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dawnthefluffyduck · 2 months

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Took me a while to figure out what I wanted to see you draw, but I think I got it now:

Would you be able to draw a character of your choice being "bear"-hugged by a Hildebear (haha see what I did there)? I feel like it might be excellent for comedy purposes, and I know how much you adore them :P

Thank you in advance :3

See, now you're starting to see why they're so cool, their arms were made for bear hugs :3 (surely your character would be inclined to agree, right? /s)

(but also, it would be a crime to miss an opportunity to draw Ralsei)

Thank you for the request! I feel closer to the Hildebears already :D

#i'm sure your FOmar would adore these cuddly friends /s #this weekend i learned traumatizing others' ocs is fun #i did not mean to spend as long as i did on the first one but i was having fun #pso is a bit anime-y (esp the concept art) so i've been trying to match that #i kinda(?) borrow elements of anime/manga in my non-realistic art but i almost never draw it directly so this was new #that's why this one took so long; i spent a lot of time experimenting with the tones/hatching/effects #i still shaded it like i do any other drawing though so it's kind of my normal work with a little bit extra plopped on top #idk how well it worked but i tried haha #the second took me like ten minutes lmao #that's all of them so far so i'll leave the requests open a little longer than last time :D #will be closing them thursday night though!#requests #ralsei #deltarune #FOmar #hildebear #phantasy star online

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angryducktimemachine · 2 months

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[ID: a pencil sketch of Maurice, the artists OC. He's a mousefolk with an anchor tattoo on his shoulder. He's sitting with his knees drawn up to his chest looking distressed. /End ID]

#how I've felt last week #turns out!!! recovering your social and emotional battery doesn't work when you spend two weekends sick!! what the fuck!!#maurice #brain blorbo #my beautiful son with a mechanical anxiety disorder

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grandwretch · 1 year

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hunter Steve and vampire Eddie who somehow end up in join custody of a werewolf pack bc Hopper got made into a wolf last week when he was trying to help the orphaned witch he found on the side of the road and no one knows how he fell into a pack bond with four shithead kids least of all him

#shut up az #imagining Lucas and Dustin going home and their parents being so confused and slightly horrified #is so funny to me #also Steve and Eddie trying to teach this 45 yo man how to be a werewolf when neither of them are wolves themselves #Max Will Dustin and Lucas causing problems on purpose and Steve being like wtf Eddie it's your weekend to watch the kids #Eddie is like of course they're acting out you don't spend any time with us as a family :(#anyway he doesn't know Steve is crazy about him so he flirts to upset him and Steve is dying bc he wants to kiss so bad #Robin is trying to kill Eddie with her brain #until they become besties and Steve is like NO PUT IT BACK

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thelastsaiyanprincess · 3 months

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the anger is now turning into resentment

#vent post #i just keep thinking about the many ways in which my family has shown little care for me #like when i had a fucking fever of over 100° and they still guilt tripped me into taking my 90 yr old grandma to the airport #im hauling all of her shit thru ATL while fighting for my fucking life because she just HAD to go to new york #how they expect me to spend 8 hrs with them every weekend and sacrifice my sundays to sit around and watch shit on TV #how they KNOW im mentally ill and need sleep but always got sumn to say when i wanna sleep in on MY days off #my dad letting this dog bite me and then expecting me to still go in the house was the fucking last straw #im fucking done. im so over these people.#theyre on their own #im not gonna be the one sacrificing my mental health and wellbeing for people who clearly dont give a fuck about me #i am breaking the eldest daughter curse #figure it out sweetie!!!! life is about to get real hard for yall now that your pack mule isnt gonna work no mo!!!!!!#No Contact is starting a lot like Peace Of Mind

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rosylamb · 5 months

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Hm .. trying to decide what I should use for my bath tonight!

Milk and honey or roses and vanilla bean? 🤍

(I know it’s a small thing, but the right scent is very important to me ok !! )

And *also* more importantly .. what should I read ?? My new book or finish the one I’m currently reading ?? 🤍

I’m so indecisive !! It is my greatest failing !!

