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remus lupin is all the softness sirius never got to see. remus lupin writes bad poetry in his journal. remus lupin sleeps with old jumpers in his bed. remus lupin's ideal weather is a rainstorm, so he can spend the entire day in bed reading. remus lupin gets nervous talking to other people his age. remus lupin can't walk very far without needing to sit down. remus lupin isn't very used to having friends. remus lupin is prone to wearing mismatching patterns. remus lupin's pants are never long enough to cover his ankles. remus lupin will wear his clothes until they fall apart. remus lupin cries when someone dies in the book he's reading. remus lupin likes to be held by his mother. remus lupin likes sitting in silence and drinking tea with his father. remus lupin is gentle and likes his life slow, and his greatest fear is giving in to anger.
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me when a character shoots themself in the foot: YAHOOO!!!!! YIPPEE!! DO IT AGAIN!!!!
#i love a character that self destructs#and self sabotages#just finished mdzs#this is about#jiang cheng#and also#jin guangyao#i’m having many thoughts about jc#i’m excited to read sooo much whump and fluff about him#i want to read about him tearing his hair out screaming and crying#and also read about him getting coddled and raising dogs
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I'M HEREEEE!!!!! thank you @miyameowru and @mrsokkotsu and @storiesoflilies and @cloudwisp for tagging me i love you all sooosoo much<333333 THIS WAS SO FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!










OIKAWA MY DARLING BOYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SEEING THAT MADE ME SO SO HAPPY ACTUALLY WAHH I MISS HIM SM<3333333 AND THEN TENGEN AND CHUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WAHHH I LOVE THEMM!!!!!!
AND THEN OFC MY OWN PERSONAL TEDDY BEARR and kuna and bakugo😭😭😭 i can't believe that he and sukuna are the same lmao that's so funny. aaaaaaand then we have suguru and fyodor💀💀💀💀no comment there. i think fyodor would despise me actually and suguru is a lil yandere so idk what that says abt our perfect little relationship.
OK AND FINALLY SATORU AND DAZAIII WHAT DO YOU MEANN ONLY 85% THEY ARE MY LITTLE MEOW MEOWSS THEY SHOULD BE HERE WITH ME RIGHT NOWWW RRRRAAHHHHHH
no pressure tags: @twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat @gothsuguru @staryukis @mossmotif @lxnarphase @kisstoru @ohimsummer @tirasamu @osarina @mizzfizz @sleepymarimo @hayakawalove @nappingmoon @spookuna @forest-hashira @madaqueue <33333
#ALSO FEEL FREE TO JUST MAKE YOUR OWN POST BC MINE GOT SO LONG YK#you don't have to rb this one if you don't want to!!!!!!#i just had to post them all lmao#i'm sorry the fyodor one is cracking me up a little#with suguru ok i get the 92#but with fedya???#sahdhgsadhgsahgdhagsda#i feel like he'd rather actually gut me alive than to be anything with me#AND THAT'S FINE BTW#i want him he doesn't want me some things are meant to be and some are not#hgadshgsahgdshgdhgsahgdas#OKAY BUT OIKAWA MY BABY BOYYY#OH I WOULD CODDLE THE FUCK OUT OF HIM#WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH ILOVE HIM SM#MY LOSER BF<33333333333333#i was also now trying to figure out like what IS my type then..#and i think freaks is quite literally the best way to put it#chuuya is the most normal one out of them but he has his moments anyway#and bakugo#wait but#i think i could also call them all losers#asjhsahgdshagdhgsagh#OK OK I AM GETTING WAY TOO INTO THIS#THANK YOU FOR TAGGING ME MY LOVES MWAH MWAH MWAH!!!!!!!!!#tag game#mayor of loserville
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having my nightly sexuality crisis
#i dont think i could ever love a man in a way that isnt somewhat motherly#like i want to coddle him and take care of him#but i dont want to have sex or get married.#i could do both of those with girls but not guys#i feel like i get with men so make myself feel like normal#and better about myself#would lesbian be the wrong label#I DONT UNDERSTAND SEXUALITY#kats chattin shit
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did you see the video they posted of bobby and knighter on twitter? bobby is so proud 😭
i did! made me cry alongside the whole shutout cellies with bobby during the telecast they were so :(
"Look at that relationship between Bobrovsky and Spencer Knight. They're both so close—and their relationship. You know Bobrovsky's thrilled for Spencer Knight to get this shutout."

