#ik when it’s like ppl are only there bc they just tolerate me or they like what I can give

[bunveh]

kicks rocks ..

[phagodyke]

kind of annoys me sometimes how I can happily listen to my roommate explain the entire plot of whatever she's currently into but when it comes to my interests she can only listen for a few mins before wordlessly walking out of the room

[liquidstar]

Ok so, I have only ever watched one episode of Adventure Time, and it was on a hotel room TV, in terrible hindi dub, and I barely remember it on account of being 10(?) but it horrified me.

I remember the MCs trying to get Ice King a girlfriend or something, but he keeps being a gross asshole so they take him to a lake and point at some swans to try and explain love to him. They point to two swans kissing like ':D' and he's like 'ewww' and then the male swan suCKS IN AND EATS THE FEMALE and IK's like ':)))' while the boys stare in horror.

IDR how the episode ended or how much I watched, but I remember thinking 'wow american cartoons are hardcore. I'm sticking to pirated pokemon from now on.'

And you are telling me that show had lesbians in it leter????

oh my god im so sorry but imagining you watching that swan scene as a 10 year old is so fucking funny, i can understand why you stuck with pirated pokemon LOL

adventure time is absolutely very fucked up in a lot of different ways. the early seasons leaned into that type of absurd shit you just described a lot more especially. while the later ones actually started getting more existential and building on the worlds lore.

there wasnt exactly a focused plot, per say. i mean, there was, but it wasnt something methodical and planned out, it was played by ear. and i think it really worked. the way they did it turned out a really cool magic system (based on the idea that reality is just collective perception, and magic users are aware of this and can manipulate perception ergo reality. but the more cosmic knowledge you have the more insane or depressed you become etc especially if youre mortal), and also cool world building (it takes place in a post apocalypse after a nuclear war, now far into the future the face of the earth has completely changed but the horrors unleashed still impact it today), and also a lot of really amazing themes (the world is always changing and nothing is ever permanent, but no matter how things change things also stay the same, in a different way. especially where bonds and love are concerned. everything stays.)

and YEAH there are lesbians (i mean i always hc marcy as bi but still). and they also come from the shows improvisational nature. theres a lot of genuinely really amazing relationships and plotpoints born out of that to me. like, as the show starts to get a lot more thematically dense later on it can seem like a weird shift. some ppl say it got pretentious over time bc its not as goofy (its still pretty goofy lol), but i think it worked... like... perfectly.

because its a coming of age story where the main character actually ages, it actually feels so right that the world around him begins to seem different too. it makes sense that when he was 12 we were doing stupid goofy adventures, when he was 15 we were watching him deal with a lot of really fucked up trauma, and when he was 17 we watched him learn to grow as a person who thinks beyond simple terms of good and evil.

i know im tottaaallly rambling at this point but theres really an insane amount to talk about with adventure time. the timeline alone is ridiculous. but mostly i think my passion comes down to the fact that i was also growing up with the story, always around the same age as the mc going through similar stuff... even now, the story is focusing on a depressed 20-something trying to find whimsy in her life again. and technically the last episode timeline-wise is about accepting death lol

so like idk how exactly id recommend it to a new viewer, its really possible that a lot of ppl wont be able to really tolerate the early seasons as adults (i mean, i think theyre charming, but i have nostalgia goggles lol). that being said i think that its a series totally worth a shot for everyone... eventually. if it sounds interesting you just gotta accept the goofiness at first and trust that youre in for something wild in a totally different way later on. and totally unique and cool and special in a way nothing else has really been able to capture for me since.

TL;DR: no yeah the show was incredibly fucked up and that swan did eat that other swan. but it does have themes and also lesbians.

[ghostdnfie]

I think there's a lot of phannies in dteam circles actually because I keep seeing them!!

unfortunately I think the bigger issue with a server would be finding enough of them that can tolerate each other because they seem to be scattered across dtblr friend groups that don't get along.

I think your best shot might be approaching people you know are phannies and asking where they usually hang out, since assumedly they've all been existing in both circles for longer and can help :)

(I know that's intimidating though so good luck! I think you're already good at making friends so I believe in you)

same i do see them relatively frequently but the difficult thing with tumblr is that the only way to engage directly with ppl other than dms is publicly (through rb tags or sending asks off anon).

you're right about the tolerating each other part, since coming here in the last year i've learned you're not going to get on with everyone just bc u like the same thing, but sometimes places can get kinda divided especially when they're quite small like ours. ive learned to coexist with nearly everyone online in the dtblr space even if we dont agree on every little thing, bc differences in opinion when it comes to little stuff don't bother me at all.

but in the phandom space, making me feel shitty for liking dream is where i draw the line, simply bc i dont have the energy for that shit when we have to put up with it enough from the wider internet. thing is there's no way of knowing they'll end up doing that before i interact with them so i kinda keep everyone there at an arm's length unless ik they're also a dream stan 💀

oh yeah approaching ppl can feel intimidating 😭 im less nervous than i was when i first joined tumblr but social anxiety still definitely kicks my ass lol. i very rarely send asks off anon but i see ppl often say thats a good way to build connections so maybe i gotta push myself out of my comfort zone a little :') thank u for the advice!!

