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sufyonstevens · 5 months

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Anyone also returning to superhell after many years sober and want to do a complete rewatch together (maybe as a lead up to a s16 revival shhh)? I need the emotional support for this and my therapist can only hear so much :((

#how do you make friends on this site?#I don’t feel equipped to make post or content since I never finished the show #but I have so many thoughts and feelings and devoted years of my early life to this show :/#basically #There are people feelings that I want to experience differently than I have before #or maybe even for the first time #destiel #spn #deancas #spn thoughts #s1 rewatch #someone be my friend on here since I can’t find any irl #dean winchester

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aroaceofthesea · 3 months

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sometimes i forget that i live in a world where most people see ads everywhere and im the weird one in this little island of using 10000 adblocks and i get really sad for all those people

#i literally couldnt go back if i wanted to #you dont understand i have So Many adblockers its crazy #off the top of my head i could tell you like 4 that i have on my computer but im sure there are more #on my phone i think i only have 2 or 3??#idk lol its crazy that everyone just lives with ads all the time and im here chilling not having seen a single ad on my computer for 2 year #and on my phone its been a few months i think #and people are like oh its not that bad why would i want an adblock?#and im like ???? why wouldnt you want one #many many sites make you pay for ad free suggesting that this is something most peoplewant #i am offering to tell you how to do it for free forever and youre telling me you dont want to?#a lot of people are just so scared to do anything to their computers they dont even know that there are options #a while ago i finally convinced my uni friends to get ublock origin and they were like here u have my computer and i was like ??#you just need to add an extension to chrome ?? and they didnt know how to do that😭😭😭#*judges from my 239742 addons*#like yeah i get it maybe having so many is unnecessary or whatever but having at least 1 adblock to get some control back is necessary #but whatever lol #mine #random

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izzy-b-hands · 3 months

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You ever have a day where you feel like you're doing everything wrong, even when you're like. just doing things you normally do. And are alone, so like the only person i could in theory upset/piss off/etc right now is me myself, and Yet the feeling persists

Yeaaaaah. That's today's vibe for me apparently lmao

#text post #it's fine bc i know it's probably just a culmination of a couple different worries that i should be able to address #in the coming days/weeks but all the same #my brain is pinging like no you immediately need to check with everyone you know that you aren't mucking up #but like. if that was the case they'd talk to me and let me know #and i could apologise recognise where/how I've fucked up and change what I'm doing/try to do better #some days i just can't turn off the 'everyone is frustrated with u & feeling worse bc u aren't recognising that u fucked up' feeling #bc sometimes it's true! i missed a cue or didn't properly pick up what was being put down/implied!!#and when i do that it just. kills me 💀#like i know that life does just involve fucking up sometimes and being in the wrong and apologising and doing better #but also oh god i need to know immediately if I've fucked up so i can do better and try to make things right #or as close to right as possible #i need to stop typing tags and get onto the survey sites and into the chores that need doing today #fr tho if i have fucked up recently & any friends on here know/have been nervous to tell me #pls just do. i want to know so i can try not to make the same fuck up again #the anxiety over feeling like I've fucked up something but haven't realised it is ten times worse than #being told i fucked up apologising and figuring out how I'm going to try and make things better #no more tags rn tho!! time to try and get something done!!!

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the-casbah-way · 5 months

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not to be obnoxious but like. you people are mad at those watcher guys for making you pay for a subscription service. but you were all able to look past the fact that they had an entire series where they just made jokes about actual real life true crime cases. that makes sense

