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Something that I really liked about Barbie, and which I haven't seen mentioned as yet, was how the Barbies take compliments. They don't demure, they don't brush it off, they don't even thank people for the compliment! They own it!!
Congrats on the Pulitzer Barbie! "I deserve this."
You look amazing Barbie! "Yes I do!"
You earned that award Barbie! "I worked hard on this!"
Later, in the real world when Barbie meets the lady in the bus stop and tells her she is beautiful, the lady replies with "I know"
Girls and women struggle so much with receiving compliments and it was so great to see something so subtle and yet quite profound! That's going to be a behaviour I incorporate into my day to day life. When people give me a compliment.. agree with it! 😄
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i miss them......please come back........please come home :((
#this one goes out to the ten knkdz stans left on bsd tumblr wya#ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE IVE DRAWN THEM I MISS THEM SO BAD :(((#please......i dont knkw how much longer i can take this.......please come home to me......#i'm literally experiencing withdrawal symptoms they've been apart for like SEVEN years#ALSO I KEEP FORGETTING KUNIS GLASSES IM FUCKING KILLING MYSELF ISTG IT DOESNT REGISTER IN MY BRAIN FSR😭😭😭😭😭😭#also one thing i noticed while coloring this is how nicely their outfits compliment each other. husbands fr <3#sry if the art style is different in every drawing i drew these all weeks apart💀#kunikida doppo#doppo kunikida#dazai osamu#osamu dazai#kunikidazai#knkdz#lotus draws
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I hope you take this as the compliment it is intended to be, but you strike the same chord of irreverence-as-love, jokes-to-showcase-sencerity that I get from Chuck Tingle, and I adore both of you.
You have bestowed the greatest honour upon me.
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangij#wei wuxian#digital art#ask#Thank you very much; I do take it as the compliment you intended it to be B*)#Mr. Tingle is a legend in both grindset and vibes. To be even 0.1% striking a similar chord is an aspiration of mine.#I also want to honour the effort I put into this parody book cover. Which was a *lot* more than one would think.#Covers were analyzed. I did research and took notes. I learned how to download fonts. 4 different programs were used.#This file is also poster sized (A4 dimensions)! I thought It would make the joke funnier for some reason.#Chuck Tingle's style is very iconic and fun to replicate. Despite the time intensive labour - I had a blast making this!#I admit to skimming most of the chapter this is based off of just to fact check a few details but boy did I learn things.#Wei Wuxian canonically has CAKE. Tiny waist and a fat ass.#I took several more notes but I will warn you now that I can't *not* find smut writing to be very funny.#This was pure chaos. Unbridled chaos. WWX really did shove a sword up his ass to bully dream-LWJ.#The need to be a little shit trumps saftey I guess.#There is a 99.9% chance I will not cover the extras so this is likely all the fans of those chapters will get from PD-MDZS.
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back with the bickering
for @lesbiansuga
#yoonmin shenanigans <3#min yoongi#park jimin#bts#btsgif#dailybts#dailybangtan#userbangtan#usersky#userpat#userdimple#annietrack#tuserandi#useremmeline#userevans#*mine#1k#yoongi doesn’t know how to take the compliment he’s so meeeee
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arthur talking to the rest of the gang:
arthur talking to charles:
#like I’m not even making it up!!!#arthur will constantly say how glad he is charles is with them#and ‘we need you’ and ‘hardest worker in the camp’ and ‘I don’t know how we got anything done before you came along’#LIKE#showering him with compliments and affirmation#meanwhile he all but bullies the rest of the gang#he never really says anything negative to javier or lenny just like a ‘take care of yourself’ kinda thing#but he is ALWAYS ragging on sean and kieran and john and UNCLE and pearson and bill literally all of them#but not charles <3#hes only got good things to say to charles#arthur morgan#charthur#rdr2#red dead redemption 2#my posts
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Finished the rainbow shorts!!!