anaheim ducks @ florida panthers | 1.18.25 (x)
#ask#randy immediately drawing attention to how close bobby and spence are#tandems :((#sorry this alongside the espn pistgame interview when they asked spence about bobby#and just went on a love tirade#i think a lot about spencer specifically mentions its not bobbys job to babysit him#but still admits that bobbys professional and the way he prepares guides him in that sense#theres something wanting to have your own identity as a goalie and not wanting to be coddled after#(not that its particularly in bobbys nature to coddle his goalie partners but you understand qhat spence us trying to get at)#anyways hes really happy for the kid :(#look at him do a high clap!! hes so proud!!!#goalies man (lights cig) goalies#LOOK AT HIM HES SO HAPPY AND THE HAPPIER HE IS THE GOOFIER HE GETS#THE BOBBY HAPPY METRIC IS OFF THE CHARTS#happy pride night at the bank indeed
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maizuru and milsiril are my favorite fucked up dungeon meshi mother figures
#dungeon meshi#maizuru#milsiril#my post#both were involved in some kind of highly skilled group (espionage/ninja work and the canaries)#maizuru and milsiril both have some aspect that makes their relationship with their sort of son innately complicated.\#maizuru has been having and affair and milsiril has biases towards short lived races#both dote heavily on them but milsiril does it more clearly in an overprotective way#their sons have complicated emotions towards them. and they’re right for that#lets see… toshiro always eats the food maizuru makes due to the love in its preparation. he doesn’t seem to have a relationship with his mok#*mom#so he was very close to maizuru#but after finding out she and his dad was having an affair he closed off from her. maizuru still heavily dotes on him however#maizuru also invented a spell to scare his child self into returning to her#and trained ninja techniques into him (I believe?)#and milsiril (though she did train him) didn’t like the idea of kabru going into dangerous dungeons#she ended up coddling him in that regard. he doesn’t know how to do household chores (but I doubt toshiro knows either LMAO)#(he probably has servants or maizuru who do it for him)#but in fighting specifically:#milsiril also trained kabru in sword fighting but unlike maizuru’s training it’s not very useful in the dungeon#now back to food:#unlike maizuru’s food the elven foods milsiril gave kabru weren’t as well received#that has to do with the different culture he’s from though#he thinks of his birth mom’s food more and had a stringer relationship with her#*stronger#despite some issues kabru says that he’s grateful for her as his foster mom (iirc)#I imagine toshiro’s probably the same way even if he wouldn’t admit it (BECAUSE MAIZURU IS FUCKING HIS DAD???)#toshiro doesn’t feel close to any of his family so his biggest connections as a kid probably would’ve been maizuru and hien.#kabru has milsiril and rin and all anyone could ever want but would never want to return to#anyways. end of essay. tldr: milfs are messy
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I feel him—
#vash the stampede#trigun#yours truly has a new man to coddle… right after i make him suffer though~#lol#man i love him! he's such a baby!#he is so… 😤#also!#did anyone say hiromu arakawa totally stole automail? no? just me? ok…#btw.#funniest shit i’ve watched for some time now ✨#not knives though.#that boy suffeeersssss… hot jeez!#i want to punch and then hug them both. no in betweens. ❤️🩹
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I'd definitely recommend going thru Caleb's myths and cards to give him a second chance. I can tell he regretted his behavior in the main story and started distancing himself.
