#i have 0 contacts with her

[just-another-bored-killjoy]

i was in the same room as my first human crush today after what seems forever.

[littlelightfish]

I would like to remind people that Chilchuck hasn't seen his wife in 4 years.

So he maybe wasn't there to see his daughters become adults, but he was there for the majority of their childhood.

When he left, Mayjack and Flertom were 12, and Puckpatty was 10. They reach adulthood at 14, so maybe yes, he was absent when they were still kids, but that doesn't mean he didn't maintained contact with them afterwards as far as I know. The thing he uses around his neck was a gift from Flertom, and he was using it when he met Laios's party.

[defiledtomb]

you know when you're going through a high stress situation that is prolonged and agonizing but you've put on a brave face and you think you've got this! 💪 and then a week into it you accidentally burn your quinoa and there's smoke and all of a sudden your skin is sloughing off and you feel like alice about to be swept away in a tide of her own tears? mmnnmm yeag.

[softceleste]

The fact I honestly thought I'd pull off playing College Craze and being normal about it, and then less than a week later I've already played it multiple times, made a duel MC au, a Pinterest board, and recreated some of the PopMe pages, is genuinely not lost on me.

[an--artistic--autistic]

part of me really loves having friends and being in a community, and the other part feels exhausted from interacting with people and wants to ghost everyone and move cities

[starwarsanthropology]

Found a way to make darman and etian work as in canon for my clones r trans brainworms trans darman w phallo and etian just is daydreaming abt having kids so hard she accidentally uses the force to trans his gender even more

[johndonneswife]

someone really should be talking about how difficult it is to plan a wedding - a gay wedding - when both of your families fucking suck

[dirt-str1der]

Thinking nonstop and reflecting on my past and the people i have talked with whom i now hate. Badly

[heartshattering]

God I truly need to sleep

[ghxstkn1fe]

i few like a lot of you have forgotten that the riptide pirates are in no way safe. the electrodon is dead but. like. there ship is also fucking dead and they have no way off or any way to call for help.

[carveus]

Come out to my Mother as Nonbinary:

Not always great with the pronouns, but specifically went out of her way to get me an ungendered birthday card.

Come out to my Father as Nonbinary:

0 comments or questions, but a bright pink birthday card "For my Daughter"

[artsycloudysleepy]

Here to go! Sorry for not making you art I’m tired lol

*SCREAMS*

OH MY STARS THANK YOU SO MUCH :0000

THIS HAS MADE MY DAY I LOVE HOW YOU DRAW THEM!!! TYSM!!!

:D

(edit: why do i ramble so much in tags lol. at least it's an awesome thing to ramble abt :D)

[quietwingsinthesky]

Tossing 🙉 back at u :3 (also 🤝)

How do they react to silence?

I think, from what I've seen of spaceships on good old doccy who, they are never quiet. Not just TARDISes (though Even would love that they are so. well. expressive.) space travel is just noisy in an ambient hum sort of way. A noisy ship is a good ship, a functional ship. A silent ship is bad. The only silent part of space travel is space.

And that's why Even would get so anxious if things were fully quiet around them. With their feet firmly on the ground, they'd get nervous if they couldn't hear anything. It's like a background check constantly running: Can I Hear Things Working: IF yes -> everything is fine. IF no -> we are all about to die.

How do they react to being touched by another person?

very dependent on the person! touch-starved even real and true, but touch-anxious(?) even! also very real! you must approach them like they are a spooked horse and you are the last horsegirl on the ranch who needs them to win the big horse race. treats are very helpful in this regard.

In all seriousness, it's all about trust. Once that's established, Even is. I hesitate to say cuddly. It's more like, they do not understand personal space, do not want to understand personal space, and will insinuate themself into whatever position puts them in the most contact with the person they want to touch. (And very appreciative of things that act as an extension of touch when it can't be supplied, such as getting to wear the Doctor's coat.) They warm up to Jack extremely quick because he's just Like That about casual physical touch, and they enjoy it very much. Once they've befriended Donna, they want to be holding her hand or leaning against her whenever she's nearby. Their first time round with the Doctor, they are constantly reaching for him or returning his touch, easily and happily.

And the second time round, they. aren't. They're skittish about letting him touch them, and they only allow it if they can initiate it and end it on their terms. Even then, it's never going to be an easy thing again, but it isn't unwanted. It will never be unwanted.

And then the Master is. at a certain point, and a lot of boundaries drawn, crossed, redrawn, crossed again, and then forgotten altogether on both sides, and way too much time spent in each other's pockets, it ends up that Even doesn't really register the Master touching them as another person touching them. or. maybe it'd be more accurate to say that the Master touching them doesn't feel to them like the Master touching someone else. That it's more akin to someone touching an object they own to make sure it's still there, or even scratching their own arm to make sure they can feel it. And in turn, Even has even fewer boundaries with them then they managed to develop for other people.

[smol-tired-binch-blog]

Cabaret Club Thoughts

Hello, time for another round of me gathering my thoughts from Discord and editing them into a Tumblr post :)

Okay so, real talk, I have even more to say about Cabaret Club. I love it, don’t get me wrong, I’ve put HOURS into it (years of time management games prepared me for this), but there is a LOT of room for improvement. Here’s what I think they shoulda done:

- Because the Platinum Hostesses are the only ones who get to be Actual Characters with default identifiable outfits, they should be the only ones you cannot makeover. Maybe give em accessories, but give em differing stats that Cannot Be Changed. I only ever changed Yuki’s dress, but everyone else is so Recognisable why would I ever want to change them? (That and I rely on hair and outfits to be able to tell characters apart so I would Quickly Forget Who Is Who sdfcgvbhjnkml) That way ya can also give em varying body types and appearances and get a lil more diversity and creativity in their character designs 

(okay yes I later learned they’re all based on Actual Real Life Women but I feel like RGG should have a go at designing more female characters without just...well, doing that. Just a suggestion.)

 - Instead, make it so I can makeover ALL THE OTHER HOSTESSES as much as I please! I can fiddle with their stats for different customer bases, and that way it'll be less noticeable that they all need the same/similar body types to make asset swapping easier. AND that means there'll be even MORE girls to makeover and therefore have fun mixing and matching looks!

- Specifically, I think the Gold Hostesses (Etsuko, Dolly, Erranda etc, basically they’re all ones you get from substory completion aside from like, 2 you get from exchanging points at the Shrine) should get like, 4 or 5 Unique Outfits you can switch between them, different but suited to them. Seeing as they also are established characters, but not as much as the Platinums, they can be both customisable to a degree whilst still recognisable. Also I want to buy Dolly pretty clothes

- That leaves ya the Silvers and Bronzes who really can be, in the nicest way, treated as dress-up dolls. Like that’s what they should be there for, something for me to have fun prettying up and having on my roster whenever my Platinums need a break. A reductive role sure but imo more than what they were actually given. Besides, it didn’t stop me from getting attached to them either way, did it?

Again, these are just my thoughts on it, but I feel strongly about it because of course I focus on the shit that doesn’t matter lmaooooo

[lilgynt]

my male coworkers are fucking crazy it’s so funny this dude asked me what my plans for the day were and i was either knocking out or going to the movies and he’s like oh shit lemme hop on so i was like sure and we tried inviting our other coworker but blah blah im like we can plan for next week if it doesn’t work for her and he’s like nah we’ll just go then texts me while i’m driving home like actually i can’t see a movie alone with u it would need to be a group for my gf to approve HELP?

[kirishwima]

anyone else have/need like. a social crutch when going out, especially in large groups or new interactions? said crutch is either a person (most often) or an item like a fidget toy something to ground you in the convo etc