#handmade#embroidery#rainbow embroidery shorts#for some reason like every pair of shorts I’ve bought in a lotta years#has unfinished hems? they are just kinda folded and not sewn#probably because denim is stretchy now and it’s harder to make the stitching on the hems without limiting the stretch#idk? but it makes it so easy to embroider!#also idk how to take a photo of these while wearing them#I feel like I should? they look better worn than they do flat#but idk how to do that in a way that’s not like ‘look at my legs’#which is a thing I tend to avoid especially online because I usually dislike comments on my legs#except the time my sister said my thighs look like she doesn’t want me to kick her#which was a weird but delightful compliment#got sidetracked. embroidery is done!!!
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Darcy's role in P&P would work for me anyway, but tbh it works for me 10x better because he halfway reverts back to form towards the end of the book.
#so many takes on darcy seem to think his presentation of himself at pemberley is a permanent radical transformation of his personality#and the end point of his character arc#and it's explicitly not a static end point in that way#his inwards change is real but how much that translates into outwards presentation depends on the context#like late-novel darcy trying to compliment mrs bennet and doing it in a way that reads as icy and brusque is just peak darcy#the difference isn't that he's become personable in this social context; he's not! but he's doing his best now#and this being an ongoing struggle at which he sometimes comically fails is so much more austen#than the total transformation into a perfect dreamboat narrative#but yeah i love that austen goes out of her way at the end to yank him out of his fulfillment enclosures and underscores his foibles#anghraine babbles#austen blogging#austen fanwank#lady anne blogging#fitzwilliam darcy
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NCIS HAWAII | 2.19
#ncis hawaii#ncis hawai'i#kate whistler#lucy tara#Commander chase#tori anderson#yasmine al bustami#seana kofoed#mine#mine: ncis hawaii#we all remember the big scenes#but rewatching i find these little ones#the way they look at each other in gifs 3 and 5#Kate's little blinking thing she does when someone's being nice cause she can't take a compliment#cc being amazing and truthful#i love it#also how not good I'm feeling#i spelled sincerity as scenserity#and really it didn't click until i was about to hit publish and had closed all my gifs
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⟢ Flouan 𓃉 Flow-/i/n .
A flag for one who is forever changing & flowing with time 〜 This could be tied directly to one's identity or soul, or to their gender (although it's not intended as such)
This may have ties within anglicism (feeling as though a stable identity is unnecessary due to being an angel) or water / wind symbolism!
— For @coinfight 2024 . Revenge (chain) attack on @crazy-iwascrazyonce1 !! 9 total points .
[Plain text start. Flouan. Flow-/i/n. A flag for one who is forever changing and flowing with time~ This could be tied directly to one's identity or soul, or to their gender (although it's not intended as such). This may have ties within anglicism (feeling as though a stable identity is unnecessary due to being an angel) or water/wind symbolism! For coinfight 2024. Revenge (chain) attack on crazy-iwascrazyonce1! Nine total points .Plain text end]
#for some reason i associate you with like#niche and esoteric concepts and stuff#/compliment? depending on how you take it?#⟡ Jutros je dan ︵#coinfight2024#coinfight#liom community#liom safe#liom term#liom#liom coining#liom flag#liom label#liomogai#mogai blog#mogai coining
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Something something cerebrocrustacean headcanons, yada yada Dr Psychobos is not immune to the in-group bias
He's doing the one thing Azmuth did not do, viewing Malware as a son with special needs Dr Psychobos is fully willing to support :P
#dr psychobos#malware#malware ben 10#ben 10#fanart#first time drawing either potentially last :P beep can't say whether that's true or not#between responding to the original ask and completing this i remembered that khyber had that one dream of being praised by the tennysons#so i think not only does dr psychobos welcome in a troubled child (who's probably so unused to affection he takes it like a cat to water)#but would also be complimenting khyber's work and the 'greatest huntsman in the galaxy' gets to have appreciation#and being a such a 'tough guy' probably has to hide how much he really likes being recognised for his work#either way- dr psychobos in-group headcanons may not make everyone morally better- but damn this villain can family#or whatever a desperate cerebrocrustacean forming an in-group on the smallest of similarities and the people he drags into it CAN be called
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Tang in dresses I think he'd like :3c
#Self indulgent post tbh dresses are so fun to draw and he looks good in them#He looks good in anything long and flowy tbh#Dresses chosen partially because I like them and partially because I think he'd be comfy in them too#I say dresses but it's kind of skirts too actually woops#They're all pretty casual I think? I don't know how formal wear works 💀#Gender is a myth that I refuse to adhere to let him wear dresses Lego!!!#One of his friends compliments him on a dress one day and he says smth along the lines of “yeah I know I slay” with-#complete confidence and everyone in the room takes mental damage#he may be pretty but he is still cringefail#lego monkie kid#monkie kid#lmk#lmk tang#monkie kid tang#zaacoy art💫
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The first time Red came over to the Charming’s home:
Chloe, entering the living room with tear stains on her shirt looking slightly angry: Anyone want to tell me why I found Red in the hall crying?
