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This is such a great idea for self defense!!
#fuck the patriarchy#misandry#feminism#self defense#self defense for women#radical feminist community#intersectional feminism#women rights
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Previously, on X-Men: The Hypocrisy Games....
OMG, Charles, we're not kids! We inexperienced rubes are totally ready to stop WW3! Ugh, you're always so overprotective!
OMG, Charles, they're just kids! How could you put a heavily trained fighting force in danger?! You have no regard for our safety!
Why do I have to stay covered up during the segregated '60s? The world should worship my blue!
How dare Charles create a world that worships my blue in the integrated '80s-90s? Ew, better cover up.
#x men first class#anti dark phoenix#anti days of future past#anti x men apocalypse#anti xma#anti xmdofp#anti xmdp#Jennifer Lawrence#anti raven darkholme#James McAvoy#Charles Xavier#Nonstop hypocrisy in these movies#anti mystique#I love Charles Xavier#anti misandry#Charles Xavier Defense Squad#Charles Xavier Appreciation Society#Charles Xavier deserves better#Charles Xavier deserved better#Charles' Angels#Xavier Institute of Individuality#Xavier Siblings#Team Charles
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me: men are suffering from patriarchy too and deserve to be protected
sillygirl.txt in my notes: >:( no they've hurt me personally
me: ok but not every man has hurt you and not every man will. some men are good and nice
sillygirl.txt: ok but where are they
me: everywhere! heres some examples of nice men in my life
sillygirl.txt: >:( i bet they all watch evil porn
....... im starting to see why you might not be meeting many nice people. completely regardless of gender lmfao
#hey if you always make the worst assumptions about someone and then firmly believe those to be true#then yeah people might not be very nice to you lol#cus your attitude and assumptions are showing#and no one likes being treated like an evil predator by random people right off the bat#guess what. it makes people angry and defensive and then they're not gonna be giving you their best#surprise surprise#if you expect all men to be evil then you will get the confirmation bias#of noticing when men are not great and completely side lining all the instances that you will have no doubt encountered#of men being friendly nice and harmless#if you're only looking for the predators then the predators is all you're gonna see#what a sad existence. couldn't be me#i need a tag for my own rambles#antimasculism#misandry#if you really wanted to know where the nice men are you wouldn't be immediately trying to prove that the nice men i know are actually evil
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Ya'll, quit being assholes to men!
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here is a life hack i have learned for if you get harassed in public a lot.
(for example i get catcalled and hit on by men a lot just when i am out especially at night. the majority of them i can either ignore and they will stop or are fine with hearing no)
BUT this works especially if you are in an unsafe area or know you are going to be alone somewhere especially at night.
buy a cheap engagement / wedding ring on amazing. they can be so cheap im talking like 5-15 dollars.
this obviously won’t stop them from talking to always to you but men (in my experience respond so much better to this)
here are some things i say
“no i’m married”
“my husband is waiting in the car”
or you just show them the ring the sometimes works too.
(i obviously don’t wear it all the time but if i know i’m going to be alone or somewhere where i am not super safe it has saved me so many times) ESPECIALLY IN CABS AND UBERS
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Lovely. Instead of sleeping, my head is in the bad place. Charles' Angels? A little help, please!
#Charles Xavier#James McAvoy#Jennifer Lawrence#I wish Katniss was Charles' sister#anti misandry#intrusive thoughts#Charles Xavier deserved better#I love Charles Xavier#Charles Xavier protection squad#Charles Xavier appreciation#platonic love#pro man#Charles Xavier Defense Squad#anti raven darkholme#anti erik lehnsherr#Charles Angels#Xavier Institute of Individuality
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Just read screenshots of the Aaron extra chapter and I have so many thoughts, so here they are:
It's always so funny to me to be reminded of the fact that the animosity between Aaron and Neil is mostly one-sided. Like, Neil finds Aaron frustrating, but all the antagonistic stuff he does to him is ultimately in service of helping him in some way and while he's angry when Aaron provokes him, he otherwise regards him with disinterest and even expresses the desire to see what he's like when he's relaxed and enjoying himself during the party with the Vixens. Meanwhile Aaron just really hates that man.
