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im think im falling in love with my coworker, who is in downbad for my friend, but she has a bf...
the whole situation is messed upppp but let me explain
important context: im f, 17, said coworker is m, 21, my friend is f 17, a few months younger than i. i turn 18 this month. i usually only date women, so this (being downbad for some GUY?) is lowkey crazy. im also a lover girl thru nd thru, nd I have never had a casual fling, only life ruining relationships that usually end poorly for me because im attracted to rly shitty ppl.
so. theres this guy at work ive recently gotten so super close with, let's call him danny. we have very similar tastes in music, shows, humor, hes very compassionate, and funny and super cute (multiple girls at work think this unfortunately). we both like horror and conspiracy theories and books and yapping and video games and other cultures (he likes the women, I like the languages and history LOL). we worked together for a while before we started talking, but we started a few weeks ago nd havent stopped since. unfortunately what I found out is that he really likes this girl at work, lets call her jen. jen is my ethnicity, and she's a lot prettier than me. she's gorgeous and super funny, and gullible asf, she's everything I am but a thousand times more. her personality is addictive, and I can see why he likes her. she's quickly becoming one of my closest friends, as were both currently seniors at our local highschool.
this brings up the first complication: the age gap. danny would never do anything until either of us are 18 that much is clear- he is not Diddy.
complication 2: unfortunately for danny, even after jen turns 18, she currently has a boyfriend who she loves. however, said bf is super duper awful, an embarrassment to boyfriends everywhere, and I know danny thinks he could treat jen better. ive been friends with girls like jen before, I think that relationship probably still will last another year and a half, even tho ive tried to tell her to wake up nd break up like everyone else in her life.
complication 3: mine and dannys friendship started pretty innocently. I was trying to get with another coworker, a girl, and I was trying to help Danny and jen get together. so now I'm struggling tryna figure out how to move myself out of the friend zone to the "hey shes a possible romantic interest" zone without ruining our friendship
complication 4: I don't know that he is even attracted to me. I'm his type on paper, hispanic and a little bit emo, but I weigh significantly more than jen, and that definitely makes her more attractive to him. he's never dated a heavier person as far as I can tell, and I fear that's one of the biggest things in the way right now (literally and figuratively). I don't know, does weight matter that much to guys? for me personally size doesn't matter but I figure that's not the case for everyone..?? also even if that's not a factor, attraction isn't as simple as being someone's "type". if he's just not into me, that's hard to get past right?
#female manipulator#femcel#tw ed ana#downbad#simp behavior#pretty girls dont eat#light as a feather#lover girl#life blogging#uh oh#i messed up#i am still currently messing up
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They homies it's cool
#never learned how to draw king dedede#there are chunks in the drink i am currently drinking and it is messing me up bro#i put them there but still#King Dedede#kirby right back at ya#hoshi no kaabii#hoshi no kirby#dedesuka#kirby#dedegoon#gijinka#Escargoon#Escargon#my art#sire what if we honk mimimi honk mimimid together đłđłđł
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Coming soonâŚ
'cause I want you (for the worse and for the better) by nonsensedarling
When Louis gets invited along to Anne's wedding, Harry is prepared to let people think whatever they want about their relationship. That's what Louis said -- let people think whatever they want. That all changes when Louis sees his ex, who turns out to be Anne's future husband's son. Now, Louis wants to prove that he's an omega that an alpha could want, and Harry wants to get through this weekend without letting his best friend figure out he's in love with him.
Written for the @1daboficfest -- posted here! Moodboard by @dearlou
Read a snippet below the cut!
They walk into the restaurant at 7:02pm, and are promptly guided down a set of stairs into the lower-level party room.Â
From the doorway, Harry can see his mom and future stepdad, talking to a couple of younger guys â a dark-haired alpha and a blonde omega from the looks of it. They all laugh and his mom goes in to give one of them a hug while John clasps the other on the shoulder. That must be Johnâs son and the boyfriend Harryâs heard them talk about.Â
Harry takes a deep breath, smoothes out his shirt, and reaches for Louisâ hand, ready to walk in and muscle his way through this weekend.