#love and deepspace#caleb#love and deepspace caleb#hes so sad#one minute i want to punt him and the next i want to coddle him like a puppy and shield him away from all the pain hes been thru#i get it mc#hes protected mc all his life and now mc wants to protect him#i rlly do think the chip and his mental state has a Lot to do with his behavior#ya he was always insane#but it was made worse
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sometimes i remember that levi form obey me canonically really likes marine biology and that fact alone makes me want to kiss him on the mouth
#hes so cringefail i adore him#ii want to hug him and coddle him and smooch all over his face#hes so cute i love him so much#🐙! auburn's rambles <3
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Which aspects of Katsuki's personality are his honne and which are his tatemae? And which traits overlap? Could you elaborate on that?
In my opinion, almost all the things he does are both, but they are also...not. This is kinda what makes it fun, I think.
Maybe somewhere between DvK 1 and the remediation arc, I'm fairly certain his crappiest pettiness has all been absolutely truthful and honest, but the exaggerated application of it to create a specific impression has been a ploy. I'm pretty sure that it's mentioned explicitly that Katsuki likes people to assume he's dumb and brash before doing something clever so he gets them off guard, and this is kind of like that. It's better for him if others think they know his motive and are framing it as totally petty and selfish. It's not untrue, but it's not the whole truth.
Katsuki also prefers to get his point across in as few words as possible, so if you don't catch a second implication or a ham-fisted double-meaning ("I" and "we" can be ambiguous, so any statements by the end of the manga that are, like, "I'm gonna help Deku!" OR "We [as in all of 1-A, of which Bakugo is now comfortable identifying as a part of]'re gonna help Deku!" are both true at the same time), the message probably wasn't meant for you in the first place.
The most consistent trait I'd say Katsuki always has is sensitivity. He's an extremely sensitive little git, so the biggest shows of his true, unfiltered self always get me because it's when his cup runneth over so much that he can’t put any kind of spin on it: His eyes while captured by the sludge villain (upon reflection, this might be the single most important panel of the manga, actually), him totally failing to grapple with and communicate his feelings to Izuku at the end of chapter 1 (this is a bad example - instead of saying thank you or crying like a little twerp, he totally tried to front it like he didn't need Deku's help, which was about as see-through as a piece of cellophane. Idiot. Still a great moment, though), crying outside the school after DvK1 ("I'll beat you all!" Sure, kid), the moment he hits Izuku in the face during their exam against All Might (there's no freaky smile in this moment - he just freezes and hits him in unbridled anger), the end of the Sports Festival when Todoroki is knocked out - he grabs Todoroki's shirt and is about to have a breakdown (did you know this is my second-favorite moment? Did you know that the US fandom's assumptions about Katsuki's motives in this moment made me want to start beating them to death with my bare hands? Did you know I walked away from this series after that because I couldn't stand how little emotional intelligence people have in the US? Were it not for the laws of this land, I would have killed you, western BNHA fandom), DvK2...
Katsuki's emotions are big. They are probably bigger than he is, honestly. Deku's are, too, and so are several other characters, but that doesn't negate my statement.
I'm of the opinion that Katsuki throughout most of the manga, though not so much after these most recent (404 and up) chapters, is actually quite shy about anything that isn't kicking someone's ass or showing off an ability he knows he can perform well. So, sure, he can perform when ass-kicking just fine, but during interviews or simple conversations with his classmates, he clams up and/or just acts like a total bullshitter delinquent as a cover. He's a sensitive little baby and needed to be treated as such just as much as he needed to be told he could be a little shit sometimes and get his ass beat into the dirt! Both were required!
#bakugo katsuki#ask#people who say they don't like how the narrative coddles him never wanted him to do better in the first place#air quotes on coddles#because sometimes that is actually the thing that has to be done#sorry! you have to love the difficult person sometimes#sorry! Izuku loves him!#sorry! katsuki does not actually have all the power in their dynamic#in fact he does not have the power in any dynamic most of the time!#not sorry! I also fucking love him!
