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“𝐆𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐦 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡.”
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having good & true friends will literally save and protect you in a million unfathomable ways. like okay we have written so many times about lovers. but the way a platonic friend laughs and cries with you. the way they hold your hand at 14 years old and at 34. the way they keep a little silver tie to you, touching base over and over and over. how you can go years without talking, only to re-meet and discover: oh shit! you're still cool!
there are people who have been in my life for more than half of it, and i have loved every version of them. do you know how fucking beautiful that is. yeah love will save the world. but the way friends love you is gonna save the you.
#and before one of u is like '' i have no friends :(" i used to be there too actually#abusive partner cut me off from ALL of 'em. i didn't think i was lovable#it made me EXCEPTIONALLY shy. i still am actually!!!!#i just ... started saying ''yes.''#i would take pictures of flyers in my library and go to whatever events they had#i started taking community classes#if someone mentioned like ''i am gonna start x group'' i actually took a deep breath#and approached them to be like . okay i want in.#i started making the first move with new people - a small compliment#a smile or a little joke. just to share the space with them.#i have MASSIVE social anxiety. bad parent and bad relationship will do that to ya.#but i just... kept going. and going. and going. to each of these little things. and then...#like. .... idk i just am very blessed. i have a STUPID number of friends#a lot of which i reconnected with. bc it turns out love is never wasted. adult life just.#like. gets in the way. but also... i loved u as a weird little kid. i love u now as a weird big adult.#i promise i PROMISE ur friends are out there. u just have 2 find them. and btw#i didn't make friends with everyone. but i did get a lot of people to smile or laugh.#aint that something.#this process took me something like 2 years. it was HARD!!!!!!!!!!#i love u!!! hard things are often worth it!!!
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What if Mike and Jeremiah are the guards in FNAF 2..
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#fnaf fanart#fnaf movie#fnaf 2#Jeremiah fnaf#mike schmidt#jeremy fitzgerald#fnaf 2 movie#ID be so down for jeremiah being a night guard in the new establishment#I only think his inclusion could enhance things#like the set up is already perfectly there#his name is derived from Jeremy#he’s a security guard so him working there isn’t left field#and he’s already friends with Mike so they can interact immediately#Mike obviously would want to protect his friend too#so that adds another layer to why he’s gotta stay at the location etc#I also think Jeremiah’s reaction to the animatronics etc would be so funny#he’d be the ‘straight man’ in that set up#he’d be such a good addition to the main group#chill with if they get someone else to be Jeremy etc#but jeremiah would feel like a big missed opportunity to me
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The idea that uni protesters are "elitist ivy-league rich kids larping as revolutionaries" on Twitter and Reddit and even here is so fucking funny to me if you actually know anything about the student bodies at these unis. Take it from someone who's going to one of the biggest private unis in the US, 80% of the peers I know are either from the suburbs or an apartment somewhere in America, children of immigrants, or here on a student visa. I've heard about one-percenter students, but I've never met one in person. Like, don't get me wrong, the institution as a whole is still very privileged and white. I've talked with friends and classmates about feeling weird or dissonant being here and coming from such a different background. But in my art program, I see BIPOC, disabled, queer, lower-income students and faculty trying to deconstruct and tear that down and make space every day. So to take a cursory glance at a crowd of student protesters in coalitions that are led by BIPOC & 1st/2nd-gen immigrant students and HQ'd in ethnic housings and student organizations and say, "ah. children of the elite." Get real.
