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brandileigh2003 · 6 months ago

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I'm not looking forward to 8 hours in car and then non child proof house with special needs kid who's been having a rough couple of weeks.

With in laws where I flip a coin whether they're going to be assholes or not.

And I'm still sick with a not so fun new... I don't know what to call it. Not necessarily side effect. Or complication. But. It's freaking embarrassing.

(ha! Tumblr goes... You've reached 30 tags. So write in your post. Not in tags. It's not the p.s.s.s.s. that you used to write to your best friend 😂)

#Tumblr diary #sorry im really complainy lately #but i hear tumblr can sometimes just be screaming into the void #and i need it at least in the universe #not bouncing around in my head unsaid #or invalidated #but that's a different story #anyways #I'll survive #I'm buying a lot of chocolate #bc that's the only coping mechanism that is even somewhat healthy #don't know what that says #i wish i could go to my family instead #but then 2/3 kids wouldn't go up #and they're more worried about image if we don't show up #bc they don't really give a fuck if me and k are there otherwise #anyways.#I'm buying chocolate and downloading all the things on my Kindle #my tags are getting stupidly long #ooh i should treat myself to lunch today #how do i find irl friends?#like fr #bc who i knew best here are fucking church ppl #and they've loved me. except it's conditional #and the majority of them voted for fucking Trump #and they are ignorant to the harm it's going to cause my kids #so again. do they really love me #i want to talk to someone so bad #i want a hug #fucking copious usage of the fucking word fuck in these fucking tags

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andsewingishalfthebattle · 1 year ago

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Novice sewing pattern: Cut out shapes. Line up the little triangles on the edges. Stitch edges together. We've also included step-by-step assembly instructions with illustrations.

Novice knitting pattern: yOU MUSt uNDerstANd thE SECret cOdE CO67 (73, 87, 93) BO44 (63, 76, 90) 28 (32, 34) slip first pw repeat 7x K to end *kl (pl) 42 * until 13" (13, 13, 15) join new at 30 pl for 17 rows ssk 27 k2tog mattress lengthwise BO and sacrifice a goat to the knitting gods. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU WANT "INSTRUCTIONS," I JUST GAVE THEM TO YOU

#knitting #no it's not a real pattern but I can't write one that makes sense because I have no freaking clue what any of that means #How do you make things that aren't basic rectangles #Why has every knitter I've asked for help just said 'patterns are easy; you just have to know how to read them' & then refused to teach me #Where do I even find a goat to sacrifice #How do I join the pattern cult #I am so confused #I've been knitting for almost a decade but I can only make scarves and potholders #I learned one (1) stitch by watching a YouTube video and none of my friends or family knit so I have no IRL resources #And nobody I meet seems to want to take the time to explain the rest to me #I taught myself to sew through trial and error but that doesn't really work with knitting because error is pretty much just... Unraveling?#Anyway sorry for the tag rant I'm just frustrated that I see pretty things I want to make but the instructions are in an alien language #And the gap between 'absolute novice' and 'intermediate' seems to be about 20 years of experience and formal instruction

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piko-chan · 2 months ago

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I just wanna meet someone from my city that's a therian / kemonomini / jirai / otherkin / just general freak (pos)

Is that too much to ask for 😭😭😭😭

#But also I don't wanna dox myself publicly 😭😭😭😭#How do you find irl friends no glue no borax #jiraiblr #jiraiblogging #jirai kei #landmineblr #jirai girl #landmineblogging #landmine girl #landmine kei #jirai onna #kemonomimi #therian #otherkin #theriantropy

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quesocheeso · 3 months ago

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How about some Spicynoodles in the ttm!au? Like Red Son pushing himself working on the device and worrying about MK?

Spicynoodles as best friends definitely, spicynoodles as more than that nope😎

But he definitely pushes himself to meet the one day deadline he placed on himself but Mei is there to help him so he's getting snacks and hydrated per her alarms lol she annoys him until he chills for a few mins

#i think ive gotten a few people who have asked for spicynoodles and its funny everytime #did i ever tell you guys that my irl friend didnt see the chemistry in it and i cackle at how popular it is #and hes like nope🤨#and as tribute to him im not doing spicynoodles cause i find the situation so hilarious #im neutral on the ship honestly #but then again im aroace so some stuff just flies over me oopsies

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om340700 · 2 months ago

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i like to think that my mc has huge ass mer dca plushies & belphie takes them every once in a while