#i fucking DESPISE buzzfeed unsolved #they were so fucking tone deaf with how they handled their true crime shit it made me so fucking angry #like you guys claim to be against the commercialising of true crime but not when two haha funny little guys do it yeah ??#fuck you all actually those dudes were always trash #and i kept feeling insane for being bothered by it whilst everyone else was worshipping them #they went to the scene of the keddie cabin murders which is a case i studied back when i did forensic archaeology #and bear in mind that the daughter of that family is still alive #and they stood there next to this site where a family and their friend were stabbed to death and fucking laughed and made jokes #and people didn’t care just because the jokes were never directly at the expense of the victims as if that makes it ok ???#that woman is still fucking alive. can you fucking imagine if she’d seen that like how that would feel #i’m fucking tired of teaching people basic human decency when it comes to true crime fuck you people #and don’t get me wrong what those guys are doing now IS scummy #but like ?? compared to fucking making their entire success of goofing about at real fucking crime scenes ???? they were always trash

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birdsandivory · 3 months

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a little update...

i’ve lost a lot of followers here for whatever reason (i’m sure there are plenty—and they’re all totally valid), but i’m just saying that, from now on, i’m only going to post what i want to post on this blog. i’m done with themes and “this year it’s this fandom” and "next year it’s that fandom." it’s just all getting thrown here. everything. all my sheith, my voltron, my fire emblem, my persona, my final fantasy, my kingdom hearts, my yugioh, my assassin’s creed, my whatever else—everything.

send your requests for fandoms i don’t seem to be paying a lot of attention to, sure! send in prompts for ships i haven’t written for in years. that’s cool. definitely. i mean, i can’t guarantee it’ll get done, but it’ll be a nice surprise if i have the time to fill it. send in whatever you want. i still desire to know your ideas and i want to interact. just, on my time. whenever i have it in me.

i want to have more fun and i don’t want to feel restricted anymore because people are too fickle and can’t handle someone having more than one interest.

so. yeah. that’s that.

#*ivory says #mostly i've just had time to think about #how toxic this site was for me at some point #i mean most of you guys were great #but a lot of people were also really demanding #and i just wanted to have a good time #maybe make a friend or two #i just didn't feel in control back then #but i sure do now #i'm shaking things up bitches

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icewindandboringhorror · 5 months

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Hrmm... put together a roommates quiz finally after years of thinking it would be an interesting idea lol.. Though obviously not meant to be taken super seriously, I just like thinking about this aspect of personality compatibility. Like yeah, maybe you could get along with someone just chatting with them, but living together is such a different thing. .. curiouse...

#Not that I think that many people would really care since I barely know anyone on tumblr in real life and would never live with random #internet strangers lol but... idk.. I made this to give to friends from time to time and thought... why not post it here too #just out of sheer curiosity if anyone takes it what the most common results would be and etc.#My initial assumption is that most people would probably fall into the 'maybe' category and that either extreme of 'best roomates'#and 'worst roomates' would be the least common #very long also since I like to be thorough I guess #THOUGH... upon second thought... tumblr is home of the like Weird Introverts Who Sit Inside All The Time.. so maybe it's more #likely to come across compatible poeple on here. given that many of the questions are about how meticulous #people are with their scehdules or how often they invite friends over or if they like to mostly stay inside etc.#(since personally I think having a roommate coming and going and bringing random people over all the time would be too chaotic #lol... I need a peaceful quiet household)#Also I kind of don't like the way uquiz seems to do results. I was hoping it would be a number tally? I used some sort of quiz making site #before where you weight the question responses with a number (so the 'Best' response is worth a 0 #The worst is worth like 5 points. and all the in between are like 1 - 4 points or something). So then it is actually possible to have a #''perfect score'' category (someone who gets a literal 0 points). and also you could weight some EXTREMELY bad answers #to add like +10 to the score instead of just +5. And someone who got the MAX possible points would be the WORST compatibility. etc.#But uquiz seems to just be like ''which category did you score towards the MOST'. So someone can give some pretty bad answers #that are VERY non compatible. but as long as MOST of their answers landed in a 'compatible' category #then they would still be listed as compatible despite still actually having some dealbreakers in there. Which is also possible with the #'every answer is a number amount' ranking system too. but I feel like that one does allow for a little more customization #and accuracy (like making the dealbreakers add like...+40 to the score or something so that #there's basically NO way that someone could answer with one of those and still get a good score. Or the ability to have a literal #'perfect score' (getting a zero) etc.#BUt anyway lol... inchresting.. inchresting... curious to consider maybe making a uquiz #for the characters in the gameI'm making like.. which npc are you type quiz or something #now that I've made one and seen how it works.. hrmm hrmm....#(< game will not even be done for like another year but still thinking about nonsense like this lol)