But Louis doesnât take his hand. Instead, he grabs onto Harryâs wrist and yanks him in the opposite direction.Â
âWhat?â Harry asks, stumbling a bit as heâs pulled.Â
Louis doesnât say anything, just gets to the restroom area and shoves Harry inside one of the single-room bathroom.Â
âOuch,â Harry says, shaking out his wrist. He watches Louis lock the door and whip around with wild eyes and frown lines etched into his face. âLouis, what the fuck? Weâre already latââ
âWill is here,â he says.Â
Harry furrows his brows, unsure what that is supposed to mean. âWillâŚ?â
âWill,â Louis says frustratedly. He looks to the door as he adds, âWill. My ex-boyfriend, Will. Will, who broke up with me after three months because he thought I was too loud and too clingy and too much.â He turns back around to Harry to emphasize, âWill!âÂ
Harry gasps. Ex-boyfriend Will, who refused to meet Harry because he didnât like that Louis had an alpha best friend. âDickhead Will?âÂ
âDickhead Will,â Louis agrees. âFuck. Fuck.â He reaches up and grabs fistfuls of his hair.Â
What are the odds that Louisâ ex-boyfriend from Oakland is here in Sacramento now, working at the one restaurant where his momâs rehearsal dinner is?
âHey, itâs okay.â Harry steps close, and tries to pull Louisâ hands down from his hair, but they donât budge. âWe can ignore him, yeah? Itâs just toniââ
âHe was hugging your mom,â Louis interrupts.Â
Harry is confused. He shakes his head immediately, ready to say that no, that was his future stepdadâs son â when it clicks.
âWilliam,â Harry says.
âYes,â Louis says, annoyed, finally pulling his hands down from his hair. âWill is often short for William. Very good, Harold.â
âNo. Johnâs son is named William,â he explains. âHeâs Johnâs best man. Theyâve been talking about William and Dimitri â his boyfriend.â
Louis pales. âJesus Christ.â
âOkay, itâs okay,â Harry says, looking around the room like the sink or toilet will tell him how to handle this. âWeâll just⌠avoid them.â
The look Louis gives him is unimpressed to say the least. âAvoid them?â he asks, voice filled with mirth. âYou âalso in the wedding and the co-person of honor with your sisterâ want to try and avoid another person in the wedding party?â
Harry inhales, his shoulders slowly rising up to his ears as he closes his eyes. âI donât know, Louis, Iâm trying to think of what will make this easier on you. Iâm not sure how affectionate they are, but I donât want you having to see it the whole weekend.â
Harry opens his eyes when he feels hand digging into his shoulders. Louis gives him a little shake, eyes still wild but frown lines mostly unetched.Â
âThatâs it!â he exclaims.
âWhatâs it?â
âAffection!â
Humming uncertainly, Harry says, âAffection?â
Louis shakes him again. âYes.â He looks over Harryâs shoulder as he continues. âThat bastard called me clingy, and basically told me an alpha wouldnât be able to put up with it.â He locks eyes with Harry again. âI can show him I did find an alpha who not only puts up with it, but loves it.â
#i have been meaning to put a coming soon thing up for weeks now#but my brain is having A Time doing anything#but I wanna show off the beautiful moodboard Jo made!#like 97% of the things i write this turned out longer than I anticipated -- sitting pretty at 26k#i'm still not sold on my summary but we're working with what we've got#omegaverse fake dating#i also started a new job on top of my current one and am planning to flip my life a bit upside down so things are a mess -- but looking up!
