#i chose the father
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so note to myself today, if you're reviewing a piece of media and you're not sure if it's adressed to the mom or the dad, just write f-ing parent, your life is gonna be much more peaceful
#i was reviewing a hip hop album#i chose the father#it was the mother#i was not trying to stereotype the word father is in the song like 8 different times#it talks about being raised strong and such#i definitely got that it was written in the memory of a deceased parent#but all the clues led me to believe it was the father#i need to touch some grass and think about what i have done#i honestly apologize to everyone involved to the singer to my editor and very likely to many more people i'm so sorry aaaaa#i hope i'll make it; with the revision; before it's sent for print otherwise i'm doomed xd#you would expect that someone who tries to come up with nonbinary names for a group of people on a daily basis would think about the-#-parent solution but naah in a critical moment i must be a dumbass#update: i made it it should be corrected now i'll see when i get the paper edition
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one of the things that continues to strike me on reread is how much the character of Darcy, and Austen through him, finds Mr. Bennet dead. And how much Elizabeth, in growing and changing and discarding her past blindness, has to move past her way of seeing her father and thus of seeing reality, because the two are connected! Darcy’s letter exposes her father’s flaws to Elizabeth in a way she’d never been able to see before. Most especially the way his laziness and neglect of his own gifts have hurt his family and that ultimately he doesn’t. care. Not enough to change. It literally says that she comes home from Hunsford and tries to laugh at her sisters’ and mother’s folly (the way she used to; the way her father has taught her to by example for her whole life) and she can’t anymore! It sticks in her throat. She is grieved by the failures that she sees in him, all the more so because she IS his favorite and she loves him! And the thing about Mr. Bennet is he never changes. The Lydia/wickham situation exposes to him sharply his own conduct and the consequences and he feels it! Because he is neither stupid nor unfeeling. But he, like everyone, has free will. And he chooses not to change when the opportunity presents itself. He even jokes about how quickly his feeling bad will pass and how soon everything will go back to normal, to his laziness and his selfishness. He is set in his ways and he serves as a contrast to Elizabeth’s personal journey because he embodies a version of a person she could have become and was in danger of becoming if her only goal at all times was to laugh at and judge people from the sidelines.
#pride and prejudice#I’ve always loved his character because he IS funny and he is iconic!!! and his love for Lizzy is touching!#he’s not faking it.#but he is so flawed. a man of taste a man of ability a man of judgment.#a man who could and SHOULD have set a different tone for his children and chose not to!#and they SUFFER FOR IT#their house is a divided one. and every child feels the pain of living in a house where the parents neither respect each other#nor are on the same team#there is a crack running through their house for this reason and it’s how Lydia (and Kitty) came to be so neglected!#who is going to discipline them or guide them? certainly not Mr. Bennet!#he’s so important to teach too. because the boys LOVE HIM. of course!#and are always very struck by his failures and laziness once I point it out#and yeah Darcy one of the only people who can expose him. because Darcy is putting in the work a man should be doing#Darcy’s house IS in order. his love is active and protective. he is fulfilling his role!#Mr. Bennet’s gifts are so extraordinary—the wit. the insight into human nature. honestly the capacity for wisdom#but he likes his library. he likes enjoying himself more than he likes doing his duty#as either a father or a husband#he does fail Mrs. Bennet! I have compassion for her there#anyway I love to think about this: something no version I have ever seen has ever fully explored#but man is it on the page#yeah yeah sorry for all the words. teacher off duty etc.
