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sufyonstevens · 1 year ago

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Anyone also returning to superhell after many years sober and want to do a complete rewatch together (maybe as a lead up to a s16 revival shhh)? I need the emotional support for this and my therapist can only hear so much :((

#how do you make friends on this site?#I don’t feel equipped to make post or content since I never finished the show #but I have so many thoughts and feelings and devoted years of my early life to this show :/#basically #There are people feelings that I want to experience differently than I have before #or maybe even for the first time #destiel #spn #deancas #spn thoughts #s1 rewatch #someone be my friend on here since I can’t find any irl #dean winchester

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icewindandboringhorror · 5 months ago

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indeed my exact process once every 8 months or so

#I just thought today of a new way to format a 'profile' (like the descriptions of self that people use on friend meeting #apps and stuff) and how to organize the sections so that it seems such and such a way and oh what if there's links which click off #into branching paths so it's very acessible and there are two different forms depending on so on and so forth #and i was like 'um.. wow. amazing idea. this will be soooo aweseome and will definitely work' but then .. you know...self reflection #lol.. is this just like the millions of other iterations of a similar thing? No.. This Is Different ... Surely...#Though if I had a millionaire friend and a few people who do the type of coding you use for web design stuff and etc..#I could create the most elaborate detailed and amazing platonic friend seeking (and I guess you could also have 'dating' as an option #since that would draw in more of a crowd) website on the earth.. the new okcupid (back when okcupid didn't suckishly abandon their #whole format in hopes of trying to become just like tinder or whatever and they actually had like tons of info and percentages and #open answer questions and would list personality traits on a profile (like 'this person is more Open To New Expereinces than 65% of #other users' etc.). etc. etc. Oh what a beautiful thing I could craft for the detail freaks of the world.... Alas...#unfortunately we seem to be in an oversimplification era.. everything in short quick bites. everything on a tiny phone screen. etc.#marketing 'Introducing The Most Complicated Data Heavy Social Connection Site In The World' would not sell well I'd imagine gjhgjh #AANYWAY.. also no idea why the representation of me is in a turtle neck. what a bold fashion choice..#In another moment of self reflection.. the fact that in the first tag on this post I felt the need to define the word 'profile' just to be #specific as if people couldn't tell from context.. so clearly someone who finds filling out forms a 'fun afternoon activity' lol #the type of guy who finds psych evaluations and pop quizzes and making chore lists mostly enjoyable (< true)

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a-most-beloved-fool · 1 month ago

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btw if anything does happen to tumblr, I have no plans on making a new social media anywhere else. Most of the alternatives seem... unpleasant. I like having a blog-ish thing, and I like tumblr's style of joke and chatter and lack-of-an-algorithm, and I don't think there's anywhere else that I'd feel quite comfortable. So, if it ever looks like tumblr's death is imminent and you think, "hey, I don't actually want to lose contact with that person!" well first of all I'd be flattered, but secondly I suppose you can DM me and ask for my discord. I don't want to just. announce it publicly, but if I'm somewhat aware of you and/or we've chattered a bit, I'm happy to share it!

#though do note that I'm. VERY bad at talking & keeping touch with people lmao. so if you do get my discord and I seem distant #probably i'm just being scared or forgetful and if you prod me a bit i'll be quite happy to respond #i'm also currently in three tos discord servers (though only active at all in two. the third scares me a bit lmao)#and if tumblr does go down i'd probably try to find a ds9 one too #but i actively do not want to be on the-site-formerly-known-as-twitter OR any of meta's properties OR bluesky #maaaaayyybe i could be coaxed into a dreamwidth but. i don't know how it works even a little and i hate learning new sites #the only reason i felt able to make a tumblr is because i spent like a year lurking first and had a general grasp of the mechanics #frankly i am not even a big fan of using discord as a social media (that's my 'group chat with friends!!' site) but. it's the best i can do #not trek

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xxplastic-cubexx · 2 months ago

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What's ur presentation all about...? Am scared /lh

funnily enough it's about the ADA/americans-with-disabilities act :^)

