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Maybe I just need to listen to my old music, sit down, put on a feel good video and just
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Like I use too. And realize that I can no longer get the old Nikki back, and that I don’t need the Nikki that I’m thinking of. That was rock bottom for me, my son pulled me out of that, I got sober for him, cold turkey the minute I saw those two little lines. He pulled me out of the darkest days of my life, I truly don’t remember 2021-2022 because I drank and abused substances that I am not proud of, and I need to remember that. I need to heal and nurture her, and I need to heal and nurture myself
I can never get old versions of myself back, I can only build towards healing myself into a person that I like to see smiling back at me in the mirror.
I don’t want my son to remember his younger years as mommy being depressed, and least of all him think it’s because of him when he is the reason I am still here.
Without him I would probably would have overdosed a long time ago.
#heavy topics under the cut so like#I am just venting#I know I have been a rollercoaster the last few months anyways#but I truly did have a break down#in front of my family#screaming that I feel like nothing and that I’m going crazy#that I’m drowning and no one is coming to help me while atlas screams at me#reaching out his little hands but he can’t swim#so I have to take myself to the surface
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I've got the beginning of the chorus of Running Up That Hill by Kate Bush, just the first three lines going round and round 🙃
Okay, but there’s worse songs to be stuck in your head.
For example, I live with my toddler goddaughters, and all weekend I had one of their stupid songs from a stupid TV show (Bebe Finn) stuck in my head and was going around singing, “Ouchie ouchie ouch ouch, can you help my boo boo? Yes. Yes. Yes.”
All. Fucking. Weekend.
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thinking about that one time i saw a corolla with the plate MYCH3M and i called it a mychemicorolla
#out loud#in front of my family#mcr#my chemical romance#gerard way#frank iero#mikey way#ray toro#...yeah
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work all night on a drink of rum
daylight come and me wan go home
stack banana til the morning come
daylight come and me wan go home
come mr tallyman tally me banana
daylight come and me wan go home
come mr tallyman tally me banana
daylight come and me wan go home
lift six foot seven foot eight foot bunch
daylight come and me wan go home
six foot seven foot eight foot bunch
daylight come and me wan go home
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me say dayo
daylight come and me wan go home
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me say day
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me say dayo
daylight come and me wan go home
a beautiful bunch of ripe banana
daylight come and me wan go home
hide the deadly black tarantula
daylight come and me wan go home
lift six foot seven foot eight foot bunch
daylight come and me wan go home
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daylight come and me wan go home
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me say dayo
daylight come and me wan go home
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me say day
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daylight come and me wan go home
come mr tallyman tally me banana
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#someone suggested i turn off reblogs. to that i say. i’m not a fucking quitter#esp when i get to see my husband dancing in my notifs every time this gets a note#since this reached 30k notes i wanted to say that people in the notes saying you shouldn’t feel safe around horses are right#story time :) when i was very little i got kicked in the face by a horse.#obviously this is very dangerous and i could have been concussed but there was no bleeding or bruising or no teeth knocked out#so my family didn’t believe me and even tried to convince me that it never happened at all. accused me of lying about it#it was specifically my grandma (who i realized much later in life was extremely emotionally abusive) who insisted i was lying.#but i remember it clearly. i know that it happened. i know that it struck my front teeth and knocked me to the ground#and i have never felt safe around horses since <3 or my family actually#ahem. i always felt safe around my grandparents. ‘‘not anymore’’ said knife grandma#are you still reading this?#reality is an illusion the universe is a hologram#you just lost the game#speaking of loss#|#|/#||#|_
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y'know every time i feel guilty about bothering someone by singing along when i'm listening to music, i just remember that i have to tolerate my dirtbag brother screaming at his ps5 for hours every day so listening to muffled off-key fall out boy is probably preferable
#ramble#it's not loud btw it's just like. singing along in the car volume#not to get on my soapbox but there's a literal dent in his wall from his controller. and we're in the uk you CANNOT punch through walls#idk about anyone else but i've NEVER yelled at a video game?? like i'm absolute dogshit at 80% of them#and i've never had a PHYSICAL reaction beyond maybe 'ughh' then turning it off#if you're getting that angry maybe you just need to play different games because you're clearly not having fun#also added bonus that i didn't realise until adulthood. as a former daughter#cis son privileges are CRAZY#i don't even swear in front of my parents and my dude is just screaming actual slurs next door with NO consequences#like you wouldn't do that in public why is it ok to do it here#i think i've said fuck in front of my mum ONCE and i literally couldn't look at her the entire day#this is a box i am not ready to unpack yet akdhdh#is this just a my family thing or is this common
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Pogi miku 🇵🇭
Doin the cultural miku trend from twitter hehe
#hatsune miku#filipino miku#my art#world is truly hers#also speakin of pinoy miku theres a tagalog vocaloid song called ang carinosa that i rly like!!#and i rly wanted to draw miku in a barong bc i wish could present more masc/androgynous in front of my Traditional family#like i wish i could wear a barong/suits to formal family gatherings without fear of judgement#so for now ill just put miku in it hehe
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Setting aside his food, Twilight slowly knelt on the floor, ignoring the pain of his injuries, and wrapped his arms around the large dog. Bond held still as his master buried his face in his fur, his heartbeat strong and steady in contrast with the sudden trembling that had overtaken the man’s form.