I should probably just hurry up and finish the book I’m currently reading so I can put a review up here already (as I’ve been saying I will for a month now eep ; ;)

🤍 ⊹ 🧸 . ˚ 🧁 . ˚ ⊹ 🤍

🤍 ⊹ 🍯 ˚ . 🎀 ⊹ ˚ 🤍

#♡#i cannot decide anything to save my life XD #that’s ok God gave me other gifts and skills at least hehe c:#what about you my friends ??#how are you spending your day or night ??#have you had a fun weekend ??#i am praying so !! c:#sending much love and many hugs to all my sweet friends as always ! ♡#please take care and stay safe !!#i wish you all the very very best today ~ !! c:#xo ! ♡#🤍 ⊹ 🧸 . ˚ 🧁 . ˚ ⊹ ♡

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seiwas · 5 months

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tgif & happy weekend everyone!!!!! 💪💖

#i have risen like the weekend and am feeling much much better !!!!!!#thank you all for the well wishes!!!!#how are all of you spending your weekends?#will just get a few more work done and then hopefully get some writing in !!!!!#my whole weekend is free 😌😌😌

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compacflt · 1 year

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tweet from a year ago :) <3

#thanks everyone for a wild year!#when i think about how the 65k first draft of wwgattai was written in exactly 14 days all the plot issues make a lot more sense #right i was minmaxing/speedrunning storytelling okay i had to cut some corners #DEBRIEFING WAS WRITTEN IN THREE FUCKING DAYS #all my friends got covid over Labor Day weekend so i locked myself in my dorm and wrote all 35k words of debriefing in 72 hours #🤷🏽‍♀️#praying i will someday be that motivated to uhhh… find a job or smth #But really thank you guys for such a great/crazy year and all of your support #❤️❤️❤️#can’t come up with words for how much i have loved being here over the last year #such a wonderful experience #i am very strangely obsessed with anniversaries etc so if i spend the next couple weeks gushing i apologize

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tjerra14 · 15 hours

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sometimes I really wish there was a mandatory emotional support and grief counselling training course at uni the way that "pour distilled coffee over some sugary pills and prescibe those to a fictional cow" galenics session was mandatory

#idk. might help with the rampant mental health problems that have been known to be an issue among vets for years #but for some reason still have to be studied first before anything substantial can be done about it #of course this isn't the only factor leading to the scale of the problem.#but telling your students “oh yeah. you will be doing that btw” does not prepare you for #spending minutes and sometimes even hours with people who are about to lose their beloved pet #and guiding them through the process #or unload their entire trauma on you while you're just trying to treat their pet #the pets and the diseases and the figuring out what's wrong and how to make it better is the easy part honestly #at least i know what i'm doing there and if i don't i'll just ask a colleague or look it up #but people? people are hard.#and i suppose from their reactions i do reasonably well but more often than not i feel way out of my depth #always glad to have a coworker with me so i'm not alone #but it's still incredibly draining #and sometimes the weekends are barely enough to recharge #very glad to have two weeks off very soon #okay rant over i just needed to get this off my chest #gonna go and see if my bread has cooled enough to no longer be an injury risk now #vet med

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loumauve · 10 days

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I snapped today at work, and by snapped I mean I politely commented on a help desk ticket by summing up an mess of an (type of) issue that's come up for at least the fourth time in the 2+ months I've been managing user accounts, and asked the person responsible to fix it (himself for once) because last time I fixed his mess-up it took me two whole days to work out the details with at least four other colleagues from different departments and I really don't want to do it again. there's other shit that needs doing, I've been working 10+ hour days for most of this week already, so I need to cut down not add on more.

(good thing tho - at least we managed to fix the issue where the dataset of a newer employee got mixed up with another one of the same name and therefore wasn't able to apply for any of the access/accounts she needed. technically not entirely my area but it does impact us not being allowed to create an account for her so I figured I might as well track that issue down. took three days and at least three other people, but hey - it should all work out now. yay for that)