[golbrocklovely]

I want to say smth and you always seemed like a person who thinks objectively, so excuse me for a harsh topic :

I am kinda tired of stans on Twitter especially expecting their favs to speak about political issues and calling them various names whenever they don’t do it. I acknowledge and agree that big names like f.e Taylor Swift , Ariana, Kim K ( fuck her) or even Snc using their platforms to spread awareness is very much helpful and as much as i wish they could do it, i also understand why a lot of famous names do not want to involve themselves in political issues and tbh it’s not their duty to do so. There is no single situation like this that is simple and on top of that there is plenty fake informations , fake charities, fake news surrounding always such political issues. And to clarify i am and always will be supporting freedom of Palestinial , Congo, Sudan or Ukrainian people, because you will never see or hear me supporting killing and massacring innocent people , their lives and their homes. And that is why it also irritates me when i see people on the Internet focusing more who shared how many informations, who did not share at all , instead of actually focusing on seriousness of what is happening on this world currently. Because things are not looking well and other people suffer shouldn’t be used in a way to drag those who just decided to stay silent. Are they right for this? No, but they are not also wrong for it ( ik it sounds weird, but still). I have seen many celebrities getting dragged even when sharing information about at least Palestine. Either it was Israel supporters or Palestine supporters who claimed that they only do it for damage control. I have also seen people loose their jobs for simply showing support to the victims. I do want see more famous people speaking up , especially about Congo and Sudan, since those two countries are not voiced out as much as Palestine and definitely needs help as well, however i will not tolerate using other people death and suffering used as a way to hating and fighting some bigger figures. Say you are disappointed ! Say you wish they could speak up! But you will never achieve anything with hate speech! It can only have opposite result and it was never right in the first place!

❕The only “celebrities” that I understand hate for are the ones that showed support for Israel! ❕

i get what you're saying, and i agree with you for the most part.

first off, there needs to be a distinction between celebs and influencers. bc sure, snc have a good amount of money. but someone like taylor swift, who is basically worth a BILLION… she can do a lot more than snc could. than most influencers could.

i think my main issue with the entire argument of 'celebs and influencers need to use their voice' is that most ppl that complain aren't actually upset. and i'm not talking about just with this situation happening in gaza (or congo, sudan, ukraine), i'm talking about any major political issue. how any fan berating their favorite reads to me is "i stand for X, and you aren't showing that same political belief, even tho we all know X is a good thing. and bc of that, now i'm being told i'm terrible for not immediately tossing you to the curb. so, i need you to say you also stand for X bc otherwise you make us both look bad."

nobody wants to be a fan of someone problematic. but in my personal opinion, not using your voice isn't problematic. for example, i didn't sub to snc for their political takes on ANYTHING. so if they use their voice, cool. if not, whatever. however, compare that to hasan. i watch his content because of his political takes. if he was saying nothing, i would be shocked and upset.

not only that, i'm a full fledge adult with my own mind, thoughts, and feelings. idc what snc have to say. they don't influence me to feel the way i do about palestine, or congo, ukraine, sudan - nothing. i know genocide is bad, and as long as snc aren't celebrating the death of innocent ppl, than i'm gonna continue to be a fan of them.

what you do when you complain about your favorite not using their voice - all it shows me is that you are making an entire issue about you and your comfortability. you don't like looking bad, and you won't feel better until that's fixed. and especially when we are talking about something as serious as a genocide… i need everyone to just stop making it about themselves. ppl are dying. who cares if you like someone problematic? dear god, touch grass.

the second issue i have is reality is - all of this is pointless. these fans are harping on the wrong thing bc it is a lot easier to bitch in taylor swift's dms and maybe get a response for her social media manager than it is to email our politicians and get no response from them. but those are the ppl we need to be upset at. yes, taylor's got a fuck ton of money. most of which she will never be able to use before she dies, so she should be donating it. i'm not denying that. however, she's not in power. she wasn't elected. her donating would help but it wouldn't stop OUR GOVERNMENT from giving bombs to the IDF to kill innocent palestinians.

we need to be angry at our government. we need to call THEM out. they want us to focus on the micro-influencer that isn't doing "the right thing" rather than the politicians who take our tax dollars and relish in being rich and protected until they croak while being funded by the institutions that allow atrocities like this to happen. FOCUS on what actually matters. do what you can do, and keep pushing for what's right.

free palestine, free congo, free sudan, free ukraine, and fuck anyone that thinks differently. fuck oppressors, may you never know peace.

[shiftinginferno]

I personally don’t/wouldn’t get jealous over most of my S/Os if I saw another shifter shifting for them, my intense jealous rage only bubbles up for the canon love interests of several S/Os of mine 💀 I think both because I’m forced to see it if I’m watching the show and also probably an inner worry of being less-than, like subconsciously I think/worry that the canon love interest is a better match for my S/O or that they love their canon love interest more than they would me. Even if consciously I’m like, why are they even together?!?! They have no chemistry!!! They were friends and now they have to force a romance just bc they’re straight?! Unrealistic af! 😾😡😾😡 (which still is my true opinion)

But ik a lot of ppl get jealous over other shifters w the same S/O so I try to be respectful of that. After all it’s not that different ig. I just couldn’t GAF abt other ppl’s DRs if I tried.

What I do NOT tolerate or respect is people who treat other shifters like shit who are shifting for the same S/O just because they think they own that person. There are literally infinite realities. If you’re not in your DR right now and you’re talking to other shifters there may be one who shares your S/O. You have NO RIGHT to tell people (directly or indirectly) that “jsyk if we’re shifting for the same S/O, they hate u <3” Seriously, you’re telling possibly very emotionally fragile people that their S/O who’s most likely a CC of theirs hates them? YOU ARE A BAD PERSON and I do not even give a FUCK if it’s retroactively a “joke” once someone gets mad at it. In your DR you can be as possessive as you want if that’s how you are but in this reality you have to respect other shifters. Their DR is THEIRS and has nothing to do with yours. Their S/O (or the version of them in their DR) is theirs. There’s nothing wrong with being uncomfortable with being moots with someone who you share an S/O with, but be cordial about it. Mostly I’m talking about Twitter users.