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elektroyu · 3 months

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Managed to get a simple Yu ref sheet done in time for Art Fight! :D Here's her link: https://artfight.net/character/4719544.yu

Somehow I always used to feel that a proper saddle pattern was too dark for her, but now that I actually did it I think it fits her pretty well! Maybe I can stick to this design for a while. I wanted something that was genetically possible irl, so all her previous iterations bugged me a lot.

Her hobbies are all the cool dog things that I can't do irl (for the time being at least): everything that lets her run and/ or use her little brain in addition like sledding/ bike-joring/ dog scootering/ etc., agility, also playing with friends. She's pretty fast! And like me, she's reserved around strangers.

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kirstielol · 1 year

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It's supposed to thunderstorm on Saturday so our camping trip got cancelled a-fucking-gain. I'm so bummed out.

New weekend plans I guess 🍹🥴

#going out drinking with my parents then bbq-ing back at their place tomorrow #and sunday my friends and i might go hiking and chill at the beach? thats still a maybe plan though #just sooooooo upset that both camping trips we booked got rained out #how are you supposed to book trips.. it just sucks.. camping sites sell out as soon as they're available in march #like my friend had to set a timer and book as soon as they opened bookings #so what awful luck that the two weekends he booked got rained out #im just so mad that it happened with both trips #were trying to plan a rescheduled trip but weekends are fully booked until fall and not everyone could make a mid week trip #i think my bf and i might just plan a random mid week camping trip because fuck i wanna do at least 1 trip #😭#anyway time to get drunk and play video games i guess.. been so bummed out all day

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xcziel · 5 months

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There's already a ton of election software or websites with names corresponding to "voting buddy" or similar

but I'd like a term for a person or group you've made an agreement with to each support and enable the other to vote. A source of mutual encouraging reminders (and maybe mild guilt about not meeting an expectation)

Any and all suggestions welcome. It would be great if there was a catchy name so this could become an accepted Thing

#voting #us politics #us elections #or any elections really #there are a lot of really clever people on this site i'm sure someone can vome up with something decent #like just a word for a person who works like a school fieldtrip buddy #the mutually voluntary human equivalent of a post-it note for each of you #or for a whole group? a groupchat or email chain even #just someone to check in and ask oh hey you voted yet? and idk offer help if there's an issue like #offer a ride or to watch the kids or to meet up and make it a fun get-together thing so it's not drudgery #could be anybody: friend parent co-worker random guy you see at the dogpark #bc it's not about *how* you're voting but just that you DO #saw somebody on here saying yeah they live in ny so it won't matter if they vote #which - tell me without telling me you don't care about local elections for one thing #but also uh can you maybe remember a time when counting the actual 'popular vote' actually became a really big deal???#for the entire nation even?#the us does not have ranked voting or required voting we need all the voter encouragement and support we can get

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incorrectmadrigalfamilyquotes · 1 year

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How to make sure no one wants to be friends with you: openly shame people

i'm sorry but anyone who actively defends and/or supports proshitters deserve to be shamed for it tbh, i already stated in my pinned post i don't condone it.

if you genuinely think i want to make friends with somebody who sympathizes with people who are into that shit/see nothing wrong with proshipping than you're clearly mistaken. hate all you want, at the end of the day at least i'm not the pervert shipping kids with adults 💀

