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the Stamatis Family News hour!
#goodbye leon#good work and rest in peace#i'm so sad but so happy#Greater Boston#greater boston spoilers
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the tradwife movement is the same as it has always been - back in the kitchen, back to breeding - it just has better branding.
when i was younger, i hated pink. i was not like other girls. this is now something i'm embarrassed of - this was not me being a "girl's girl."
but it was expressing something many of us felt at the time: i literally wasn't what girlhood was supposed to be. this is a hard thing to explain, but you know when you're not performing girlhood correctly. it isn't as easy as "i liked x when girls liked y" - because there were other girls that liked x, too - but i never figured out exactly the correct way to like x, or to be interested in y.
now there is the divine feminine. this is the same rhetoric it has always been: women are biologically driven to like pink and ribbons and submitting to our husbands.
the problem is that the patriarchy found a better PR team. because yes, actually, i want every woman to have the choice to be a homemaker. i also want her taken seriously for her legitimate home-making labor. i want her to be recognized as also having a job, just unpaid. i want men to have this opportunity, too.
but it is no longer "i made this choice and I love it." instead it is a sixteen-paragraph rant about how selfish it is that my generation isn't having kids. instead it's long videos about how if you feed your children processed foods, you're going to kill them. instead it is "this is what womanhood is supposed to be. i feel bad for any other choices you're making."
the shame spiral is just prettier. it is large houses devoid of personality. it is the implication: if you don't have this, you aren't happy. the solid, everlasting assurance: women are actually supposed to be submitting. this is the default. this is the natural state of things. all other attempts inflict suffering.
but you can no longer say i'm not like other girls. you can no longer reject this image completely. you cannot find it revolting, even if you know that the underbelly is toxic and festering. sure, it is the same repackaged patriarchy. but the internet does not have shades of grey. you should support and reward other women! your disgust is actually internalized misogyny. not because you are seeing a vision of yourself the way they're trying to train you to be. not because you feel her ghost pass within an inch of your earlobe. not because your father will eventually ask you - why can't you be like her?
because they figured out how to make it beautiful: women will sell other women on this idea, and we will find the singular loophole in feminism. sure, she's shaming you in most of her videos. sure, she implies that a different life is obscene. but she just wants you to be happy! you'd be happier if you were listening!
and the whole time you're sitting there thinking: i'd actually just be happier if i had that kind of money.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#this is an incredibly difficult idea to express#but i basically keep watching the same timelooped interaction:#someone makes tradwife content where she's like ''i think it's SO sad when ppl don't have kids EW''#and then the response is ''... go fuck yourself? i think ur life is miserable and bad ?"#and instead of being like ''oh we are all under capitalism huh''#the response is like ''you CANT say that. she made a CHOICE. she is ALLOWED to have KIDS and be HAPPY#unlike YOU who is UNHAPPY bc you don't have KIDS.''#like .... these are people who will throw the first stone. and then when you lob one back#they ask why you're so violent. they tell you that you're a bad activist.#and you're like. PARDON????? you implied being a woman meant i need to submit to my husband???#and they're like - well it's just my belief. so what if i'm invalidating your entire identity.
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Zelda goes mushroom girl
#tloz#a link to the past#zelda#link#my art#I was happy with that first one but for some reason decided it still needed a companion piece so I spent way too long on that second one...#I don't think there was any time during the progress where I was happy with it but hfduhdfu at least I got to Attempt drawing moss hell yea#I also at some point sat in Pyu's art stream and said I enjoy drawing legs As I was being murdered by the infamously impossibe (imo) squat.#it's ok I had fun !! but I need to learn how to let doodles be doodles or I'll never finish stuff at this rate dfsuhfd#if everything in my tloz tag looks like it was drawn by different people uuuh 2023 was art crisis year ngl......#I'm falling back into my old ways rn though#anyway I think about these two a lot I think they're both stone faced and awkward ppl in different ways but they try rly hard to be friends#like I like to think it starts out so incredibly awkward and a bit sad bc they keep stepping over each other's toes accidentally the harder#they try but idk they find comfy middle ground idk in my brain they have a very interesting friendship I wanna get around to drawing it#in a proper way that might make sense....#if I don't write 200 tags I will die maybe it's bc I grew up on dA or smth#and yes I know how to find 1 (one) type of mushroom /I/ am not mushroom girl unfortunately smh
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"Say it again" "I'm Yours"
- | based on "Perfect Slaughter" by @imagineitdearies
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#my art#bg3#tyrus#astarion#tystar#fanfiction#perfect slaughter#a nice little counterpiece to my earlier rendition#I'm so happy this can exist#and so sad in the best way#littleskrib does art
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Lan Wangji Goes To Lotus Pier AU: Part 5: Flip Slip.
(Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 4.5)
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#mdzs au#Yungmang Jiang Training Arc AU#lan wangji#wei wuxian#digital art#Trying out some digital techniques to see if I can get closer to feel/style of my traditional comics.#So far the biggest difference is *colouring* Digital colouring feels...not good. I have complained about this before and I'll complain agai#Before we get into the sad stuff with Yungmeng Jiang in the PD-MDZS comics lets have some lighthearted fun!#Remember that if anything bad happens to these Jiang disciples in the canon comic - they are happy in this AU B'*)#I think one of the funniest things about the teenxian dynamic is how WWX accidently finds things that get LWJ to feel flustered.#My guy wwx goes 'I'm going to lightly bully/tease this nerd 'cause his reactions are funny.' and LWJ goes “My god. He's everything to me.”#Part two of the fun part of this dynamic is that LWJ is ever so lightly self aware enough to LOATHE THIS CRUSH.#Hence why I have been marinating on this 'Accidental Lan headband miscommunication' concept.#This is how LWJ assumes that WWX knows what the band means in this AU. This will be relevant later.#And YES! I am still going to be making comics for this AU. I have so many ideas I simply can't hold onto forever.
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a small celebration for a big man's birthday
#ok fuck it dude its like 8 am i think i can post this#happy birthday potemkin you beautiful bastard :]#no i am not above celebrating fictional character's birthdays thank you very much#bridget#potemkin#potemkin birthday#guilty gear#art#my artwork#queued#i love the potential between his and bridget's friendship#i'm so sad i never see it anywhere </3#bridget guilty gear
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East Blue Crew ✨ !!!
#today is my 1 year anniversary since i started watching OP 😄❤ !!!#i wanted to draw something special for this occasion !! and since it is almost the release date of OPLA !#I drew the east blue crew cuz they mean a lot to me💛💚❤💙🧡#i wanna thank One Piece for being the anime that gave me back my motivation of being an artist when i was really sad#and for becoming my favorite anime ever 💖💖#THANK U !! u funny funky pirates 👒❤ !! i wanna add that i'm happy that i joined the OP tumblr community cuz everyone is so nice <3 !!#opla#one piece#one piece liveaction#usopp#zoro#roronoa zoro#luffy#monkey d. luffy#monkey d luffy#nami#sanji#black leg sanji#one piece fanart#my drawings#diamondsheep art#one piece live action
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tranny freak :)
#Negativity#Transphobia#I don't know what to tell you buddy I'm not sure what your goal is here#I am genuinely so much happier like this#Figuring out that I'm a tranny freak has been the absolute best thing ever#All the loved ones who I've come out to have been so welcoming and supportive#I get to experiment with my appearance like I haven't done since my punk days in highschool#And I've always been a weirdo so freak isn't even hurtful that's been a point of pride for decades#What made you want to hurt a stranger buddy#What are you going through#Are you gonna read this and scoff cause I took a troll sincerely#Why are you so afraid of genuine connection#Why are you scared of people#Are you happy with your life right now#Do you like yourself#How much time do you spend doing this#Do you think the negativity might be getting to you#How much time do you spend feeling repulsed scornful and annoyed towards others that you gotta do something about it#I'm really sorry#I used to be a similar kinda angry and that shit taints everything#Idk man I just hope you can see the joy in things someday#There's so much cool and exciting stuff you can find when you start looking for happiness and good intentions#Kinda sad that you're missing out
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Looks like the entire household is together! I wonder where Miss. Toriel is?