this is from chapter 4 of @cantareincminor 's amazing fic Orpheus! I feel like with autumn approaching (on my side of the world at least lol) the weather is getting perfect for reading, so you can tuck yourself in all nice and cozy and read this fic because it's nice and long >:) Thank you for the commission and happy belated birthday, Cantare!
#oh to be a man hugging a big dog#or just. to be hugging a big dog#im not really a dog person but if bond was in front of me best believe im doing exactly what twilight is HAHA#go check out the fic! its written extremely well#spy x family#my art#loid forger#sxf#bond forger
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Permission to headbutt: Granted (Patreon)
#My art#UT#Sans#Papyrus#Ft. something smol and I do on a regular basis ♪#This could be Handplates or it could be classic Undertale I leave that up to you lol#I definitely picked up a lot of the style quirks lol - but there are some of the ones that I like myself! Like Papyrus' darkmode clothes lol#And Sans' shorts having the stripe in the front haha - little details ♫#Realistically it probably is Handplates tho just based on where my head's at lol - I love the Handplates dynamic :D#Handplates#I talked myself into it! Pfft ♪#I found myself relating a lot to Sans especially while rereading - I want nothing more in the world than for my siblings to be happy! <3#So I gathered up a bunch of ideas of things especially me and smol do together and this was the most obviously cute one haha#Easiest to do! Tho I did still go a little extra on this lol#I'm trying to do more digital stuff ♪ It wasn't the best art day and I'm still a little nervous to jump right in :')#Not doing any sketches on paper beforehand feels weird but I guess it is thematic in a way lol#And I'm still pleased with how they turned out hehe#It really does feel nice to be drawing them again <3#And doing silly sibling things! Hehe#I dunno how clear it is since it's so ingrained into how smol and I talk to each other lol family language!#One of us will literally just announce ''bonk'' and the other will prepare for/lean in for a headbutt haha#She is a tiny bit taller than me - it's not quite /this/ extreme but she does lean down for me! S'cute <3#I like to think Papyrus would do the same hehe ♪ Let your lazy brother headbutt you! He can only reach so far!#On minimal effort anyhow hehe#It's just a fun way to be silly together ♫♪#Also yes I did show this to her and she cosigned lol - ''Cute'' -smol
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can’t help but think of how, if we choose to go by sirius’ characterisation as a private, arrogant teen who only lets a select few into his circle, sirius’ post-azkaban life just have been such an utterly humiliating experience for him.
especially OoTP. when he has all these near strangers in his childhood house, that he hated and loved and ran away from and couldn’t ever escape. if he spent his entire pre-azkaban existence building a cold and aloof persona, not letting people know what his home life had been like, then to have all of these people get a front row seat to it because of kreacher and portrait walburga’s shenanigans must have been near unbearable. to have the entire order, including snape whom he disliked and mistrusted, hear the kinds of names he’s being called.
not only does he have to deal with the retraumatisation of his childhood, but also the fact that he’s flayed open for everyone to see. it’s not only his freedom, innocence, dignity that has been snatched from him but his privacy also. it’s such a cruel thing to experience, on top of everything else.
to have literal children, his godson who he has been kept away from all this while, whom he presumably wants to be able to look up to him, to have him see into the deepest parts of his soul. to have to be so weak in front of him. not only is he subjected to such vileness but he also cannot do anything about it.
sirius has not had a moment of peace in all the time we knew him. it is indignity upon indignity that is heaped onto him. every other character has gotten a moment of respite but him. it fully breaks my heart.