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Just when I think the day's going well, I crash a golf cart
#summer camp tag#ace is a mess#i do not have a drivers license and i havent even been behind the wheel in like 4 years since i stopped lessons cus of the pandemic#the day was going fine i got loads done didnt feel like i was irritating my director too bad#doing some paperwork for her and she says when im done well take the golf cart out while its not currently raining#im like ooh fun never been in a golf cart before i see the higher up staff in them im not gonna say no to chilling in a golf cart#i did not realise that meant i would be driving esp when she asked if id been in one before and i said no#she then asked if i could drive and i said not really thought that would be it#cus i was supposed to be studying for my theory before working towards my practical#but no she insists im driving and first off i gotta reverse outta this bay now at least i didnt have to think about gears#but i hate tryna figure out how to turn whilst in reverse in mess with my brain im not great with shape visualisation#we do all our stops its fine for the most part a lil too fast going down some of the hills#and some tight turns but my turns were always like that cus im too busy focusing on the most immediate thing#we get back i park fine and then shes like oh actually there are some more stops we can make so i reverse and turn back out#do our two stops with only minimal confusion about direction then as i go to park into the bay we came from#shes like oh actually park in the bay closest to the health centre and what i should have done was reversed and adjusted my angle#instead i drove directly into the supporting beam separating the two bays đđ#i immediately turn the cart off and expect her to switch with me instead shes like laughing it off oh it was just a little bump it was fine#im like it was not that was a loud ass bang i feel so bad and then she lifts up the light cover i broke off saying its just a scratch#and i feel worse so pf course thats when the camp director comes out to check on the noise and i dont think ive ever worn a guiltier look#but theyre both laughing it off oh just having a little driving lesson :) and i am mortified#she gets back in the cart and shes still insisting that its fine and i should still park after that which i do with great trepidation#but there are no more problems and the lights still work but the cover does need fixing and i just oh my god#ive never crashed before never clipped or scratched a car so of course id crash the golf cart trying to park of all things đ
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hello good fucking morning.
#MAN my body clocked has relapsed into oblivion HAAHAHAHHA.#anyway....wowerz!!! it's been a whole ass week since i last yapped on here!!!!!#ive been a little busy with org work as of late bwahahha and i still am which is tragic.#but i'm gonna write until sunlight this time bcs its currently 12am......and i have been asleep since 6pm HSUDHSJAJAKS.#and i have chinese language lessons in the morning so sleep is put at an awkward spot rn đđ.#mayhaps i will be finishing nabi this session HUAHSHSHA i reread what i wrote for part three so far the other day and i missed!!! gyu!! so!!#much!!!!#ive also been picking up my juldarigi wip again because i kept getting brain possessed by ideas.#i can't wait to release this mess into the wild too BWHAHAHAHA#anyway.....i need to eat dinner (it's 12am. time is an illusion) and ill answer some asks later!!!!#buhbye mwa
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#currently raging rn and its taking everything I have in me to NOT snap at my roommate#basically its been a year of her neglecting her cats#not cleaning literally one single thing in this apartment ever even though she makes the mess 99% of the time#and not being able to admit she has a problem when clearly does have a problem with hoarding stuff anf trash and it makes this#a pretty sucky apartment to live in !#but no this morning i wake up to her being ABSOLUTELY discusted with me because!#last night in the night when i was changing my pad without glasses i got a drop of blood on the floor b/c period#and she literally was like this is gross and how could you expect me to clean that and like going forward please dont do this again???#and i literally just want to be like have you fucking heard of accidents before??#like of course ill clean it up!!#but like do you really think i purposely bleed on the floor and then ignored it????#also the fact that shes done the same thing about 6 times but apparently hasnt noticed before#also shes not okay with that but she is okay with ignoring the litter boxs#having bugs because she cant clean up after herslef#and literally not being able to use certain parts of our apartment because her stuff is piled up so high#theres literally no room!#sorry i am just raging so hard rn#like the anger i feel from within is so great#like literally theres still vomit on the floor from where she threw up and never cleaned it up#its fine im just so fucking MAD
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im so glad this is my last day of work for the week and i have monday off
this week has been ROUGH
#trying to muster up enough energy and focus to finish my current project#which isn't even that bad but i am so tired#on top of the stuff with ares#who is doing much better but is still not 100%#(plus he needs multiple meds 2x a day & absolutely hates it & im decent at administering them but my hands are so torn up)#husbando has been having a hard time getting his adhd and anti-depressant meds#like his doctor just.... didnt feel like putting in the prescription i guess#and when she finally did he was already on like day 3 of cold turkey withdrawals#and then we find out it's gonna take another two days bc the pills have to come from florida??????#what??????#but hes been a wreck the past few days and his sleep schedule is all out of whack which messes up mine#we all need a break over here is what im getting at#t: wench.txt
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Saw someone call half moon croissant of the sky and I can't keep that for myself
#Also should I be concerned that my current situationship close to real relationship has been basically ignoring me for 3 days straight now#After we had a late night phone call in which I fell asleep#It was 3am for me and she's American so for her it was like 9pm so she was still awake#But we were flirting and everything and it was cute (okay we got a backstory and we've only started writing again after a 2 year break)#And I thought we were getting back on course and now I think I messed up again#Also why am I putting this in the tags about the croissant moon#I should go to sleep#As we learnes in how I met your mother...#Nothing good happens past 2am (or was it 3am? But it's 2.42am so it doesn't matter cause same thing soon)
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Despite all odds, I have arrived home safelyđ
Turns out that the earlier goop was the better goop. The adderall goop. The adderall has worn off now though. So I am. Very incredibly out of it.