#girl do i look like i give a fuck about pitying proshitters and their supporters literally gtfo out of my blog #“how to make sure no one wants to be friends with you” if you want to make me feel bad or smth at least try LMFAO this is just pathetic #i'll shame any proshitter all i want come at me bro i genuinely have nothing to lose on this site #i just had a bad day but instead of feeling even more angry i'm actually laughing at this ask lmfao like what ??#are you fr rn ??#💀#middle school looking ass insult #cackling in my seat #i'm so sick of proshitters #vas posts #not quote #ask reply #tw: proship

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perfectstormrising · 1 month

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the true tumblr experience

#first of all. sometimes it takes you 14 years on a shitty webbed site to learn how to make friends #second of all. do yall mind if i cry

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skhardwarevers1 · 9 months

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oh yeah did I say I fully jashified my friend because I did and I’m not sure how it happened

#Out of all the songs that could’ve won her over it was LAPLACE’S ANGEL #this girl had no idea what a FANDOM was before she met me. She used to be a DIE HARD JUSTIN BEIBER FAN. HOWD WE GET HERE #anyway I’m trying to convince her to get on the hell site (here) but also trying to keep her from making the same jokes she does with me #Because she’s actually insane she’ll just say things that are even a bit much for you all k mean it #You guys don’t get her like I do she doesn’t mean to be weird she’s just like that #(This is the same friend who has a BIT (which is generous considering how far she takes the word “bit”) of an obsession with Chonny’s hair)#Okay rant about my best friend my beloved over #S.K thinks #Chonny jash

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arcaneyouth · 3 months

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becoming somebody who doesn't really """consume content""" (i don't watch shows or movies other than maybe once every 4-6 months, i play games 3-5 times a month and it's usually skyrim, i haven't read a book in years, i don't listen to music that wasn't recommended to me by friends or showed up in a cool animation i saw, i don't participate in fandom, and i mainly watch the same 3 video essayists and 3 vod channels on youtube) makes being on this site such a fascinating experience. because even normal drama is like a shadow under the water for me. "how fucking dare you watch [x] problematic media just because you like the genre you need to look at stuff that isn't problematic PLEASE" and i don't even know what the x problematic media is. obviously these posts are not for me but these posts will cross my dash like "YOU have to STOP and GET BETTER" and it's just about consuming content from more diverse creators. which isn't an entirely bad message it just feels like someone walking into my house and going "you have to stop watching dune and instead watch anything from this list in the same genre RIGHT NOW or you're RACIST" and i don't know what dune is. like the sand???????????

#queued post #you would think as an artist i'd probably take more interest in enjoying media #but fandom culture is so exhausting at this point i pretty much only care about peoples ocs #i don't care about the latest twink from hit media. i want to know about the latest twink from my friends brain #which makes my tumblr experience wild because this sure is a fandom site #it's like that post about how boycotts are so easy if you don't buy anything anyways #avoiding problematic media is pretty easy if you're not looking at media anyways #genuinely sometimes get surprised when people say they've watched a movie. like. what do you mean why did you do that #i'm really not exaggerating when i say art is the only thing i do every day #would i say i'm good at touching grass? no. and i am not immune to the root issues these posts are trying to address #but sometimes i really don't know what the fuck is happening and it's so blissful

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my-thirteenth-reason · 3 months

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bro wtf is with this guy i swear when will he get the hint that i no longer am and do not want to be friends with his transphobic-in-the-weirdest-way ahh