Ella, Charming, and Chad looking nervous: . . .
Chloe, agitated, scaring everyone: Well? Anyone have any explanations for me?
Charming: Well.. your mother complimented Red on-
Chloe, mood immediately switching to calm: That’d would explain it! Oh, my Red just overwhelmed- [Turns around and leaves the room continuing to talk to herself about how it all makes sense now, going back to find Red again]
Ella, Charming, and Chad: . . .
Chad: Well that was unusual-
Ella: Is it just me or was your sister sort of scaring me moments ago Chad? She looked upset.
Charming full well understanding what’s going on here, knowing Chloe inherited a Charming family trait: I think she was just being rather protective over her “friend”.
Ella and Chad, not understanding what this trait is as they don’t have it: ????
#glassheart#an angry chloe charming is not a force to be reckoned with#especially when she’s angry cause someone upset red#red just doesn’t know how to take a compliment so usually she just snaps at you or cries#don’t worry though chloe will shower red in compliments until she fixes that#charming family members who inherit the trait are like insanely protective over their partners that it’s terrifying#redcharming#charminghearts#chloe x red#red x chloe#chloe charming x red of hearts#chloe charming x red#chloe charming#red of hearts#red of wonderland#rise of red#descendants rise of red
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oh when there's no future, how can there be sin?
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john constantine, you royal pain in the arse. had no right to take me this bloody long, and to turn out like this-
if anyone asks, this is a post of shame
i'll repost him again in the future with improvements just right now this is the best it's getting.
#john constantine#dc constantine#dc fanart#dc comics#hellblazer#dc black label#dc vertigo#how do i tag him helppp#fanart#john constantine hellblazer#john constantine fanart#i saw one matt ryan photo plus the royal portrait and fixated hard#i have damnation's flame and good lord#where do i find more of these comics they're good#hellblazer fanart#dc comics fanart#matt ryan is very amusing to draw aaaaaa#thank you to the one person in the discord server who said he looked like doctor who i shall take that as a compliment i think
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RealAgeAU Drabble - Honesty
I am back! Mostly because I got time and I feel like it.
Am I going through the ideas I have for prompts/drabbles quickly? Yes. Very. The idea pile is getting low but I don't feel like pacing them out. What is the fun in that?
Anyway. Lets continue where we left off... shall we? @spotaus as promised your daily tag!
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We going! And we are still with Cross <3
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Cross watches from their nest as Dust just remains rolled up around Nightmare. Still not moving or talking at all. Nightmare himself doesn't seem bothered as he clearly is unwilling to let go of Dust either.
Cross remains where he is now. Watching over the two as Killer finishes up with the police people and Horror stalks around their area. Making sure it is still clean.
Cross feels the exhaustion creep back up but he refuses to rest. He isn't going to rest! Not as long as his mates and their child-
Cross feels himself blush as he shakes his skull. Trying to ban the thought. Focus! No need for useless and wishful daydreaming. It is especially not the time to think about those things now!