I really appreciated Nora using this chapter to clear up some of the gripes a lot of the fandom has had with Aaron's character in the past and confirm that Aaron's comments to Nicky have to do with his cousin making graphic and unwanted sexual advances on their teammates, and his accusations towards Neil were from a place of concern for his brother. I also liked that it was pointed out that of course he would have at least some internalized homophobia due to being raised by religious zealots in a conservative area, but is unlearning it due to Nicky.
On a similar note, I'm glad that we were provided the context that Nicky's inappropriate behavior is a defense mechanism to weed out people who might hurt him rather than legitimate advances, because I think the fandom tends to forget that he is also a character with extreme trauma written outside of the "perfect victim" stereotype. His actions aren't okay, but the entire point is that they are the result of what he's had to endure just like every other member of the team
The implication that Andrew specifically signed with the Foxes so Aaron could go to college
Aaron and Andrew have the same nervous habit of picking at loose thread
It causes me physical pain to see Andrew clearly trying to open up to Aaron about his self-harm, but because his way of communicating is less straightforward (he doesn't lie, but he because he stuggles to confront and be open with his emotions, he presents the truth in flowery, vague language) and because the two dont really know or understand each other, Aaron can't fully grasp the implications of what he's saying
On the subject of things that cause me physical pain: baby Aaron telling his mom that he wanted to be a neurosurgeon like the people on TV and her laughing and saying he'd never make anything of himself. Fuck Tilda Minyard, all my homies hate Tilda.
Andrew is so uncomfortable, someone Get Him Out of There.
Going off that and his nervous habits (that Aaron mentions he did often enough to be noticable as a habit premedication), I am highkey wondering if the reason Sober Andrew doesn't talk to anyone outside Neil is because he's just. Socially Awkward.
We get a little bit of insight into Andrew's "misogyny" (I personally think distrusting certain people as a result of extreme personal trauma is a little bit different than just being sexist, in the same way women distrusting men because they're used to being harassed and belittled isn't misandry, but that's up to your personal opinion) and that his distain for Katelyn comes from the fact that he thinks she's stringing Aaron along and will turn out to be awful like his previous girlfriends (there's also a notable implication that Aaron has the same self-destructive tendencies as Andrew, and may be why he went out of his way to get him into college and on the straight-and-narrow) also see that this extends to Bee as well despite their close relationship, with him being so afraid that she'd reject him for being gay that he can't even look at her while talking about Neil, probably made worse by the fact that she's a maternal figure for him, which is where this trauma response originates.
Aaron is the only person on the team who's aware that Andrew hasn't slept with Neil, and the only one to grasp the significance of the fact that they've gotten close to that point already despite Andrew's trauma, outside of Renee
It was overall really interesting to see inside Aaron's head (I actually wouldn't mind a book from his perspective, he has a similar way of thinking to Neil but much more grounded) and to see Andrew through the lense of someone who just views him as Just A Guy
#obligatory disclaimer that these are my OPINIONS#im not going to tolerate anyone being rude or hateful#aaron minyard#andrew minyard#aftg#aftg extra chapters#all for the game#all for the game extra chapters
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I do not like Billie Eillish.
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Kind of funny how often that happens.
"We need to make sure everyone is treated fairly!"
"Treat men like humans."
https://www.tumblr.com/damnfandomproblems/768886899447382016/6569-the-conversation-has-shifted-a-bit-away-from?source=share
Most people are well aware those always had male fans. The other issue that is being ignored, is how many act like women were NEVER apart of those fandoms, blame men for that "logical" conclusion and each fanbase now has a duty to kick out men to make way for fandom women.