I also have a bit of a problem with the culture of blocking on Shifttwt & now normalized it is… not the blocking itself but: It’s very normal for people to block others shifting for the same S/O because they don’t wanna accidentally see that person’s tweets or whatever. It took me a while to get used to the idea that blocking someone doesn’t mean you hate them but it’s fine. But in my opinion, especially if you’re blocking a follower or MOOT, you should at least give them a heads up before blocking them for this reason. Just because when I was brand new to Shifttwt, I’d made a moot who I thought was a friend and I got along with well and I mentioned that we were both shifting for the same person casually in an attempt to bond (I wasn’t aware of how common the jealousy thing was) and they blocked me and I had no idea why or what I’d done wrong till I tweeted abt it and their moot DMed me the reason why 💀 which I’m very thankful for. But just so that situation doesn’t happen to other unaware ppl causing them to worry whether they did smth wrong, why someone they thought was a friend blocked them out of nowhere, I wish more ppl on Shifttwt would give a heads up to moots they’re blocking. Like “Hey I realized we’re shifting for the same S/O. I get jealous/uncomfortable with seeing other shifters w the same S/O so I’m going to block you once I see you’ve read this message. No hard feelings.” Is it that hard?

Question.. I was originally from shifttok right, and I'm still getting a hang of shiftblr (I left shifttok but I was a pretty popular shifttoker).. what's are y'all's (shiftblrs) opinions on shifters and jealousy, like shifters getting jealous of other people Shifting for their s/o, please tell me y'all aren't like shifttok on this topic...

[little-green-forest]

*★*Welcome Creatures*★*

~You can call me Forestry, Mavrin, Nexis, Trawlli, MePhonie, and/or Clancy. I go by it/spoon/bugger/fool pronouns.

~MePhone4 (II) and Clancy Gilroy (TMG) fictkin

~Asexual, Grey-aromantic, Demiboy

~Diagnosed ADHD, Dyslexia, Dysgraphia, and Severe Anxiety Disorder; suspected Autism

~Spam liking/reblogging is fine and welcome! Just don't be weird about messages

~Requests are open but I only really draw character stuff (check fandom list).

~I use tone tags a lot because I'm terrified of being misread but I won't use them with ppl that state they are uncomfortable with it.

~My tag system: I tag all characters (in rebloged art posts) and add the word "tag" at the end if it's one of my faves and "cw" if it's one I dislike just so I can filter it (don't take the term cw too seriously in this context- its only for filtering idrc if one likes a character I don't.) The '#^^^' is used on reblogs that make a point I scream into the void at night. '#forestery go 2 bed' is for the rare times I actually present the points I scream into the void at night, only to get scared and delete it the next morning.

! THE ONLY THING NOT TOLERATED IS INTOLERANCE !

racists/ misogynists/ antisemites/ zionists/ queerphobes/ rad "fems"/ exclusionists/ all identities of prejudice or abuse DNI until you learn what is true and beautiful.

Other, more specific DNI criteria:

-If you identify as proship I don't like you but I don't see most ships as inheritly proship- only if you're interpretation of it romanticises or glorifies abusive/ underage/ incestual behaviours

-I consider anti-lesboys (or anti other "non-valid" identiys) as exclusionists. I find it very weird we have a double-standard when it comes to lesboys bc it's just an identity and it doesn't hurt anyone. (That being said, there is a difference between choosing an identity for oneself and forcing one onto others. I get where the antis are coming from if they think all lesboys are just transphobic or something but this is rarely the case- do your research before blindly invalidateing/harassing ppl)

-I am a minor!! I have no issues with nsfw/kink accounts existing in their own space but don't show or talk about that stuff with me!

List stuff under cut:

Alt accounts:

@little-green-forestart (creative name, ik) Side blog for just my art

(temporarily inactive) @ashfurs-second-wife Warrior cats side blog

(inactive) @freedomblocked Deltarune side blog

Bluesky

(temporary inactive) YouTube

Fandoms:

( *means hyperfixation ★means current)

*Original Characters (OC)/Furry

★*Object Shows (The ones I know in order of favourites: ONEhfj, IVOS, ION, II, Paper Puppets, Search for SMOS, BURNER/5SOS/OBS/BfG ect... (Sacri-verse), OBJECTIFIED, TBO, BfDI, EfAR, LotS, TFMI, ProtOS, TNM, Showvember, Planet Hoppers, TDOS, BfP, Objection, Object Kerfuffle, THANOS, ITft/RftK, Community Venture, Twilight Orchards, PaS, C2bC, Object Fool/Animatic Battle, A is for, OBCity, MOSS, and Object Terror)

*The Midnight Gospel

*Deltarune

*Undertale

*Steven Universe

Warrior Cats

Giraffe Town

My Little Pony

★*Pokemon

Cult of the Lamb

*Moths (the insect, not a media)

*The Stanley Parable

Sonic the Hedgehog

Animal Crossing

Happy Tree Friends

Camp Camp

Bojack Horseman

★Gooseworks/The Amazing Digital Circus

Top Favourite Characters

+ Random Varying Rambleings bc I need Somewhere to Talk About Them:

Airy (hfjONE)- Me when forever changed by isolation. I relate to and project on him so much I should probably kin him and I'm honestly unsure if/why I don't. I probably do but I have a job so I can't worry about that rn. Old man boyfailer forever<3.

