#if you didn’t see me post yesterday

[dailyxisumavoid]

The voids at the Ren faire???

[172] they are faire maidens!

[natashadewinter]

the archon human and the people she couldn’t save

[maxgicalgirl]

I’m not going to lie I’m like really stuck and don’t know what to do with my feelings about All Of This. I dont have therapy until next week and they don’t have space to move me up and I dont really have anyone else to talk through how I feel ? I dont know what to do.

[alish-artie]

I found some old drawings that I've drawn 5 years ago, so I decided to redraw them digitally to see if there was some change !

(These are ocs I've made long ago about the Paper Mario universe !)

How it started :

How it’s going :

…indeed there was some changes in five years-

[akkivee]

yesterday i remembered they posted a sneak peek of ichiro’s page in the next guidebook and since i was feeling kinda insane then, i decided to compare ichiro’s about summaries and it looks like it’s changed a little bit!!!!

the old summary talked about his compassion and sense of justice, him looking after his bros and his rivalry with samatoki but in this new one, it looks like they’ve replaced that info with stuff about rei and true hypnosis mic!!!!!!

[the-hilda-librarians-wife]

hiiii for ur consideration: meiri i drew on my work break

I am considering her. I have in fact considered everything about her and found it all perfect. Thank you, ma’am, I shall treasure this forever 🥹

[robertbelcherjr]

He’s transgender :)

[quietwingsinthesky]

prev post I don’t want to bother op with this but. that is why s5 lucifer is so good too.

[glitterhoof]

everypony say hi to mitzi ^^

[cloneboywonder]

im so CWCcoded

[scionshtola]

feel Bad. anyway! ffxiv time

[blankinsidecards]

tag 9 ppl you want to get to know better, tagged by @emsjustwantsaccesstothehellsite which heeeyyyy we’ve only been mutuals for like a month now and you’ve singlehandedly got me back on the penumbra podcast after I gave up on it four years ago and I’m in your debt xoxoxo

3 ships: ooph. I mean I’ve been in the Steddie wormhole for seven months now, and I’m gonna say Ronance too, but Pynch has been my main for like. six fucking years sooo

First ever ship: I wanna say zutara? You know I’m always a slut for a red & blue/fire & water dynamic. Now that I’m older and gayer I prefer to ship Zuko with Sokka. ( fun fact, the first smut I ever read was a zutara hades & persephone au on fanfic.net that I read on my grandmother’s desktop after church one day. Big yikes.)

Last song: Body Language by Queen bc I had my Steddie playlist blaring on the way home from work today ✌️

Last movie: I just kinda half-paid attention to the new Scrooge movie on Netflix. Pretty cute

Currently reading: uuuuuuugh I don’t even know. I’ve been halfway through Little Weirds by Jenny Slate, Gideon the Ninth, and Cemetery Boys for at least a year and I just can’t get myself to read any of them. The last book I finished ( besides Greywaren. The birdverse doesn’t really count ) was probably Cackle by Rachel Harrison ( 5 stars so good. Should’ve been gayer though ngl )

Currently watching: I’m kinda between shows right now but I DID just rewatch Arcane. They really made that show for bisexuals huh?

Currently consuming: is this a content or a food question? I’ll do both. I’m playing Zelda: Breath of the Wild for the first time and I had a weird cabbage dish for supper

Currently craving: hot chocolate and extra buttery toast

I’m tagging @galmance @danidorito @marge-madness @spice-and-lemonade @kateosaurus-rex @catlovesfandoms @stvrwar @palaeolithicc @persephonessugarbaby if you feel like it. Love you all dearly

[cleolinda]

AITA for banning my husband and father in law from the delivery room due to their intensely stressful/creepy behavior during my pregnancy?

There’s a famous Reddit post from 2020 where a pregnant woman wrote that her husband and father-in-law were a little too comfortable with their certainty that she was absolutely going to die in childbirth just like her husband’s late mother. It was to the point where her FIL was insisting that she go ahead and put all her clothes into storage, because she was obviously going to die in the hospital and it would save them the grief of packing up her things afterwards. Like. It was WILD.

When I tell my husband [that she feels suspicious of her FIL], he calls me paranoid, but I feel like my FIL WANTS me to die; his whole life identity for the past 35 years has been “amazing single dad” (never dated or had close friends or even hobbies really), and it seems like he’s looking forward to being able to guide my husband through what he went through. At this point, I’d honestly be happy to never see my FIL again, and I certainly don’t want him in the delivery room, especially since he told me he was “putting [his] foot down” about me not being “allowed” to have an epidural…. My husband, in addition to backing his dad on everything, acts like my due date is my death date, and has completely pulled away from me.

The commenters (and me, honestly) were convinced that the husband and FIL were either going to kill her outright to fulfill this expectation, or just make decisions about her care that might conveniently let her die.

And then she never posted again.

Over the last four years, people have frequently mentioned that post, always leading to a thread of people saying, “Oh god, I still worry about that woman.” I did too. It became one of those famous unresolved posts that people always wondered about.

Until yesterday, when someone on r/BestOfRedditorUpdates dug up a 2022 update she had posted on a different account:

TLDR; I had a beautiful and healthy baby girl, and I divorced my ex-husband. I lived, obviously.

She writes that she put her foot down about having her own mother in the delivery room rather than her FIL (!), and she WOULD be getting an epidural. Her husband lost his shit. And in his outburst, he let slip--

I admittedly lost my temper, and told him that I wasn’t going to die- it wasn’t my fault his father’s trauma wormed it’s way into his head, and that he needed to fix it without taking it out on me. He yelled at me that he didn’t need therapy. That caught me a little off guard; I asked him why he went to his therapist and was given advice about my death if he felt he didn’t need it. His expression gave it away, and he caved not long after. It turns out there was no therapist. It was just his dad. During the times he was supposed to be at therapy, he was with his dad. I’m still fuming.

And that was when she got the fuck out.

I’ll wrap this up- I’ve got an adorable little toddler tugging at my leg atm. I’m alive, I’m happy, and I’ve got my baby in my arms. Life is good.

I truly never thought we'd see a resolution to this, and I feel like there's probably a good number of people who remember it, so I thought you might want to know.

ETA: Brilliantly, I put the link in at the top; here it is again for convenience.

[floral-hex]

So this is my thing now, I’m afraid to go to sleep. This is kinda bullshit, brain.

[insanechayne]

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[always-a-slut-4-ghouls]

I’ll have gone out and done something social one day and be like “I was so normal about everything today, I would get such a good grade in socializing, something that is normal to want and possible to achieve”

then when I’m in bed trying to sleep my brain will bring up every slip up of the day