#he makes me so uncomfortable???#like i ghosted him for 2 months and then when i had my competition he messages me telling me that he went on the site to look at my results?#???? and proceeded to give me unsolicited consolation #um firstly wtf are you even looking at my results for thats weird af and secondly i wasn't even upset + i don't want your pity + wtf???#and i replied really dryly but then he started talking about some project he was working on as if i didn't literally greytick him for 2 mths #and now he just sent me a message again omg stop please. i get the ick thinking about him #okay and there was that time i was in a really depressive episode last year and i wasn't talking to him and on his discord bio it said like #you know ur the worst when a suicidal person wont talk to u or sum shit like that #like what the hell? am i just overreacting or is that the weirdest shit you could say #like are you trying to get me to feel even worse cuz that doesn't exactly make me want to reach out #like omfg how do you even make something like this about you. literally how #also he kept fetishising trans people in his fanart???? like what the hell it was so disturbing #anyway now that I think about it i was friends with him for about 6 months and it's also been 6 months since then and i am completely fine #ugh anyway #we were kinda close so i got him to make a tumblr #to my moot who might follow him his name starts with r lol #and i swear he was vagueposting about me last month #and like. it's kinda creepy.#dude i am literally the plainest person around please why are you so obsessed with me i bet you can't name anything about me you liked that #doesn't include how i gave you the attention you wanted #anyway i don't know how he hasn't gotten the hint when bro he knows i literally avoid all eye contact and pairwork and messages from him #like do you need me to tell it to your face or what #rant #sorry i feel so mean writing this help

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umberandmochaagate · 9 months

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When you're tryna be reasonable about getting all rejections except for one place when a lot of your groups got more but wise mind feeling like a struggle rn

#venting #nah bro my top site rejected me and I straight boohoo cried #cuz it was the last one. over 15 rejections for a month #and then tryna hold yourself up and ppl trying to hold you up but also I'm lying if I said that doesn't hurt #this shit was traumatic fr #I got so much anxiety cuz I got an email that a friend asked me why I was breathing hard #didn't even notice it jumped like that #I got one chance #and either I get this place or I gotta do the process again #you get constant rejections and then have to put your dog down #and still have to go to work and teach and help and try to make time for yourself #and your life is still in the hands of people who feel nothing at the end of the day #cuz they're so far removed from you and your position #literally couldn't cry for a month until yesterday #my chest hurts with just how much this has been sitting on me #fuck bro and I still have to wait more time to even figure out what's next #bro I just want this to be over #how tf do you want stable psychologists when you're traumatizing them the entire time

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scare-ard--sleigh · 5 months

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ohhhhhhhhhh my goddddddddd and now the fucking t*ble t*nnis guy is passive aggressively up my ass : \

#work stuff #silver jelly #'i've noticed editing has slowed down...' first of all ;;; i was editing the 3.5k words of incomprehensible nonsense because you all #won't hire real writers for almost TWO HOURS on friday. i skipped Yesterday. you sent that message at 10 AM when i HAD one of those #fucking awful awful articles on my roster for today. so that's what;;;; 1 work day unaccounted for? fuck off #secondly; you assholes REFUSE to tell me how much you're expecting from me; you just fucking yell at us when we're not going #'fast enough' when you WON'T EVEN TELL ME WHAT THAT MEANS #this is an internal fucking site and we have REAL clients with REAL ACTUAL deadlines ;;; this is not !!!!!!!!!!!!!! a priority to me!!!!!!!#thirdly; ;;;; i took this project AS A FAVOR to someone who's on maternity leave. i did not even want it. she fucking told me 'ohhh you're #the only one i trust' when there's ... literally ;;; another editor on this who is her best friend from childhood or whatever .#like manipulating me; basically; into taking this project (and she didn't even need to; i wanted the hours anyway)#STILL; ;;; it's not something i picked; it's not something i even particularly wanted to do !!!!!#and it's endless shit;; every god damn week it's some version of 'is everything okay? you're slowing down?' like yeah bro i got other work!#jesus fucking CHRIST i just cannot !!!!!#i sent a message in the chat i straight up said 'i try to do one of these a day but i don't feel like it's enough so please tell me what #your expectations are' and if he dodges i'm saying 'an approximate number would be really helpful' like fuck dude i don't CARE if #you tell me you need 10 of these by the end of the week -- i can maybe even make that happen but this isn't fucking working !!!!#@god please get me out of here holy shit .

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