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an unforeseen joy, an unforeseen heartache
daughter
#hollow knight#the pale king#pale wyrm#what other names does he have???#pk#hollow knight fanart#got inspired to do a little companion piece to the first one!#only details to note is i made his cape/wings tattered at the end like when he’s dead on the throne#made him the light source and brightest thing in the scene to harken back to the reason he’s not a ‘father’ is bc he chose to be ‘king’#however hornet’s threads both floating and around her needle are the same white bc of her parentage#they’re swaying towards him for a want of connection; whether to symbolize her or him making it up is up to interpretation#could be both <3#placed him outside the scene like hornet for same reason; the disconnect from both of them#my art#'unforeseen joy' is a line from hit and dearly beloved television show interview with the vampire btw
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i see you saying that it’s heartbreaking that wymack set up the foxes to help people with trauma but couldn’t help his own son and i raise you: wymack saved kevin before kevin left the nest, without even knowing. kevin never would have left the nest if he didn’t have somewhere to go, and wymack - with the media attention he garnered with the foxes - became such a trustworthy figure in kevin’s mind that he didn’t doubt for a second that wymack would take him in and keep him as safe as he could. wymack did help kevin, before they had even met each other, by being such a strong beacon of hope that kevin was drawn to him despite the fact that he was raised and abused in a cult and probably found trusting anyone difficult, let alone someone he hadn’t met.
something else to consider: the foxes are still a newish team (if i remember correctly seth’s year is their first year, dan is their second, meaning neil is their fifth), and jean tells neil that kevin only found out wymack was his dad a few years ago when neil is in the nest. this means that kevin will have been aware of who wymack was - outside of wymack having played the sport prior to coaching - and would have seen the type of person he was before he knew they were related. he’d have witnessed from after wymack fighting tooth and nail to support his foxes despite all the mess, the tragedies, would have seen him staying firm in his belief in second chances BEFORE he found out wymack was his dad.
think - kevin saying to jean imagine having that. jean would say it’s a publicity stunt, it’s not real, those types of people don’t exist and kevin would agree and say they’re a shit team anyway, but something about wymack always rang true to him. maybe after that conversation he didn’t bring it up - other than to say i think my mother would’ve liked dan wilds when it’s announced she’s the new captain. but he still sees wymack’s actions in his periphery, and it’s enough to build up a picture of him as someone who is real. and then he finds out it’s his dad
imagine how that would have been for kevin - going from living in a cult, cut off from any family he may have had after kayleigh’s death to suddenly being told he has a dad, and that dad is the type of person who would have risked himself if he knew what was happening to kevin.
#the conversation between jean and wymack in tsc about why wymack would help kevin broke me can u tell#god i just wonder what went through kevin’s head when he found out wymack was his dad#i wonder if he was ever angry#at wymack for not knowing#at his mum for making tetsuji his guardian rather than wymack#tho i can’t really remember if it’s said that kayleigh chose for tetsuji to be kevin’s guardian if anything happened to her#or if tetsuji just swept in after her death to take kevin#but considering she was never planning on telling wymack he was the father i assume it was the latter??#nora did say in the EC that kayleigh never had any idea of who tetsuji really was so it may be that#i wonder what would’ve happened to kevin if he’d never found that letter#aftg#kevin day#david wymack
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Can we just take some time to appreciate this off-screen Dadsy moment in S3 finale?
like in S3 E10 we see MK wearing this outfit
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meanwhile Pigsy is wearing a jacket over his usual attire
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After the whole samadhi fire thing, MK's clothes get burned as we can see here
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Look at Pigsy's expression here
he just is a worried father <333
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anywyas in the S3 special we see MK wearing a new outfit
well would ya look at that!!