#been feeling anxious af ever since bc it's the first time I've been this firm in a reply and idk how they'll take it #there's underlying issues in inter-departmental communication that need fixing that cause these issues to happen again and again #but my boss is on parental leave and his substitute is sick not that she cares or is up for doing her job where communication is concerned #so there's no real sense in addressing that rn esp by me who's only been there since June. but it does frustrate me a lot #anyway. I'm sure I'll get over this too. but yeah.. ppl not thinking things through for the two mins it takes to create an account #or the twenty seconds it takes to check if one already exists before creating a new one #or the minute it takes to check if folks still have an active contract past their time working in your department before deleting an accoun #just jfc. put in a smidge of effort and five mins total and save the rest of us from spending half a day to fix your mistake #oh well. if I get a pissy response I'll just blame it on being new as an intern and being too motivated and idealistic I guess #god forbid I expect people to do their jobs thoroughly or with at least a singular thought..#anyway. I feel like I'm allowed to be grumpy abt this since we are the folks who end up having to fix this shit #and by we I mean pretty much mostly me at this point bc one colleague is sick atm. my boss barely has time for this and is on leave #and my other colleague only works half time so I'm the one who's been handling most of these over the past month or so #which.. is still insane considering how I'm a goddamn intern who shouldn't even have admin rights tbh #but without them I couldn't do anything at all lol so here I am. nice that they trust and believe in me I suppose #that's why I try to do my best. (who am I kidding that's always the case anyway)#but yeah. definitely a 50% staff support job and only 50% of the other important things that need doing rn it's more like 90/10 #and it's funny how I still dread my two hours of hotline. but every time the line is too busy I still jump in #we are also only 6 people atm out of 10 and three of us are still in training. and one of the trained folks had to come back in mid time of #next week we'll likely be 4 #depending on if our substitute boss lady is back.. not that I'd look forward to it. she's a mess and she's been horrible to deal with latel #sure. she's stressed. but she's either snapping at me when I ask abt shit I can't know yet or she's ignoring me. great basis for team work.#so honestly I'd rather she not return on Monday. esp not if she's gonna spread her germs everywhere #but now sleep. sorry for the rant. it's certainly been quite the month since I returned from my own wisdom tooth rated sick leave..#gotta be up again in 6.5 hrs so I can be at work at 6 to let the electrician in. I'm gonna sleep so hard over the weekend I stg #a day in the life of..

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anaalnathrakhs · 3 months

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i know it's not like i'm the most affected by the situation, but i wish idk i wish that i didn't have to direct my whole behavior to be my mom's emotional support dog so she can feel she's a good project manager and at least someone understands her side and listens to her good advice. which admittedly my uncle is being particularly difficult in this whole situation, bc it's always complicated, but also christ maybe it was your mom but it was also my grandma. one day you tell me "what you two had was really special" and the next you don't even let me have a moment alone with her. like god. you saw her yesterday. you could've left me a minute with her or something. you could've refrained from putting your gross ass arm around my shoulders like why do you absolutely cannot resist ruining every important moment in my life? i want to be as helpful as possible for her in this very difficult time, but NOT EVEN FIVE MINUTES. not even five minutes could she stand letting me handle how I want to grieve MY own grandmother.

#it just feels like i'll never have closure #like i'll never get to say goodbye #and i can't say anything because i'm not going to tell anyone how to greive their mother #and if she needs me there then i'll be there it's. whatever.#but god #tomorrow and sunday: weekend. have to spend it with my parents.#monday: school. maybe i can try to visit the funerarium with the bus if i have time but. i don't know. it's so scary.#i'll have to squeeze a visit between school and the time i need to be home and i just wish i didn't have this fucking dreadful perspective #and this equally dreadful memory #hanging over every second i could spend there #tuesday: burial. we'll see her before they close the casket but there'll be lots of people it's just. gross.#i mean i'll go but it's not the same #it's nothing like what it should've been #i feel awful #you can't even let me have one last good memory of her #a peaceful time instead of having to take a wild guess about what you need this second and managing your emotions #she expects a certain behavior from me and i don't even fucking know what it is #i mean yeah it means i should be like i was when i was six and my grandpa died #i should cry and scream and be a crisis situation to manage and cry about together #sorry i haven't molded myself to be exactly what you need #broadcasting my misery #vent

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chiara-klara-claire · 8 months

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6.2.24 🎉🫥

#I brought cake to work because I gues you have to #colleague asked me what are you going to do tonight #I said not much I think #another done said jeez you’re 26 and not doing anything #and I answered oh yeah that’s for the weekend which is true but still #I’m just so down I don’t even have the energies to pretend it’s fine #I was about to cry #I think I’ll spend the day eating and crying #it’s really great how it only gets worse with time #they say at some point things get only get better but truth is it can always get worse #yesterday tho I almost lost my phone by leaving it at the zelfkassa at the Albert Heijn. thank god I realised it run back & it was t #nothing really make sense and I’m tired of sending cvs #there’s nothing I like and I have to pretend I like everything and everything is cool #i replied in a very dry way to my family wishes bc of how bad I’ve been feeling #I’ll probably eventually just throw something on ig and have 2 people say hbd #it’s all about suffering #this weekend I’ll go to Sweden if things go according to plan and will probably feel like crying most of the time there too #by myself in some hostel bc my friends are too busy for me #there’s always some god eating your heart out right #I think I’ll spend a good amount of time blinding myself with tears #I can’t wait to go to the psychologist