#sirius black#i am in the mood to sob tonight clearly#i just#was reading a fic#where it recounted walburga ad kreacher’s screams and taunts#and it suddenly hit me how humiliating they are?#like#even if it’s an inanimate object and a house elf#to be called an embarrassment and shame of my flesh and filth#by the only remaining members of your family#and to have it be traced back to your family#to know that your mother was alive but did not care that u were in azkaban#and that everyone else knows it too now#to walk around in every corner of your childhood house and be able to see exactly how u grew up#no boundaries no limits#to have other people keep touching parts of your family with the audacity to throw them out#and move it around#to call your home names#i just. cannot imagine.#the level of helplessness he was operating with#is it really any wonder he was the way he was#hell. he was actually so much better than he should’ve been#lesser men would’ve been catatonic or going off on a rage fuelled warpath#it’s so embarrassing to have your parent even correct u in front of friends sometimes#and to hear all this abuse. shouted at you.#and not one person ever stands up for him#or shows him any empathy#i’m actually amazed that even after all these years i’m able to find new tragedies in sirius life#HAS THAT MAN NOT BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH#pen’s notes
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I think the most terrifying part of any relationship is the ongoing awareness that you are going to have to trust someone when they appear to like or love you. There is no objective way to check your status with someone, no app that will say "they like you overall but are mad at you right now, specifically for x or y or a vague z thing that you didn't even clock when it was happening. But! if you send them a nice card and small gift, they will forget about it and return to base level affection"
instead, you have to just....keep having a relationship with that person, doing big and small things with or for them, and praying that you will both be brave and evolved enough to raise x/y/z as an issue if it genuinely is problem.
Mortifying ordeal of being known, down to your very gluons, and disliked.
#this is worse with family I think. because I listen to my family talk about how other members#are frustrating or did a thing and isn't that irritating?? that this person is themselves????#(I am not blameless in this; I talk about other members of the family too)#but I am 100% sure I love my family. even talking about how annoying they are! I love them.#I can only hope they love me.#or worse - that they put up with me when I'm in front of them but when I leave...?#I live in terror of being That Person for the next generation.#celestial emporium of benevolent knowledge
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wind breaker time! Bofurin first years !!
#wind breaker#wind breaker fanart#sakura haruka#suo hayato#nirei akihiko#kiryu mitsuki#kyotaro sugishita#taiga tsugeura#bofurin#im so hooked already you guys have no idea#i saw sugishita and my baji braincells flew aliveeeee#but kiryu?????? GOT ME GOOD THAT MAN GOT ME GOOD#im sorry i see a man with piercings and i go googoo gaga#but also nirei sakura and suo dynamics???? IM ALWAYS FOR THE TRIOS GUYS YOU DONT EVEN KNOWWWW#anyway bofurin first years so dear to me#found family AND fighting it’s like wind breaker is dangling a bait in front of me and im just a pea brained fish going YESSSSSSSSS#FINALLY SOME GOOD FUCKIN FOOD#mint archives ; art
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Hi I'm Geen/Roo and a few years ago in lockdown I had a couple friends who I hung out with in the park near my house every afternoon after online learning. I'd been good friends with one since kindergarten and only meet the other a couple years prior to this, through the first friend. They were best friends though, and so I always felt a bit left out when we hung out. Our little siblings also came and played with us when we played things like capture the flag and cops and robbers. Sometimes the second friend would bring along another friend who I coincidentally knew from an extra curricular activity. These friends had quite different interests to me, and liked things like boys and skincare and clothes. I still tried to fit in and have conversations with them but I was clearly a third wheel. But then the friendship bubble rule came in, and I was really excited to be in a bubble with them. There were 3 of us so it was perfect. I talked to them about it and they exchanged awkward looks and told me that they had already made one, with the other friend they sometimes brought along...