Bryce (hfjONE)- Boyfailer middleaged edition. I understand, and love to analyse his trauma responses.

MePhone4 (Inanimate Insanity)- I project my period cramps onto him. I think he's genuinely saved my life a couple times bc I remember that if I kms I won't be able to see him and his silly show again. I am normal and mentally stable! Anyway, escapeism + BPD coated + PDA response + blue screen and pronouns

Blueberry (Inanimate Insanity)- He fucking sucks <3

Clancy Gilroy (The Midnight Gospel)- He's me. He's so chill, open, and understanding, or at least trys to be, but when he does get mad it's so strong and blinding that he becomes easily snippy and has to isolate himself to calm down. All he wants to do is observe other people and their perspectives. Moral OCD coated.

Edgar/Spork (The Broadcast Objective)- Proud yet devastated to be the #1 Edgar TBO fan bc apparently no one else cares about him. Need more Edgar fans NOW. Abyss needs a sound proof basement for his loud ass sewing machine and I love that for abyss.

MePhoneX (Inanimate Insanity)- Proud yet devastated to be the #1 MePhoneX fan bc apparently no one else cares about them. FREE THEM FROM MEEPLE AND STOP CALLING THEM EVIL!!!! THEY GENUINELY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG THEY WHERE JUST BEING CONTROLLED BY EVIL CORN MAN!!!!!!! THE ONLY THING WE SEE THEM DO AUTONOMOUSLY IS SACRIFICING THEMSELF TO PROTECT COBS WITHOUT EVEN BEING ASKED!!!!!!!!!! RRRRAARARAARRARARSAAAWAAAAAA

A5 Waygu (OBJECTIFIED)- He fucking sucks <3

Gangle (The Amazing Digital Circus)- Dead Girls by Penelope Scott. Also this image awoke something in me hear me out- gets shot

[sk3tch404]

https://imgur.com/a/6PlTqcs

Lowkey,, when I saw your Yandere's, I was reminded of the pic above 👀 granted, they're not as manic/feral but i can't help but hit them with the good ol' pathetic-lil-meow-meow-ification beam whenever I see them 😔✊. everyone can feel like a plastic bag, drifting through the wind, wanting to start again (/ref) if I delude myself hard enough 🥹🙏

speaking of the Yans- I FINALLY FIGURED OUT HOW TO DEFEAT LIKE 90% OF YAN'S W/O HAVING TO BE PHYSICALLY STRONG- *runs off-screen*

*cartoonish sounds of struggle & animal noises can be heard*

-ight! Okok so like, get this- I have rabies's now 😎

This gives me a timeframe of about- *checks msdmanual.com* 3-7 days to go ahead and infect every Yan in my vicinity, which means I'm gonna bite em all >:)) (not sure if Rory can get infected since he's a vamp n all 🤔 but a girl can dreammmm 😔) I may perish at the end of my crusade, but at least I'll drag some of them to hell with me 🫡

Moving on, Rory's re-design be looking mad fineeeee, though I'm gonna miss his long hair, rip my opportunity to draw him in pig-tails 🙏 at least he can get more bitches now with the added ✨glasses✨ factor (no, I'm totally unbiased towards men who wear glasses of any kind, what are you talking abou-)

yeheaaa boi, I'm def gonna replace his Scumbag Glasses (affectionate) with heart shape lenses in my next attempt at a fanart for him 😈😈 gonna turn Mr. Valentine into Mr. Valentine² MUHAHAHAHAHAAA GET HIT WITH MY UWU-FICATION BEAM, IDIOT /lh gonna turn this 😎 bitch into a 😍 bitch

Also goddammit ur chibi style makes me wanna squish their cheeks granny style- I don't wanna squish a serial killers cheeks plsssss I didn't get over my creepypasta whole phase, only to be charmed by the next gen of murderous pretty boys 😫😫 I. Absolutely. Mustn't. 😬 damn ur artstyle, it's too good for my heart- /pos

-Ren'py anon

OMG JAYCE WHEN HE'S FULLY ATTACHED BE LIKE 😭😭😭HE GETS DESERATE IK

Yeah they're pretty chill before they get unhinged, but hitting them with that pathetic little meow meow beam makes them a bit more tolerable 😘 Not gonna even lie, I get nervous and lowkey freak out when I code in the creepy parts and play through it. LIKE BOY WTF ARE YOU LOOKING AT??? FREAKY ASS MF I HATE YOU. DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH PLAYER.

But pretending they're nothing but miserable maniacs stuck in their own little worlds makes me feel better 🤓(Goofy ahh reaction /j)

Katy Perry ref is just what was needed </3 no no what do you mean he enjoys hurting me emotionally and physically to make up for his own personal faults? No he's just a little sad soul that hugs me when I'm sad and loves me no matter what.

OH NO WHAT. NOT EVERY YAN! PLEASE SPARE JAYCE AT LEAST... I LOVE HIM TOO MUCH. YOU MIGHT WANNA START WITH THE VOLKOVS FIRST BECAUSE THEY WOULDNT SEE IT COMING IN THE VERY BEGINNING.

RORYS VAMP WHITE BLOOD CELLS CHECK HIM OUT FOR MOST STUFF BUT RABIES IS PRETTY DEADLY TO ALL THINGS SO...

Tbh it's a fifty fify. All he has to worry about is passing out in the middle of it if he hasn't fed in a while.

