#i just hate being on this blog rn
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bunnyboy-juice · 10 months ago
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NO MORE ASSOCIATING THINGS WITH FEMMES ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE PINK!HYPERFEM FEMMES ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU CAMPY FEMMES WHO EMBODY PINK BUT ALSO JESUS CHRIST CAN YOU GUYS NOT GO MORE THAN ONE DAY W/O TRYING TO SHOEHORN FEMMES INTO BEING ONLY PINK UWU BABIES. I AM FEMME AS IN GRASS AS IN DIRT AS IN TREE BARK AS IN WEEDS SPROUTING THROUGH THE SIDEWALK CEMENT. FEMME AS IN GENDER NONCONFORMITY AS IN FUCK YOU MY FEMININITY IS WHAT *I* SAY IT IS. FEMME AS IN DEPTH AND DARKNESS AND WARMTH AND TERROR. FEMME AS IN CAVES. FEMME AS IN LIGHTNING. FEMME AS IN AN AMALGAMATION OF TRAITS THAT I HAVE DECIDED ARE FEMININE REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY SAYS. FUCK IS IT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!???
#personal#i am emotional yes#over the years ive had this blog I've made a few posts abt being femme#nd whether they're serious or jokey..... inevitably someone in the tags goes “ohhh yeah bc pink”#or in the case of what inspired this post: someone going “what about the pink ones” on my praying mantis post#and im just.#sick of it. im sick of femme being equated to pink and frilly girlie behaviors.#im sick of femme being equated to skirts and heels. to makeup. to skincare. to pristine nails exactly almond shaped.#im sick of ppl acting like All femmes aspire to this shit. im sick of femms being reduced to this shit.#and i love pink! i love pink! my phone theme is quite literally just black and pink all over.#im just. so tired of any expression of Femme identity being shoehorned into being a Specific type of femininity#especially as someone who DOES get dysphoric wearing skirts. wearing dresses. embodying the femme aesthetic yall are so set on making#if u guys wanna rb this i truly dont care#i just needed to scream#and this is one small thing#but the 2nd largest category of anon hate i have gotten since making this blog is str8 up homophobia from other “queer” folks#saying i cant be femme bc of how i present. calling me slurs (and using them as such) bc they cant understand femme as anything but that#my wife and i have our users in our personal discord server set as 2 different things of anon hate ive gotten#i have had OTHER FEMMES tell me i am not femme. femmes who Know im femme who still call me butch. femmes who ive corrected and been blocked#-by bc of it. the number 1 largest demographic of queerfolk who have me blocked rn is TME femmes who embody pink also#and i dont think its a coincidence at all. (and i know this bc i go to try and follow these ppl bc they get rbed on my dash & i cant)#and ik their blogs arent deleted bc some of them don't block my wife (tall. white. butch) and it cant be politics cause her and i rb#a lot of the same political shit (fuck. i think she rbs More than i do even. this is genuinely mainly a nsft blog)#and usually i don't say anything but im having a bad day so i get to be angry about this and if anyone fucking tries me i will block u#idc if we've been mutuals 4ever. im judt so tired of feeling like i am not Enough as a femme bc i dont embody this shit#im sick of this lameass lip service to he/him gnc femmes etc when the thin white 50s housewife femme is still what is preferred and loved#im sick of this lamesss lip service when y'all feel entitled to theorizing on other femmes genders bc u cant conceptualize a femme who does#wanna be hypetfeminine. im sick of it. im sick of it. im sick of it.#celebrity bun
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solariex · 3 months ago
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yeahh uh who wants to know how my break from the red blog is ?? basically this
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alsoo bonus because i thought it was funny LMAOO
(also also if both look like red avm its cause im a red fictive (but i also go by marz) who ironically runs the blog woww plural system stuff i bet i havent said that 50 times by nowwww—💥💥💥)
#if anyone wants to know about the dream#all i remember is putting ooc in the tags 'wow guys i really need to fix my tagging system its a mess' LMAOO#and i think red was in a forest not minecraft then#anyways tag ramble time I HATEEE BREAKS#you guys dunno how bad i wanna post again#but if you remember greens influencer arc i have accidentally halfway gone through that whoopssss#<- mostly with perfectionism stuff and the 'this is for you guysss' stuff and ect ect overcompensating you know the drill#and holy hell i had a 20 day daily posting streak before i broke it so ??? i dunno how i did that#but nooope my mental health is sucky rn i need to focus on that first aside from silly red in minecraft </3#but when i decide to go back to posting I'll end the red in a cave part cause I HATEE HOW DRAGGED ON I MADE IT </3#because i was like 'oh ill make an animation and then move on !!'#because i thought i could make an 8 second animation in 2 days because i made a small gif in 5 hours NOOOPE#and then i got burnout#no idea if ill finish the animation for the actual blog ill either finish it and make it a main post later on and just make drawings#or ill finish it over my break and all#although that ones rlly unlikely i need to noot overestimate my silly little animation skills guys </3#blessing and a curse of being an overachiever LMAO#BUT DW my plan is catching up on asks then moving on from the cave stuff#so if you wanna send an ask for red in the cave then probablyyyy it before im off break </3#which hopefully wont be long i miss posting lmaoo#oh my gosh this is like a wall of text i need to stop yapping in tags#( <- i say but itll probably never happen )#solar draws#alan becker#avm red#red avm#ava red#red ava#animator vs animation#animator vs minecraft
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chiangyorange · 3 months ago
