#i will always be confused by dating
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Gonna be completely honest but to this date I don't even know how people get to dating. I don't understand how a 15 year old will say "so my ex-" WHEN DID U HAVE TIME TO DATE? HOW?
Will forever remain clueless aboht this because???? How???? Does dating even happen???????????
#LISTEN IVE HEARD PPL SAY “oh you just ask spmeone out” etc and this seems like SUCH A UNIVERSAL THING THAT EVERHONE EXPERIEMCES AND IM JUST.#HUH?#HOW? WHEN? WHAT-#anyway. what the fuck.#i will always be confused by dating#delete later
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a very small engiespy moment...
#tf2#team fortress 2#tf2 engineer#tf2 spy#engiespy#what do you guys call this ship idk i am out of the loop#yea it does say 9/11 that's my hc since it's his meet the team vid upload date LOL#this is so old i used to write so extra messy lol#i feel like i literally always have a reason for x thing but i cant for the life of me remember why i picked 1925 tho...#some tags are confused ...blnd means blonde lol
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Kon when Jon questions wether or not he loves someone: everyone feels love Jon that's what makes them good people and don't you dare mention. Cass (aromantic asexual). Jason (aromantic) Dick (demiromantic Demi sexual) Bruce (aromantic demisexual) Or Clark (grey romantic) Lois (aromantic) Lana (aromantic grey sexual) Lex (aromantic asexual) Duke (demiromantic asexual) Lena (aromantic) Kori (grey romantic) Raven (demisexual) Or Literally every young justice member ever Or Oliver queen (demiromantic) Wally West (asexual) At all okay. They don't count.
#as in thee good people who don't always feel love#batman#dc comics#bruce wayne#detective comics#batfamily#damian wayne#superman#jason todd#tim drake#aroace#im asexual and a questionung aro so i handel thaf by projecting on to all of my faves#actually asexual#asexual#aromantic#yes most of them are jn cannon relationship but ive dated three people and still confuse platonic and romantic love#soooo#clark kent#lois lane#lex luthor#lana lang#koriand'r#my queen#the thing that separates us from animals is self awareness not love#young justice#i just like making characters aro its so nuch fun#also love and sex aren't the same thing but bare with me people for the sake of the bir#*bit
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How I feel when some ppl say that Tomtord/Oncest/Trife/etc. is a proship(imo they're not)
#hate ppl like that fr but HEAVY on oncest bc like for trife and tomtord you could argue due to their toxicity its problematic#(imo no bc tomtord is only toxic in the end and if tomtord is toxic then anybody with tord in that episode is toxic etc and trophy was#blackmailing knife when the game was still very fun and lighthearted aka not serious also trophy got character development after he got#eleminated so i think their realtionship would be better! :] guess well see tho cuz they will interact again)#but like oncest ESPECIALLY confuses me cuz huh??? its sure as hell not really that toxic when its...yourself for one#2 its like dating a clone of urself..its not like dating a twin or your brother..its just timey wimey bullshit#time travel shit is always so confusing..but again its just..yourself#sorry 4 the rant lol#rant#meme#shitpost#onecest#tomtord#trife#inanimate insanity#osc#eddsworld#the onceler fandom#the lorax 2012#the onceler
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#mega gallade#didn't forget! i'm sure i'm gonna get asks about this one but last time i got asks about a mega (mega lucario) it happened while i was#in class and i couldn't update it until i got home. i shoved that one in the queue with mere MINUTES to spare‚ i swear#but this one i remembered. because of how many of you reminded me about mega lucario yesterday. which yes that was yesterday#as of me queuing this up. this must always be confusing when i reference dates in the tags 'cause you see this shit like two weeks later bu#i mean. y'know#i like to have a lot in the queue for instances like july. when i went to california and couldn't queue any up for a few days#a nice backlog. a safety net‚ if you will
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Aro Nine makes sense with Eccleston talking about how he sees ninerose as something sort of beyond the sexual/romantic/etc. I wonder if he had any say in how this went??
And for those who don't interpret Ten as aro, I feel like this adds a fascinating new aspect to his regeneration into that face, and both face's relationship with Rose.
Still have to listen to the whole thing, but I've listened to the clips and. Holy shit.
