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on one hand I totally understand tropes are popular but on the other hand I think Amos is a lot more compelling as a middle aged woman trying to figure out her life after a loveless relationship than a mother figure ya know
#it's like. oh has anyone read price of salt? It's like carol. she's in a mess trying to figure things out#and dragging anyone close to her into that mess#bc she spent so long in an environment where she is both not getting enough attention from one who she wants#and getting attention from others who are 'below' her. not that she conciously sees people as below her but i think society#would tell Amos that she has a higher role on the hierarchy as Deca's lover than anyone else in mondstadt#...now i'm imagining an old mond rebellion where the original goal was something like 'tear down the walls reform deca' and then Amos joine#went 'no I'm gonna kill him' and the rebellion went '....okay that doesn't sound like a terrible idea he IS the one keeping the walls up'#nb's goal after all was to break down the walls and see the sky right not explicitly to kill a god#.......puts this idea in my pocket to maybe play with#saying that my initial idea of her was also viss er one / eva anim orphs based but sim idea. middle aged woman#upper class middle aged divorced woman amos who has her hands full dealing with the fallout of her own life and making it everyone's proble#i just really like Problematic Woman#saying that carol did kinda really mother therese but also their relationship was uhhhh unequal. Just a Bit#also viss e r one and eva are also both defined by motherhood in a way#except eva is 'long left the role behind bc the world thinks she's dead and her body isn't even hers anymore'#and vis ser one is 'she should NOT be a mother she is a whole empire's tactician for a reason'#anyway don't mind me waking up and starts rambling about Opinions bc my dream supplied me Stress of Snakes#<- thinks snakes are cool but has a healthy respect of them irl idk Where that dream came from#genshin talk
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you know I never really set out to write meta or character analysis (cause writing is hard) but if you ask me about women I just must make a huge two part essay and research everything I can about them.
#number 1 problematic woman defender#I'm joking but really I started liking Milsiril way more after this#Before I just liked her as much as any of the other female characters (a lot) but now she's really one of my faves#dunmeshi thoughts
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What do you think about gojo ships
I feel like I'm pretty indifferent to most of them. This is super cringe of me, but whenever I fall super in love with a character I don't often like shipping them romantically with anyone. 💀 (im delusional I know)
It doesn't help that for some reason the jjk fandom (especially twt) is weirdly aggressive about ships. I know it isn't all the shippers and it's mostly just the loud minority, but seeing so much of the discourse has kinda put me off and I don't really engage much with the ships in the fandom except for rarepairs and selfships bc alot of the time those communities are more wholesome and cozy (if that makes sense LOL)
#satofie best ship#andnajdjskdjksnfksndjdj im sorry im cringe 😔😔#anyways i honestly have no idea#its not even about not liking seeing him with others bc i enjoy seeing other ppls gojo × oc/selfships#i just for some reason dont really vibe with any of the existing gojo ships in the series#weirdly enough if i had to choose one i feel like sukugo is the most interesting one LOL they are so funny with eachother#i feel like in a different life they really couldve hit it off#i feel bad for gojohime shippers sometimes#like i personally dont like the ship but oh my god ppl on twitter are so mean about that ship i dont even know why ???#is it bc alot of them prefer him shipped with a guy ?? or they dont like seeing another woman that isnt them with him?? i dont know#but i see so much hate for it and it makes me sad bc like just move on or mute the account so u dont have to see it if you really hate it#the amount of times ive seen some big jjk account qrt a fanart dissing the ship while also getting more likes than the artists post is craz#why do ppl fight over fake people kissing.......#i remember this one account specifically that was obsessed with gojo but they were so snobby about it and like gatekeeping other fans#and they really hated gjhm and for some reason felt the need to make it into a problematic ship instead of just saying#i dont like this and moving on#but they made this whole thing abt how toxic they actually are bc utahime hates gojo#only to (in the same thread) gush over their fave ship which was nanago#and i felt crazy bc its......literally the same dynamic what#like am i missing something ?????#anyways this got a bit wild but pls be nice to eachother and respect eachothers ships#you dont have to justify why u dislike a ship you can just not like it#no need to turn it problematic
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Overthinking rn
