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Me (delusional): twenty minutes until phan is revealed to be #1 ship 🤩
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Hi Sada,
I’m so sorry, there’s a lot to keep up with here lately and I’m thinking I missed something. I saw your post about Harry meeting up with Louis recently, which 🥰🥰, love that! But I was wondering when did this happen? Again, I apologize if it’s obvious and I just didn’t see it somehow? Hope your weekend has been great!
Hey no problem! My weekends been great 🥰
And yeah right at the end of June for Louis’ SF show and LA show! Harry’s show was Wednesday June 28th in Germany and then he didn’t have another show until Sunday July 2nd in Poland. Louis didn’t have a show on June 28th but then had three shows back to back, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
My headcanon - and nothing has disproven this yet - is that Harry left immediately after his show in Germany. He and Louis met up in SF either very late on the 28th or early morning of the 29th. Harry was there for Louis’ SF and LA show and then immediately headed back to London for his cousin’s wedding. Louis left from LA to Vegas just as quick since he was seen partying with Steve Aoki after Steve’s set at 11am.
🥰 and nothing has disproved this yet. @becomeawendybird even linked me to one of Louis’ band mates girlfriend post from her time in SF and there wasn’t a single pic with Louis included, even though Oli was there. And these weren’t just posed pictures either. Soooo yeah.
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How did your meeting go with the surgeons?
it was memorable
#sci speaks#the sci files#im glad i've done all the research. i feel okay. i feel safe and confident. and the doctors have all been really kind and helpful.#lots of good vibes. and they're moving me through the system so quickly. i'm glad it'll be dealt with so soon.#feels so crazy that this has been going on. right under my skin. and it's all explained now and i feel so much more in control.#i know whats going on!! with my funky body!! no more unanswered questions!!#i feel really good these days. optimistic. i feel like i understand myself a lot more and it means i'm better to myself.#but you'll all have to be patient with me. please be patient with me like i've learnt to be patient with myself.
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The thing about Wyll is that he Gets It. He knows the story. He knows the kind of man his father is and the kind of man he was supposed to be. He knew what Mizora was when he made the pact. He knew what it meant. And he was just a kid, and his city needed saving, so he did it, and he paid that price, and even knowing all of that he still tried to appeal to his father for understanding and forgiveness.
He sold his soul to do the right thing. And he was cast out. And he knew what character that should have made him.
He knows the story he's in, and every day he chooses who he wants to be instead.
#he gets it!! he fucking gets it!!!!#genre aware yet furiously optimistic king!!!!!#hes literally the peoples princess#“baldurs gate isnt a monarchy” then explain the peoples princess wyll ravengard#bg3#the Wyll to live tag#anyway sorry for waxing poetic i just remembered i love him#wyll ravengard#im also watching acofaf. he deserves to be in a regency world#hed fucking crush#maybe i should... nay ill pocket that sentiment. for now#he said oh the scarred and scorned hero turned villain? nay i shall fucking not
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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so how are we doing Zelda fandom
#legend of zelda#destiel meme#i am.... not Optimistic optimistic per se#but im willing to see what they try to do#anyways hadnt seen anyone do the destiel meme for this yet and it feels like there should be at least one#zelda movie
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sorry for not posting here more lately i was working on a video about fern sex and then i moved to working on a video about ranking plants by hubris and whimsy and then i moved to learning calculus so i could understand cursed biology and then i built a tiny pin loom to learn how to weave with yarn so i could make a little stuffed creature with it and then i moved to learning how to hack a little circuit board but to do that i need to learn how to solder you know how it is
#BUT. i am still optimistic about the first two videos mentioned tbf.#not plonts#do i like the part of myself that makes it very very very hard to finish projects i start? nah. but i am trying to like it more#like im having a good time. i feel unsettled but this is how ive always been lmao
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AYO EDEBIRI for SNL Promo
#ayo edebiri#ayoedebiriedit#userbbelcher#femalegifsource#userbru#useraashna#userjacko#userrachel#tusercourtney#tuserrobin#userspree#userclara#userrobin#tusercj#*#whyd my mom just tell me i'd look good with this haircut#this was actually funny im optimistic for saturday......(as long as they keep d*ve away)
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"my mom found this internship for me. such a slacker, she said. i just hope she doesn't blame herself."
me 🤝 swansea would do anything for this guy
edit: yeah i'll pin this i'm proud
#unnamed friend.jpg#mouthwashing#daisuke#gore#i want to contribute at least one (1) fanart to the tumblr mouthwashing ecosystem cause the art barrage inspires me to create faster#so yahoo crossposting from insta again let's go#anyway real talk during the scene where he's laying on the ground while drunk my heart was like HNNNNGH IM ILL 😭😭😭#love when media introduces an optimistic and determined character and then crushes their spirit like a soda can. yummy stuff#also oh my god i rarely post art on here so checking my personal image tag is a free jumpscare#what do you MEAN my art looked like that only a year ago
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hey actually i do feel like i should make this post because people are so often surprised when I mention that my instagram is monetized. any business account (you can tell that it's a business account because the bio has a subtitle labeling the type of business they are) that has over 10k followers on instagram is eligible for reels monetization and any account with over 15k is eligible for post monetization. There is no requirement to disclose whether or not any given post is monetized, and every post is monetized by default when you opt-in to monetization. be cognizant of what you see and what you like. the payout system is engagement-based and rewards ragebait and engagement farming. and if you are a small artist or content creator, DO NOT let large business accounts repost your work without compensation. they are making money off of you and hoping you won't notice.