#snap chats #i mean i have two presentations today but the one i have later is purely me. it's on memorials + grave sites 😌#but yeah for this class we were tasked to make presentations on various acts or whatnot: last time we covered CEPA #this time... ADA time... easy money to talk about when all ive thought of is a disabled man for the past like eight months #it just got me irked when i looked at the presentation cause it was so. ???? You Were Happy To Send This To Me Are You Deadass #like there was a bunch of blank slides and he moved one of the slides from our presentation to the very bottom????#also the formatting was horrible just stuff randomly spaced and very-clearly he copy/pasted each bullet #lke you really couldnt be assed to summarize each bullet. whatever man thats the point of presentation bullets but ok #the pictures were in the fuck-off far corner and small as hell and they're pixelated as christ #so i at least cleaned it up a bit- didnt rewrite everything just cleaned it up so i wouldnt have an aneurysm looking at it #im just especially annoyed too because i emailed him multiple times with what i wanted adjusted #and if he could send me the sources he used to make his slides and this mfer never did like. im going to scream CJCWLJAKLJ #like i dont understand how you can submit something like this and not be embarrassed but maybe im just. horrendous jvLKJLKA #ohhh my god and then i have to work on ANOTEHR group thingt his weekend. guys i cant do this anymore i hate working with people for school #i could complain all day tbh but thats for me to harass my friend with LMAOOOO

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izzy-b-hands · 11 months ago

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You ever have a day where you feel like you're doing everything wrong, even when you're like. just doing things you normally do. And are alone, so like the only person i could in theory upset/piss off/etc right now is me myself, and Yet the feeling persists

Yeaaaaah. That's today's vibe for me apparently lmao

#text post #it's fine bc i know it's probably just a culmination of a couple different worries that i should be able to address #in the coming days/weeks but all the same #my brain is pinging like no you immediately need to check with everyone you know that you aren't mucking up #but like. if that was the case they'd talk to me and let me know #and i could apologise recognise where/how I've fucked up and change what I'm doing/try to do better #some days i just can't turn off the 'everyone is frustrated with u & feeling worse bc u aren't recognising that u fucked up' feeling #bc sometimes it's true! i missed a cue or didn't properly pick up what was being put down/implied!!#and when i do that it just. kills me 💀#like i know that life does just involve fucking up sometimes and being in the wrong and apologising and doing better #but also oh god i need to know immediately if I've fucked up so i can do better and try to make things right #or as close to right as possible #i need to stop typing tags and get onto the survey sites and into the chores that need doing today #fr tho if i have fucked up recently & any friends on here know/have been nervous to tell me #pls just do. i want to know so i can try not to make the same fuck up again #the anxiety over feeling like I've fucked up something but haven't realised it is ten times worse than #being told i fucked up apologising and figuring out how I'm going to try and make things better #no more tags rn tho!! time to try and get something done!!!

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the-casbah-way · 1 year ago

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not to be obnoxious but like. you people are mad at those watcher guys for making you pay for a subscription service. but you were all able to look past the fact that they had an entire series where they just made jokes about actual real life true crime cases. that makes sense

#i fucking DESPISE buzzfeed unsolved #they were so fucking tone deaf with how they handled their true crime shit it made me so fucking angry #like you guys claim to be against the commercialising of true crime but not when two haha funny little guys do it yeah ??#fuck you all actually those dudes were always trash #and i kept feeling insane for being bothered by it whilst everyone else was worshipping them #they went to the scene of the keddie cabin murders which is a case i studied back when i did forensic archaeology #and bear in mind that the daughter of that family is still alive #and they stood there next to this site where a family and their friend were stabbed to death and fucking laughed and made jokes #and people didn’t care just because the jokes were never directly at the expense of the victims as if that makes it ok ???#that woman is still fucking alive. can you fucking imagine if she’d seen that like how that would feel #i’m fucking tired of teaching people basic human decency when it comes to true crime fuck you people #and don’t get me wrong what those guys are doing now IS scummy #but like ?? compared to fucking making their entire success of goofing about at real fucking crime scenes ???? they were always trash

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birdsandivory · 11 months ago

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a little update...

i’ve lost a lot of followers here for whatever reason (i’m sure there are plenty—and they’re all totally valid), but i’m just saying that, from now on, i’m only going to post what i want to post on this blog. i’m done with themes and “this year it’s this fandom” and "next year it’s that fandom." it’s just all getting thrown here. everything. all my sheith, my voltron, my fire emblem, my persona, my final fantasy, my kingdom hearts, my yugioh, my assassin’s creed, my whatever else—everything.

send your requests for fandoms i don’t seem to be paying a lot of attention to, sure! send in prompts for ships i haven’t written for in years. that’s cool. definitely. i mean, i can’t guarantee it’ll get done, but it’ll be a nice surprise if i have the time to fill it. send in whatever you want. i still desire to know your ideas and i want to interact. just, on my time. whenever i have it in me.

i want to have more fun and i don’t want to feel restricted anymore because people are too fickle and can’t handle someone having more than one interest.

so. yeah. that’s that.