#ninth doctor#9th doctor#doctor who#dw#big finish#big finish audios#rose rambles#nine has always said he doesn't do relationships!!#god. I want to rewatch s1 again.#I am a ninerose fan#that isn't going to change#but my perception of character relationship as sexual/romantic/platonic is always skewed#by the fact I myself am a poor understander of such things#aro/aspec person dating another aro/apsec person rights.#which is to say#and with all the love in my heart#ninerosejack got even stranger and more confusing (positive) and thank god for that.
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#hazbin hotel#demon#angel dust#sir pentious#husker#husk#comic#i tried#not sure if i really like this#but im posting anyway#bb keeps forgetting thats its kay to be open about that stuff now#i love these dumbasses#also partly inspired by my firend who didnt realise they were dating until late into the series#helluverse#hazbin hotel comic#bisexual sir pentious#clarifying tags because It seems to have confused people#he is indeed bisexual himself#my headcanon is that hes only accepted that after his death though#in life he was always bi curious but afraid to ket anyone know or to act on it because hes from the 1800s#he's happy for Charlie and Vaggie for being able to be in love in the open and in a stable and equal relationship#my comic
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One thing that confuses in relationships in stories/shows is when the couple (or one of them) is not sure it's the right moment to say I love you- but like, don't you get into a relationship because you love your (potential) partner ??? Why does it have to wait til you actually say I love you ??? Don't they already know it both and that's why they got into a relationship ??? I DON'T UNDERSTAND AND I AM CONFUSED IS THIS AN ACTUAL THING ????
#i think life confuses me in general#love has never been something very comprehensible for me#like fuck if you want to fuck#kiss if you want to kiss#date if you love each others#and always get consent first that is the most important thing here children#am i the only one confused?#i was really just reading a thiam when i thought abt it#and i also watched the s3 of heartstopper so i linked both tbh
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Shinsou "I dont know why she's into me either" Hitoshi
ALWAYS on his "am shy and humble or actually just cocky" shit because sometimes this means he's holding your palms in his hands and getting all watery-eyed because he thinks you're WAY too good for him ... and other times it means cheers-ing someone when they get snotty about how you're out of his league.
They're trying to piss him off, meanwhile he's just raising his glass an tipping a shot back, kinda smirking, all: "cheers, I'll drink to that!" (then going home to make sure you aren't about to leave him--as if he doesn't have ROCK HARD ABS he wants you grinding against every night. why would you ever give that up????? adjflakdhj)
Not to mention all the times Denki asks him how he managed to score you and Shinso genuinely goes blank and has to take 20 minutes to ponder it too:
#shinso#staring out the window dead*ss only to come back like... idk man.#no im just kidding bc this is so real#same as always almost but he's so awed that he has you that he can't let anything disturb that peace#it's funny bc dudes are like 'ummmmmmm shinso is so mean and offputting..' and ur like 'THAT CUDDLE BUG? NO HE'S NOT????'#tbh everyone is confused lmao until they see him with u and u seem him with them#like u knew he was antisocial but u just forgot he was like. actually deadpan ignoring people he's not close with#but then he's kissing the back of your hand and your cheeks when it's just you too and no one's looking#like sir??? huh????#plus he's hot as all f*ck so whys he ..kinda... begging you not to leave him???? sir. be for real.#BUT THATS ANOTHER THING HE LOVES. U 24/7 but when ur possessive or out on a date he's so MINE MINE MINE MINE MINE#before getting all flustered at himself#lmaoooo dflajklehfjalksdjfoija .dfjhakljsdhfkjadfklsja#hdsjkf i want him#hope this was okay!#caitie things#gen#anon
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hiiii friends!!!!!☺️❣️ it's me!!! the blog formerly known as Hyunubear!
I thought I should re-introduce myself (and pretend im normal sldjfld) since im getting into a new fandom! 🙄👉🏻👈🏻
I'm Niki, you local kpop hag (28), sometimes I make gifs but mostly i shitpost. I think I really only know 6 groups in totall but I mainly post about vixx, monsta x, and now ✨️seventeen✨️ (who stole my heart on a random friday).
I really wanna make carat friends and moots ;;;;;; my ask box is always open and i love chatting abt anything and everything!!!