But I am home. And I will take my quick shower. And then I will climb into bed.
I do need to eat. But... later...
#speculation nation#im the special kind of tired where im more tired than hungry#which is to say my every cell is yelling at me to get some fucking sleep.#and i dont think id be much more successful at eating rn than i was this morning.#i ate. half a can of chef boyardee. which was half bc i was so focused on typing and half bc i could barely stomach it.#so i at least ate Something. but not as much as normal.#i did have an ensure in the middle of the day. so theres some nutrients too at least.#i'll eat after i get a few hours of sleep. when the edge is no longer so desperate.#and hopefully i'll be able to stomach things better then.#honestly have all nighters always been this hard or am i just getting older? i havent actually pulled an all nighter since uhhh#well there was kind of one on dead dad day. but that day sucked just in general.#last time i think was april '23 when i read t.rimax volume 9-14 within a 24 hour period while also finishing a final presentation.#even then tho i got like 2 hours of sleep. it was still pretty rough though.#like ok i guess those times were pretty awful and also i did get at least some sleep. which is more than today.#so it makes sense for me to be in worse shape rn. i also didnt get as much sleep the night before last as i wanted to#i got... ...maybe 4 hours sleep??? ummm. which isnt a good thing actuslly. no wonder im so fucking exhausted.#i can barely type right now i will be honest. it was so hard to bike home. it took all my focus to not drive off a bridge#or get pushed into traffic by wind. oh boy the wind sure did try.#then i almost tripped down the stairs at my apartment after grabbing the mail bc i Briefly was focused on my mail đ#barely present. total mess. but at least im home. and i already did all the thinking i need to do today.#i was brave. i perservered. i was tempted to give up around 6 am ish but i was like No. this is getting done TODAY.#so i did it. i turned it in. and i so bravely did my in class work for my 2nd class. even though i was so mentally not present the whole way#i did my thinking... i am home... rest soon.#actually its kind of funny im lying on my couch rn and i think if most other ppl were in my current state theyd fall asleep right here.#but the power of my insomnia is so. powerful. i am not at risk of falling asleep without meaning to.#only time thats ever actually happened are like. a handful of times i was like. the most tired ive ever been in my life. etc etc.#in fact idk how well i'll be able to fall asleep for my nap. i certainly couldnt last night despite how hard i tried.#hopefully this time... i am truly tired enough....pls i need to rest i am so tired đđđđđđđđđ
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having to write my deadname for the first time in years feels so weird. like I'm so far removed from that name that it just feels like im lying when i say it's my name. not in a bad or distressing way i just have no personal connection to that name whatsoever so it feels like im committing fraud
#grymms spectacular fucking posts#im registering to vote and I haven't gotten my name legally changed yet#my parents bday gift to me is a legal name change but since the election is in less than a month we decided it'd be better to wait until#after that so i dont have to worry about messing up paperwork stuff#they gave my sister a legal name chnage for her 18th bday so theyve been thru all this mess before#plus there's a local charity which helps trans ppl with name changes#so hopefully it'll all go pretty quick#still dont know if i wanna change my last name but currently im thinking I'll keep it as-is for now because i can change that later#and i dont wanna stick myself down the line with a last name i regret changing to#i am gonna change my middle name to danger tho cus im confident I'll not regret that and even if i do it's a middle name so idgaf
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a strangled red hc i have is that steven and mikes parents are not present because they travel a lot to other regions for their jobs and as a result mike chose to not become a pokemon trainer when he was younger because he didnt want to leave steven alone (then when steven becomes a pokemon trainer he suggests that mike could come with him since he does feel a bit bad about mike missing out on it initially)
#pokepasta#strangled red#strangled red mike#strangled red steven#its still headcanon when its basically just my own version of the strangled red story where i am stretching 'canon' like putty right#and their current fate? who knows lol mikes an adult by the time strangled reds events begin so theyd jst b living on their own probably#tbh both started kind of late when the minimum age you can become a trainer is 10-11#but other games some of the trainers are 14 so whatevr. in strangled red whats Canon-canon is messed with anyways#i actually did want to write smth related to this hc (the one the post is about not my tag rambling)#it was kind of a mike pov of him growing up trying to be a good brother leading up to. You Know#but i kind of ran out of steam and havent had the spoons to come back to it cuz immm not a writing pro <3#me when i want to make strangled red content so bad but im not good at making thecontent
