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#literally stopped halfway thru brushing my teeth to write this
kirishwima
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2 years
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anyone else have/need like. a social crutch when going out, especially in large groups or new interactions? said crutch is either a person (most often) or an item like a fidget toy something to ground you in the convo etc
#we had a big family dinner including my cousins and their wives
#and i realised when its not ppl im 100% comfy with i lose track of. social cues?
#i suddenly dont know where to look in a conversation drown out words etc
#and the only reason i could shift back into the convo is bc i sat beside my sister who we r super close with
#so i kinda mimicked her in gestures and esp eye contact and could bounce off of what she said to get in the convo
#and she left early and suddenly i was so lost??? as if i had 0 clue how to communicate
#and i realised i always have a social crutch
#when im w my best friends i dont need it bc i dont need to force social norms
#but w others ill take the person im closest to and bounce off of them
#and if its one to one chats im v good at shifting tone and expression to match them
#or ill use the 'customer service' approach lmao
#idk WHY it all just clicked today and right now
#literally stopped halfway thru brushing my teeth to write this
#anyway yeah idk and i dont wanna think of what this says or means
#burrito talks
#delete later
#social norms
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