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sundaeserenade · 6 months ago

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I think one of the top most difficult things is cutting off family members. like in theory, it's pretty cut and dry, but the guilt tripping and then the whole family ganging up on you is ridiculous

but! at the end of the day, you know what's best for you, and if your family members aren't willing to hear you out and come to an understanding, that says more about them than you, so.

the overall process is just a pain in the ass, especially when they don't get the hint or don't want to accept it. 😞

#text #i don't have like a complaining or personal tag. whatever #it's really hard for me to set boundaries and stand up for myself because #i was never taught how to do that #so i'm learning as i go and it's like. i'm a kind person and i give people chances #but with my dad it's like...he's had 30 years to shape up #and he never will so #why should i continue to waste my time

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