And many of those same people who are all like "excluding certain fans are okay!" get so worked up whenever preexisting fandom women say there didn't need to be any change and bullying men is not a good thing. All this bullying will never be justifiable.
And who is mostly screaming at fandom women who were already there for years? Accusing them of internalized misogyny for disagreeing?
Other women.
How ironic.
It's astounding how many people claim they care about equality yet they can't handle something as simple as "be nice to men".
Posting as a response to a previous ask.
#fandom discourse#fandom double standards#fandom problems#heavy ooooof#one post. ONE. POST. simply said “men tend to feel ostracized in certain fandom circles. no one deserves that. treat men as humans.”#and so many responses instantly bawled their eyes out. got defensive for no reason. and immediately got enraged. it's pathetic.#this level of bullying and treating others like nothing should never be approved of.#fandom sexism#fandom misandry#“participation of men in fandoms is encouraged!” then they turn around and say junk like this
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Just Business
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Pairing | Robert Fischer x dom!reader
Summary | He’s a brat and deserves way worse than this tbh.
Warnings | Smut, non con more like dubcon tbh, heavy misandry🤭, humiliation, degradation, light praise, cunnilingus, brat taming.
Words | 2.4 k
Notes | Idk this was originally supposed to be way more non con-y than it turned out lol.
Ao3 link | <3
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You had an appointment with Robert Fischer at 2pm… An hour later and you were still waiting. Finally his secretary brought you into his office.
“Ah, yes— The potential partner. Let’s hear it then.” He sighed leaning back in his chair. You sat down on the chair in front of his desk, trying to mask your anger.
“Our meeting was supposed to be at 2.”
“Yes, well, something came up.” You already didn’t like him…
“If this is the way you treat your business partners, I don’t think we’ll be a good fit,” you started, but he cut you off.
“I thought they were sending someone to go over the proposal— not an assistant.” He huffed. You clenched your jaw as you stared at him, holding back your emotions.
“The man you spoke to on the phone who scheduled the meeting was my assistant.” That made him scoff. “You know what? Thank you for your time, Mr. Fischer, but I don’t think we’re a good fit for each other.” You said, standing up.
He let you get halfway across the room before he stopped you. “Wait.” He sighed. “I... apologize for my lack of professionalism. Please continue with your proposal.” Even though you wanted to leave, you forced yourself to sit back down.
As you spoke, Robert seemed to have a hard time paying attention. There were rumors that he was a nepo baby through and through, but you didn’t think he’d actually be unqualified… You were handing him printed notes as you explained that detailed the numbers and what not. However, it didn’t really seem like he even understood what was on the papers…
“Mr. Fischer,” you said impatiently when he, once again, was just staring out the window.
“Sorry.” He cleared his throat, looking at you again.
“Am I boring you?” You asked plainly, reaching the limit of your patience.
“Not you… Just.. the content…” You couldn’t believe how incompetent this man was. Sighing heavily, you closed your eyes for a moment to compose yourself.
“Is there anyone else I can meet with? Your father perhaps?”
“He doesn’t handle this kind of stuff.”
“Clearly you don’t either.” You scoffed before you could help it.
“I handle it just fine.” He suddenly snapped, getting defensive. “Usually I meet with men who just talk to me, not give a whole presentation like a robot. And I’m not constantly distracted by their tits.” He spat, glancing at your chest for a few seconds before meeting your gaze again.
You raised your brows, giving him an unimpressed look. “Hm…” You finally hummed, getting lost in thought. Robert was surprisingly misogynistic for how… non-dominant he seemed to be.
“What?” And he just kept getting brattier… You finally stood up, but you didn’t gather your things to leave. Instead, you slowly rounded the desk until you were standing next to his chair. He turned to face you, looking both confused and irritated. Placing one hand on the back of his chair and leaning down into his space, you used your other hand to grab his cheeks, holding him still.