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I just had some violent flashbacks of the peepaw polls. Hit me like a truck
hey bestie did u mean to drag my ass down with you
#i still hold rottmnt near and dear to my heart but my god. that experience was certainly something man. truly a once in a lifetime event#that i do NOT care to repeat my god. i know im in a place of privilege bc i got so far in the tourney but like. some of the fan base was#NOT very friendly to some folks at all and i did not care for it. meaning that any of those people i do NOT fuck with at all it was NOT tha#deep. chill out. i hated what that subsection of the fandom turned into and i hated that i might have participated in it and therefore#enabling it whether intentional or not. i just wanted to have fun.#people were getting Way too comfortable being mean and getting too comfortable putting certain blogs on pedestals which inevitably turned#certain spaces into like. worshiping those poor people who just wanted to run a blog for funny turtles. and i wanted NOTHING of that#i already did my time doing that (being the one to put a blog on a pedestal) and i do not want another fucking repeat of that oh my god it#was so fucking exhausting and a kick to the face when i got left with nothing at the fall out bc im pretty sure i didnt do shit but thats#unrelated so do not ask me about it#MAN THAT WAS BEFORE MY GMA DIED THATS CRAZY#anyway i didnt mean to turn this into a semi vent essay fucking oops#suffice to say i was going through uhhhhhh A Lot before i found and got way too into whatever the fuck im into rn#chiangy answers#anyway. any turtle followers that still look at this blog#lol. that was part of why i silently bowed out of rottmnt so silently
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chipjrwibignaturals · 2 months ago
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It’s weird how reactionary and non open minded you are about the criticism of men. If someone is lighting someone’s house on fire, we shouldn’t ignore the person whose house is on fire and who is calling for help. People like you who have issues with the public discussion of women’s issues need to take a long hard look at yourselves and wonder why you become so irate and struggle with the idea of women voicing concern about physical violence, rape, assault, fraud, etc.
so first off anon, this was never the point i was making?? these are the only 2 posts i can think of in recent memory this ask could be about and in BOTH scenarios i am NOT complaining about people voicing real and valid struggles and concerns. i am complaining about people openly and solely declaring that they Hate Men, because i feel like it adds absolutely nothing productive and only harms the overall feminist journey towards progress by alienating/villianizing half the population for something they cant control. saying 'i hate men' is not a "public discussion of women's issues", sorry! venting? sure-- but so was my post.
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mars-ipan · 6 months ago
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so funny to me how ppl on tumblr will read a post that says, within the post, SEVERAL times, “hey this isn’t super well-thought out discussion and shouldn’t be treated as such i’m just sharing an individual opinion and my word should not be taken as fact” and then refuse to understand that whether they agree or disagree with the op
#marzi speaks#before anyone asks this isn’t a reference to anything in particular. just a trend i’ve noticed here#someone will go ‘i’m kinda emotional rn so this post probably won’t be the most well-constructed i’m kinda just venting’#and then either be like ‘THIS OPINION IS THE ONLY CORRECT OPINION TO HAVE THANK YOU OP FOR BEING RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING AND TEACHING US’#or ‘UMMMM no fuck this. fuck you. this one sentence felt vaguely aggressive to me and therefore you are WRONG and HATEFUL’#‘and you need to apologize to me and everyone else bc you’re being a Shit Person’#like genuinely. i know this is the piss on the poor website but can we learn critical thinking. please#like we need to consider intended message. intended audience. and intended impact#if someone making a vent post on their blog with 20 followers uses highly emotional language#that is not them presenting a subjective argument as objective!#intended message: op is experiencing a negative feeling#intended audience: their 20 followers who know and understand that this is just someone expressing a frustration#intended impact: little to none. maybe receive comfort or validation#not every post made on the internet is someone giving a college lecture or a speech or even standing on a soapbox#it’s like hearing someone mutter to themselves in public and deciding that they were trying to teach a class#also not everyone who disagrees with you is trying to change your mind#that’s another thing i’ve noticed. many folks here view disagreements as a thing to be won and moralized. it’s kinda shit imo#anyways post done. funnily enough i feel the need to disclaim that this is not a smart mars post this is a ‘this thing annoys me’ mars post
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trans-estinien · 20 days ago
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Hello, thoughts on warframe
i dont go there and its not really my cup of tea. the art style isnt really my thing but i dont hate it out of spite like destiny :)
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ketchup-chup · 2 months ago
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Hi, I wanted to ask this on your other blog but you have anons off and I am a little shy. In the tags of one of your posts you said that Reborn being confirmed as Aria's dad would have bad implications for his character. Can you expand upon that? I like the idea of Reborn being Aria's dad so I would like to know why it would be bad for him to be?
