#i say it about my dad but (affectionate)

[autism-disco]

who wants to listen to depressed 40 year old man music with meeee

[dallasgallant]

Johnnys lucky that Johnny is already a nickname because how much you wanna bet he was almost stuck with “Babyface”.

[knight-engale]

"you're not traumatized by being raised by parents who were way too young and were raised in shitty families themselves and who never taught you emotional intelligence and isolated you from pretty much all of your non churchgoing peers, you're just a little silly! and you cry whenever you notice any sort of shift in the way someone speaks to you and take it as a personal rejection, whether or not it was intentional, but that's unrelated"

[non-un-topo]

This is your permission to take advantage of some ridiculously harsh sunlight for the specific purpose of posting low-quality cringe

[sensitivegoblin]

Vent

Tw: sh, suivide

[hungee-boy]

i dont know if i ever shared this story but washing my hair and thinking of my dad reminded me of it

when my dad died, he had his hair pretty long and in a ponytail and we asked for his ponytail to be cut so we could save his hair

it might seem weird and it hasnt been done in my family before in my knowledge but we all consented to his hair being cut and it wouldnt have been something he opposed

when his funeral was coming up i was debating cutting my hair the same way, just forming a ponytail and having my cousin cut it but before the funeral when i was messaging my cousin to ask her, i felt a warm tingling pressure on the top of my head

i dont know if i believe in ghosts and never physically interacted with ghosts (i guess you could say ive "felt" them before, like feeling a towering but gentle male presence in my grandmas house that matched with her father's description) but ive never physically seen apparitions or heard voices or felt touches

it felt like my dad was placing his hand on my head and it was so weird and comforting that i decided not to cut my hair and only once that thought crossed my mind and i deleted the message to my cousin was when the sensation stopped

call it a hallucination brought on by grief or a supernatural occurrence but it definitely sticks with me now and id like to believe it really was my dad telling me not to cut my hair for his sake

[impishtubist]

I have literally never had so much trouble picking a pen name before wtf 😭

[mrfoox]

.... OK I really hope I can keep this dude ♥

[superbattrash]

So here’s the good things that happened today: I got 3 more comic books (!!!!!!) and two tshirts that actually fit me AND my dad did what he does because feelings are yucky

I asked for new tires for my car because my baby can barely drive when it rains (I’m a safe driver babes, but I can’t do much without proper tires and I can’t afford new ones) and it was meant to be a silly “just kidding!” wish but my dad got a small tax refund and he wants me to be safe so he said

“Your gift isn’t wrapped”

Me: oh that’s fine, you know I don’t mind

“You can go get it yourself”

Me: oh ok, where is it?

“At the mechanic’s. You can call S and make him put them on for you”

Me: what. You didn’t. That’s??? So expensive?

“I know”

And the rest of the “conversation” was my dad grunting at me and looking away because he doesn’t know how to say “I want you to drive safe and I know the new job doesn’t pay enough for new tires” so instead he clinks our drinks together and mumbles about taxes and then leaves the room awkwardly so I don’t look at him

[allofuswantgwinam]

random but like 2 months ago my mom saw this video of this mom and daughter that would cuddle and like one of those touchy families ig and me and her do not and never have done that. Well this woman came to me after she saw it and was like talking about how she felt like maybe she wasn’t affectionate enough and I was like “no please. do not cuddle with me, i like how we are” and this bitch said “good, me too. but it just made wonder if you felt that way” 🤣🤣🤣 she’s so funny. i told her either way it’s too late now, i don’t even like when my friends are touchy with me most the time either but if i love you enough i will tolerate it 🤣🤣

[scribe-cas]

when he’s posing for the camera vs when he’s scruffy and freshly out of bed

[skitskatdacat63]

I realized I have the right clothes to dress like young Oppenheimer, so I drew my oc in my suit 🤭

I draw her in suits a lot, so the top drawing is her typical suit! But then the second one is based off my irl one 🤭

AAAAAAAAHHHHHHH MY BELOVED WIFE RÜßIE <3 SHE IS SO HANDSOMEEEE <3

I think every time I draw, I just feel more deranged about her(if that's even possible) 🥺 I love drawing her face sm

[theteaisaddictive]

making jokes about the depression/cptsd that at least 1/3 of your immediate family are dealing with is all well and good, until you have to actually. make plans with those family members.

[baltimorebullets]

I don't know how I'm feeling inside I don't know how I'm—

But I gotta go get it But I gotta go get it, I guess But I gotta go feel it But I gotta go get it

[inkydoc]

i had a great day borrowing dad's ford yesterday, power steering is both a blessing and a curse (mostly a blessing but it doesn't have the "let the wheel adjust itself back to straight by having it slide under your palms" feature of the shitty old suzuki)

man i miss driving :"D

[kavehater]

Genuinely gonna cry cause I saw the most disgusting thing ( literally what’s new I get new traumas at least once a day LMAO )