“Listen closely, Mr. Fischer because I’m only going to say this once.” You told him, your voice low and stern— almost sensual… He almost seemed shocked, but he hid it fairly well. “My boss wants this partnership to work out. Based on the way you asked me to stay, I’m assuming your father feels the same. I’ve laid out all of the facts for you, but since you can’t seem to understand, I’m going to change the terms of the deal.” He frowned when you blatantly insulted his intelligence.
“You’re going to prove to me that you want it— that you’re willing to work for it. If I’m satisfied, then we’ll move forward with this partnership. If not, well… I’m sure your daddy will be very disappointed.”
You felt his cheeks tense under your fingers when he clenched his jaw. “How am I supposed to do that?” He scoffed, his bratty attitude still going strong. You released him and straightened up, looking down your nose at him.
“Get on your knees.”
“Excuse me?” He choked out, staring at you with wide eyes.
“Get on your fucking knees or I’m leaving.” You said harshly. He hesitated for a moment, then clenched his jaw again. Finally, he moved to the floor, kneeling at your feet. “There you go…” You cooed mockingly, making him scowl. You walked around him to take his place in the chair. “Face me.” He huffed, but turned around toward you.
“Have you figured it out yet or do I need to spell it out for you?” He watched the way you settled back into the chair, your legs spread as wide as your pencil skirt would allow.
“You… Are you insane? I’m not fucking doing that!”
“No?” You cooed, tilting your head as you looked down at him. “Fine. I’ll leave and I’ll tell my assistant to call your daddy— tell him why this deal didn’t go through.” Despite your words, you didn’t move, giving him another chance. “Or…” Your voice lowered and you leaned forward, reaching out to grab his tie. He let out a choked sound when you yanked on it, pulling him closer. “You can be a good little boy and put that bratty mouth of yours to good use.”
“H-How dare you? Coming here— to a building with my fucking name on it— calling me bratty? I should be contacting your superiors.” He scoffed, making you smirk. Even with the outburst, you could tell he was already crumbling.
“I wouldn’t call you bratty if you’d stop behaving like a brat.” You said plainly, only making him more angry. “Listen, Robert,” you sneered patronizingly, “either you eat me out or I leave. You don’t have any other options.”
“No! Are you even hearing yourself?” He yelled, making you sigh. “I- I have a girlfriend. I’m not just going to cheat on her because you’re blackmailing me.”
“Blackmailing? Please,” you scoffed, “I’m not blackmailing you. And I’d hardly call this cheating.”
“Then what the fuck would you call it?” He asked in disbelief.
You hummed softly in thought as you considered it for a moment. “Business.” You all but shrugged. He watched with wide eyes as you grabbed the hem of your skirt and lifted it up above your hips, showing your panties. “Get to it, Robert. You’ve already made me late for another meeting, you don’t want to be the reason I miss a second one today.”
He gaped at you, his gaze shifting between your eyes and your crotch. “You’re fucking insane.” He finally said.
“No. I just actually earned my position and I have plenty of experience with bratty men who are used to getting everything they want.” He clenched his jaw and the tips of his ears tinged red with anger. “I won’t tell you again, Robert. You have five seconds to start or I’m leaving.”
Robert let out a heavy breath through his nose, but moved forward reluctantly, practically seething in rage at the fact that you were sitting in his chair in his office in ‘his’ building, demanding he service you sexually. And yet…
He pulled your panties to the side and got to work. At his clear attitude and lack of enthusiasm, you sighed in annoyance.
“I thought this was obvious, but if you do a shitty job, this deal isn’t going through.” You told him.
“Fuck you.” He gritted… but obeyed nonetheless. You let out a pleased moan when he dragged his tongue up your folds to your clit before sucking the swollen bud into his mouth.