#art #obey me belphegor #obey me mc #rambles in the tags....#rmb #me talking about my mc should not be allowed + it makes me want to sit in the corner of shame #i HAD to get them involved. if i can talkabt obey me to the attendants then i gotta do it the other way round #which will be thru mammon and asmo... im sorry... but theyre the friend friends toter has in the devildom LOL #WHICH MEANS they experience the same shit my friends have to which is me crying over the sillies #they got levi (and satan) involved in the making of those plushies. i dont know how and why satan got involved i just know he was #this is like 100% something toter keeps a secret around the purgatory hall gang but solomon finds out and #this is just an excuse to punch solomon sorry #i love him like that #he's funny #also toter's just a TEENSY bit afraid of simeon bc yeah being with an actual angel is. yeah. what the fuck #luke doesnt need to know but also shit i gotta draw him w the daycare attendants now AAAAA #the plushies are as soft and comfy as my cloud plush (which is also what i like to think belphie's pillow is like)#(bc its so fucking SOFT AND COMFY i love hugging it and have brought it to uni at some point)#(we fucking LOVE these types of thingsi fell asleep after my test bc of it)#but ye comfy and big and they have arms = hugs #..........what do you mean i want to have them irl no i dont hahaha #sobs #i dont need another moon dissing me bc of my poor sleep sched #anyway more rambling they are not normal about the daycare attendants and HoL has to deal with it ssssssorry #louder than levi when it comes to these i fear... motherfucker looks at one thing and is just #“ohmyfuckinggod five nights at freddy's security breach daycare and maptime attendant sun and moon?1!2?1”#out of topic but mammon levi toter play mobile legends together and its HORRIBLE #hahahahhahahaahhahaha #mc rambles #must make new tag just in case i look for stuff bc ... i will forget 💔

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demonslayedher · 1 year ago

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What do you get for the fangirl who has everything?

A spoon.

#indeed I did not have a spoon shaped like this #kny merch #agatsuma zenitsu #since almost everyone I know irl forgot my birthday last month I became a demon but a friend who remembered afterward gave this to me #i find it very ironic how Zenitsu has always feared being eaten by a demon #also might I just add that I got a cheap and silly Setsubun headband with oni horns AND I LOOK REALLY GOOD IN THEM #no matter what my hair is doing or what I'm wearing these horns look very cute on me #i work very well as a demon #nom nom nom #time for soup

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suspensefulpen · 7 months ago

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The scariest thing that has happened today is me remembering my friends aren’t into whump and believe it’s kinky 👹

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thatfriendlyanon · 2 months ago

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your friendship is a beam of sunlight in a cold room.

#sighs. i'm ready for today to be over but i don't have anytihng to look forward to tomorrow. so.#i was going to try to find a church but that doesn't seem like it'll be happening but maybe i can do home-church again with art journaling #but just. i'm. really lonely #today i felt Fine i felt Good! like i genuinely felt Emotionally Normal which was so NICe; really this whole week i've been doing Well #i've felt Normal! which i never ever take for granted <3 but despite Feeling Fine today i just.. burst into tears? randomly??? throughout #the day???#and it took me half the day to realize i think it's cause i'm lonely. which. there's not much i can *do* about that right now #and i called a best friend and we did parallel play art time in silence and that was so so nice #and i talked to my brother on the phone and i played minecraft and i did an art project #and everything has been very lovely and i AM really grateful for all the gifts i've been given for this season #but that doesn't negate the fact that it's been nearly a month since i last received a hug #and that just weighs on you sometimes yknow. and it's not like i'm not trying #but i'm also just Sad. and friends are so wonderful but also they're still all behind screens. i need irl community which is why i need to #find a church which is why i need to finish learning how to drive. sighs.#journal moodboards #3.15.25 #elle moodboards

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krash-8 · 11 months ago

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#i just think they’d play together a lot when they were little #ok listen #think they’d be more like big brother little brother at this age #but like #fanon kaito has always been less mature than most characters his age #so when he’s younger i imagine he’d find himself with friends younger than himself as well #and i just #i love when his friends totally accept this and don’t mock him #sosososo much #and i don’t know it means a lot to me as an autistic person who grew up mocked for my childishness #to see this guy with supportive friends and irl fans #idk how to fully articulate my thoughts do you get me #autistic kaito real you guys #also this should go without saying but pls do not tag this as a ship 😭#1) they are quite little here specifically 2) im not comfortable with the ship in general #please please please #krash art #artists on tumblr #vocaloid #vocaloid fanart #cryptonloids #kagamine len #kaito #kaito vocaloid #my art #vocaloid kagamine