I THINK ELLIOT WOULD HAVE A PRETTY GOOD CHANCE OF SURVIVAL. HE HAS EXPERIENCE WITH PPL GETTING REALLY SICK AND INTESE STRUGGLES FROM DOING OTHER ILLEGAL STUFF.

Which reminds me. I haven't said a lot about him yet. I think I'll info dump on him sometime, but idk bc there is a little spoiler but not really bc it's a big part of his character and for the story of his route. It will be common knowledge when you play anyway.

If you don't hit the Volkovs with the animal foam first, they WILL catch wind of what you're doing and shoot you down or smth. They don't play 💀 since it is 3 to 7 BUSINESS DAYS. They are always doing business, so 3 is all too easy.

Also tysm!!! I too am gonna miss Rory's long hair, but it's gotta go so he can refresh! And dw I'm gonna make it a tad more layered and longer so you can do pigtails little kids have that look like two antennas.

And Rory has always had glasses, I just didn't draw them that time lol

OMG HE WOULD ABSOLUTELY LOVE THOSE HEARTSHAPED GLASSES. JUST UH NOT OUTSIDE THOUGH. HES GOT OPPS IN THOSE STREETS... Would legit fall in love if you kept doing silly shit like that (Damn you really did square up his Valentine's rizz) UWU fication success???

HEHHEHEH TY! MY CHIBI STYLE IS SUPER SIMPLE AND A TAD UGLY AND IN THE WORKS, BUT I'M GLAD YOU LIKE IT!

[caruliaa]

now one cares if ur mom loves you soooo muc and u love her soooo much and ur omg arent mothers soo great always bs. shut up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[its-my-mental-breakdown]

Vent, sorry Tumblr.

-adrian

[phagodyke]

sometimes I wish I was a more interesting + charismatic person just so I could keep conversations going bc I like sharing space with other ppl but they routinely lose all interest and leave once I run out of things to say/start talking abt things that don't concern them :-(

[gumdecay]

.

[realcube]

haikyuu!! characters with a chubby! s/o 💗

characters: tsukishima, oikawa, atsumu, osamu & suna

thank you anon for this cute request 🥺

tw// comfort, fluff, angst if you squint, insecure! reader, swearing, they/them reader but reader wears a dress (in osamu’s)

(a/n): anon requested comfort but i feel bad bc i’m writing this like ‘no, (y/n)! stop being sad! you’re beautiful! 😡’ then i remember that i can just select+delete the pain away💗💖

Kei Tsukishima

let’s not pretend like tsukki gives a fuck what you look like tbh ✋

like nobody is ‘perfect’ and everyone is insecure (to varying degrees) so why would he care about your weight?

nobody ticks every single box to meet society’s definition of ‘beauty’  

plus, tsukki thought beauty standards were stupid away so he created his own - and you meet every single one 💖

in fact, almost everyone meets his beauty standards - besides himself ‘:)

he seriously doesn’t care about your weight tbh, it’s the most trivial thing so why would he care?

although, he wasn’t naïve enough to think that everyone was like-minded

your front of ‘i don’t care about what other people think of me’ was strong enough to fool even the most observant of poeple, including tsukki

however, tsukishima failed to take into consideration that you were his girlfriend, meaning that you could be playing the same game as him; ‘pretend to not care about superficial things like beauty so nobody will think for a second that you are insecure about your body’

he wasn’t one to give compliments but neither were you tbh so the mutual agreement y’all have of ‘let’s call each other names as a form of endearment to avoid those awkward moments were you are looking for the right words for praise but can’t come up with anything’  was fair

but after you accidentally sent him a self-deprecating ‘joke’ message that was clearly meant for a friend, he never passed up the opportunity to compliment you ever again

like he kinda just stared at the message like 😮 ‘does (y/n) seriously care about their weight? why? it doesn’t even matter. how stupid! who told them that the shape of their body is important? bc it’s not..’

then he turns to look in the mirror like ‘wow you srsly need to put on muscle, lanky bitch. or else (y/n) will probably leave you for some built jackass like kuroo. pick up some weights, noodle arms!’

anyway, he’s not too good with words and comfort in situations like these but he’ll probably reply to your text with something out-of-character and surprisingly sweet

to paraphrase (bc the actual text would probably be like a whole damn persuasive essay LMAO he starts with the introduction, makes five points and finishes with a conclusion pfft) , i think it would be something like: ‘hey, (y/n). ik that text was probably meant for one of your friends (but if they’re the ones making you feel bad about your weight then you should probably drop those toxic cunts anyway 💅✨) but i just wanted to say that even though you are the biggest clown i’ve ever met (/j) you’re still v beautiful 💗 stop being insecure or i’ll pass away ⚰💀 ok thx love you bye’