#warning for incoming vent#dw I'll delete this soon#i don't have wifi in my house so i probably wont be able to see if you message me for a few days#so long ago i was on this discord server#dont worry i wasn't treated badly in there or anything they were really nice to me actually#but the majority of folks there were already mutuals so i felt like I was in the background or just bothered people#since there were a lot of times when I tried to start a conversation or say something but just came off as weird or awkward#and there was this one person who was really nice to me#whenever i posted something in there that person would always respond happily to my stuff#and when I left I still followed this person on Tumblr since I really liked their stuff#however there was something#through a friend i noticed and started to pick up on certain behaviors they displayed that seemed odd#now don't get me wrong#it wasn't anything like. genuinely problematic or anything like that. it was just odd#they seemed to have a very passive-aggressive reaction towards different character interpretations while possibly contradicting themselves#like they constantly made posts about how dumb it was for people to have an interpretation different from the canon while doing so themselve#and even throwing the “clarification” that they don't mean to come off as rude while at the same time literally doing that#for example. getting mad that people were treating x character feminine side as its whole personality and drawing them really fem#while at the same time constantly doing so themselves and even praising people who call them a woman#not to hate on any headcanons obviously. but it didn't make sense to be okay with something and then mad at that same thing#and they didn't hurt my friend directly but it did come off as rude and inconsiderate#to just bash people for having their own things#and by the end i ended up unfollowing them#i constantly think if i just acted dumb for doing so#like they were probably just sharing an option and thats it#but then i think of my pal#and uhhhh idk guys#its confusing#my mind tries to convince me im just exaggerating for doing so#this topic causes turmoil in my head
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one of the best Fandom Discourse Topics is the one about how this female character i have minimal to no interest in is TOO GOOD for my male blorbo. she can do MUCH BETTER he's A CRAP BOYFRIEND and so that's why he has to be paired with my other male blorbo, who lacks The One Braincell and thus will believe himself to be in a wholesome loving relationship in the endless fluffy fanfic i will read/write about him and BLORBO, THE WORST POSSIBLE CHOICE for that female character.
obviously i ship her with this woman she interacted with in one scene, who is also SUCH A QUEEN YASSSSSS. god i love this wholesome lesbian ship between these two women who probably don't even know each other's full names <3 <3 <3 i might even hit reblog on a gifset of their one scene together someday. i probably won't, but i might.
so anyway back to blorbo and how amazing he is, i bet he'd be a great boyfriend for this other white guy.
#this is not a fandom-specific complaint (in case you were wondering)#there's an essay to be written about the increasing use of surface-level-progressive ways to get rid of the women in our fandoms.#like really. it shows that we know we shouldn't be doing it but we don't actually want to stop so let's just say they're lesbians.#BONUS POINTS - this means anyone shipping her with a man is now automatically homophobic :D#at this point i personally feel like it might just be best to ignore the women entirely if you have no real interest in them?#because the pretending does tend to look performative and like you want to make other fans problematic so you can 'win' by default#fandom wank#god forbid a fictional woman want that absolute waste of space ugly abusive bastard who i love more than life itself!!
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I think my favorite thing about night country so far genuinely is just letting women be fucking pieces of shit. I'm so serious.
#like when was the last time we had a mainstream piece of media depict a woman being just a genuine asshole like jodie foster? I'm serious#if a woman is problematic it's always in very specific passive-agressive ways and never do we have it in a main character#who is an OVERT piece of shit. like I fucking love that.#she's in conversation with all the male asshole characters who have come before her and I really love jodie foster's character for doing#that. I really do.
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tamsyn could say two characters fucked nasty and people would still interpret it as platonic. And they might be right, depending
#harrow & ianthe fucked nasty and it was platonic on harrow's end. tbh#i truly do not get all the (redacted) hate tho. people who aren't interested in other ships just don't interact with those ships#like if you want cam corona friendship content you just make some!#but no one's saying they can't possibly be romantic etc#if it was just about the level of problematic content then we could have a field day with every openly abusive dynamic that ppl still ship#or. hell i saw augustine/ianthe the other day. i've seen john/ianthe#that woman is a whole lesbian hggjjklll#like this is barely headcanon. hanging onto *not* being canon by a fucking thread. she shows as much interest in men as harrow#i don't get what it is about this one ship in particular#just make platonic content! most of the shippers will enjoy that angle too#i really like platonic (redacted) as well it's just every platonic redacted post ends in 'and here's why they're canonically confirmed#to be exclusively platonic do not ship!!!'#and that's just factually untrue#nothing is actually confirmed and i think that was a deliberate choice#because that's not the point. the point is their weird ride or die codependent relationship and it#doesn't actually make that big a difference whether it was platonic or romantic imo? it's exploring similar themes either way#people just have their preferences
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my favorite tumblr phenomena is people reading greek myth retelling offline, doing a little bit of research, then logging on to be like wait [x character] is a bad person?