Horror enters the house before Killer and joins them. He looks at him and Cross makes sure to smile back. Horror is already stressed himself. No need to add to it. Cross has no doubt that Horror is also exhausted after all that happened.
Horror gives his nice and handsome half smile before sitting with Dust, he doesn't touch right away "Bunny??"
Dust doesn't speak but Cross can see him turn his skull a tiny bit.
Horror must have seen it too "Can I see Nightmare?" Horror's hand is slightly shaking. clearly worried.
Dust remains still but nods as he forces himself to turn. Moving so slow and careful.
Cross had once asked Dust what it felt like. To have so much power and magic. Dust had shrugged and said that it sometimes made it hard to control how he moved or how he used his magic.
Cross wonders if the slow movements and slow turns is now Dust's magic being overactive to try and protect Nightmare... or it are his parental instincts... Maybe even both? Cross still can't get over that Dust just controls it. Now with the lightning too! It is so powerful and wild and Dust just sits down and breaths through it... Cross is still unsure how anyone in the multiverse could messure up to that! Cross still remembers how it had felt to really see Dust use his magic and powers for the first time. all that time ago... Cross knows form that moment that this was going to cause issues for him as he still remembers it and could not stop thinking about it. And now he just got more powerful?! With the same calm control even if it no doubt only got harder to control? Cross is in trouble... such deep trouble.
Cross focusses on Horror and that may have been a mistake on its own. Horror smiles so painfully soft at Dust and Nightmare nad Cross feels his soul do that little flip again. Horror's devotion and care is so obvious. It is open and honest and Cross always feels unsure if it is aimed at him. Worried he will do something that makes it so painfully obvious of what he wants. Cross doesn't want that. He can't deal with them not wanting him like he wants them. Them not loving him like he does them.
He is content like this. Seeing them together and happy and safe.
Horror has managed to get Dust to uncurl again and accept being moved back into his arms. Horror seems to be gently checking Nightmar enad his magic.
He huffs unhappily "His magic is unsettled."
Cross feels deep fear as he leans closer. "What does that mean?" Was he too slow after all?! He should have been faster and just broken him out and-
Horror looks at him and reaches for him. a moment later his hand is on his shoulder and Cross can't help but lean into the touch a bit. His shoudlers relax a little bit as Horror rubs and massages the shoulder slightly.
Hroror speaks calmly "Calm down. I think... probably trauma and fear response. Just means his magic and mana is all concentrated around his soul. a protection kinda... Just means his magic needs to settle first before he can eat again." again Horror looks deeply unhappy.
Cross feels intense relieve before feeling like scum. Horror is terrified of food shortage and someone going hungry... This must be terrible to Horror to know Nightmare can't have any food for a while.
Cross searches for the right words "euh... how long... does it usually take... and can't we give him small things? maybe just something to drink? A smoothie could maybe work?"
Horror sighs as he gently rubs Nightmare's side and belly as Dust holds their tiny babybones close again. muttering soft reassurances again. Horror looks at him and thinks. Cross feels a bit bad for asking exact numbers. Horror said numbers often leave him confused after what happened.
Horror manages to push through though, he always does... it is one of those things that is amazing about him, and Horror answers his question "usual? Day... two max... and for the food it is a hard no. It can upset his magic and his magic will start expelling anything not the same. meaning he would just... lose more magic as he vomits it up." a sad but resigned look.
Cross frowns and nods "not even soup? that is liquid adn stuff..."
Horror shakes his skull "Still too heavy and sitll not like his own body and his own magic."
Cross frowns and tries to give him a reassuring smile "Well... We will just need to keep some fruits and yogurt ready. For when his magic settles a bit." Horror usually gives Nightmare that when Nightmare's magic can't absorb a lot of food.
Horror considers it before nodding his own agreement.
Cross takes a moment to lean back and relax. just a moment. Just because he can enjoy the sight of Horror having Dust in his lap and Nightmare comfortable and safe in their combined arms. It is nice. Cross loves seeing these moments. Being part of them is just as amazing!