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i realized how much it scares me that my mind will convince itself of even the ugliest things if i start thinking them often enough and it's... yeah. like i had a good session with my psychiatric rehabilitation therapist i think it was very useful but then at the end i got hit by this feeling of fear... like i'm so scared of myself and how low i can get
#like i convinced myself the only way to deal with my pain and my problems was to attempt suicide so people would know i was suffering#bc i wasn't able to tell them#and i really really for real believed it and i did exactly that and it's very scary to think my mind can get so twisted and believe these#distorted versions of reality or twisted ways to get what i need or all the negative things i think of myself#and like i guess this is just part of working on getting rid of these beliefs. that i'm realising just how deep in them i am and that it#scares me#but it's not a nice feeling. i'm really trying not to judge myself for it that's not useful. i'm still learning how to not judge myself#for every little thing but god it's hard i'm so used to thinking i'm too much or not enough or too emotional or too stupid or inadequate et#just every bad thing under the sun#but even trying my hardest to mantain like a non judgmental view of this issue... the fear is the hardest part rn#it's just... i don't even know who i am? and that's also something we're gonna work on and started to a little#but i don't know who i am and so i just believe abt myself whatever the situation leads me to believe. whatever my bpd leads me to believe#whatever others lead me to believe#and the last one especially is perhaps my biggest issue. i don't know myself and i don't like what âmyselfâ currently is and i live for#other people i live to please others i do things so others will like me or at least not dislike me so i can hate myself less#and really that's no way to live. and this is something this therapist is making me realize and understand#but it's just seriously so.... scary all of this all of this realizing i'm just an empty vessel that i fill up depending on the person i'm#interacting with and that i am.. nothing. like not nothing but like nico is not a formed person. i have molded myself to other ppl's tastes#and needs and if i try to look beyond that there's just this void or at least this question mark#i don't think i have like no personality? but well i do have a personality disorder so that's fucked me up! and it's! aaaa!!#if i think about the things i have convinced myself of by sheer repeating thek to myself all the time in my dark moments...idk#and like it was manageable when the dark moments had reduced and i was relatively okay. but as soon as i got bad again... oh#it started being a constant bombardment of negative talk to myself abt myself and a constant telling myself#well pretty much that there is no worth to be found inside myself. so unless this pain somehow goes away by itself i'll kill myself#that was basically my train of thought every day multiple times a day for months and months#that is scary!!!!!!!! that is so!!!! i'm so#sorry this is a mess. i'm trying not to cry bc i'm at my parents' house and my father's around but. yeah. just lots of feelings#and again it's probably normal i mean talking about these things is good! but feelings are bound to arise and some are hard to deal with#suicide tw#sorry i forgot the tw in my being upset in the moment
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#not dead#sorry ive been AWOL (again)#i swear it's not you it's me#and im sorry i let piles and piles of messages stack up here in the DMs and not answer them#i would say im not purposefully ignoring you all but it sounds like a lie. im just. an absolute bloody arse sometimes#i have not been up for social things lately and have been feeling otherwise drained#things are currently a bit messy irl but i swear there is nothing to worry about as i am slowly getting things sorted#im just. really really bad at sorting things out. and this is messing me up a bit#still boggles me how so many things could happen within the span of like... 3 days#but anyway. i know i demand a lot of patience from all of you but im gonna really need you guys to be patient a little longer đ
#again. so sorry. i promise to answer messages and catch up with you lovelies soon once everything is cleared up#(or at least once my head is)#still love you darlings <3#to clarify again. the problem is me. not you
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When I was making my first trying-to-be-serious ocs it was in the start of the 2010s (and I mean the START, 2010-2012) and there was a big âanti Mary-sueâ movement on deviantart (the website I spent half my internet time on and was posting my art on) and I liked to make my character designs pretty extra (although compared to modern stuff they look pretty normal) so I started to get self-conscious. At the time though I was watching soul eater (and there was another thing Iâm forgetting and itâs really frustrating me) and I saw that it was popular with a cool art style and the characters were extra AF, so I was like âokay. Maybe, as long as I can draw my character often and consistently it doesnât matter if they are wild!â and you know what? Early teen me was RIGHT. Not about many things, but about this in particular she was!