Tōru Oikawa

how are you insecure if you’re dating oikawa? /j

like he is such a hypeman

whenever y’all take pics in your ✨fancy outfits ✨ for formal event, he acts as though you are second most beautiful thing on the face of this earth 😍 (second to him ofc)

but he only does that so he can keep up the reputation he has of being effortlessly confident bc he’s scared that if it slips for even a second, everyone will see how truly insecure he is

truthfully, in his eyes, you come first place by miles (❤ ω ❤)

like srsly, you’re so gorgeous in that dress!! he hopes that you know that he is joking about the whole ‘second place’ thing bc you should be able to tell by the way he looks at you that you’re genuinely the most striking person he’s ever laid his eyes on 

you never acted overly confident in front of him but he definitely didn’t think you were as insecure as you are

he thought you were just..humble :)

sometimes he’d hear you mutter something mean about yourself as you passed the mirror but he paid no mind to it as he figured that you just cared about your appearance and wanted to maintain a certain image

however, once he was made aware that you didn’t want to maintain your image but rather, change it - he never let you murmur anything nasty about yourself under your breath ever again, not without proceeding to tackle you to the ground and shower you with his love, affection & praise 💞💕❤

and he never made a ‘second place’ joke ever again, he started his honesty streak by reassuring you that you’ll always be the number one in his eyes 🤩

also, after that, he was a lot more open about his own insecurities with you and you made sure to respect them and help him in a similar way that he did

there is just so much love and admiration between the two of you and at first you were both to shy to express it but now, you both are showering each other in compliments 24/7 bc you both just want the other one to know how perfect you view them as (❁´◡`❁)

Atsumu Miya

atsumu is a hypeman like oikawa but...better :)

IT’S BC HE HAS NO SHAME

he’ll compliment you on anything you wear and he makes it a point to use the most inappropriate compliment as possible, relative to the outfit you’re wearing

so if you’re wearing your pyjamas, he’ll call you ‘glamourous’

if you are wearing a swimsuit, he’ll call you ‘elegant’

if you’re in your work clothes/school uniform, he’ll call you ‘sexy’

and if you’re in lingerie, he’ll call you ‘adorable’

but it makes you blush so hey, no complaints

so when he finds out that you’re actually insecure about your weight, he’s just like ‘no ❤’

like he hates the idea that when you look in the mirror, you don’t see the god(dess) he sees

like why? it’s the same person

💞 fuck ‘perception’ 💞

💕 ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’ TF YOU ARE THE FUCKING BEAUTY💕

grrr he was so mad  

but he was also soft 

he was like ‘if (y/n) insecure? then why hot? then why pretty? then why fit perfectly into my arms?’

plus, THIGHS

he’d never diss a person bc they had small thighs or anything BUT he’d also NEVER complain about being given the chance to be with someone with some good thighs 👍

tbh the best could do to help was compliment you ten times harder to eliMINATE ALL YOUR INSECURIES 

(and ofc i don’t mean that in a way - for example - if you’re insecure about your nose, he’ll fkn chop it off......he won’t chop your nose off LMAO he’ll just show you how much he loves it, to the point where you have no choice but to love it too ( •̀ ω •́ )✧ )

anyway, plz love (or at least, tolerate) yourself or else he’ll suffocate you with all his love and affection :D

Osamu Miya

osamu is at a loss when it comes to typical beauty standards tbh

to him, weight (and most things) are similar to..hand size, for example

just like how you can’t imagine someone feeling self-conscious about the size of their hand (especially if their hand is a healthy size) 

he can’t imagine why some one would be shamed for their weight (especially if they’re a healthy size)

so had no idea you could possibly be insecure about something like that and he probably on realised after a few years in the relationship 😅

there was a formal event coming up and y’all were going as dates so you wanted to shop for outfits together 

as couples do ✌

anyway, he was on a dress site, scrolling away until you pointed out one that you thought was pretty - and it matched the color of the tie osamu bought too!

it was a fair price (for a formal dress 🙄 which is probably like $68/50) so osamu was like ‘buy it then ( •̀ ω •́ )✧’  bc he thought it would so gorgeous on you 

but you were like ‘no’

and after he pried further, you explained how you thought it wouldn’t ‘suit your body type’ 

GRRR HE dislikes IT WHEN PPL SAY THIS SO MUCH BC HOE YOU DON’T HAVE A BODY TYPE YOU’VE GOT A BODY 😡💕 WEAR THE DAMN DRESS IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL 

but like deadass it’s not your blood type-  it’s just a thing ppl made up to make ppl (mostly women) feel bad about themselves for no reason

but that might just be his inner atsumu talking 🤷‍♂️

he didn’t even know what to say at first- he was just like ????? body type ????

but once he figured out what you meant, he still had no idea what to say- at least, without sounding rude

what if someone came up to you and told you they were insecure about the shape of their knee.......what do you even say???

so he was silent for like the rest of the day

you decided to give him some space just in case something happened which had upset him

he had no idea what to say, in all honesty, so he hoped that his actions spoke louder than words 

around 3 days had passed since you last spoke to osamu and you were beginning to think something you had said made him uncomfortable

you were studying in your room until there was a ring at your door so you rushed downstairs and you opened it to reveal a package sitting on your doormat

you had recently ordered some cleaning equipment so you were sure that the content of the package was probably that

so imagine your surprise when you tear it open to reveal  — you guessed it —  the dress 💕

Rintarō Suna

when he says that he doesn’t care what ppl look like, he means it

he upkeeps his own appearance though bc..it’s his!