It's Pigsy's jacket!!! <33333
and the final proof taht it is Pigsy's jacket is that when we see Pigsy later on... he's not wearing his jacket ;3
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i just love this father-son duo <33
absolutely adorable <3333
Also MK you're slaying the look lol!! Your dad's jacket fits you perfectly <33
https://kittenninja14.tumblr.com/post/731916269075480576/hey-yall-i-just-found-this-incredible-video-and
#I wish this moment wasn't offscreen#but I understand why they chose not to show the scene#the scene would be Soo fluffy that it would take away the abosilute terror of LBD's moments XD#also MK looks soo cute in everything he wears#but he looks especially good in pigsy's jacket#anyways#time for real tags ig#lmk dadsy#dadsy#lmk mk#mk and pigsy#father son relationship#my babies#loll#lego monkie kid#lmk#lmk season 3#lego monkie kid season 3#fluff#off-screen#KN14 rambles#KittenNInja14#talkingwithmoi
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How many times, do you think, Zeus threatened to harm Apollo's siblings because the god didn't want to comply with the king's orders
How many times, Apollo was pleading him not to
How many times did the siblings judge Apollo's actions, not knowing that those were orders of their king and that their brother decided that better he would be hurt that them
#currently thinking about apollo and artemis#toa#apollo#zeus#artemis would be so pissed at their father#i chose pain
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double life
#masks: a new generation#masks a new generation#ttrpg#pbta#superheroes#dad mode and this job is ruining my life mode#this hell i am in#me before: i don't really care about superheroes#me making my own superheroes: I SEE NOW#gm mode is just going ham on the npcs#masks: overlook city#masks: overlook#trying to explain he's a serious character in the same breath as describing how his life was ruined by a giant dinosaur balloon#TS in rare video footage shouting about how a balloon doesn't have a soul but he does!!! LOL#all my character must struggle to maintain their dignity it's my favorite thing#hard to root for him though he basically chose being a supe over being a good husband and father so... oop.#anyway#true strike#truestrike#antonio salvo#tony salvo#sorry masks tag for flooding you with npc stuff i'm the gm and i still need enrichment
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-the incest diary, anonymous.
#spnedit#deanjohn#deanalastair#dean x john#dean x alastair#pleasure as a means of survival dean thesis#illusion of agency as a means of staying sane#which then of course means he is responsible for this he chose this he never said no#until he did a million times over to another father but of course only his yes was heard#i love him so much. he would feel so understood by this memoir#you left part of yourself back in the pit#supernatural#even the bones would do#i'm the one that kills you#i carved you into a new animal#*#rape//#incest//
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Dick as Damian's third parent while also having bad parent Talia: stale, boring, relies on poor characterization of Talia. Yawn.
Dick as Damian's third parent with good mom Talia except Dick and Talia still hate each other: beautiful, talented, show stopping, never been done before, etc. They take Damian out for a day and constantly try to out do eachother in who can be the most fun. Dick takes him to the circus except the high wire act is actually the two of them doing an old Flying Grayson's routine. Talia takes him to the arcade and buys the cabinet for his favourite game right there on the spot (also she's surprisingly good at DDR. Dick gets demolished in a match with her). Damian's torn bc on the one hand he knows they're both losing themselves in the competition instead of just being in the moment with him but on the other hand. Richard and Mother are taking him to his favourite Lebanese restaurant where they plan to buy him an all you can eat buffet bc Talia thought he looked thin and Dick agreed bc he knows Bruce can't cook good meals for shit. So who is he to deny them their whims?
#dc comics#damian wayne#dick grayson#talia al ghul#good mom talia#walk with me. live in this beautiful world with me#why must we chose between good mom talia and father-brother dick? porque no los dos?#in all seriousness this is inspired by my ire at fans describing this interpretation of dick and damian as being 'fanon'#in the name of defending talias honour when like. it's canon. it's just canon. nightwing issues 16-20 show us this#obviously there's a fanonized version of that dynamic (that i am not immuned to. i love schmoopy affection okay?)#AND a version of that dynamic used to disparage talia but like. not in a way i find unique? it's used w/ bruce and damian too#and i think these versions of the characters can and should coexist. dick and talia in their get along shirt for the sake of their baby boy#<- said baby boy is a highschool freshman and fully taking advantage of the situation
