple meanings (and that’s perfectly fine, as long as you understand context!). Intergender as a modifier term to reflect one’s experience being intersex can be used by cis intersex people. I don’t see any point in trying to state that it’s for intersex trans/nonbinary use only if the word fits intersex cis experiences, personally. 

TL;DR: 

Intergender as a word can be used as a modifier to describe one’s relationship to their intersex identity. It can be used by all intersex people in this way, cis, trans, nonbinary or of a cultural gender. 

Intergender as a whole identity can sometimes be considered a nonbinary identity, but it depends on the individual’s definition of their intergender identity. 

I hope this helps - if there’s anything I need to elaborate on, let me know. 

-Mod Rose

[masquerade-flags]

iptergender?

I assume you mean a combination of ipsogender and intergender

Three Iptergender flags

Using this and this intergender flags, and this integender(which is a synonym for intergender) flag. The colors are a bit deeper to reflect the ipsogender flag

[faegai-archive]

This is not an endorsement of hate, harassment, or anything else. This is simply to educate people on this situation as its gotten out of hand. Please just block and ignore faer please.

This is a list of things m-a-t has done. By no means is this extensive but I’m going to put as much as I can in this. This is by no means a call for harassment or hate to faer, but faer actions are harmful and they keep being excused because fae is a trauma survivor and mentally ill, which isn’t an excuse.

For the purpose of this posts I’m assuming they are completely and 100% serious about all of their claims. For the sake of my brain I’m going by everyone who’ve they harassed, as well as things fae has posted on faer blog. If anyone included on this wants to be removed, please drop an ask in our inbox off anon and we’ll remove your stuff <3 (/p).

For a basic timeline: We posted a gender variant flag on our old blog, comet-queer. They reblogged, a headmate got mad, and it kicked off this whole mess. This is only on tumblr by the way, they’ve done similar stuff on Animo and Discord; but I don’t have screencaps of those, so take that with a grain of salt.

This also won’t be in any particular order, or chronologically, piece that together yourself I’m tired as hell.

Kenochoric.

We originally found them reblogging our stuff. The fronter at the time (an aggressor, or aggressive protector) got triggered and felt threatened, and sent multiple aggressive messages to them, telling them to delete the reblog and leaving us alone. Kenochoric got involved after they started reblogging noirs stuff. (Archive)

Fae did not stop, and proceeded to claim Kenochoric, a person who was trying to establish boundaries was “endangering a minor.” Kenochornic made a very long post about it after the first one. (Archive)

Kenochoric reblogged this post but integender (now genderings) about fae and one of faer sideblogs. (Archive)

Punk-Anti.

User punk-anti responded to M-A-T after fae claimed they didn’t suicide bait kenochoric and us. Please not Mogai and Stuff is either suspected to be faer or is in close contact with faer. (Archive)

Mogai-Anime-Tree.

Purposely avoiding kenochorics DNI and making flags for noirs terms anyway. (Archive)

Getting mad people are posting about them after having violated other peoples dni (Screenshots included in case the post gets taken down, Link.)

I’m not showing images for this one because it personally makes me very uncomfortable. but fae has used faer trauma and mental health as a “gotcha!” card in arguments here, here, here, and here. There’s so many more examples but those are the ones that I could think of.

They have a long track record of breaking DNI’s, suicide baiting and using their trauma as a shield. They’ve used multiple accounts to block evade, and repost content if they’re on someones DNI.

They posted a term called rom-amical- a blend of romantic and familial feelings (although I’m sure they’ve changed it). They sent this to a blog (Begendered-Mogai) and after people rightfully called it out, and newt took it down, they proceeded to tag him over and over while guilt tripping newt.

Duagai / Idemasic.

Duagai (now Idemasic) made a post with free to use flags; MAT took the flag while violating hys DNI. (Link)

Idemasic flag did not get removed, instead fae just stop @‘ing hym. (Link)

MAT made another post, saying it was hys fault for not putting a DNI on hys posts. (Link)