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kkoct-ik · 2 months ago

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badly drawn comic for fun

#kostik draws #me and an irl have been playing a fun game called “how blatantly obvious can i be about having did until the rest of my friends catch on”#in some world (possibly this one) i could show them this comic and they would yet still not get it #and i find that funny #oh well #this entire week. entire month tbh. is a total void. but i am trying to hold onto the pieces i have #idk why _ is head of the table. he would not fucking do that. but everyone else would even less fucking do that so #convenience convenients. i just wanted to run through the week #self portraits

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mistyycowoa · 4 months ago

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Confessing my sins to the internet because my irl friends don't know my tumblr

I'm actually a horrible friend and I don't plan to change :)

I'll be a good friend to anyone I actually like and I usually don't associate with people who I don't like, but sometimes there will be an occasional lonely (usually annoying) kid that follows me around. (They're lonely for a reason.) I kinda hate people who are loud literally all the time but I can hold my tongue and this kinda person just doesn't leave because they're not being told directly to leave.

What do I do? I talk to them only when I need them, I make unnecessarily mean comments as a joke, I point out their obvious flaws that I know they have a hard time changing, and all while they still follow me around like I'm not kinda bullying them.

Sometimes I'll treat them like an actual friend when I'm in a good mood, but if I'm not, then the unfortunate victim becomes my emotional punching bag. (I have ways to quickly fix my mood and this is completely unnecessary and I could distance myself until I feel better like how I do with actual friends.) I think this is like. Breadcrumbing? Anyways yeah, toxic shit.

If any of your "friends" treat you like this, they don't see you as a friend. If they leave you doubting if they like you or not, leave you doubting if you're actually friends, they probably don't see you as a friend. (because that's the case for me :3 )

I'm a horrible human being and I don't feel nearly as bad as I should about it :)

#i had a friend in primary school who was treated like this by me and my then best friend for the whole 6 years #she was very much bullied i think #we literally had a “class x girls group” and “class x girls group without (victim)” and we sometimes shit talked her in there #my best friend was a bit more obvious about not liking her #she would like be my shield anytime things got confrontational while i never stood up for myself #pretty sure she shared snacks with me a lot too and i just never returned the favour.#and now theres this boy that has nearly no friends who follow me around during breaks #just today i literally gave him the silent treatment because i was having an inner monologue and i didn't bother telling him #i even found it kinda funny that i walked around silently while he muttered to himself and questioned if he did anything wrong #like dude no you didn't do anything wrong but also i found it too funny to correct you #i have actual friends that i treat decently btw #like. without all this weird shit #i just take advantage of the loney and probably neurodivergent kids :)#moral of the story. please have more than 1 friend. especially irl. dont let them treat you like how i treat these poor “friends” of mine #ive literally never told the 2 people i mentioned here anything along the lines of “im grateful i have you”#feel free to stop being my friend because of a post like this :3 #i wouldnt say i *like* being a horrible friend but also im like. not doing anything about it and not bothering to change for the sake of #these people who are already kind of outcasted and probably need someone to rely on #“im not doing charity” proceeds to refuse basic respect to these people because theyre “annoying”#you could call this a vent post #im kind of telling myself that im a horrible person to begin with so i feel less bad about “breaking character” on top of being guilty #honestly i hope this kind of person finds someone who genuinely accepts them because they deserve better than this #and also because theyre a headache for me and im sick of them

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douqhnxtss · 1 month ago

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HAIII im so in love w your theme :0

HEYYYY!!! omg tyty ur theme is so beautiful too and I LOVE ur work, I'm in the taglist of enha, aespa and a few more I don't remember lol but I love ur theme of ur writing acc and of this acc as well, it's SO GORGINA<333 can we be mooties? :3

#✦ mail ✧˖°.#douqhnxtss #☆ kira nswers!#omg #no cuz i had to lwk go fbi mode and see who u were js to find out ur this creator ive been loving what #why do i feel so famous now #i love how im not so introverted when im online as compared to irl (i have no friends lol)#introverts' struggle is real

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mylove-thresher · 4 months ago

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I am going to shoot myself in the head