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granitxhka · 3 months

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I've missed you guys<3

#every year I am so surprised at how much the structure of my life actually depends on regularly scheduled match days #my mother issues are at a new high! I am so sad all the time! but a girl in my class smiled at me today which<3 #also why does being incredibly sad make you want to go broke. I can't stop spending money and it'll be on like pens and sticky notes #anyways I miss hanging out with you guys and reading your funny little posts and life updates every weekend<3 I hope things are going well<

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polyamorouspunk · 4 months

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What is it about me that makes girls who cut me out of their lives like my posts on Instagram

#girl YOU kicked me out of YOUR life #get out of MY notifications #plot twist: living your best life in hopes the people who have spurned you see it and see what they’re missing #and then they end up liking it #up until now I was doing it in case my ex ever checked up on me #but this weekend I’ve been doing it b/c someone else I (used to) talk to on IG #like oh hey how’s it going look how much fun I’m having not spending time with you since you don’t wanna hang <3 #anywaaaays

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toastsnaffler · 4 months

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ykw actually I am angry + disappointed w them. I've been pushing how I feel aside and trying to make it my own fault so it's all contained but I think theyve just been mean. and they really should know me better ik I try to pretend I don't expect more from them so I feel less hurt when they do things that upset me but we've been friends for years by this point. like come on.

#just got home and went to put my shit away but my flatmate was in the kitchen and i got suddenly so mad i had to walk back out #not going to do or say anything while im this upset. i need to be a lot calmer before i can even be in the same room as her #like okay. so originally it was just the two of them getting drinks and theyd rather it was just them bc i dont drink. thats cool #it wouldve been difficult for me to join them after work bc travel. and ik theyd done this before just the 2 of them and had fun #i can fully respect that its why i said no and stuck by that decision when she asked again #but to not mention she was taking the day off work and btw i just found out that BOTH of our other old flatmates joined in too #to not mention that they were travelling that entire distance and that it wasnt just drinks it was a whole day out together #thats just mean. why wouldnt you tell me that why did none of them say anything.#and the fact they did the exact same fucking thing last weekend too i didnt know about that at all #like i need to stop trying to justify it. im allowed to feel unwanted and excluded bc thats exactly what theyre doing.#im tired of feeling like other people dont want me around. i know i can be difficult and annoying sometimes. but im really not that bad #and we're meant to be friends!!!!!! like youre supposed to like your friends. and want to spend time with them. or at least i do #and yeah everyones annoying sometimes thats just part of being alive ur supposed to tolerate it if ur friends #im allowed to want to feel like im wanted. im allowed to want ppl to care abt me. that shouldnt be too much to ask for #but the overwhelming message im getting at the moment is they dont want me around. and when i am around them i feel like they dont listen #to me and that they dont really care how i feel unless it directly involves them or theyre responsible for it #i feel like they dont see me as a real person that exists. only a version they have in their heads and they base all their assumptions and #decisions off that version instead of directly communicating with me. and constantly avoid me under the guise of 'giving me space'#when im upset or having a difficult time and most need support from other people. i just feel really unseen #and ik that part of how i feel IS exacerbated by insecurity and depression. like they do care to some degree #but also a lot of it is evidenced in the way they act towards me. mainly my roommate bc shes the person i interact with most #and personally i find the most direct ways of showing u care abt someone are showing up for them. and making them feel seen #and maybe not everyone feels the same way. but thats how it works for me anyway #so to repeatedly exclude me and avoid acknowledging that ive been having a difficult time is the opposite of that to me #which is the point im trying to arrive at... sorry ik ive probably said similar things repeatedly the last few weeks but i feel like its #crystallising a bit like this is the core reason why im so sensitive and reactive atm and why i got so upset by it #idk. not tonight bc im still very emotionally raw but maybe tomorrow if im calmer i should explain that i was upset + why to her #i avoid doing that so often when im upset bc i dont think theres much point in having a conversation abt it unless u expect some kind of #resolution from it. or if you want an apology but idrc abt being apologised to the crucial thing is what theyre going to do different #and i love her but shes very resistant to changing her behaviour bc of other ppl being upset by it. and like i said before she has

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swordsmans · 1 year

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CON CRUNCH IS REAL I THINK IM GONNA JUST START HOT GLUING SHIT TOGETHER TONIGHT FUCK IT WE BALL!!!!!!!

