#i am 20yo

[indridthemoth]

i finally started watching naruto two days ago.

i am now forty episodes in.

[pepperf]

Pop quiz, hotshots! Which would you rather have:

A relationship that, when it goes wrong, you can tell the other person that you need a break to reassess your relationship, and they will discuss this calmly, let you go, and then go away and think about what you said, agree that they were in the wrong, and start working on ways to fix their own behaviour;

OR

A relationship that, when you want to leave, they tell you that you don't really want to go, that you're happier with them, that you should isolate yourself from your family and friends so you can stay with them - and when you disagree and tell them the relationship is just a matter of necessity, they start in on your other relationship (which they have apparently decided is the reason you're going back, despite you making no mention of it), telling you that it's broken, that you shouldn't go back to him - and when you tell them to butt out of your personal business, they tell you they're entitled to have an opinion because you've been stranded alone together for a long time...

Is that or is that not what happened? Because I remember Lila making herself pretty clear on these points, but apparently a bunch of people think we should disregard a woman's expressed opinion about her own life, and go with what she's being told. Because Five knows best, amirite? Gosh he's so smart and clever! And he deserves this - he deserves Lila, no matter what Lila herself says. He's owed it by the universe, because he had a bad life.

Lila did have another relationship like that, where she was told what to do, kept in the dark, told that the other person knew what was best for her...and it wasn't Diego.

[chayannesegg]

listen, i absolutely get ramon not wanting to talk to sunny & feeling hurt/betrayed by her helping tubbo

like, i'd hazard he might even feel more betrayed by them than tubbo himself—bc sunny & ramon probably talked about what family meant to him (during their sleepovers or something) and ramon has no insight into why they'd do that whereas tubbo, for all his actions have hurt ramon, very clearly has the emotional capacity of a wet paper plate and issues running deeper than marianas trench

but that makes it all the more heart wrenching that he won't hear her out (and you can see in the backgrounds of vods her multiple attempts over several days to get his attention just to be rebuffed) bc i bet if she could explain herself even a little things could be so different

it reminds of the situation from the other week where sunny wasn't talking with em and tubbo tried to explain that, even if you're mad at them, suddenly stopping talking to someone you love could make them feel awful and worse than you intended

and that is what's happening to sunny. it's miserable to see bc she was already so isolated and ramon, as her big brother, is someone she put a lot of trust in to be there for her and listen to her and it must feel to her like that was an empty promise to have him not even hearing her out.

and it's particularly tragic bc sunny didn't even want to mess with fit and pac. yes, she was "tempted" to aid tubbo in his quest, but I really don't think it was bc she was actually worried about being left behind when she agreed. i think she could tell tubbo was scared and hurting and not ready to accept the change and didn't want him to be alone. she didn't really have another option and every adult can see that but ramon is young and blinded by his hurt

and now sunny is left feeling abandoned and forgotten and replaced and it's exactly what their pa said would happen; self fulfilling prophecy :(

[b4kuch1n]

pre-holiday leave crumbs

[oidheadh-con-culainn]

lmao okay yeah hard no on taking advice on sustainable activism and social media practices from a 22-year-old actually. that's a block

[itstimeforstarwars]

It's so funny how time catches up to you. I was rereading a fic I wrote in 2019 that goes "he was already 25, and running out of time to be young and brilliant" and like. Lmao. Lol even.

[pa-pa-plasma]

kind of frustrating that people took "fat does not equal unhealthy" to mean "fat is not unhealthy." sometimes being obese IS unhealthy & excess fat can cause a lot of problems. ignoring health issues isn't progressive. real "oranges kill people with depression" moment

[kelbunny]

I've heard there's been a redraw meme going around at least on twitter that I'm hearing about second hand 😶, and even though I have not played Undertale, I still though it would be fun to do with my OC Darner, both him years before he was mauled by a dragon and way before the beginning of Victory Bells and then him about halfway through Victory Bells.

honestly might do something similar with all the Victory Bells protags haha

[iamhereinthebg]

Lil reminder to please not use my art as banner or profile picture here or on any social media 🧍‍♂️

[ronsenburg]

turns out it’s not just warriors game play that I suck at! finally downloaded cindered shadows and, guess what?!? it’s really hard!!!!

[mishkakagehishka]

Banging on the floor

[maleficore]

Brain empty, cowboys in love

[tepli-mravenci]

Everyone else at my minimum wage part-time job: *doing as little as possible to get by*

Me at my minimum wage part-time job: *stressed constantly that I'm not doing enough or I'm doing something wrong while not stopping to rest for multiple hours*

[fishgirl514]

GUESS WHOS BIRTHDAY IT IS

[professionalowl]

rewriting academic work is all about googling "synonyms for explore" "synonyms for investigate" "synonyms for synthesise" etc. etc.

[ofpd]

me rn 🤝 30yos who are insecure about "visibly aging"

pls card me pls card me come onnn