The door opens and Cross turns quickly and waits. the sound of a lock turning and moments later Killer walks into the room. looking slightly done but he gives them a thumbs up "We should be good. Gave them the rundown and talked them into the right direction."
Horror nods as he gives his own small rundown on Nightmare's health.
Dust sighs and mutters "Talking about health... He needs a bath..." Nightmare nods but doesn't pull away from the hug.
Cross smiles and nods "Good idea! YOu can take Nightmare and get him comfortable and I will guard you guys as Killer and Horror get ready for bed too!" then after all of them are comfortable Cross will quickly get ready for bed and join them and just get to enjoy feeling them all near.
Killer steps in "Actually. Horror you mind helping Dust with Nighty?" Horror already shakes his shoulder as he gets up. Taking both Dust and Nightmare towards the bathroom.
Cross frowns and turns to Killer.
Oh. He is mad.
Furious even.
Killer glares but still has that smile on his face "We need to talk." and he grabs his hand and pulls him along. Cross doesnt'fight it as they end up in their green house.
It is gorgeous in here. Especially at night as the moon light shines in through the glass panes and reflects of everything in here. These plants are already full grown and some are starting to bare fruit again. All the plants in here are magical in nature to help them get food that they actually need in their diet.
Killer glares at him full force and Cross can't help but think he fits in perfectly. He is just as pretty if not even more.
Damnit Cross. Skull in the game. Not the moment.
Killer glares at him and hisses "Waht were you thinking?"
Cross glares back "I was getting Nightmare out and to safety. Sorry I wasn't sneaky enough or caused issues with the police!"
Killer groans as he rubs his face "I don't give a flying fuck about the police Cross! You think I care? No! I will fly through my teeth and think of a solution. I can deal with that! YOu know what I can't deal with? You going to fight a threat on your own! Alone! One we don't know!"
Cross glares "There was no other option."
Killer glares back "There was! We could have moved as a team Cross!"
Cross throws up his arms "Not fast enough! And I was fine! THose assholes didn't even come close to hurting me!"
Killer groans and grabs him by the skull and pulls him down to glare at him fully "How can I get it through to you that you stop treating yourself as expandable?!"
Cross stops and mtuters "what?"
Killer glares at him "of course we were going to go after him as soon as we could! Of course we were going to cause trouble! Of course we were going to hurt those who did it and make sure they never did it again! We all would have! But you! You going out on your own and going to confront a threat on your own?! One we don't even know? Damnit Cross it could have been someone form the multiverse! Someone who COULD actually hurt us!" He glares at him "When are you finally going to believe we don't want you to get hurt either?!"
Cross can't think. It has been such a long day and he was so afraid of having done stuff wrong or be too slow or made a mistake... and the only thing he did wrong was... get himself in danger? to not take backup? Cross blinks "what..?" he is so tired and Killer is there.
Killer's anger seems to disappear as he just looks desperate "Why do you still think we don't want to help you? Why do you still think your hurt matters less than ours?"
Cross can't answer. because answering means... means... They are everything to him. They are the world and Cross just wants them to be happy... Is that so bad?
Killer frowns as he removes one of his hands from his skull and Cross wants it back. then the hand rubs under his sockets and oh... he is crying. damnit. Cross hates the fact he cries quickly.
Killer frowns and speaks softer "Hey... I get it... emotions ran high and all that stuff... I.... I am mad but just becuase you could have been hurt... you know?" Killer looks to the side.
Cross nods as he watching Killer. It is just still so rare for Cross to see Killer as anything but confident or smug... Killer looks almost awkward like this... it is cute.
Killer sighs but gives agrin "We are on the same page now? No needly sacrificing! Even no needed sacrificing!"
Cross mutters a yes. too afraid that moving will remove the hands holding his skull.
Killer grins widely "good! Then we can go to the others and I will remind you of this conversation if you start slipping again and-"
They are kissing.
Cross isn't even sure how this happened. But Cross is 99% sure it is his fault.