“There you go…” You cooed mockingly, spreading your legs wider for him. He rolled his eyes, but didn’t bother with a retort. “God you’re fucking pathetic.” You muttered, looking away from him, bored. You examined his desk, snorting a laugh at the online game that was on his computer screen. At the sight of the coffee cup, you picked it up and took off the lid to smell it— black with sugar… not your favorite, but after sitting in that lobby for over an hour, you deserved a pick-me-up.
When he heard you drinking, he pulled back. “Are you fucking serious?”
“Three, two,” and just like that, he was back between your legs. You scoffed a laugh and took another sip of the coffee. “Only a man would be so pathetic and incompetent, he has to eat me out just to make a simple business deal.” You muttered to yourself, loud enough that he could hear though. With the exception of Robert, you made a mental note to tell your boss to stop giving you all the stupid potential business partners.
“At least you’re pretty though.” You sighed, running your freehand through his hair, making his eyes snap up to your face. God- his eyes… So fucking pretty— They’d probably look even more pretty all glossy with tears… “I swear, if you weren’t such a dick, I’d take you to dinner instead of making you eat me out like a common whore.” You frowned, feeling almost disappointed. “But maybe you’re only a dick because I haven’t put you in your place yet.”
He tried to pull back, but you just grabbed his hair and yanked him forward again, burying his face in your pussy— You were mostly talking outloud to yourself anyway, so he didn’t need to worry about doing something as silly as talking back.
“I’ll wait and see what your attitude is like after you make me come all over your face, then I’ll decide whether I should have my assistant set up dinner or not.” You decided. Robert tried to speak, but you were holding him against your cunt too firmly. “Shh… You’re so much prettier when you’re not running your mouth, sweetheart.” The way his cheeks went bright red made you grin sadistically.
“Use a finger.” You commanded, getting antsy for your orgasm already. Robert huffed, but used the hand that wasn’t holding your panties to slide a finger inside you. “Good boy.” You smiled. He let out a quiet sound when you started petting his hair again.
“You should feel lucky, you know. I’ve been so busy recently that I’ve barely had any time to get off for almost two weeks straight so I’m already getting close.” He let out another muffled sound in response, slipping a second finger inside you. “Oh, look at you… Such a good boy taking initiative.” You cooed mockingly. Was he just trying to get this over with faster? Maybe… But you didn’t really care. You’d have plenty more opportunities for Robert to take his time now that you were going to be business partners.
The constant suction on your clit with the way his fingers curled inside you made your back arch off the chair, pushing your hips down onto his face. Robert might’ve been a spoiled brat, but damn if he wasn’t amazing at eating pussy…
“God- you look so fucking pathetic with your pretty face buried in my pussy… and you love it, don’t you?” He grunted something unintelligible, but it wasn’t an obvious denial, at least. “Yeah you do.” You chuckled.
“C’mon, Robert… Be a good boy and make me come— make your daddy proud and secure this partnership all on your own like a big boy.” You couldn’t help but smirk as you patronized him, but he didn’t get angry or try to pull away. He just let out another sound and started sucking and licking more enthusiastically.
You brought your other hand down to his head as well, holding him firmly against your cunt. Your toes were curling in your heels as the pleasure continued building, until finally it all snapped.
You bit your lip to stifle a moan, knowing you couldn’t be too loud since you were still in an unlocked office. Robert whimpered when you forced his face against your pussy hard enough to squish his nose against your pubic bone and limit his breathing. Despite that, he never stopped sucking on your clit or moving his fingers inside you. Your cunt was gushing and pulsing around his digits, your clit throbbing in his mouth as waves of pleasure rolled through you, and nonsensical praises left your lips.
“Fucking hell… I needed that more than I thought I did.” You said through a breath, panting heavily. As you sagged back into the chair, you loosened your grip on him, but didn’t let go completely, you just let him pull back a tiny bit. He was also panting, the lower half of his face almost completely drenched, his cheeks a dark pink, and his eyes glazed over with what you assumed was lust.