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*whispers* jing yuan it's jing yuan it's jing yuan we all know it's him he's mean enough for it and sweet enough for it jsjrjfkfjrjf i want to feral bite him and you write him so so well i —
hello, how do you do please ignore the above statement. Love your writing and silly ramblings and have a nice day!
nonnie PLEASE………the jy brainworms will consume me and i fear who i will become when i slowly slip into my more masochistic fantasies with him………..
yan jing yuan can be so terrifying because he perfectly orchestrates your old life to fall apart so that you must rely on him…and then he coaxes you into a routine and ohhhhh if he knows that all you need is a little discipline and positive reinforcement to be your best—most precious—self? it’s OVER for you!!!!!
FUCK i may have to write this nasty little drabble out and then see how i write the yan before choosing who to insert bc i am of so many minds; and i think maybe writing a more generic scenario first and then tailoring it to a character afterwards may help me write a bit quicker bc i’ll be more focused on the actions and dialogue rather than fretting over characterization…
thank you for being so kind about how i write him 🥺 i still feel like i’m figuring him out so it’s always so kind to hear when my characterization of him resonates with others.
anyway THANK YOU for being so sweet and for implanting this thought into my brain <3 ilysm and i hope you’re doing well! MWAH
#the beautiful think abt jy is that he can be anything you want him to/anything you need him to#i don’t think he’s inherently sadistic per se but he’s willing to tap into it bc he gets such a thrill out of your reactions#not your pain but your neediness and clinginess and how you pout and whimper and whine#he also loves to kiss your tears away i know it i know it i know it#he enjoys the aftercare/the coddling post punishment more iykwim#much to consider#— visiting card#— anon#— jing yuan#cw yandere
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thank god for having accommodating and understanding people in my life
#marzi speaks#my dad wanted me to drive today right. which. yeah i Did Need to do that#so he asked me to take him to the gas station. it’s dark out rn but i said ‘yes sure’#i mentioned being nervous bc i had never driven at night#so he goes ‘if you want i can drive us there and explain night driving as we go. then you can drive us back’#‘and if you’re not feeling confident i can pull over in the neighborhood and you can get used to it there’#i decided i’d drive us back. i did well! my dad was patient with me and gave positive feedback when i did things well so it’d solidify more#as we pulled into the neighborhood he suggested we cruise around. i went ‘ehhh’ and he said ‘all good! one step at a time’#and now i’m home. and i drove at night and didn’t die :D i even took a Left Turn . at an intersection that ppl are notoriously weird at#really really nice to have my anxiety abt driving be recognized#and also accomodated. without coddling me. i don’t get that often so i really appreciate when it does happen#been grateful for my family in general recently. mayhaps bc hospital mayhaps just bc i love them idk. doesn’t matter too much
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Thinking about Azula again...
#i need more people to understand her character and not just dismiss her as an evil person#a pawn or an emotionless husk#i need more people to understand that Ursa isnt a good parent#she married a monster and only realized her mistake after it was too late#once she had Zuko she finally had someone to pour her love into and to make her feel less isolated#so she coddled him and would spend all of her time with him#Ozai is a smart man im sure he noticed and figured out exactly why she was always preoccupied with Zuko which made him have a certain#disdain for his son which only grew as he got older and didnt meet his father's impossible standards#and then came Azula#her mother already had her perfect child so she didnt get as much attention from her#especially when she started showing certain characteristics that were reminiscent of her father#ursa was unnerved by Azula and her difficulty understanding certain things such as empathy#she was certain this child would grow up to be a monster like her father#so she never bothered trying to teach her to be better than him#which left her all to her father#who could groom her into the fire bending prodigy and brutal warrior that we knew in the show#he controlled her and manipulated her into being exactly what he wanted#a puppet and a weapon to be used as he saw fit#and when the curtains lifted ever so slightly from her eyes showing her the reality of her situation she broke#rambles#avatar the last airbender#princess azula
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#╳┆ dayne speaking ┆◜ ooc ◞#don’t mind me I’m drunk & waiting for the DND sesh to start#but I fought the fengqing demons and lost#to the utter surprise of! no one!#I do have a confession to make tho. I did not care for b.eefleaf after the black water arc.#I know. boo boo. tomatoes. fuck off#I loved them as lesbians. they lost me after banyue#anyway. remembered I can write whatever the fuck I want.#this will have dire consequences for the xianle trio because I have no intentions of letting them rest in peace#hc needs a break tho. yea im coddling him. yea it’s fatal#I’m wearing mq like an ill fitting suit and I do NOT care. I love him. I’ve adopted him.#anyway. bye now kiss kiss
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i think a lot of people coddle kuai liang too much. yes he’s good and a tortured man etc. and people see that he has struggled but don’t really see that he still is struggling and has faults. even in mk12 people aren’t really talking about how he did in fact try to kill bi-han- which yes, he would have regretted, but that is still a fault you have to see in him. he’s susceptible to fits of blind rage that will make him do things he’ll regret. his anger was justified (obviously) but he’s also capable of murdering his own brother (which once again, i am sure he would have regretted).