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the fact that megumi was supposed to be the MC makes me giddy as hell. ITS ALL COMING TOGETHER GUYS
#in the context of jjk it feels like the main character and the protagonist are not exactly the same thing#yuuji is the main character who was stripped away of all the things that made him the protagonist#and all the things that made yuuji the protagonist were later given to megumi#megumi is the “chosen one” the one in a million but all those things that normally would make the main character the protagonist#are out of megumi’s control#the story is still about yuuji#the story could only take place BECAUSE of yuuji and yuuji's CHOICES that’s why he’s the main character#yes kenjaku orchiestrated everything about yuuji's birth and role in life but yuuji is still the one who CHOSE to consume sukuna’s finger#yuuji was still the one who CHOSE to#not include himself in the binding vow sukuna made him enter#those are two pivotal points in the story and yuuji was the one who made them#yuuji may not be ”the choosen one” BUT THATS A GOOD THING#that means that even tho kenjaku orchestrated yuuji’s role in life yuuji was and still is the one in charge of his own life and story#he even decided to postpone his own execution wondering “why the heck I have to be executed”#he gets to chose what he’ll do next and NOT FATE#megumi is the one who’s “blessed” he inherited the most powerful zenin ct he’s father was the catalyst that started it all#he’s the one who was#the one in a million chance to be sukuna’s vessels#and megumi didn’t have ANY say in that#because all this time megumi didn’t get to be in charge of his own life#gege really had the fate toy with him just like reggie said to him back then#megumi gets to be the protagonist (or more like have a role of the protagonist) because he let the “fate” dictate his life for him#(unless noooowww he decides to finally take the reins of his life and save himself from his fate)#itadori yuuji#fushiguro megumi#I’m yapping I don’t even know if this makes sense I was caught in a moment skksskks
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whats that im done with my art backlog NO IM NOT!!! JOHN FAITH CONTENT!!
[cut placed because blood]
HERES MY PHONE LOCK SCREEN FOR A YEAR [EXCEPT DURING CHRISTMAS WHEN I CHANGED IT TO SOMETHING ELSE BECAUSE MY BABY COUSIN KEPT PEEKING OVER MY SHOULDER AND I DIDNT WANNA SCARE HER] (and its the most recent piece of done of FAITH)
here is my first ever piece of faith, in theme with the nick valentine post;
and lastly, here is the first ever GIF ive made, by hand, in gimp
#faith the unholy trinity#faith the game#john ward#father garcia#i WILL be posting more MASH. i am still on MASH. i just have only been showing my paintings and i wanna make it clear that the paintings#are a newer thing to me and i have been doing other kinds of art for a long time#and im posting my FANART because my OC art is more niche. i will prolly do a post where i pick and chose my fav oc art#and just do it all in one go to get it over with. i got a priest being branded with a cross#like with a red-hot cross. its good its my current phone homescreen#also a lot of headshots. like i mostly do headshots of my OCs and do very few Pieces#i also have some l4d2 fanart#specifically 2 pieces so get ready for that soon
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i’ve never been as angry on behalf of a character as i am for sam winchester
#currently thinking about season four and five. absolutely fuckibg mental#the world literally reshapes itself around him to prove him wrong#its all framed as God. Sam was so stupid and selfish and reckless for drinking demon blood. He just liked the power of it and he chose a#DEMON over DEAN.#but. that’s not the story they tell in s4.#like even aside from every single other complexity. Sam is literally right. he has ZERO WAY of knowing that killing lilith is the final seal#AND DEAN DOESNT KNOW TJAT EITHER. like sam is literally right he can kill lilith and he does kill lilith. dean wants lilith dead just as#much. sam’s cardinal sin is disobeying dean and then the world flips around on him and plot twist sam and dean were both wrong all along and#killing lilith is what will bring back lucifer :)#but. it’s not framed like that either. it’s framed like SAM BROUGHT BACK LUCIFER BY KILLING LILITH WHILE HIGH ON DEMON BLOOD#dean you wanted to kill lilith too?????????