“You were better at that than I thought you’d be…” You told him, but he barely reacted. “Take your fingers out and suck them clean.” You ordered, wanting to test whether he was still just out of it, or if you actually broke him down already.
He carefully extracted his fingers, then put them in his mouth, his eyes fluttering as he sucked off your arousal.
“Huh.” You said to yourself, slightly shocked— That was way too easy… As another test, you picked up his coffee cup and took another sip, making sure he was watching.
He just licked his lips, then cleared his throat. “…Are you going through with the partnership?” He managed to say, and you couldn’t hold back a smirk in time.
“I need to think about it some more. My assistant will call you tomorrow to arrange dinner plans. I’ll give you my decision then.” You finally released his hair and ran your fingers through it a little, trying to smooth it out so it didn’t look like he just had his head buried between your legs… “Do you have anything you want to say to me for giving you another chance?”
“Thank you.” Your smirk turned into a pleased smile and you cupped his cheek, brushing your thumb over his bottom lip.
“You’re welcome, sweetheart. Keep being a good boy and I’m sure this partnership will work out just fine.” He nodded dumbly in response and you stood up, fixing your panties and pulling your skirt back down. Robert just stared up at you, almost in a trance, and watched in awe.
“Oh, and, Robert?” You leaned down a little, taking his warm cheeks in your hand to make sure you had his full attention. “The next time you think you can get away with being a brat to me, you’ll be doing much worse than just eating me out.” You smiled sweetly, making his poor, fucked out little head lag as he struggled to understand the real meaning behind your words.
(Also yes, I already started part 2 lol)
#robert fischer smut#robert fischer x reader#robert fischer#robert fischer x reader smut#cillian murphy
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How do you rank the prosecutors on order of homophobia
forgot about this in my drafts for literally months oops. Anyway. Finished now!!!!
So I made this post a while ago that has some of the prosecutors and antagonists, but if you want a ranking of EVERY prosecutor (not including DGS bc i haven't finished yet) huzzah!!
Simon Blackquill: Not actually homophobic but he gets points docked for siccing Taka (known homophobe) at Klavier (known bisexual) for stealing his pretzels from the office pantry that one time. 3/10
Blaise Debeste: I think he's gay but he made me look at that ugly ass beard for far too long and I consider that disrespectful. out of principle? 8/10
Sebastian Debeste: Just look at him. 0/10
Miles Edgeworth: Bratworth was simultaneously gay, homophobic, and a misogynist, and eventually develops into a man who is only like 1.5 of those things. he's getting better. 5/10
Byrne Faraday: I don't really think he cares much about gay people he's busy being a single father and stealing shit. For the apathy? 2/10
Klavier Gavin: He's extremely gay and does a lot of work for the gay community but making Ema Skye deal with him is explicitly lesbophobic so 4/10
Godot: He has a lovely wife but whatever he was doing with Ron DeLite was probably not osha-compliant. I don't know what that means for his sexuality or stance on gay people and neither does he. ?/10
Ga'ran: I think she has a lot of other problems she should deal with first but considered she's bigoted to defense attorneys I don't think her being homophobic would be that out of pocket. Not sure I want to find out. 7/10
Neil Marshall: Have you ever been a gay bar? This guy would do NUMBERS. Also, real cowboys support gay rights. 0/10
Gaspen Payne: Being homophobic is actually why he got fired by the prosecutor's office and Winston is really fucking embarrassed about it. 10/10
Winston Payne: You'd think he'd be homophobic but you can't work for the Japanifornia Prosecutor's Office and hate gay people or you would actually go insane. He's like that one suburban guy who uses terms from the 60s but has the spirit. However, his ally lapel pin is really ugly so 3/10
Jaques Portman: He was calling Edgeworth slurs even before realizing he was gay. 9/10
Lana Skye: Dated Mia in college but refused to explain that to Ema because she has a lot of internalized homophobia and other weird issues of self. Repressed yuri personified. 1/10
Nahyuta Sahdmadhi: He supports gay people but gets all his talking points from the internet so even though he's supportive he's also incredibly fucking annoying about it and no one wants to invite him to brunch because of it. Stop using twitter for fact-checking you jackass. 2/10