#like criticism of writing aside- that is who he is now. he isn’t an innocent baby who needs to be constantly coddled#he’s a nice guy he’s a great guy etc etc etc but he has these negative traits that are a part of his character#idk if infantilizing would be the right word for what i feel like this fandom does to him#as much as i talk about bihan it’s kuai liang who’s the character who i love most#mostly for sentimental reasons due to being the character i first liked#but i feel like the fandom doesn’t really appreciate him as much as they want to ‘baby’ him#and once again he’s one of the purest characters out there!! but he’s also full of a lot of pain#and in mk12 we actually saw him exert that pain into rage which almost killed bihan#and it’s a negative part of him (the consequences of his blinding rage) that we have to also accept as a part of him#this isn’t directed at anyone this is just a general problem i have with the fandom#i like him a lot and think he has faults we should also appreciate him for and that negative traits in a character don’t make them a bad#character but make them more interesting 👍#i think his anger is now brushed off as ‘oh yeah it’s justified’ and like yeah but also do you see how he almost killed bihan? how he#violently killed the guards?#how he would have done that to bihan if he was not stopped by a gaurd?#his anger is beyond something that’s just ‘justified’ it’s also something that *can* control him#and yes i’m aware he ended up sparing bihan after their fight but that’s not the point i’m making#kuai liang#talking;
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It still really gets me how sincere Andy’s grief over his potential child is. At first you think, oh this is just a weird flight of fancy for him, the idea of having a kid sounds fun but he’s not serious, but over the course of the episode you realise that, no, Andy actually wants children. It exposes something raw and depressing and lovely at Andy’s core and it just hits, how sad he is about what addiction took from him, the years and the growth and a potential life, but the hope that exists in knowing he’s getting better. Andy isn’t ready to be a father right now and it’s good for them both that Teresa chose to have an abortion, but maybe, some day when he’s ready, Andy will get to have a baby with someone who loves him.
#ANDY KING FUTURE DAD DRIVES ME CRAZY#oh you KNOW Errol would be fascinated and grossed out by the concept of pregnancy#occasionally grossed out and trying to be supportive at the same time#but also he would help organise a very cool gender neutral baby shower. it’s dinosaur themed. everyone loves dinosaurs#Tiffany would be 100% matter of fact about the whole thing. ask Andy how he even agreed to get someone to have sex with him#and Sam would be an amazing SIL during pregnancy and Bruce would also be an amazing SIL lol. love Bruce#Sam and Bruce being so loving to their SIL and coddling her and yelling at Andy when he’s even slightly annoying#Gwen would be shocked. if she’s still dating Caspar they’d freak out over whether they want kids. then decide Not To Think About That Now#Val would show up with a care package right to the hospital and croon over the new arrival#and pull Andy aside to tell him he’s gonna be a good dad. and also help postpartum or Val will kill him on behalf of his wife#Ben would be somewhat insulting. but Veronica would be a ray of unhelpful sunshine. they’re trying it’s sweet but messy#oh I love uncle so much <3#uncle bbc#bbc uncle#andy king
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