Cross opens his sockets and sees Killer just staring at him. Frozen. Cross pulls back right away "I shouldn't have done that..." shit. shit shit shit shit shit-
Killer's hands got a lot tighter and he pulls him close and.... they are kissing again.
How does this keep happening?!
Killer pulls away and grins "there! Now we both did it! problem solved!" he looks so nervous.
Cross blinks and can't help but mutter again "Really shouldn't have done that..." he is a fucking idiot and selfish and-
Killer's hold gets almost painfully tight "why not?" it isn't a shout. Not even normal volume. it sounds quiet and... sad... Killer then snorts and winks "Not interested after all?" Cross would have beleived him if he couldn't still see the very light grey eye lights in his normally dark sockets.
Cross shakes his skull then nods then groans "it isn't... it isn't that.. I lo-like! Like you a lot! And I like this! But. It is unfair because i don't just love you! I love Dust... I love horror. It is unfair to start something when... when part of me isn't in it! Isn't all here for it and... and... I am sorry... I really shouldn't have and... and..." and they are kissing again. fuck this keeps happening and Cross just wants more each time.
Killer pulls away with a grin "Well... first... that solves the issue as I also very much want to date both Horror and Dust. So i am sure we can figure something out!"
Cross blinks "You cna just do that? Date multiple people?"
killer stares at him for a moment "Right... I keep forgetting that you were stuck in a universe that was pretty much a cult."
Cross glares at Killer "Stop calling XTale a cult."
Killer raises a brow "Fine. Just because we got more important stuff to talk about... Yes you can dat emultiple people as long as everyone connected to this dating situation is okay with it. it means you are in a polyamory relationship." he grins "probably makes you poly too! That you want a relationship with multiple people and stuff."
Cross blinks and shrugs "i dunno about that... I found many people attractive but well... I only ever really wanted to be with you three..." he feels hismelf blush and looks tot he side.
Killer laughs adn gives him a soft and short kiss on the teeth before backing off. He gives him a grin and nods to the door "We should get back to the others..."
Cross rubs his arm as he glances at the door "Waht about... this?" us? Them? all of them? together? Cross hadn't known that was an option! This is like the perfect solution!
Killer laughs before grinning "We will have to see if they are interested... But first we need a moment to wind down... it has been one fucking hellish day and I jsut want to hug our baby and sleep."
Cross feels the exhaustion all over again and he sighs "I agree..."
They walk out of the greenhouse together and get dressed for bed quickly. Cross does sneak a few glances at Killer. No longer feeling bad for sneaking looks and admiring one of them now. Now that it is okay. At least wiht Killer.
They will have to dicuss with Horror and Dust what this means for them and what is even possible and what everyone is comfortable with.
But first? Time to sleep with their child and relax. They need it... and Cross thinks they deserved it too.
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#utmv#realageau#nightmare sans#deaged nightmare#killer sans#cross sans#dust sans#horror sans#We had it!! The poly is starting to take shape!#bad sans poly#Look. This drabble was all about the talk between killer nad cross but then cross just decided it was time to compliment the others and#how am i suposed to say no to that boy? He deserves to gaze at them wishfully and feel things and want!#And good news! Cross got confirmation that Killer is into it!#They will have to discuss it with Horror and Dust but I don't think it will go badly ;)#euh... I think i wanted to say more but i forgot. woops#I hope you guys enjoyed Cross being in love and very bad at it lmao
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#House of Ashes#Jason Kolchek#Rachel King#my gifsets#I was so !! when I first saw this#from Jason's personality I didn't think he'd know how to apologize#but he makes it clear it's an apology#takes responsibility for his part in what happened#promises to be better in the future#and then tops it off with a sincere compliment
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“MBOBHFT sounds like it’d be on 1989” “High Infidelity sounds like it’d be on evermore” well How Did It End? sounds like it’d be on this:
#(highest compliment)#taylor swift#the tortured poets department#how did it end?#the eras tour#tays takes
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