#but. doesn’t matter dean despite being mostly motivated by jealous anger is retroactively proven to be Right#and sam is retroactively proven to be Wrong. he is bad#i just. jesus. sam’s not evil ever. he’s hardly even that fucking morally grey#and he still thinks there’s something wrong with him that he’s a freak that he’s inherently evil and needs to be purified#why?? cause of something fucked up that happened to him when he was a baby#and because he’s disobeyed his father and his brother and been angry at awful things that have happened to him#makes me feel fucking insane actually#no wonder narrative frames sam as evil no wonder he’s inherently marked as Bad by the forces in supernatural like even on a meta level#in supernatural gods just another shitty father. embodiment of the familial patriarch. and from sam’s very first moment on the show he’s in#opposition to that he’s ran away from john and he argues with dean. therefore he is evil#i don’t think my words r really making sense right now but. fucking hell#and sam is so swamped in guilt all of season five and he just fucking accepts that everything bad is his fault#and he gets tortured in the cage to save the fucking world and it’s STILL not enough. not to appease his own guilt and not to appease deans#anger at him. dean is still throwing his perceived violations back at him in like season nine!!#and whenever he tries to get out it’s treated as yet another Sin. narrative acts like sam thinking dean was dead and having a life outside#of hunting is The Worst Thing He Ever Did#worst sin sam ever commits in the eyes of the show is disobedience. Absolutely awful actually#spn#sam winchester
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so so SO obsessed with the concept of zsz, where zoro is meeting zeff for the first time as sanji’s partner, and zeff is SO intimidating to zoro for absolutely no reason. like yeah, they’ve met before, but this time is just *DIFFERENT*. zoro’s meeting sanji’s father and it’s So overwhelming and nerve wracking, but he does it because he loves sanji and wants zeff’s approval so bad!!!
i especially love it where zeff leans into the intimidating father role, because at the end of the day, he just wants to see his little eggplant happy and treated well by someone.
#sanji the entire time: can you people be normal#i think he’d secretly love how both of them act though#like yes stress over how much you wanna impress my father#and be an overprotective dad because i chose mosshead out of everyone to be my forever person#the rest of the strawhats having to deal with zoro stressing out would be funny as well#zosan#roronoa zoro#black leg sanji
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Broke: Pol and Slime can't log in because the admins are developing the storyline for island lore
Woke: Pol and Slime can't log in because the admins are developing the storyline for their ROMANCE
#all im saying is they had a connection#i am a slimariana supporter to my core. that being said i think it would be quite the plot twist.#slimariana angst bc slime chose someone else and pol angst bc my man does not want to be a father and now he's got two egg children#qsmp#slimepol
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Danny, tired of being the absolute last priority in his friends and families lives, runs away after a major fight with one of them which causes him to realize all his living relationships are toxic.
Danny lands in a new world and decides to get a new parent or parents. How? Not through the foster system of course but through admittedly more sinister means. He picked someone he liked and altered the memories of them and thier loved ones to convince them that this kid was always thier son and created false legal paperwork and school records along with implanting memories into his new classmates. He even went so far let the person give him a new name so it would be more believable and it would be one less connection to his past.
The only problem is one (1) Jason Todd, who is appearently immune to his mind tricks. Jason only managed to get Tim to see the truth by pointing out Danny isnt mentioned anywhere in the batcomputer and things start falling apart from there.
Danny just wants someone to love him :(
#dpxdc#fanfiction prompts#prompts#danny fenton#danny phantom#batman#tim drake#jason todd#i was thinking Dick would be th e father Danny chose#danny doesnt know about them being bats#red robin#red hood#dp#dc#angst#tw: angst#sorry
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Ok this DP x DC prompt hasn't stopped haunting me for days so-
Danny is Superman's grandfather.
It's the classic setting; Danny is overworked and overwhelmed from his Ghost King duties, so Clockwork kicks him off to another dimension for a vacation.
Danny ends up on Krypton.
Danny falls in love and has a child.
Danny is forced to let everyone he loves die, only able to help save his grandson, bc interfering here would cause even worse things in the time-stream.
(Danny never forgives Clockwork for putting him somewhere with a time-limit.)
#dp x dc#dc x dp#i do not read the comics so idk if this fits#im specifically thinking danny is clark's mother's father#danny phantom#dcu#dp x dc prompt#superman#clark kent#danny fenton#he goes back to his work after... until he's summoned by the JL 30~ years later#also just to be clear clockwork knew the planet would meet its end. its why he chose there to send danny to#my danny posting
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