Franziska Von Karma: Despite the fact that her lesbianism is so strong it borders on misandry, I think she has a lot of internalized homophobia so she spends the first 25 years of her life being a judgmental little shit. She'll get better dw about it. I believe she can bring that number down with time. 6/10
Manfred Von Karma: I think when he finds out Edgeworth is gay he starts going to gay bars and picking up dudes just to show Edgeworth he has way more rizz than him. Considering how people in my notes have told me on numerous occasions how much they want him carnally, I think he could actually pull it off. In that respect I think he's done a lot for the gay community. It ends up cancelling out somewhat because I think he'd be kind of an ass about it. 4/10
#ace attorney#simon blackquill#blaise debeste#sebastian debeste#franziska von karma#manfred von karma#nahyuta sadhmadhi#godot#garan#lana skye#winston payne#gaspen payne#neil marshall#miles edgeworth#byrne faraday#klavier gavin#jaques portsman#ask#mod vex#headcanons
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Maybe it only exists in this one area (I'm willing to capitulate to that), but how do you explain a lot of the instances where women get custody of the kids in divorce court? My cousin almost didn't get custody of his kids even though their mother was on meth and fucking random guys in hotel rooms with the kids in the room watching. He has no history of physical or emotional abuse, no recorded drug history, no criminal history and had to appeal for custody. To me, that is some level of misandry. But again, I am willing to admit I am wrong here.
oh my god. what year is it? hello? that stat was only ever true if you looked at all cases including ones where the dad never even asked for custody, if you narrow it down to cases where both parents asked for custody the dad gets a favorable arrangement most of the time. so really the biggest obstacle to men getting custody (assuming they even want it in the first place) is that they figure it's pointless applying for it, in part because of MRA memes like "men never get custody". come on dude, this is like the Sicilian Defense of "misandry" discourse
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THIS!! Correct!
me: I should really confront my issues and stop feeling so nervous at the thought of talking to women. I mean it's not like they see me as a violent monster *"Bear vs. Man" happens* me: Oh. Guess I'll go back into my cave then
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The Yaoi Community is so ignorant to the issues other gay men faced from toxic yaoi fangirls
Warning: Minors do not retweet, interact or like my posts if I found out you're a minor you might get blocked.
Btw I'm not using f*joshi bec I found out it's a misogynistic term so I'll use Yaoi fangirls although the people using that term when it comes to criticism for Yaoi Fangirls may not realized it's a sexist term and I used that word before and not realizing it was sexist, just bec you may not seen a yaoi fangirl assaulting gay men for not having sex that doesn't excuse blind ignorance of sexual harassment gay men faced from yaoi fangirls. Also I'm not ignoring if there are other queer women who experienced being assaulted by men and I've seen other women who have issues with men in how they seen lesbians and I think they deserved better, also I used to consumed real life gay porn from websites in the past not until I found out recently that there are few stories of gay guys who tell their horrifying stories from the sex industry that includes a gay sex worker who was abused from his work and disliked Hazbin Hotel's depiction of SA and his thoughts on Poison, it just pisses me off that the Yaoi community will be ignorant to bad behaviors the community has been criticized for years by gay men who have valid criticisms so that they can defend themselves of using terms like Misogyny or the classic "You just hate women that can't enjoy BL!" When there's problematic behaviors in the community that's been a problem.
Yes the women who did this to him is Sexual Harassment, it's gross.
For the last comment there are guys I've seen who were also hated for fetishization, there are people having heated discussions on that from what I've seen.
Also this is the worst one bec this is really disgusting, an asian man was being helped by a man on his chest bec I believe this is related to injury from the Olympics and guess what the toxic yaoi fangirls make art and sexualized him. This is Online Sexual Harassment, this is distasteful to be honest, poor guy he deserved better.