Part 25 || First || Previous || Next
--Full Series--
A fun continuation! Lots of crazy vibes. Due to school, I'll be taking another month/months hiatus. I should really stop making so many cliffhangers ;P
#tw blood#I hope this new update made you laugh a little haha! I really enjoyed making these pages! I wanted to make some good situational comedy.#So many memes#Azzy is sad that Kris bonked his snoot :(#and chara accidentally almost killed Kris >;)#And Susie is now here :D#I may keep the monotone color palette since it takes so much less time :) and I have learned so much about comic panels and experimentation#this background was such a vibe. OH MY gosh. I can draw backgrounds in less than an hour now! Thanks comic!#I'm really happy how I drew the hands. No gloves or anything. Kris has skinny little arms hehe#deltarune chara timeline#deltarune chara timeline comic#bread#art#deltarune#my art#chara#Asriel#Kris#Susie#deltarune comic#deltarune au#chara timeline#cw blood#tw slight blood#tw cursing#cw cursing#the player#the soul#so many tags#this is a shorter update but its a shorter scene. Lots of action and then transition next time :)
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I don't know what this is all I know is that LimL Joel makes me really emotional
#I know he has a tendency to go deranged on his red lives but idk something about him beginning to lose it after Jimmy died and killing Grian#joel smallishbeans#smallishbeans fanart#trafficblr#Again its his red life shenanigans but... If only Jimmy had known how affected someone was by his death. I'm choosing to believe this#and him then going out like a sad pathetic wet cat even with Grian's sacrifice... He really deserves a win one of these days lmao please#Also I cant stop thinking about how Jimmy wouldn't have left him. Grian was sensible to and most players probs would have#Joel really does become a lost cause so its fair and Grian did still care (and went to say goodbye as well as sacrifice his time for him)#But Jimmy would have stuck by even if Joel were in this state (and they'd both get themselves killed pathetically but)#And Joel having shown such genuine care for Jimmy and concern over his limited time... man anything w Jimmy makes me so emotional lol#I love them so#oh Ig about the art itself. I dont like it but hey thats how it tends to go when you try smth new. And no shame in trying#but if one person likes this then yayy I will still feel accomplished and happy#Im looking at this again and hey its not that bad actually yay I love to approve of my own art. self love hell yea#tubby art
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I DIDN'T KNOW THERE WAS ANOTHER ANGLE OF THIS PHOTO 😭😭😭😭
#brocedes#they were so happy#the vice grip they had on each other plsss#i've only seen ppl use the 1st one#saw it on pinterest#pls i was on there to look for cute pc backgrounds#and now i'm devastated#and sad about brocedes again#truly never leaving my mind
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juno steel, lady of my heart 💖
#the penumbra podcast#juno steel#i hadn't caught up with the pod in a super long time but i just finished it and OH god there's so many emotions#like i'm sad it's over but i'm SO happy how it turned out#everything felt perfect to me#this is my contribution to the fan base
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And you, my dear friends, have my profound thanks for the opportunity and privilege to have been a part of your lives. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Love, Eugene
#the try guys#eugene lee yang#ttgedit#thetryguysedit#eugeneleeyangedit#mocedit#pocpopculture#tuserheidi#asiancentral#janie makes stuff#*gifs#never been so emotional watching a try guys video in my life honestly god. I'm so sad but so happy for him#youtubeedit
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Afternoon Cuddles
#i got sad over them so now i'm coping by drawing fluff#i just want them to be happy gdi#or maybe alive and healthy while we're at it#sasuke uchiha#itachi uchiha#uchiha brothers#naruto#fanart#my art#naruto art
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one bite and he's gone 🥢
#enhypen#enhypenet#enhypenedit#*jelly's#kpopedit#danablr#uservince#heysol#tuserflora#usersemily#cheytermelon#useranusia#chwedoutbox#usersun#tuseral#rinblr#userfairy#useraashna#useroro#userzaynab#zoverhere#forparker#userbibs#userbloomingwarrior#yang jungwon#jungwon#the cutest little boba 😭 i'm so sad i need him to always be happy
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drew arthur with a little friend. they're talking about life and death
#rdr2#rdr2 fanart#barghestland#arthur morgan#art#artists on tumblr#this week life was so fucking horrible i'm on the edge of having a little breakdown#and when im sad and stressed and done with life i just draw arthur#cuz his depressed ass would understand#u know.. yeah :(#i hope whoever reads it is having a better time#if u want u can tell me smth nice in tags or anywhere really<3#like tell me silly names of ur pets or facts about ur favorite bugs#i'd be happy to hear that
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