#AAAAAAA #how important is peronas hat REALLY #months of work and i’m still putting shit together t-minus 72 hours before i gotta start loading the car #you know. the usual #me: haha i have plenty of time to get everything done #the last two weeks of july: TWO COWORKERS ON VACATION SO YOU GOTTA WORK 6 EXTRA DOUBLES ON TOP OF UR REGULAR DOUBLES #MULTIPLE SELF -IMPOSED AND ACTUAL IMPORTANT WRITING DEADLINES FOR EVENTS #OH ALSO STILL NOT DONE W/ THE COSPLAY FOR THE CON YOURE DRIVING 500 MILES DOWN THE COUNTRY FOR [[checks calendar]] IN THREE DAYS #AND SURPRISE!!!! YOUR IN-LAWS SHOWED UP TO SPEND THE WEEKEND BC THEY WANTED TO GO TO THE BEACH BUT DIDNT WANT TO GET A HOTEL #me: [[through gritted teeth]] haha i have plenty of time to get everything done #asdflhjhskdfhjls someone send help i need 8 extra hands and 30 more hours in the day. sitting at work going insane rn #i need to stop working 6 days a week. thats definitely not helping the ol' stress levels #i slept for 15 hours yesterday bc sunday is my only day off. which knocked out 15 hours i could have used to get stuff done unfortunately #anyway i’ll post test pics + closeups of my accessories before i hit the road #i’m doing a costume test wednesday night after work #I SWEAR TO GOD IM HAVING FUN ALL OF THIS IS FUN STUFF IT'S LIKE A GOOD STRESS!!!! except im also on fire at the same time #gyro.txt

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jikigo · 4 months

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you ever just see a post and just

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#Worst emoji combo ever but it’s gon be such big depression hours down here so scroll if you want im on the brink of throwing up #don’t you just bloody love it how over the past 3 years you’ve only seen people the large total of…. 4 times!!! An average of seeing someon #outside of school 1.3 times per year!! What a bloody fantastic way to spend your teenage years!#Don’t you also just love it when people talk right to you about how they all went out together over the weekend and like did some stupid #shit like your average high schooler would do and you’re just like “oh. I went to my 1 and a half hour long dance class and got ignored the #entire time and when you did try to talk they just spoke over you” oh my fucking god I hate that place so much even the teacher fucking #ignores me once we were going in a circle and she was asking everyone what they got for Christmas and I was in the middle of the circle so #thought hey maybe someone will actually acknowledge my existence but she fucking ignored me and went to next person like why the fuck #And now I’m debating staying in that shithole bc I was invited to a gc for that class and I stupidly thought that someone might want me #There. I wasn’t even invited I secretly scanned the qr code to join over someone else’s shoulder #everyone else there is the best of bloody friends and I’m just there talking to one friend who I don’t even think is my friend #“Hey man I’m really fucking sad rn can I talk to you” “womp womp have you heard stupid fact no.3848594 about my ocs while I ignore you when #you talk about anything else about me” oh my god shut up literally no one else sane would see someone like that their closest friend rn #At least someone wants to talk to me #Like what is it that makes people not want to see my please just tell me I’ll change I’m amazing at changing my personality to fit others #promise me on that I’ve done it my entire life #Even just messaging me more than once every year and I’d consider you my best friend this is how bad I’m getting #What is so bloody bad about me that no one else likes I don’t care how badly you fucking word it just something #It shouldn’t be normal to wish death on people you call your mates bc you heard about them all going out together without you #Oh dear did the gc’s without me in it there’s one for every friend group I’ve ever been in why isn’t there one for the main group I’m in rn #Idfc anymore just tell me what I’m doing wrong I keep asking people if they want to go out or how far away they live from some place #And it’s always met with ignoring me talking over me or immediately changing the subject #Please if you’re someone I know irl what the fuck am I doing fucking wrong I can’t fucking do this anymore be as mean as you like #Why the fuck does no one ever want to be around me why do I hear so much about stuff others are doing together but never me #It shouldn’t be normal to prefer being in a toxic relationship than what I’m in rn #I fucking hate everything

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