#how do i find irl friends?

[brandileigh2003]

I'm not looking forward to 8 hours in car and then non child proof house with special needs kid who's been having a rough couple of weeks.

With in laws where I flip a coin whether they're going to be assholes or not.

And I'm still sick with a not so fun new... I don't know what to call it. Not necessarily side effect. Or complication. But. It's freaking embarrassing.

(ha! Tumblr goes... You've reached 30 tags. So write in your post. Not in tags. It's not the p.s.s.s.s. that you used to write to your best friend 😂)

[andsewingishalfthebattle]

Novice sewing pattern: Cut out shapes. Line up the little triangles on the edges. Stitch edges together. We've also included step-by-step assembly instructions with illustrations.

Novice knitting pattern: yOU MUSt uNDerstANd thE SECret cOdE CO67 (73, 87, 93) BO44 (63, 76, 90) 28 (32, 34) slip first pw repeat 7x K to end *kl (pl) 42 * until 13" (13, 13, 15) join new at 30 pl for 17 rows ssk 27 k2tog mattress lengthwise BO and sacrifice a goat to the knitting gods. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU WANT "INSTRUCTIONS," I JUST GAVE THEM TO YOU

[demonslayedher]

What do you get for the fangirl who has everything?

A spoon.

[suspensefulpen]

The scariest thing that has happened today is me remembering my friends aren’t into whump and believe it’s kinky 👹

[krash-8]

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[mistyycowoa]

Confessing my sins to the internet because my irl friends don't know my tumblr

I'm actually a horrible friend and I don't plan to change :)

I'll be a good friend to anyone I actually like and I usually don't associate with people who I don't like, but sometimes there will be an occasional lonely (usually annoying) kid that follows me around. (They're lonely for a reason.) I kinda hate people who are loud literally all the time but I can hold my tongue and this kinda person just doesn't leave because they're not being told directly to leave.

What do I do? I talk to them only when I need them, I make unnecessarily mean comments as a joke, I point out their obvious flaws that I know they have a hard time changing, and all while they still follow me around like I'm not kinda bullying them.

Sometimes I'll treat them like an actual friend when I'm in a good mood, but if I'm not, then the unfortunate victim becomes my emotional punching bag. (I have ways to quickly fix my mood and this is completely unnecessary and I could distance myself until I feel better like how I do with actual friends.) I think this is like. Breadcrumbing? Anyways yeah, toxic shit.

If any of your "friends" treat you like this, they don't see you as a friend. If they leave you doubting if they like you or not, leave you doubting if you're actually friends, they probably don't see you as a friend. (because that's the case for me :3 )

I'm a horrible human being and I don't feel nearly as bad as I should about it :)

[mylove-thresher]

I am going to shoot myself in the head

[sufyonstevens]

Anyone also returning to superhell after many years sober and want to do a complete rewatch together (maybe as a lead up to a s16 revival shhh)? I need the emotional support for this and my therapist can only hear so much :((

[glitterrosesnzz]

sometimes i think "ough, does this come off as too horny??" and then i remember this is the kink blog

[wormchaser]

you are complaining about complaining too much while complaining about the fact that maybe people dont like you because you complain too much while complaining about being alone. just stop complaining and do something about it. talk to people. reach out. dont just wait for someone to come to you first.

i have tried reaching out to different people in the past year or so but it never works. i understand its my own fault for letting relationships decay because of my own insecurities and issues but that doesn't mean i can just will myself to think or believe different things about myself. it's a self fulfilling prophecy ; i think people don't like me so i don't reach out so people don't like me etc . i am sure you do not want to hear me list all the things i want to say in response so i will put them in the tags.

[sidesteppostinghours]

pulps law is that whenever i get insane enough about something, i will inevitably attempt to make a persona 5 au, regardless of whether or not i am successful at it.

[katyspersonal]

Every grudge that wasn't resolved is hurting at once like scars reacting to a bad weather no matter how much I try to just get distracted with irl activities or something positive, and I don't have anyone to talk about it because people I trust with it are only available when I need to sleep or am at work. I wonder how much longer I can hold it inside before I erupt like a volcano and severity of my negativity leaves everyone within reach with permanent fear of approaching me with ten yards distance 🤔

[wavesoutbeingtossed]

i just saw the clip in question and like??? what are yall even mad about 😭 im sorry but the only thought i had was “huh good for her 🙂‍↕️” and then “makes sense” cause all we’ve seen tells that exact story WHO’S SURPRISED

literally my reaction:

and like I said in the tags of my previous post, as funny as this all is, he wasn't even being specific. He was just like "sorry I can't relate to being a 50 year old dude who takes his wife for granted and expects things from her without considering her feelings." I don't follow Travis or the Kelces much outside of Taylor so I don't know the history of it all, but that's like, the greenest flag and hopefully bodes well for their future!

I think it was Jaime who said there was a tweet going around that said Taylor and Travis are "corny and horny" and that is 100% accurate from what we can see lol. AND GOOD FOR THEM. She didn't have either of those by the end of her last relationship and it almost killed her.

I don't think people should be exposing their entire sex lives for public consumption, um, unless they feel like it that is, but this is hardly that. It was just a couple of adults sharing some fairly healthy life experiences and maybe trying to open the eyes of some douchebags idk lol. Who'd a thunk open communication and appreciation and consideration of one's partner would be so sexy and scandalous!

I'd even argue maybe Taylor WANTS more people to know that this is how many women would like to be treated by their partners lol.

[sofastuffing]

i have a headache

[some-greatreward]

into music but like in a Nerd way where what i actually wanna do is sit ppl down and ask about their favourite bands & what they think are their magnum opuses & bandlore they know && just. opinions. but somehow i feel like a club or even a concert environment isn't conducive to that tbh so what's left apart from harassing your preexisting friends.

[rhythmic-idealist]

In retrospect I apologize for the lack of a “at least daily for sure” answer