#interact if u see babes!!!!#why did this lowkey feel like filling up a dating app profile sijdfij#im too old to figure out how to make a... card? is that what its called?#i don't even have a propper desktop theme or whatever#anyway#im pinning this so my old moots dont get confused with the new look and for (hopefully) new carat friends to get to know me a bit uwu#i feel like getting into carat fandom should be relatively easy since carats and monbebe always had a really good relationship...#aren't they called 'sister fandoms' or something?#it was so easy to get into seventeen bc i already knew half of them thru monsta x being friends with them (and theyre also pretty popular)#i hope my monbebe followers arent too annoyed :( im still a monbebe and will be screaming abt monek!!!#but with 5 of them in the military there isn't as much monek content...#i will stop rambling now <3
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Y'all gonna hate me for this one, but you can't call it a homoerotic friendship if that woman was never into you. It's called lust, limerence and delusion.
#txt#lgbt#wlw#lgbtqia#there is nothing more dehumanizing than being on the ace spectrum and being on the receiving end of this#words cannot describe how betrayed i felt#like especially considering i had to figure it out for myself#some of them arent even gay or bi they just want someone who IS between their legs like WHAT#i was a relationship with my fiancé and reliving gay rumors about me like why would i ever use someone as a beard#people can't tell the difference between platonic and romantic attraction and when you're kind to someone they think you want them#there's a stigma of being bi or pan where people just think your body is a free for all#or that you're really gay and confused when you're with a partner who is your opposite gender#like i always stayed away from dating women after being harmed by them all my life and oooh that was my last straw LMAOOOO#like i hate that people get obsessed with the idea of me#and when i fall from their pedestal they just want to ruin my life because they didnt get sex from me#even worse when they dont like you but they want to BE you like you are not gay#like they dont have an identity in general and are just latching onto mine and using romance as the excuse for access#so sick lmao im venting in the tags#homoerotic friendship my fat ass like a real friend would NEVER
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Do you have any Zhongli/Zhongchi fic recs? I haven’t found any that are nearly as good as yours 😔😔
funnily enough someone already asked this, but it was quite a while ago and tumblr is a mess to search old shit thru so here, this is the post this was asked during the ao3 crisis of- .......last year? i can't remember. either way, the post starts w me saying i don't have all the names and links but dw, after ao3 came back up i edited the post so you should see all authors and links in the recs.
i have to admit that for reasons unrelated to the fandom i haven't been reading many zhongchi fics as of late? so like- bear in mind i don't have an updated mental picture of any of the recs after the post was made. so if one went off the rails or if one of the WIPs finished, i'm not aware;; i also mention in the post that i'd add more recs if i had access to ao3 (which i didn't at the time bc it was down), and while that is true, it's been so long since i read any of them that i wouldn't be able to confidently reccomend them outside of 'i somewhat remember the plot and i remember liking it'. also i don't remember half of their names. so uh- yeah that's the list i think
#also there are plenty of fics that i'd have loved to recomend but that ended up either going off the rails towards the end or that just-#left me disappointed#complete tanget but what is it with people making holy angst and then completely missing the point of said angst#as in#the resolution they give to the angst is sometimes more infuriating than anything#like by that point i'm rooting to have no resolution LMAO#which is why angst resolution is always like my n°1 concern in my fics#last thing i want is for the angst to be super good and then for the resolution to leave y'all like-#that's it?#not in the sense of payoff for the angst#but in the way the issues brought up by the angst get handled#i don't want to point fingers obviously i'm not that much of an asshole#but i vividly remember a fic that set up childe being bullied horribly by a bunch of adults for something that was outside of his control#and that he couldn't have possibly known#and so he just flees bc i mean poor guy i'd flee as well. plus they backed him into a corner with no other way out#like- think public proposal except childe didn't even know he was dating zhongli. and when he was confused about it#all the onlookers started berating him for being stupid#which like- it's one thing being dense. and it's another thing being unable to communicate w eachother (this was zl's fault)#anyway. so he flees. the resolution to the angst is him getting dragged (against his will) back to liyue and zhongli just saying#sorry i forgot to say i loved you please never leave idk what i'd do without you#and like off-camera he did almost kill the 'onlookers' that bullied childe#but like#that's it#there's no further apologies from everyone; childe retains no issues from a highly traumatic event (it was portrayed that way);#everything is solved by zl saying actually i love you if you leave i'm gonna be depressed forever#like????????????????????????#obviously i'm being very vague about it#that's not exactly how it goes in the fic#don't want to throw hate at it the rest of it was really good#it just left me with a growing dread of 'this isn't going to be handled well by the author isn't it' as it went on