#listen i dont think that these people are dumb or anything and i think they have a passion for this stuff thats really admirable#its just that the way that fandom (which is why these retellings are written imo) isnt equipped to handle de-problematizing an entire#culture yknow. most fandoms can't even handle having a woman or a complex character without flattening them into a stereotype#so like its not surprising. kinda sucks though. is x character really a bad person or a complicated representation of an ancient culture's#values. pop quiz rn#talking tag#actually i reread this and i want to say ancient hellenic culture isnt a monolith. fandom isnt equipped to de-problematize ONE culture let#alone a whole bunch of interconnected cultures
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kinda wish people would stop giving mattel so many asspats for their cheap soulless hamfisted diversity that only exists so they can get a bunch of free publicity articles written about how woke they are and get away from the "fashion dolls turn little girls into brainless makeup addicted sluts" narrative and you can tell that all of this diversity is only for sales bcs 1) its all badly written and empty and also they literally hired a white cishet woman as their diversity adviser (amy thompson look it up) 2) their slogan is literally "empowering the next generation through play" which like. the word empowering literally only exists to be a meaningless marketing buzzword
#reminds u of their genderfluid doll line they immediately cancelled bcs it didnt sell and only existed to get articles written about#also they sure preformed a lot of self congratulatory autofellatio to themselves for their First Trans Doll of laverne cox like#they didnt totally butcher the doll and it looks nothing like her#her eyes are so close together she looks like the bully flounder from spongebob#not that any celebrity doll really looks like the celebrity theyre supposed to be but like#laverne cox is a beautiful woman with normal spaced apart eyes i dont know how anyone could look at the doll and be like yup looks great#definitely not like an alien#also its like the ugliest half red leather half tulle dress they put her in??#these outfits are planned months in advance it does not have to be this way#white glitter tights underneath its a mess#thats not problematic or anything i am just bitter
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through all the practice sawashiro fights ive done this morning ive decided he has a really weird grudge against eri for whatever reason
#snap chats#IM CRYING#THE PAST LIKE FIVE RUNS HE'S TARGETED HER THE MOST#there was a run where joon-gi got the shit of it but for the most part it's just been eri#and she'll be on the cusp of health and ill be like 'well i can just heal next turn' and then Next Turn happens and he beelines for her#LIKE LEAVE HER ALONE SHE JUST SELLS CRACKERS WHAT IS YOUR DAMAGE. feminist king he's prioritizing the woman#bro found out her company's called 'ichiban confections' and saw red. literally Lol Hi Ichi#anyway. ive figured a new strat to get out of his second phase faster since that's The Problematic Phase#in my notes it says to buy two (2) rocket launchers before leaving sotenbori but i cant ?? find out where the second one's meant to go#one of them's meant for kiryu but after the kiryu fight i have in my notes to buy two more so. and you can only hold two launchers#this aint RE4 shit where you can just rocket launcher your way through the game LMAO#but yeah BEGRUDGINGLY listening to yokoyama's speedrun advice for once#ive routed in a rocket launcher as soon as the second phase starts#with any luck At Most i'll only have to deal with one or two cane strikes#so if i can just buff out the timing then this fight shouldn't be all that scary anymore#im slightly skeptical on my numbers since in this file i have adachi was one level short of getting the essence of shield rupture#so i had to do a little extra grinding but i dont think it'll be that different from a live run. i just want to perfect the guarding anyhow#y7's stats arent really revolved around your party member's levels its more around their equipment. level's important sure but not overly s#i thiiiink im getting better at it: ive figured that when he uses vile mutilation during the first phase it's a quicker guard vs vile enmit#just gotta get the feel of it down..#after my class i think im gonna have a Boss Fight Practice stream#im p sure i have a speedrun save right before the millenium tower and i think im gonna quickly make kiryu and ishioda ones#since im right here anyway#ok by i have twenty minutes Until that class lmao
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Got very weirded out when this viewer got into "Bayonetta didn't have to hide her femininity or be one of the guys to be powerful" because I thought for sure a Viola dig was imminent.