#also idk how to tell you this but even if it were true. wealthy children potentially sacrificing their educational careers to protest is#a good thing actually. idk how to tell you that caring about people from other nations is good#personal#“this war has nothing to do with most students cuz nobody's getting drafted” idk how to explain to you that we should be angry#that our tuitions of 10s of thousands of dollars that we pay every year for an education is being used to fund a genocidal campaign#also the implication that if you go to a uni institution you are automatically privileged by participation no matter your bg#i didn't /want/ to go to this school. i was supposed to go to a school with an art/animation program. but i realized my immigrant#parents have been working their whole lives to get me here. and turning the opportunity down would be a disservice to their sacrifice#this is getting into convos of “what 2nd gen kids owe their parents” which is different for everyone but. yeah#i just get pissed off at seeing people misrepresenting student bodies as “wealthy” and “privileged” and “elite” when it's such a blatant li#i remember a year ago a friend told me they can't fly home to hong kong for winter break because the plane tickets are too expensive#so they have to find temporary housing around the area#last quarter for a film doc class my film partner made a doc on a small group of marxist grad students from india discussing praxis#during a rally a few months ago in response to police presence the coalition invited palestinian students to speak about their experiences#and lead songs and read poems they wrote. these are STUDENTS. are they elitist too?#this is not to disregard my own personal privilege either.#this whole narrative's just to rationalize a lack of empathy to me. seeing a 19yo student get shot by a rubber bullet and your first#reaction is “HAW! HAW! bet richy rich didn't see THAT coming when she put on her terrorist hood!”#newsflash. these big uni campuses are HAUNTED by the violence of past protests and revolutions and police brutality. we know.#why do you think these coalitions have been making reinforced barricades at record speed
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"Love" and "proud" and "family" come up so frequently in bat comics now. Bleh. Bring back something I can relate to like emotional constipation and repression.
#boooo i want my dysfunctional family rep#which like they are still. technically. i mean you can't look at gotham war and be like that's a functional family#but at the same time they have a group chat and like huh what?? naaaah group chat is too... normal#am i making sense#i just feel like instead of being big happy family#they should all be more sectioned off#to only some members interacting or getting along#and others not really interacting or not being that close#y'know. variety.#and steph not being included in the family and just a friend/ally. like babe she's not bruce's kid and why would you want her to be#why would you do that to her and give her a dad like bruce#but also also all the love/pride/family stuff hits so much better when it's rare. a treat. it's so constant now it doesn't hit the same#batfam
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#persona 4#p4#persona 4 dancing all night#p4d#hanamura yosuke#yosuke hanamura#narukami yu#souyo#GUYS THIS IS PEAK FAMILY DYNAMICS#yosuke looking on like the proud mother/father/brother figure that he is for the team#ok yu says yosuke was muttering it to himself but like fuck man it looks so much like “oh aibou look how big our family has grown”#yosuke really is one half of a parent pair in their friend group and in this essay i will-#NO SERIOUSLY THOUGH he keeps them in line#he lifts morale up he cheers them up he looks out for them he speaks on behalf of yu when yu doesnt want to talk#just you watch i have receipts too#he's good with his queue
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Ouhhhh friendship I love friendship……..
#I’m reading volumes 14-16 of the ouran manga OOUGHHH MY HEART#I love this weird little friend group so much its unreal#like u have this charming sweeps you off your feet prince but he’s actually a huge lovable idiot with a kind heart and his friends#who are all misfits that he reached out to and drew in because of his kindness and own weirdness like that shits TIGHT BRO#and the trauma part where he has some deep seated issues with love bc he thinks that itll break a family apart like with his mom#how his family isnt allowed to be together because his mom and dad fell in love and how he says he wants to build a big house#so that way one day everyone will get along as a family like. all he wants is not to lose everyone and the only way to do that is#by maintaining a certain order.. he both wants a complete family so bad and doesnt want anything to sour between anyone#so he assigns each of his friends a family role based on how he sees them and YEAH its mostly played for giggles and tamakis#already weird so its his way of showing theyre close to him but. god damn this boy has LAYERS#it also feels kinda meta towards how found family tends to get thrown around to assign characters as 'siblings' or family roles instead of#using it to describe characters who are close enough to be each others family. cuz tamakis doing that EXACT THING in a way tht#ties in with his character and i have to say its fascinating using that within the story itself and its completely plausible#theres a lot of things i can say about ouran that are good bad and questionable but. god i love it when characters are niceys to each other#i remember i really liked the mall episode bc kyoya and haruhi got to spend time together and their relationship isnt very close#but it was really nice to see their personalities bounce off each other. i think i also wouldve liked to see haruhi alone with kaoru#i also firmly believe all of the hosts are at least a little in love with haruhi and this can be anything like endearing romantic cuz like#who DOESNT love haruhi. kyoya i think would want to study her under a microscope like his fascination with her draws him in#but im fucking obsessed with whatever haruhi and tamaki have going on because YES hes obsessed with her YES he jumps at the chance to#put her in a cute costume but haruhi? she just fucking goes with it because she knows hes fun to be around even if hes a little wacky abt i#theyre all so. NNGGHHHH#ouran#ohshc#yapping
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oh you want me to bring my friends now, hm? pretty girl bodies all soft and flushed with pleasure? pressed together? feeling each other? dripping with so, so much cum?