#I feel so helpless and clueless rn I feel like I’m going to fail my entire academic journey #Nothing bad has happened this week (besides my sis and mom getting rlly sick) but I just feel like I know nothing anymore #Am I a dumb stupid fuck #I have yet another exam tomorrow and I thought I loved the subject but suddenly I realize I didn’t understand anything #Trying to take down notes but I have literally no material to work with only my book in which I’ve made over 50 errors #I don’t count them I just know it’s over that number #I haven’t showered I’m trying to do homework I’m trying to take down notes and I’m also trying to take care of my sis bc she’s very sick #I bear a cross far too big for my size I feel like I can’t handle anything at all #Jesus christtttt where is old me when I need her I would’ve tanked this shit so easily but now I’m just crying and whining #i need to stop thinking about how I was so much better before but I can’t stop #I really was so much more than a spineless piece of shit what the fuck #Ghhhh mitski you were so right #I was so young when I behaved 25 yet now I find I’ve grown into a tall child is so very real mitski #Lately I’ve been crying like a tall child yeah keep it up mitski sing ur shit I will jump off of this ledge I’m on yeah #Clawing my skin offffff I wish I could tell someone irl #I still haven’t written to my friends parents so they could help me #but I don’t have the time to make a word doc ab everything I go thru and how I feel #And they might not help me #I just want to crawl a hole in the ground and wait to become a sprout to become a pretty flower I don’t wanna be living this shit no more #Vent #vent post

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suddencolds · 2 months ago

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// personal

how strange it is to observe yourself changing

#not snz #delete later #another suddencolds yap post 😭 i apologize #i have been trying to draft a post like this for awhile now... i suppose this is a subset of the many thoughts i've had lately #this year has been so strange??! i joked in january about taking a leave to metamorphose into someone more tolerable but #honestly i am not sure if i am more tolerable now... though i do feel like i've changed. :')#for the better? for the worse? unsure... i feel like i am finding out more and more that #my social battery is unfortunately finite 😭 and that i must be more selective in how i choose to spend my time 🙇‍♀️#i think all throughout uni the majority of my substantial social interactions happened #over text/online? irl i made a lot of acquaintances via classes and student organizations... but the number of #close friends i had and actively met up with irl was pretty low 😭 and that embarrassed me!! like #how can one 🫵🏼 be surrounded by so many smart people her age and come away with so few in-person friends?? ☹️ skill issue truly!!! 🙄👎#even now i sometimes feel like the need to defend myself from that uncharitable perception of me? as though the idea that #there is/was something wrong with me is something i need to actively disprove 🥲#taken objectively i feel like i'm doing okay socially 😭 i have a decent handful of irl friends that #i meet with pretty regularly and people do seek out my company... but there's this feeling at the back of my mind that #no one will believe me when i say it. perhaps because i am so deeply used to seeing myself as undesirable :')#(^ i think this was all more painful than i am getting across in writing and i am summarizing it all from a point of relative detachment 😶)#but anyways! i am older now and it feels like things are shifting... or that i'm being forced to acknowledge that i have limits socially #in terms of energy rather than capability. which is new :') and i've also been thinking about the feeling of closeness (or lack thereof)#that i feel when it comes to the various friendships in my life. i think i am really fully vulnerable like #kind of seldom actually... but on the rare occasion that i feel sufficiently attached i worry i come across as a little intense 😭#(if i have embarrassed myself in front of you i am very sorry 😭😭 i'm still figuring things out)#(not sure if anyone is still reading this but) these tags are getting long enough 🏃‍♀️

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sufyonstevens · 1 year ago

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Anyone also returning to superhell after many years sober and want to do a complete rewatch together (maybe as a lead up to a s16 revival shhh)? I need the emotional support for this and my therapist can only hear so much :((

#how do you make friends on this site?#I don’t feel equipped to make post or content since I never finished the show #but I have so many thoughts and feelings and devoted years of my early life to this show :/#basically #There are people feelings that I want to experience differently than I have before #or maybe even for the first time #destiel #spn #deancas #spn thoughts #s1 rewatch #someone be my friend on here since I can’t find any irl #dean winchester

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glitterrosesnzz · 4 months ago

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sometimes i think "ough, does this come off as too horny??" and then i remember this is the kink blog

#LISTEN #i just don't have much experience with talking about things i find hot.....#nobody in irl even talked to me about finding celebs attractive at any point in time #thats how little talking about attraction has appeared in my life #+ most of my vanilla friends are uncomfy hearing about any kind of attraction #so im usually policing what i say for them and i've been doing it so long ive gotten too used to filtering myself sjdfskjdflksjfs

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