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such is the tale of a ✨chronically online hypocrite✨
#(please forgive this old folk’s rambling for a hot min bc i need to get this off my chest somehow and in some way)#tl;dr: come and get into the hw idol series!!! we have ship discourse; more ship discourse; even more ship discourse#(yes ik people should be free to ship what they do b u t claiming a noncanon ship as canon and forcing it on everyone else is. not cool.)#yes yes friday’s mv was visually cute and ino.rin’s singing was peak b u t i feel like it has caused more harm than good in some way???#i cant b e l i e v e the jp hwtwt beef over friday’s mv is still going on mannnnnnnnn#no less than 3 separate people have made posts along the lines of#‘p l s stop using [official tags] to post about *[unnamed] non-official ships* p l s there’s a time and place for everything’#and n o n e of them even remotely run in the same circles yet they’re all banded together against a *certain* group lmfao never change hwtwt#lhy (esp yhy) shippers are always at the scene of the crime mannnnnnn#i cant see anything on their end of the naval battle (has every single lhy tag+account that i could think of blocked)#b u t it’s still really funny to witness on my twtdash against my will. i think i need to touch grass#‘kyhn isn’t canon either so why do you like it while being such a hater towards lhy—‘#great question!!!!!! it’s bc (disregarding the movie) they actually interact really well together~~~ like the honeypre event y k—#and also bc yukki treats hina really nicely all the time (even when she was being tsun and literally running from her feelings for him)#a n d hina loved him for who he truly was; even before his image change arc. and she also does her best to appeal to him and such~~~~~~~#but lhy. uh. they just bully hiyo 95% of the time and while they do look out for her bc they’re pals#they’re just pals. guys. and lxl have gone ‘uwu it must be u uwu’ to each other one too many times so shoehorning hiyo between them would.#be pretty weird ngl? esp since the ‘widely accepted’ portrayal of lhy as a trio is p much just hiyo x 2 dudes who dont even like each other#and. like. a branch of such portrayals usually seem to have aizo waft away from the ‘r/s triad’ to date mona instead which is. very weird.#some people just pick and choose aizo and mona interactions dont they. all they see is the umbrella scene and go ‘ah yes. canon’#they dont even read further to see how mona doesn’t even use the umbrella after aizo leaves (clear rejection)#a n d how aizo doesn’t even remember giving the umbrella to mona + mona’s entire existence in general after that#and that’s not even counting the grudge mona refuses to let go of even after what looks to be literal months#so for certain shippers to just casually shoo aizo out of the hiyoharem and into mona’s unwilling arms for the sake of yhy is. weird.#and like. shouldn’t he and yujiro have a say in this?? they’re more interested in each other than hiyo so just how are they being commonly#portrayed as hiyosimps in fanon? im so confused… like. wouldn’t they be equally obsessed with each other (as w/ hiyo) if they were a rstrio?#aaaaaa get this off my twtdash plsssssssss pls see this post twtapp pls let this affect your dumb algorithm im tired of the ship discourseee#as funny as the ‘lhy vs the world’ naval warfare is it’s getting. um. very annoying!!!! and now im missing nagisa more than ever s o b s#plsplsplsplsplsplsplsplspls influence the algorithm ragepost; ik big brother is 👀watching👀 so do your thing—#(pls feel free to duke it out with me too if y’all read this i need my birdsite algorithm to le a r n that i dont wanna see stuff like this)
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What if Dennis tracks down where Mac’s boyfriend lives and shows up at his apartment, doing squats outside said building preparing for some type of fight. Not necessarily jealous but tired of hearing about this guy.
#because like#have we EVER seen Mac date a man before?#do we even know what could happen at this point#just listen#Dennis tracking down someone’s address doesn’t seem too out of the question#like let’s be real#maybe he just wants Mac to shut up because he can’t stop brining his boyfriend up#I’d like to see a fic where Mac isn’t even worried that he’s being affected my allergies#I’d like him to think Dennis have him allergies please#I NEED stupid Mac#just hear me out#I’m so confused by the squatting#can you tell I just learned how to use tags accurately? because I did#iasip#mac mcdonald#dennis reynolds#it's always sunny in philadelphia#macdennis#it’s always sunny in philadelphia#season 16#sweet 16#sunny sweet 16
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Earlier I saw a TikTok of some girl talking about a bad date and said like one of the final things that ended it was he placed her hand somewhere (didn’t say where exactly).