#i cant believe you came back but i am once again so thankful#ive been rereading the other ask a lot#she speaks#anon#asks#tentacles#i simply want to feel the strength and the tenderness of some big intelligent tentacle monster who soaks in my warmth#maneuvering me however it desires#i do love the idea of the tentacles pooling us all together. thats cute for some reason. piling us closer like kittens#even if it helps its grip or whatever practically#tangent tho. how many friends are yall having who you would casually fuck#bc for me personally theres always been a thick separation between people i am purely friends with#and the people i am or could be interested in romantically#not to say i dont adore my friends w real love or that me and my honey dont have a deep friendship alongside our attraction but#idk i just think about my Friend group n i cant picture having steamy gay sex#my mutuals on the other hand i am looking at you with HUNGER
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hmm wishing more people could remember that black cis women and other woc are often denied womanhood / characterized as masculine in a way to purposefully dehumanize them ... when people write these scathing things about 'why do cis women act like being considered not cis is so evil' im like babes. as a fellow trans you should be able to put two and two together 😭
#I can't articulate this the way I truly want rn but I'm trans (afab) w friends all across the spectrum of gender ... and I do think people#Forget the 'ur MANNISH' rhetoric is like a big part of misogynoir + equivalent types of oppression for other woc#believe it or not that actually factors into a lot of people's queerness later on too bc of how white supremacist society influences body#Image and beauty standards and attraction#like there are people who use this dynamic to be Silly and act like 'oh transmisogyny is actually aimed at cis women' but there#Is also convos ignored about how actual violence happens too when the 'you're MANNISH' shit goes on like ppl do indeed get stalked and#Beat etc it's not just about offhand mean remarks#I feel like actually paying attention to these nuances will help us build more solidarity among diff groups/intersections ppl occupy
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buying the heart aspect hoodie off topatoco after i get paid this week <3
#moon yaps#i am SO EXCITED. <3<3<3#because like - im making a purchase of my own (satisfies a teens need for independence and agency)#its for a piece of media i like (duh.)#and its a hoodie - which. i wear a sweatshirt most days. so ill get much more use out of it#and.... its subtle enough to wear to school - but noticeable enough for my friend's brother (homestuck fan) to notice (step closer to being#-friends with him) <- which i really want. i dont have a crush on him per se i just think he's pretty cool and funny and we have a lot of -#-shared interests! so this could be a big step in the right direction. because his group and our group hang out close to each other and -#-interact a lot at lunchtime (the two groups get kinda blended then) and that whole group is very fun!#i'm actually in a minecraft realm with them. theyre very cool people#sorry im rambling so much in these tags. i just really wanna be pals with this guy. because the more friends the better and i need more -#- people to talk homestuck with. speaking of. if anybody wants to chat with me feel free#if youve read this whole thing congrats!!
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in this photo it looks like he likes me, but i swear there must have been a dog or something behind me because he was CONVINCED i was the fun police
#we smashed out some recall at home when he first arrived and then when we went to our little beach he was fab#but this was a BIG beach#with a BIG group#including kids and another puppy#and he decided to do the whole#yes i recall when you call... but i stay juuuust out of reach in case you try and CATCH me#and decided he didnt even need my treats anyway#and yolo#so i made Boof's mum catch him for me because he had no problem approaching non-fun-police#then we went home and started proofing our recall to include a collar grab#now we're friends again#but MAN i wanted to send him back on this day HAHA#sprig#dogs
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I wish I could become friends with you but I have severe social anxiety and am also 17
there's nothing technically stopping you from being my friend! we've already got something in common-- anxiety buddies yay!!