I cried for the night that night, and was incredibly sad and betrayed for the next few weeks. I couldn't think of anyone else to be in a bubble with, most of my friends had already made theirs. I had to pretend to be okay with the exclusion by the two friends, and also remained pretty much friendless and alone for a large part of lockdown. It seriously damaged my mental health and I have been insecure about myself and being likeable and friendly, and had anxiety about being excluded in friendships ever since. I also now have a problematic fear of rejection that I think most likely stems from this. It seriously damaged my mental health as well as bullying from my classmates who would call me dumb and anorexic behind my back. I am just really lucky I have supportive parents and a really nice friend group who had my back when lockdown ended. I am a better version of me than I was back then, and I no longer try to remain friends with or seek the approval of people who don't treat me fairly or kindly, but it still haunts me and whenever I see photos or text messages from back then, the blatant toxicity and also my own clinginess makes me cringe. But I have great friends and I'm happy now, which I'm really grateful for.
*takes a deep breath*
and I brought skittles!
@equippedtolove, @yourlocalbadgerscales
Idk who's already done this lol
And anyone who wants to join in! No pressure to anyone!
Candy bowl for Christmas but with ✨ TRAUMA✨:
Hi I'm Ysabelle/Bella and when I was 4 I was taking a bath with my brother and we're playing peekaboo when he surprised me and I hit my head to our toilet bowl,I had to go to surgery because I slashed the side of my left eye,The Doctors had to stitch it back together and I had thread on the side of my face😀😀,And I Brought Mars bars!!
Your guy's TURN!
@sapphic-soool @shipspainfulships
@ultravioletbrit (anyone can do this so feel free to say your trauma!!)
#I do mask a lot though#In front of my family#It is unintentional but it happens a lot and i need to work on it#And i cry lots#But I think that's healthy?#I just need to stop being socially acceptable#And start accepting myself socially#if that makes sense#Not as bad as most of these but still#tag game#take this lightly
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Saying Sorry Will Never Be Enough
Feeling a bit angsty so I had this idea.
Danny is dating one of the Bats/Birds, and everything is going great, amazing even! They know each other secrets (from powers to everything etc), they have a wonderful place to live (even if its in Gotham), Danny is in college on the way to becoming a space engineer (and he does side jobs for unrestful ghosts), he's actually getting sleep again since leaving Amity Park, gets along with their friends and family (those who Danny or his partner still talk to, up to the writer), there is even talk about marriage and perhaps adoption/kids in the future between Danny and the Bat/Bird he's dating!
Everything is setting up for a good life in his future, something Danny didn't think could have after his accident. He was happy finally, and currently packing up his old apartment because he's moving in with his partner in a few days.
So he felt like his core was being pulled out of him when he opens his apartment door one day receiving a knock to find his parents, who had hadn't seen since they kicked him out of the house after coming clean about being Phantom (their words of anger and denial that their son was 'dead' and now a monster, still hurt)
Sure they didn't attack him or proclaim he's dead but still their last words and anger HURT.
Danny didn't give them a chance to open their mouths, both looking nervous and guilty, before he slams the door close and turns invisible, grabs his phone, and fly's out of his apartment to his partner's place in a panic attack.
His partner, isn't happy.
#danny phantom#danny fenton#crossover#dp x dc#blue rambles#danny phantom dc#writing ideas#random idea#dpxdc#Who Danny is dating is up to the writer/reader#Danny is happy only to feel dread when he sees his parents at his front door#Jack and Maddie have come to try to make amends#does it work? idk again leaving it open for people to play with#they didn't attack him after finding out he's Phantom or proclaim him dead but they said some nasty stuff#Danny booked it out of Amity after that though not wanting to risk it#Danny's partner isnt happy to find their boyfriend in a panic attack after getting a sos text#its been a few years since he and his parents have seen each other#Danny and his partner relationship with their own families/friends are once again left open for the writer/reader to play with#Is Danny still friends with Sam and Tucker? Or have they grown apart after Danny left? Was Sam upset he 'abandoned' Amity Park/her?#Was Tucker upset too? Idk again leaving it up to anything#Is he still in contact with Jazz? Or has she been pushing him to try to talk with their parents only it keeps rubbing Danny wrong#IDK I felt angsty today and wanna make some people join me in my sad corner. Join me. Join me. Join meeeeeeeeeee -pats seat next to me-
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mmm throwaway conversation between Dan and Danny that popped into my head that I had to write out:
"You spent ten years being a one-man mass extinction event, then went back in time and fought me, and lost." Danny snarls, arms crossed and throat tight. His mouth pulls back to bare dagger-sharp teeth, and his eyes burn with the familiar thrum of ectoplasm heating up behind his eyes. "If I didn't believe you were half of Vlad before, I do now."