#emma posts#girl was relying too heavily on character tropes and some stuff of that era#but she was so right about character design#if maybe using a few too many colors for each one#now people are just being wild with it and it fucking works#two examples I can think of in modern popular animation are mha/bnha and hazbin hotel (still havenât watched that one)#but damn if those characters donât look like some of my favorite early teen creations#and the artist made it WORK#i donât think Iâve gone quite as wild as bnha but you know what? one of my old worlds still could#Iâm sentimental about that one and even if Iâve been stuck Iâm still taking that one with me forever#other projects might come and go. but (project currently named absolution) is constant#as well as its main cast. Iâve been learning a bit more about some of the mythologies I used as inspiration and itâs been giving a lot of#ideas for how I can develop things. it has not solved a few hang ups though#the biggest one being what was the divide about and how was it defined?â#itâs been made more gray as I learn more about mythology and folklore#the Christian aspects of it can be a bit clear. but others have more gray areas and i like it but it also makes things a bit frustrating#interestingly enough. flight rising having so many different species on one world has given me some ideas#I am a bit reluctant to use too much from outside certain cultures though. which can appear a bit biased and probably is. but I donât want#to mess up something you canât really change about a creature from a culture in less familiar with. it would be a dick move#but yeah. if death the kid can exist my weirdos can as well
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It's exhausting trying to explain to people I need help on doing certain tasks, not because I don't KNOW how to do them, but because my brain is wired weirdly, and I need someone present so I can do them myself
It's especially annoying when it's stuff like "how to do X in computer/internet" and not only am I from the generation that was actually taught how to use computers in school, I have goddamn certificate on it AND AN ENTIRE FUCKING DEGREE THAT REQUIRES COMPETENCE WITH COMPUTERS.
#diaryposting#ranting#yes I'm aware every single people can't know I'm not computer illiterate#but it starts to grind my gears when almost you hear it at least once a month#and despite asking for a note in your file about ADHD I STILL need to explain every time I do know how to do the thing#but the way my brain is structured means I cannot reliably do it independently#I am currently trying to solve the economic mess I ended up in the last time I got fed up getting backganded comments from them
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my roommate (has covid) offering to take me to the store when they're still contagious is craziness
(old draft)
#they keep leaving the house#i haven't seen a person in 9 days#my nails are fucked up from how much i've been washing my hands#i bought disenfectant from the kitchen and they haven't touched it even though they're in there the most#i'm in there for ~10 minutes max a day bc covid lingers in the air#but they do leave the kitchen a mess still#that hasn't changed#i'm actively buying new disinfectant wipes bc the roommates cat doesn't like the current ones#(ordering online of course)#and i don't wanna overstimulate the little man#just#why the fuck am i the one quarantining#in my own apartment#why am i the one double checking how covid spreads and lingers#why am i the one researching mouthwashes that prevent transmission and reading disinfectant labels for what kills covid#when i'm not the one who even fucking has it#handmadeorganicpost
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