#*ivory says #mostly i've just had time to think about #how toxic this site was for me at some point #i mean most of you guys were great #but a lot of people were also really demanding #and i just wanted to have a good time #maybe make a friend or two #i just didn't feel in control back then #but i sure do now #i'm shaking things up bitches

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elektroyu · 11 months ago

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Managed to get a simple Yu ref sheet done in time for Art Fight! :D Here's her link: https://artfight.net/character/4719544.yu

Somehow I always used to feel that a proper saddle pattern was too dark for her, but now that I actually did it I think it fits her pretty well! Maybe I can stick to this design for a while. I wanted something that was genetically possible irl, so all her previous iterations bugged me a lot.

Her hobbies are all the cool dog things that I can't do irl (for the time being at least): everything that lets her run and/ or use her little brain in addition like sledding/ bike-joring/ dog scootering/ etc., agility, also playing with friends. She's pretty fast! And like me, she's reserved around strangers.

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savage-rhi · 6 months ago

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#i've had many people ask me in the DMs what could be done to help me out given the orange menace is coming back into power #the best things for me right now (I can't speak to others) is this: 1. Keep supporting my creative endeavors #no matter how little I might post or interact. Please hype me up. I need community. I need spirit to survive.#2. Help me find resources that will help myself and others. Food banks. Community meets. Passports. Finances. Mental health etc.#these are important and I don't want others feeling like sitting ducks. Even though I'm scared I want to be a solution to the problem.#I am going to be a helper in this mess cause that's who I am and I need ammo in this capacity #3. Donate so I can up my ration storage. I've been collecting food water and nonperishables and I'm trying to stock up on medication #and other basic necessities. I'm collecting as if I'm preparing to be homeless again and if I am over capacity I'm giving rations to others #I've had to make peace with the fact I can't run away. I can't move to another country as I'm broke and poor like the rest of my loved ones #4. If you have friends who are disabled or a minority or lgbtq etc. do what you can to protect them and show them that you love them #and build community #5. Share my work and that of others. Who knows if we're gonna have sites like AO3 in the future or even access to tumblr.#this is all I can think of at the moment and again I can't speak for others this is what comes to mind for myself #And I admit I'm coming from a place of the worst case scenarios #because in my mind if I imagine I'm dead or homeless etc. and work my way backward to the next worst thing before that it unravels my fear #and it gives me back my power in the situation by sitting with those fears and giving them time to speak #because in my mind if I'm already dead if I'm already homeless or at war etc. etc. then its already happened and what else is there to fear #if I've been through everything already in mind?#I'm hoping that the worst case scenarios don't transpire but I can't ignore the fact many of them could and probably will happen #in some capacity but I can control the actions I take through prep and facing these fears one by one #and most importantly sticking to routine by making sure im healthy to help people #anyway this is why ive been quiet for a while besides for spending time with friends and loved ones recently to get over what happened #im going to keep going to my classes keep helping people through my jobs try to be creative when I have spoons and little by little #make sure I have enough of what I need to get through the storm and outlive the bastards in power #I'm not sure what sort of pink variant to assign this to but its along the magenta spectrum #love you guys #we'll get through this

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xcziel · 1 year ago

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There's already a ton of election software or websites with names corresponding to "voting buddy" or similar

but I'd like a term for a person or group you've made an agreement with to each support and enable the other to vote. A source of mutual encouraging reminders (and maybe mild guilt about not meeting an expectation)

Any and all suggestions welcome. It would be great if there was a catchy name so this could become an accepted Thing

#voting #us politics #us elections #or any elections really #there are a lot of really clever people on this site i'm sure someone can vome up with something decent #like just a word for a person who works like a school fieldtrip buddy #the mutually voluntary human equivalent of a post-it note for each of you #or for a whole group? a groupchat or email chain even #just someone to check in and ask oh hey you voted yet? and idk offer help if there's an issue like #offer a ride or to watch the kids or to meet up and make it a fun get-together thing so it's not drudgery #could be anybody: friend parent co-worker random guy you see at the dogpark #bc it's not about *how* you're voting but just that you DO #saw somebody on here saying yeah they live in ny so it won't matter if they vote #which - tell me without telling me you don't care about local elections for one thing #but also uh can you maybe remember a time when counting the actual 'popular vote' actually became a really big deal???#for the entire nation even?#the us does not have ranked voting or required voting we need all the voter encouragement and support we can get

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incorrectmadrigalfamilyquotes · 2 years ago

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How to make sure no one wants to be friends with you: openly shame people

i'm sorry but anyone who actively defends and/or supports proshitters deserve to be shamed for it tbh, i already stated in my pinned post i don't condone it.

if you genuinely think i want to make friends with somebody who sympathizes with people who are into that shit/see nothing wrong with proshipping than you're clearly mistaken. hate all you want, at the end of the day at least i'm not the pervert shipping kids with adults 💀