#ask#anon#there's absolutely no pressure to talk to me if you don't feel comfortable#but i promise i'm nice! and i'm always down to talk to new people#if you ever decide you want to say hello then feel free! i try to be someone people feel comfortable approaching ^_^#also your being 17 wouldn't really get in the way of being my buddy. p sure one of my moots is like 13 it's all chill#so long as boundaries are mutually respected there's nothing wrong with making a friend with someone outside your exact age group#although i'm only 19 myself so idk if i'd consider ~2 years a big age difference anywho#ANYWAYS#point is i'm friendly. and i won't force u to talk to me or anything but if ur feeling brave i like yapping with folks :]
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baring my teeth at my friends when they send me nice, genuine messages about how much they care about me and replying in kind but wanting to bite something at the same time
#[static]#not in a cute aggression way but in a 'to be known is to be seen' way and im not used to wanting to be seen#always thinking about that quote about being a dog with a bite history LMAO#and my friends are all the white women with a savior complex that want to rehabilitate me hahahaha#shout out to overhearing my one friend saying 'im socializing him' when telling my other friend that i agreed to go do a thing -#- with a big group of people lmaooo#i love my friends i love my friends i love my friends#but i gotta wrestle with the resistance to accept that they do too and that I can tell them that I love them without fear of hurt#not hurt of them leaving or anything like that ... no ... the hurt of showing emotions and being punished for it. we love childhood trauma#anyways im over here grappling with two very big emotions while knuckling through and replying to my friends' nice messages this morning
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i think i might be moving on from my crush. i have a better one i think
#caroline speaks#love life#idk my crush isn’t fun anymore like he doesn’t do anything. it was more fun when he was being insane on instagram stories#but the new one … well it’s been like 8 months or so and we’ve been hanging as friends like at parties and in groups#idk if i told u guys about this one but he’s the one where like#we went to a big dinner and then my girlfriends n i wanted to go out dancing#and he was like ‘i’ll come’ (SO randomly??)#and then when i tried to make smth happen he was like no im going home#soooo anyway. weird. but we see him around more often so he’d be more fun to crush on#and unfortunately my delusional crush just isn’t hitting the same#it took nearly a full calendar year but it kinda wore off
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i have no ideas as to Why they would be sleeping over at maries place but ive had this brain worm for like the past month
i was gonna do something for splatfest but i forgor and it starts in like twenty minutes LMAO
#splatoon#deep cut#frye onaga#big man#shiver hohijiro#polycut#if you want#i have no opinions either way on if deep cut are a polycule or a friend group#as long as they get up to stupid shit im In
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You know sometimes I think that the reason I stopped being on the sokai ship online is that the reasons why I think the ship is nice are so separate and different from how I see most people interpreting the characters and wanting the ship to be that it just loses all appeal to me.
#it's about vulnerability and peace to me okay#It's about sora being unwilling to leave kairi behind where she is a bit slower than the rest of the group#it's something I could absolutely project headcanons on disability on#it's about kairi signifying home and peace and stability#where sora's world became incredibly chaotic#it's about being accepted as who you are not what you can or cannot do#and sora being appreciated because of who he is beyond the keyblade#and kairi's life being valued even if she is not a big strong warrior#it's about the drama of kairi clinging to a past sora desperately wants to have again but cannot go back to#and kairi having the POTENTIAL to relate to that struggle due to her own past#it's about both having the experience of being left behind#and both being kind at heart and clinging to normalcy where they can#it's about being selfish about it too and not recognizing the ways in which the other grew#stubbornly clinging to the way they knew each other because the leap of change is scary albeit necessary in the long run#and stepping on each other's toes because of this because they don't recognize their goals and personalities shifted#that's what's yummy to me#whereas with soriku I am very aligned to fandom interpretation hence why I am waaay more intense about it here#but yeah I... don't want kairi to be a super goddess girlboss that saves sora that's not why she is appealing to me#as someone who struggles with not shining for skills and being left behind I treasure the fact that she is narratively important#and treasured by her friends - but still not super OP and the best of the best and a perfect flawless problem solver and hero#I enjoy that she is weaker and her best friend would STILL risk it all to see her safe - she is not disposable or an afterthought#and she matters because of who she is and the friendship she brings not because of what she can bring to the team of keyblade wielders#i need to find a tag for personal updates
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