His other self -- and really, can he even call him that? He's half of Vlad too. Two halves severed from each other and welded together to make a new whole, -- snaps his head over to him. Wild-eyed and furious, he looks unlike the man Danny fought before, the one unruffled and untouched, unbothered by the world around him. It's familiar, but not like the way a reflection is.
"What's that supposed to mean." The Other hisses, matching Danny's scowl one-for-one with fangs much bigger and sharper than his.
But there's a reason lions fear hyenas. Danny matches the rumble in The Other's chest with one of his own, and shoves his face close to his. "I don't lose."
#danny fenton#danny phantom#dp prompt#danny phantom prompt#dan phantom#dark danny#not meant for any particular au i just had the idea of danny going 'wow you can tell you're half of vlad' to dan and when questioned abt it#he says; 'if you were REALLY only me you wouldn't have lost' which is fucking BASED as hell. and also technically true#thought process for danny here was 'hates dan's fucking GUTS bc he tried to kill his family and friends without remorse and would actively#rip out his throat without a moment's notice.' some fr 'im going to beat you to death with my bare hands!' vibes rn.#not totally in character for danny but also i was thinking that it got to this point bc dan was goading danny about 'being his future self'#when that's not technically true. he's half of vlad too he just has danny's face and powers. and he pissed off danny enough that he#retaliated. just not in the way dan expected. dan was expecting a physical attack not a verbal one.#danny called him a loser in more ways than one.#also the reason danny never calls him 'dan' in this is because i was thinking that danny doesn't actually *have* a name to call him. bc he'#certainly not danny. but he's not vlad either. he's someone else entirely. so 'The Other' it is.#danny fenton is not the ghost king#<- down here because while its still MY DP post its not DPXDC so it doesnt need to be front and center for people to see it.
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Every day i read a post where people write that “Bruce Wayne has an adoption problem” or that Danny is adoption bait on the first second of seeing him, not even knowing if he has a want of vengeance and a sad backstory and parallels to Bruce, and every day I want to softly cry in a corner.
#guys I fucking beg of you. do you know how common black hair blue eye people are in comics#Danny isn’t unique#bones rants#bones speaks#Bruce would first try to help Danny. there’s no way he’d instantly go into adoption if he just sees Danny exist in a strange place#make there be DRAMA make there be INTRIGUE#instead of ‘oh adoption bait :3’ make there a dramatic ass reason why he’s taken under Bruce’s wing#I see a lot of these but still there’s so many ‘oh u look like my kids guess you’re mine now’#and like what. guys. where is the Danny being a Ward and not adopted#let Bruce see Danny’s parents die in front of Danny and have him instantly connect with Danny over a similar familial death#or have Tim take him under his wing bc Danny is stalking the Bats trying to see if the man will try to convince him to leave Gotham#anything.#bones high ass rants
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This is "Miriel alive!!" zoomies so just imagine the "ISILDUR ALIVE!!!" zoomies
#ALSO. THIS IS THE ONLY GENUINE SMILE FROM ELENDIL SINCE ISILDUR'S 'DEATH'#Earien: “right in front of my salad? What about me? I thought I was about to lose you my only remaining family member”#Elendil#Miriel#tar miriel#Tar-Míriel#trop#rop#trop spoilers#the rings of power#miriel x elendil#elendil x miriel#rings of power#Queen Miriel#lotr trop#Numenor#The Rings of Power#mirendil#Rings of Power#TROP#ROP#cynthia addai robinson#lloyd owen#trop 2x06
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