Like I’ve always liked that. The like clear direction about what to and when is so nice. And like hot that he’s leading like that.
It’s just kinda wild to me how different some girls think. I think forget that happens.
#I feel like girls complaining about dating related stuff confuses me in a way that I keep watching so it’s stays on my fyp#and like too be fair it’s not always something I’ve liked but def generally#just like wasn’t cool when within in bad relationships
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𐐪𐑂 B a d H a b i t s 𐐪𐑂
no warnings | gn reader | fluff | uh...not proofread __φ(。。)
Shu Itsuki has a few bad habits, including the fact that he doesn’t realize how heart fluttering they can be
❝ Shu hasn’t quite realized it but he’s become attached to you in a strange way. Inadvertently, he’s made you a part of his daily routine, his dreams and ambitions…❞
…and his afternoon cafe runs.
ఌ Though his concentrated face while mulling over his stage designs are heart fluttering, the issue lies (as he would say) with y o u. ‘Ah, is there a hole in your chin? How did you get icing there? You’re this old already how haven’t you learned how to eat properly yet?’ Shu always presses your cheeks between his elegant fingers, takes his napkin, and wipes off the remains of your cinnamon bun while scolding you. His hands feel a little cold but soft and after knowing him for so long you can only hear the warmth in his voice. You can’t help but think it’s a little unfair—he’s already talking to you about something different while your heart is still pounding in your chest.
ఌ His bad habits also follow the both of you out in public. It looks like there’s a brand new craft store across the street from the cafe, though it’s wares look a little cheap it’s still worth a trip inside! You always have to walk a little faster to keep pace with Shu when he spots something interesting, smiling slightly while listening to him talk about how long lasting cashmere can be if you treat your clothing with care. When you can’t fast enough Shu finds himself sighing and grabbing your wrist to make sure you don’t fall behind. ‘It’s important for you to know these things! And you’re walking to slowly! How can you do your job properly if you can’t manage to make it from one end to the other without assistance?’ Because he’s still walking ahead of you, you can safely give him a lovelorn look, why does he hold your wrist but not your hand?
ఌ Possibly his worst habit rears it’s head in the small craft store aisles……besides openly criticizing the fabric and jewelry making supplies for being stiff and unmanageable. There’s many other customers looking for ways to begin their seamster journeys. Too many. Whether Shu is a repellent or you are a magnet—people just won’t stop bumping into you. The thread aisle, the button aisle, the velcro aisle…Shu begins to huff like it was your fault. Placing an arm around your side he pulls you out of the way of another shopper, bumping your shoulders together. ‘Won’t you pay a little more attention?’ As if you could in a situation like this. His soap has just the faintest scent of linen & peonies, even though he smells like laundry in an open field something about it reminds you of star gazing. The only thing keeping you grounded is the feeling of his hand around your upper arm keeping you out of “harms way”. It might be a blessing that he has a bad habit of not noticing when he manages to make you feel so flustered. ‘Stand right next to me. Ah, I can’t take you anywhere.’ …..He really has a bad habit of saying that, too.
#not it being 3am TT_TT hello〜#sorry i didn’t realize ppl were following this blog…#but i got struck by lighting#no w inspo struck w inspo#aha#but ig i got over my weirdness abt writing abt itsuki but there’s just a specific kind of relationship u can have a him#bc he’s so……Like That hahaha or what i mean is#his casual intimacy is always in a corrective way but never in an affectionate way because he has a hard time with affection#which may b confusing but praise & affection are separate things so he may like it when ppl talk abt how intelligent and creative he is but#admiring someone looking up to someone is much much different than liking and loving those are scary concepts#so it takes a lot of years of this sort of ‘im dating him & he doesn’t know’ until he could even entertain the idea of liking u TT_TT like#maybe if u had been born a porcelain doll things could be different hahahah im kidding! it’s been so long now that he calls u and tells u#his unfinished works and that’s a big deal you know#uh…wait how do i tag again?#things written#ensemble stars#enstars fanfic#enstars fluff#valkyrie enstars#shu itsuki x reader#shu x reader#shu itsuki#enstars x reader#valkyrie ensemble stars#enstars headcanons
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