#I get what these type of comments are getting at but it's also always like.#'one of the guys' name a female character that ever really gets to be one of the guys.#like every time someone has to complain about the death of femininity whenever a woman so much as wears pants#and every time we have to put down this hypothetical woman who hates (typically an incredibly narrow definition of) femininity#and is 'one of the guys'#as if female characters who are 'one of the guys' is some sort of highly problematic epidemic#I just think you can celebrate Bayonetta being feminine and powerful without going 'thank god she's not masculine in any way'#there's also a point where I'm like 'yeah ripping the heads off of angels that's a girlish thing to do'
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euphoria 🚬
#now watching#so i decided to watch euphoria the week before midterms#are high schoolers actually like this in america nowadays 💀#this is just making me hate men more <3#nate and his whole fucking gang#HIGH SCHOOLERS#my confidence watching this with my mom around 😩#jules lying around for male attention WOMAN RUN WHILE YOU CAN#the internet spoiled a lot but im still just as shocked 😅#not the man literally coming and going LMFAO#NAWT A FAMILY MAN (not to mention jules is lichrally a minor god this show had a checklist of problematic themes and ticked all of them#fezco 🥺#JULES MY GIRL YOU ARE INSANE#i’d be impressed too#rue stares in gay at jules lmfao is this a start of a friendship or smth more#RUE IS AN ABSOLUTE LOOP 😭 i just know she feels like she’s flying rn#DO YALL REALLY MEET DRUGGED OUT PPL AND TAKE THEM HOME OUT THERE???? FR???#their chemistry tgt tho#what a crazy ass introduction to all the characters#plot’s so thick right off the bat god damn#IS ALL THIS SLASH PLATONIC OR SLASH GAY#ok ep 1 done damn what a wild ride#borderline p*** and romanticization of everything teenagers shdnt be doing :D
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ok yeah maybe I am just a very petty little bitch so what?
#drama in the discord :/#I think I'm entitled to be a little bitch about the position football has in my country's society though#yes even in the channel that people have been clogging up with their world cup posting lately#I think I've been very considerate so far considering my burning hatred for football#like I've really been holding back#and you say one little thing and people come running to the mods#and like literally a) I can be reasoned with just like please maybe fucking talk to me#b) if you're so fucking fragile about your passion that the slightest bit of hint that other people might not be super happy about#that thing when it's like very much a deeply problematic thing for a billion reasons then idk I can't help you#also c) if this is coming from [redacted] bitch I'm so fucking sorry you never learned to read and can't have a normal conversation#and can't take criticism from a woman :/ hope the misogyny gets better 😔#this guy I swear he's so lucky I haven't banned him yet despite having the power to do so#considering what an enormous dick he is
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Tumblr on the Seven Seas
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Can we stop all normalising the use of "sc*rvy" as a fun little thing to call people?? I literally had sc*rvy last year and it was even worse than when I got my hand cut off. Fuck anyone who uses the S word without even considering how triggering it can be to those of us who have ACTUALLY suffered though it
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No wenches?
🏴☠️ white-beard Follow
Honestly you people are so insufferable I genuinely hope you walk the plank
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AHOY???
🍑 plundermebooty Follow
Okay but OP is literally a landlubber, mateys
🌴 pegmeg
nahhh why is it literally always landlubbers faking scurvy and sending plank threats ☠☠
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everyone says "land ho!" but never "land ma'am"
💨 matelotsaboteur
Really makes you think
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this whole crew was so gullible ngl, i just cut my hair and dressed in my fathers clothes and they all fell for it, hook line and sinker??
💃 crossdressing101 Follow
honestly im surprised no one has found me out yet. surely i dont seem that much like a man? i mean it makes this way easier but like. im still a woman. obviously
🕺 crossdressing101 Follow
mateys i have come to a shocking realisation,
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wildest argument for piracy i've ever heard was that the gold stored on government ships is dangerous cause it weighs them down, so they're just 'lightening the load'
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աaռռa ʟɨֆȶɛռ ȶօ ֆɨʀɛռ ֆօռɢ?
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no thanks
🕶 monstermaterdeactivated16520210
outta my way gayboy im boutta get it
🕶 monstermaterdeactivated16520210
i have drowned at sea
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i am SO sick of the term "ship-shape" like, matey, which shape?? Ships come in so many fucking shapes like have non of you ever boarded more than one vessel in your career???? Anyway fake ship fans DNI with this post i can NOT be bothered with your tomfuckery today
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girl its not that deep ☠
🌏 boat-enthusiast Follow
to YOU. i just get it
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honestly being held for ransom isnt that bad. kinda nice to be held
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SQUAWK
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CAW SQUAWK SQUAWK
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CA-CAW
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the cabin boy just winked at me?? after offering to help clean my gun? privately. in my quarters. tonight.