This comment definitely surprised me
Hello?! Just bec there are certain men who did bad things to women that doesn't mean other women can do bad things to men, can we acknowledge that Sexual Harassments on both genders is bad?
This is all I have to post, I'm a Yaoi fangirl for all these years ever since I started as a teen, I used to have sh#tty views on men in the past during my Yaoi and Proshipper phase back then but as of growing up I'm starting to try and be open about the real issues in real life and I'm trying my best to be open and understanding as possible, and btw I'm no longer a Proshipper and I'm still a Yaoi fangirl but as someone who is part of the community, I can't just ignore the issues and normalization of bad behaviours and sexism of the community which is unfortunate it gives the Yaoi fangirls who don't participate in bad behaviours a bad name and it's sad bec there are times I feel ashamed of being a Yaoi fangirl, and what I'm hoping is that the Yaoi Community should call out bad behaviours instead of trying to act like being innocent all the time and did nothing wrong but also try to blame Misogyny as a defense card when people criticize their bad behaviors. Also Toxic Yaoi fangirls who participate in bad behaviours can be Misandrists themselves towards straight and gay men. Yes Misandry exists, stop trying to tell me it doesn't exist it's like saying Misogyny can't exist, Sexism in both genders can exist in Society.
The reason I brought up Hazbin Hotel bec I'm going to make a second post about Viv's sexist views on gay men since I've made a post on Helluva Boss and that second post on Hazbin will take time since I have college workload to do in Thesis and Foreign Language and Visual Effects. So if you're interested reading my analysis and criticisms of Viv's work here's the link.
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Buggy has such an intense "I support women's rights AND wrongs" energy, I headcanon that he is friends with every woman the Roger pirates have ever interacted with, Shanks was running around playing badass pirate and he was sitting in a corner letting Toki braid his hair or Shakky pinch his cheeks or Rouge feed him and coddle him. His first thoughts of the Rayleigh and Shakky union is that Shakky is too cool for his old ass. He thinks Alvida's misandry tyranny is hilarious, that Perona is just darling and that Nami might have swindled him but she at least had the correct pirate spirit. He is low-key a misandrist to me and women in universe love him the same way Paris Hilton loves chihuahuas in a pink outfit
Have you considered that Buggy is the GNC queen and gender isn't a thing for them? Because I do. I do think so. Gender does not matter to him. Unless it's about women because women are better than men. His gender? Unknown. Whatever he feels like at the moment. But if you ask him, women at least look good doing what they do and men are just- Iugh. (Funny enough, he ends up with Shanks/Crocodile/Mihawk and Alvida is all like "Dude, not men-" and Buggy is like "I am sorry. I know").
You know that scene from Hercules? Hades saying "HE'S A GUY!!!!". Well, that's Buggy's energy to me. That Joey scene from Friends saying "You got pregnant for funny? Dina... If he's funny... LAUGH!". That's it. He just fucking hates men. And honestly? Valid.
He was the bestest friend of Toki. I just know he told her everything that bothered him about Shanks and she had to sit for hours thinking "I know what you are". He keeps thinking that Shakky and Rouge are too good for Rayleigh and Roger. I just know he has the most amazing all-nighters with Alvida literally only talking shit about others. Perona comes to see Mihawk while the Cross Guild is in a meeting and Buggy loves her. Whenever somebody asks him about the Strawhats he gets all defensive and talks shit about them except about Nami bc she's just like him fr.
I just think Buggy is the type to hate men but just because he admires women too much. Also, he's frightened of them, so that's something.
#buggy is enby to me or something#gender? clown. his pronouns are ha/ha.#no but really buggy is too gender to be a man i wanna look like him so bad#and also he's the bestst friend of women#you know the whole 'dogs are a man's bff'? well buggy is the bff of women#one piece#buggy the clown
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