#making money from content creation isnt inherently bad obv thats what i do but jesus ever since being monetized#i see those huge fucking meme pages with 'public figure' business affiliation posting twitter screenshots twice a day and im just like#ok so you're a leech. youre stealing other peoples jokes for profit#sigh. whatever#anyways psa instagram monetization is easy. many people you follow are probably monetized. do with this info what you will#personal#also alternative more optimistic takeaway: PLEASE LIKE PEOPLES WORK ON INSTAGRAM IF YOU ENJOY IT. LIKES ARE WHAT PAYS FOR IMAGE POSTS
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A flash and it's born, a flash and it fades.
A flash and it's born, a flash and it fades.
#touga kiryuu#akio ohtori#revolutionary girl utena#rgu#my art#implied csa#yeah.....#yeah.#no one has anything to say#I planed this one out with the kanae and utena comics#ive got other things in thematic negotiation with the ones ive already planned and i would really like to post them all together one day#since the ones im planning are a more.....on the optimistic side#tho id say the kanae comic was optimistic#shine one kanae shine on#anyway im not sure it came across but Nanami at this point can read she is just slow at it and bellow grade level#partially cause both Kiryuu's havent been in regular school up to this point they've just had shitty tutors hired for discretion#Touga's about 14 here and Nanami would be 10#anyway touga is being mean about the reading cause he's gotten the impression it would impress Akio#it doesnt#but he does love to see exploitable interpersonal hostility#....yeah#yeah#comic
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society if phantom of the opera was back on broadway
#id be waking up every morning like im in one of those weirdly optimistic tampon commercials#physically i am at home but spiritually i am sitting in the majestic with a sippy cup cocktail#phantom of the opera#poto#poto shitpost
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missed the boys' birthdays but wanted to draw something regardless 💙💛
#they definitely had joint birthdays as kids idc#i put 86 because im brave and stupidly optimistic 👍#byler#byler fanart#will byers#mike wheeler#will byers fanart#mike wheeler fanart#stranger things#stranger things fanart#my art#yippee#hes back yall#miwi#wiseheart#the dio shirt im insane#what else do i tag its been so long
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not to be absolutely CRAZY but also...how many dots did they put people. HOW MANY DOTS .
#mcr#gerard way#my chemical romance#frank iero#mikey way#ray toro#mcr5#im an mcr5 optimist#also an idiot#unbrella academy#the umbrella academy
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Hello dears ! I am asking you to support my campaign to help me to reach my goal. I am now in bad need to your support to help me stay alive and safe. Gaza is a very dangerous place either on the level of livelihood or on the level of souls. I need your monetary support to ensble me to get the basic needs for my family till Rafah crossing point reopens to move my family to safety and peace.Pleasd help a family be alive through your small donations or througn your shares to others.Thank you so much for your stand beside people in need .
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#asks#palestine#from the river to the sea#from the river to the sea palestine will be free#free palestine#all eyes on palestine#gaza#free gaza#all eyes on gaza#rafah#free rafah#all eyes on rafah#vetted fundraisers#i will say 90-ghost verified by reblogging it. that doesnt mean theres without a doubt#but im optimistic and would rather help than deny it if it is real#if its not really verified let me know- but until theres proof i will be sharing.
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whenever conservative-aligned comics get passed around there’s always a couple of people who add on that comics are inherently liberal and the values shown in *insert comic here* aren’t representative of the industry but like...that’s not true lol. like yes for a majority of their history cape comics have advocated for lefitst policies but that’s not to say that they weren’t also widely populated by prejudices and bigoted ideas. the creators of superman were jewish and they still wrote/drew plently of racist caricatures about the japanese when they were working on the action comics title. let’s not even pretend that misognyny isn’t a prevalent and continuous problem. comics were by and large created by marginalized groups and the silver/dark ages did succeed in tackling a lot of societal problems, but saying that the industry has always been this bastion of moral goodness is not only inaccurate to its history but also discourages conversation about how politics are presented in today’s comics.
#sorry. still thinking about gl comics. its a disease.#also relevant is secret six + birds of prey b/c of how lauded they are for representation but the actual content is just soooo fucking bad#you guys can have coherant conversations about this i belive im optimistic#dc#.thoughts
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