like why would he care about what weight you are? that’s none of his business

as you can tell, he’s generally not shallow but sometimes when y’all are just cuddling and your face is pressed to his chest, the words ‘you’re so cute’ just fall from his lips

so ofc he appreciates compliments over his skills, personality, humour etc over flattery about his appearance 

hence, the praise he gives you is usually based around those things too bc he just thinks that you’re just like him in the fact you don’t appreciate skin-deep comments

so when he found out that you’re actually insecure about your weight (or something else), he kinda blames himself

he thinks that the whole reason you’re not extremely confident in your appearance is all due to him and the fact he fact he maybe didn’t compliment you on your looks enough  — but that’s not to say that he doesn’t think you’re beautiful 

you’re the most radiant person he’s ever laid his eyes on and he thought you knew that regardless of whether he vocalised it or not

he wasn’t really sure what to do tbh

bc he loved you and wanted to comfort you ofc but he was scared of making things worse

like what if something he says accidentally makes you so upset that you break-up with him 😭

but he knew he couldn’t just stay silent about the issue, especially when he wanted to say to much

thus, he sent you a heartfelt message on discord 

(rather than snap, whatsapp etc so he could edit it after he posts it bc knowing him, he’ll probably write something, reread it ten times then as soon as he hits send, he spots a bunch of mistakes)

and he’d explain how you’re simply divine regardless of your insecurity and if anything, it just makes you cuter 😍

ok ok so i really don’t want it so seem like he has a fetish bc HE DOESN’T 

but he think your curves are so fun and pretty ❤ 

like everything about you is pretty but suna just can’t comprehend why you’re insecure about something like your weight when he literally adores it (bc he adores everything about you) 

[unironicduncanstan]

@alenoah and @icedancerhell did this and ik im definitely going to be cancelled for my taste but explanations below

prince of egypt: oh my gfucking god . bro the music. the ANIMATION. the story too like obviously its based on a religious tale but i mean the way its portrayed and interpreted and how it all comes across was so on point. and did i mention THE FUCKGIN MUSIC dude i would try to sing every song when i was a kid and i think attempting that literally improved my range growing up

shrek: ok when ur a kid literally all u want is to feel mature and cool. shrek was that in an hour and 30 minutes. all the adult humor. and even the shit that would fly over your head somehow still always registered as so funny. every line is burned into my brain bc i watched it so much it was so fuckgin funny and entertaining and the storyline was so depthful and important. shrek for president

sinbad: oh yeah he makes me wanna sin. Bad

rise of the guardians: oooohhg the plot was so cool and intriguing,,, the designs were so unique,,,, also i actually used to. cosplay jack frost when i was a teen osfkjskjfhksdjf i might have like One picture around here somewhere,

over the hedge: every character is perfectly designed and perfectly voiced and the humor was so good. me at like 8 years old watching hammy the squirrel drink coffee and frolic around in a slowed down world was the peak of comedy

madagascar: its just such a classic. another movie where every line is burned into my cerebellum bc i had it on dvd. id say out of this whole list this close to number one. idk where to even begin with how stupidly hilarious it was to me

httyd: lbr who didnt just do a full [lisa simpson face] when you got to the end and hiccup had lost part of a leg. the whole movie had this aura that it was like not tethered down somehow while still being great family friendly media. also im ace sexual and UHH big dragon

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antz: unironically i think it deserves so much more than it gets. the anti war messages are great the designs are cool and it goes back into the shrek maturity territory where they get to say CUSS WORDS. p much my only qualm is that woody allen had to be there 😔😔😔  

shark tale: ok dont cancel me but i really love the plot actually. i mostly love the mafia shark boy that dresses as a dolphin but even the will smith fish crash-and-burn fame hubris thing while annoying at times was rly intriguing. and the designs are the kind of thing that as a kid i loved but as an adult i do. struggle , w ith, a bit, but overall funny and entertaining story

el dorado: the music slaps so fuckgin hard thats another example of me tryna sing cartoon music to an embarrassing degree. also the Colorse . the designs . and the humor osjfsjdf the only downside is just a personal vibe bc the best friend conflict storylines make me anxious sometimes lol

flushed away: oh my god dont at me. some of the characters are so fuckgin annoying and some of the humor is just so much but i rly did like the worldbuilding and storyline. stupid posh ass rat was rly cool actually. also yet another mafia/gang violence plot in childrens media why is that so funny when ur a kid god

spirit: GREAT MUSIC GREAT STORY! i think the way the story goes like, its Better to be told with regular horses and narration rather than talking horses,,,, but my dumb whimsical child ass just didnt latch onto that style as much as the talking animal movies

shrek 2: rly good tbh all the new characters introduced are interesting and entertaining to watch, but i mostly remember it for i need a hero and human shrek. didnt rly hit the same mark as the first :/

httyd 2: another great movie with another great twist but it almost felt like too much at once for my little brain to handle. overloaded me with gay emotion 

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megamind: i love everything it stands for i just never saw it until like a year ago so its not that dear to my heart

kung fu panda: not my style of humor, i saw it once and can hardly remember it but i feel like the plot was wholesome and cute

the croods: so funny and good, ive seen it many times actually. but some of the humor just isnt my thing (its, well, crude, which also took me like 5 yrs to get that joke,)

bee movie: was pleasantly surprised the first time i watched it??? it was pretty good and it did kinda make fun of itself so idk why its so cringe to ppl. barry b benson entertained me unironically

chicken run: i saw it once when i was very young and it just didnt resonate with me also claymation most of my childhood terrified me

wallace and gromit: same as chicken run

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entire never saw it tier: dotn hate me i just dont have a lot of time on my hands. i know i will be oppressed into watching peabody and sherman within the week and i accept the charges

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monsters vs. aliens: someone got it for me on dvd and i hated it so much. its not even that bad its just a me thing like for some reason the part where the lady becomes a giant during her wedding or w/e was just like. the worst nightmare i could imagine i hated it and it made me scared to get married bc i thought that could happen to me. also none of the main cast is charming to me one of thems a bug and i have a bug phobia so i could never rly get thru it im sorry but i coudltn do it

madagascar 2: alex backstory was kinda good but the rest was forgettable for me

madagascar 3: visually kinda cool but. :/// felt really off compared to the previous movies, like an obvious cash grab. i mean who could forget the constant polka dot afro circus song advertisements

shrek 3: again mostly just remember it for the frog dad dying ,,,

shrek 4: i only saw it like 5 months ago for the first time. fiona being a warrior in an alternate timeline or w/e (if that was real and not a fever dream) was the only semi tolerable part for me

penguins of madagascar: the first few minutes with them as babies was cute the rest i physically could not keep my attention on. i dont remember anything else im sorry