🍑 plundermebooty Follow
i think i hauve scurvy
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mateys I SWEARR my captain and his first mate are gonna kiss before our next voyage. they literally have so much romantic tension every time i see them its nauseating
🕶 longjohngolderdeactivated16511205
wtf its so problematic and harmful to ship real people?? unfollowing rn i thought you were better than this
🌊 swabmydick Follow
i literally rob and kill people for a living?????? that's where you draw the line???
🌴 pegmeg
op killed them
🌊 swabmydick Follow
even better news mateys, they kissed ☠☠☠
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Daemon literally choked Rhaenyra on the show and not in a kinky way.
I think I vaguely remember hearing about this?
Which is...certainly something in the face of all the "wife guy" jokes I also and more consistently heard about Daemon.
Also certainly something that the consistent violence by men toward women on GoT was (rightfully) criticized, but I haven't seen reams of Discourse™ about this particular ship.
(Also certainly something else that Cersei was always blamed for every single thing in regard to her relationship with Jaime and you never heard the fucking end of it, but whatever Daemon does is fine for some reason? misogyny the reason is misogyny)
And again. People can ship whatever they want. People can like characters who aren't good people. I don't think this ship (i.e. D/R) would be particularly interesting to me (for a variety of reasons), but I'm not going to say that someone is a Horrible Person™ for shipping it. Just don't try to weirdly moralize a dynamic like this by saying that it has no problems? To the point where it's some strange Exception™ to what you would otherwise consider a completely unacceptable thing to explore in fiction? Genuinely, what does that accomplish. It really is just the hypocrisy for me.
You can like a fraught or unhealthy or problematic or [insert similar adjective here] fictional dynamic. I like plenty of those. But I don't understand this trend of going, "Well my preferred type of Dark Fictional Content is acceptable and fine for THESE arbitrary reasons. The rest of you should burn in hell for the Dark Fictional Content YOU enjoy though," and it is starting to get insufferably annoying.
#multi t(ASK)ing#tw: incest mention#tw: domestic violence#tw: choking#I did not fight in the TRENCHES for YEARS and get HARASSED AT CONS for people to turn around and pull this shit lmao#(still thinking of that one time I got hit on with an incest joke BY A PANEL MODERATOR IN FRONT OF AN AUDIENCE because I was#cosplaying cersei.......truly you can't make this shit up)#you really can just say 'this example of this narrative device worked for me and this other one didn't' and leave it at that. no one#will die if you do that I promise. it's really easy.#you can also say 'I like exploring [x] topic and not [y] topic'. this is also really easy and no one will die if you do it.#and like. again 'a man is flawed a woman is a one-dimensional bitch' we know this we know this is how fandom operates#but I think there's also something to be said here about pRoBLeMaTiC m/f dynamics where the man is considered the worse person#vs where the woman is considered the worse person. the first one is interesting and edgy-in-a-cool-way and somehow becomes#generally palatable to a large portion of the audience. and the second is...you're the devil incarnate for finding it interesting. or at th#very least you will be disparaged/made fun of if not outright harassed for having any kind of positive reception to it. (and then a lot#of times if it's a show they'll extend this behavior to the irl actresses who play these characters)#salty mc13 is salty#and I REALLY don't want this to come across as me saying 'anyone who likes this character is Automatically A Raging Misogynist'#or 'if you find something interesting in this dynamic you Inherently Suck As A Person' I'm just tired of how wildly fucking inconsistent#ya'll (general fandom 'you' I mean) are in regard to how you evaluate and process fiction. either you think this topic is Always Bad#To Write About or you don't. you don't get to say Always Bad Except For The Times I Enjoy It that's not how it works that's not how#media/literary analysis works!!!!!
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taylor swift changed better than revenge boooooo I hate her now
#I listened to this song specifically to see if the lyrics changed and they did#idc if it's problematic or whatever bc it's really not that bad#for those of you that don't know. the original lyric is 'she's better known for the things that she does on the mattress'#which yeah okay I get it but it's really not that offensive AND it's an old song. it's not like she wrote that line today#the new line is like 'he was a moth to the flame she was holding the matches' or something like that#the entire song is about hating a woman bc of a man so having one questionable line isn't that bad I swear#yeah the line is repeated but like. who cares#she probably has worse lyrics idk I'm not a swiftie especially not now#just own the bad lyrics bro don't change them#this is a joke post btw I don't actually care#except I do#Sera
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