Hello anon. Thank you for your question. You see, there was a time period in which if you asked me this question I would have happily answered and wrote up a whole post about my point and even provide images from the manga and anime as evidence. However, due to the recent events on my other blog (where I kept getting me getting weird and rude anons). I do believe I would need to fear for my life if I were to share such a controversial opinion so publicly at the moment. There is someone out there who wishes for my head on a spike /hj /lh
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neoncityrain · 1 year ago
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genuine question to folks i dont talk to on the daily: how do i go about making myself less intimidating? im constantly scared to step out of my bubble, but i also am a little tired of getting zero contact from others when i repeatedly ask for art requests / questions / ect ;-; i know im not a popular artist but at least i could try looking less like a threat?
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stormyrainyday · 4 months ago
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rain use a consistent tagging system to find ur posts challenge level impossible
for my own reference, we have
genshin
genshin impact, [character] genshin impact, ship name (if applicable)
ex. fanart of baizhu/zhongli would be #baizhu genshin impact, zhongli genshin impact #genshin impact, #zhongzhu
stardew valley
stardew valley, [character] stardew valley
ex. #stardew valley, #sam stardew valley
beyblade
beyblade, beyblade metal fight/x/burst, beyblade burst [season, because theres SO MANY], [character full name, given then family], [character] beyblade (if no full name available)
ex. #beyblade, #beyblade burst, #beyblade burst turbo, #fubuki sumiye
legend of zelda
the legend of zelda, [game name], [character] legend of zelda, [character] game name
ex. #the legend of zelda, #majoras mask, #anju legend of zelda, #anju majoras mask
other anime
[show name], [character full name, name as used in show (wrt given or family first)]
ex. #blue lock, #bachira meguru
slay the princess
slay the princess, [route/character], voice of the [voice]
ex. #slay the princess, #happily ever after, #the long quiet
books
[book], [series (if applicable, and not the same title as the book)], [character full name (if available)], [character] [series] (if full name unavailable), [ship name (if applicable)]
ex. #the hollow boy, #lockwood and co, #anthony lockwood, #lucy carlyle, #lucewood
med school yaps - #hashtag med school chronicles. occasionally #medblr
chronic illness yaps - #chronic illness posting
misc yaps - #from rain
fic updates and posting - usually just the from rain tag, but the current long fic (so who was I to you, my love?) is #wwity. may start using #rain writes if I remember and can't come up with something less stupid
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astramachina · 6 months ago
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self-reblog spam because i came dangerously close to deleting everything off the face of the planet for the second time in two months 👍🏽
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gravityfalls4life · 10 months ago
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first, "I saw this one video once where when signing up on some website, it asked for your sexuality, and straight wasn't even an option anymore,"
I'm pretty sure i've seen that video/image as well. maybe the photo i saw was different from the video you're talking about, but the photo at least contained heterosexual. which. y'know. is literally just the fancy word for straight. and even if it didn't jave heterosexual as an option, it could have been out of context recorded from a LGBTQ+ resource that was not meant for straight individuals.
second, i have literally never seen anyone who has "identified as a chair." and even if they did, more power to them? ain't hurting anyone, i've never seen anyone be im anyone's face about neogenders and all that. some people are just like "my relationship with gender is complicated and i don't know how to explain it from a human standpoint, but in a way this animal, inanimate object, or concept resounds with me in a gender-based context."
and there's no exaggeration. we're just loud and proud
Sir/Madam/Whatever else there is nowadays:
This is a Gravity Falls blog
I'm sorry if I offended you with my OPINION, but if you want to complain,
Complain to my everything-blog:
@myverynormalacc
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epsilontauri · 11 months ago
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hold up you know what i’m mad as hell.
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mapofthemazeinthemirror · 1 year ago
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I'm convinced people who leave their blog blank are people who just go through writer's masterlists and don't actually follow or view the rest of the blog, so they don't even see posts begging them to not be blank or explaining why.
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ef-1 · 1 year ago
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this is not a question or whatever I just wanted to tell you how much I love your blog. I have been following you for years and I really think you are one of few blogs that is actually enjoyable to follow and not just a black hole of hate. Hope you're doing well!!!
this is so sweet bb thx a trillion :((
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insufferablemonsters · 1 year ago
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if i had 1 super power, it would be not having to sleep ever bc then i’d finally have time to do the things i enjoy </3
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dandyshucks · 1 year ago
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i wish i could experience the unbridled joy of making overpowered super capable and charming mary sue OCs and self-inserts because that always looks so fun and I absolutely adore seeing other people's, but unfortunately I love lame characters way too much to ever do that fjdkdl, if I don't make a character somewhat goofy and (often painfully) mediocre then I will simply up and abandon them entirely because I find nothing interesting in them
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