[fairycosmos]

THE TAGS ON UR POST ABT HAVING TO TALK TO UR SEXIST DAD OMG SAME. idk how serious you were about having to drink to tolerate interactions with him but it's 100% like that for me. these days whenever i call my dad i feel like i can't talk to him unless i'm at least buzzed. he always talks over me & tries to explain me things that are literally my job/are excruciatingly simple concepts & i know way more abt than he does. when i tell him i'm very familiar with the topic he still continues explaining & talks over me/belittles me as if i were a child? he's sexist & willfully ignorant abt social issues. extremely privileged & emotionally abusive. anyway felt good to see i'm not the only one struggling with this lmao. i'm wishing you all the best bc it's so painful to talk to someone (esp. your parent!!) who claims they care abt you but also don't treat you like you're a full person with your own thoughts and aspirations :/ feels more like they care abt they're daughters as if they were a possession/extension of themselves than anything else.

omg you really hit the nail on the head. i just wanna read this exact message out to my therapist next time she asks about family. i was very serious and it fkn sux!! so sorry to hear you know what it’s like, it’s so fucked. i saw him twice over the weekend and had to drink w him both times to cope lmfao. i can’t imagine hanging out with him for an extended period of time while we’re both sober, honestly. it’s too much, there’s too much distance and sadness between us. it’s annoying too because my dad, in some ways, is almost there - he says he’s willing to learn and grow and he’s all about hating the government and shit. and he’s not stupid, he’s pretty smart actually. so i think my situation might be a little more bearable than yours. but he still brought up not all men when the topic came up, still treats women like shit and always has, doesn’t do the critical and uncomfortable and nuanced thinking that’s needed to really see things for what they are :/ it’s all kinda surface level. he definitely doesn’t recognize his own privilege either, and if you were to tell him he had it on the basis of his race gender etc he’d just start going on about how he’s a poor working class man whose never had anything handed to him. but yeah i can totally relate to just being talked AT rather than being talked TO. sometimes i say things and he just ignores it all together and starts going on about something else and it’s like Hello i’m in the room making conversation with you i’m a person hi i’m a person. i definitely agree and think it’s an ego thing, they don’t see us as whole and separate beings, just props in their lives. anyway it’s really fkn awful that you’re in a similar situation, it’s so unfair that you have to deal w it to such a high extent too. the mansplaining sounds actually unbearable omfg why do they think they’re an authority on EVERYTHING why do they think the world has to cater to them specifically......really hope you can find a way to protect your own peace of mind even if you have to keep him at arms length in order to do that <3 ofc it’s shit that it has to come to that in the first place, but honestly some ppl especially men like that are beyond communicating productively with and it’s not our job to waste energy on it yk :/ though ik that’s far easier said than done. abolish fathers 2k21

[mysteriouspercentage]

this is totally off the cuff ftr so sorry if i’m rambly or w/e, and i don’t expect it to blow up or anything bc. well. that actually rarely happens for me lol.. but it’s happened a couple times lately, so here goes nothing. 

i think it’s really time that the asian community had a conversation abt solidarity. 

ik to some degree this is an ongoing conversation - we talk a lot abt having solidarity w other communities of color, altho it’s usually a debate (@ that one anon lol), but it’s a conversation that we’re absolutely having, and i wanna keep having that, bc hoo boy do we need to work on some stuff. but rn, i want us to discuss more what solidarity looks like *w/in* our community. 

i’ve said this before, but as a filipino american, i’ve had a LOT of shit leveled at me by east asians, primarily chinese/japanese/korean americans. there’s been jokes abt me being dirty, my skin being ashy or ugly, eating dogs, and being one of the “stupid asians” (read: southeast asians, primarily). in school, they were the first ppl to make fun of me for my ethnicity and the ppl who invited white ppl to make fun of my ethnicity. and i’ve personally been v fortunate i feel, bc this is not as bad as i’ve heard it gets for other southeast asians. it’s v much a holdover of imperialist attitudes that run rampant in east asia, a replication of power dynamics, imo. i mean, they didn’t learn that filipinos were dirty heathenistic “savages” from nowhere. prejudice travels. 

still, when the time comes around and white ppl are pulling their “ching chong ling long kung flu w/e” type shit, southeast asian americans are always there, front and center, stepping up for the asian american community alongside east asian americans. we know that we all share similar struggles in terms of being seen as perpetual foreigners, and we consistently put aside intercommunity issues for the greater good of our community. but it’s really, deeply tiring to be constantly trying to hold community w a group of ppl i know don’t even like me and see me and my ppl as lesser, “savage,” and poor. i know i’m not the only one who feels this way. 

it’s well past time that east asian americans own up to the harm that they’ve done to our own community and make sincere efforts to bridge the material gap that comes from most southeast asian americans being, or descending directly from, refugees of imperialism and neocolonialism by east asia. it’s not enough to just call on the “asian american community,” we have to actually make it, and rn it feels like the effort is lopsided. 

no whites but everyone else can rb. this is an open discussion, but i’m not going to be tolerating any antiblackness or racism of any kind from anyone, u will be blocked kthxbai