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mondays-sunshine-zone · 8 months ago

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someone briefly got shitty with me at the office today for refusing to drive a child unsafely but I handled it like a champ and didn't cry under pressure

#sunshine zone #luckily the problem got fixed and i was able 2 be safe but #ughhhh #how about you don't be a dickhead then

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dailyloopdeloop · 5 months ago

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loop and mirabelle. That's it that's the ask

DAY 84: enrolled in the gossip wars

#codacheetah #isat #loop isat #mirabelle isat #isat spoilers #vaguely. mostly for the tags #i think it'd be sooo funny if like. loop and mirabelle postcanon.#loop has rejoined the party somewhat recently and they are not at all adapting. to be honest. reunion probably happened too soon #bc they are a siffrin which means they are disgustingly sentimental. their ass is not taking the time to discover themself as a new person.#do you really think loop is gonna take their own advice.lol.#lmao even #Ok so anyways i think the party and loop would have a weird thing going on #like theyre all extremely grateful to loop. and they trust loop through the general basis of theyre apparently very dear to siffrin #but fucking nobody knows what to make of this bitch. odile knows they are hiding Something but she has no certain evidence to pin it down.#isabeau can't catch loop alone for more than 5 seconds. has the distinct sense they're avoiding him and he does not know why #bonnie....well tbh i think they'd vibe with loop. bonnie win.#mirabelle. i think she wouldn't really like loop? not at first anyways #do you remember in sasasap mirabelle telling siffrin(loop) that for a long time she thought they were a callous sort of person #bc they never took anything seriously at all. like the whole journey didnt mean anything. until they took an eye for bonnie #i think mirabelle would catch a similar vibe towards loop(lol.) bc like #like loop's main presence in the group is negging siffrin and being weird and dodgy around everyone else #i don't even think they'd be mean to the others but they would do everything in their power to throw the party zero bones #so all mirabelle has to go on for loop is that they're kind of a dickhead to her friend and that they're not receptive to normal group #social activities. i think being on the receiving end of mirabelle's kindness would make loop kind of sad and she'd pick up on it #but like. loop is inexplicably important to siffrin. she doesn't know the details bc neither of them want to talk at all about the loops #and i think siffrin would be especially dodgy abt talking about loop in the interrim between them rejoining and them being Presumed Dead #so mirabelle tries a new strategy to bridge the gap between her and loop. the power of Mutual Haterism #more specifically i think mirabelle would get the impression of loop as being much more of a bitch than they actually are #due to the aforementioned siffrin negging #so like. maybe that's just how they socialize maybe they'd be down to talk about hot takes and gossip a bit

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tumblingxelian · 1 month ago

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I wish dipshits and assholes kept their worthless opinions out of the main tags. I don't go into your favorite restaurant and spit in your food, do me the same courtesy.

#Not reblogging the dickhead #Because they obviously want attention #So they can whine and play victim about how being an antagonistic jerk gets people annoyed at them #But seriously if you don't have something constructive to say fuck off.#There's plenty of shows I hate and I don't go into their main tag to shit up a storm.#Cos I try to avoid being an asshole.

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mercymaker · 4 months ago

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went to bed last night feeling that it was finally time to step back and let the dust settle and try to get things back to normal and then woke up to all that

#life #don't get me wrong i'm all for stepping back and starting over #i feel like people would be much more willing to give third or fourth chances if you just take responsibility #ACTUALLY own up to your mistakes (instead of playing the victim) and just say 'hey i fucked up i'm sorry i'll be taking a break'#for self reflection or whatever #all of us make mistakes all of us mess up and hurt others whether intentionally or not #it's human #yet i also feel like it's important what we do about it yaknow? you can't change the past but you certainly can the future #i believe we all can learn and grow from mistakes and become better #my naive dickhead ass wants to sincerely hope that he will change and get better #and choose being a respectful human being instead of chasing clout #but seeing how everything's been unfolding i fear that he will just go back to his old ways but will try to mask it better this time #hoping for starting over without doing the same old copy-paste stuff and being respectful #fearing it's just block-evading #anyway.. here's to hoping this will be the last of it

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gender-euphowrya · 28 days ago

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really enjoying how tough surgery was if i'm being honest because like

i've been through All That and handled it like a champ. i think if someone tried starting transphobic beef with me i'd just laugh because like. Oh no wah little words on my screen that truly is the worst thing that's ever happened to meeee definitely worse than having a fucking flask hooked up to my insides slowly draining my blood for Days

#ooooh oh no you called a sluuuur oh wooow i'm So hurt so much more hurt than when they cut me the fuck open and stapled me back shut #like what can you do to me at this point #as somebody who used to be Incredibly squeamish about medical stuff i'm so proud of myself for enduring all of this #didn't cry didn't yell just... took it. when i didn't think i could bear it so well.#this is an accomplishment that's shown me how strong i can be and that's going to change my life for the better #what weight can some fucko being an ignorant dickhead have against that. None.#transphobia ended on account of I don't care whatsoever what you have to say i survived having my nips sliced off

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violet-sapphic · 2 months ago

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genuinely other queer people being shitty about lesbians hurts a million times much worse than straight people being weird about us

#tried to dm that dickhead who made my butch post about a cishet man and nicely be like 'hey don't do that please'#and this ASSHOLE is like. “he's a lesbian to me but glad you got some content out of it”#1. that's NOT how this works 2. this is tumblr. i have like 30 followers. you think anyone but me cares about that addition?#violet original #lesbophobia

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neriyon · 4 months ago

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What was their initial impression of the four claimants? How did this change over the course of the story?

( 22 Dawntrail Inspired WoL/OC Questions )

Wuk Lamat: Oh Hawu'li loved Wuk Lamat right from first meeting her in Old Sharlayan. They are very similar in personality, and immediately bonded over food. She might've been a bit naiive, but so is Hawu'li, so he'd probably not even notice. She clearly loves her people and wants to help them - that's all you could ever ask from a leader, right? It was only when Gulool Ja Ja voiced his worries to him privately that he even thought to stop and think about everything for a while. Luckily she did a lot of growing on her own, eventually convincing everyone she really could handle this responsibility.

Koana: Funnily enough, Koana's aloof and a bit snobbish personality originally reminded Hawu'li a bit about his older brother, Hawu'to (researcher in Old Sharlayan). He loved his second brother to bits, but also often felt like he was a bit too stupid to understand what Hawu'to was talking about. Or to see his grand visions for future. Same with Koana - boy was clearly smart and had so many innovations, but felt a bit... mechanical? Bit too detached from the reality of someone who lives very "heart first brain second".

Later on, when Koana got to show consern for his sister and even went a bit feral to protect her there was this small "oh." in Hawu'li haha. He started paying more attention to the other catboy, took notice of the occasional awkwardness and kind heart beneath it, and started looking forward to meeting him again. I've not yet decided where they end up going forward, but they definitely kissed when Koana shows up in your inn room and are now, at the end of current msq, at some sort of "we'll explore this and see where it goes" situation.

Zarool Ja: Zarool Ja came off as very stoic and withdrawn, but not necessarily a threat? Sure, even Hawu'li raised his eyebrows a bit at this man's mentions of war and conquest, but in his "everyone means well" personality he just assumed Zarool Ja had some secret plan under it. Or that he was just a bit misguided, and would get the little jolt back to more peaceful track during the contest. How wrong he ended up being... Hawu'li honestly still feels pretty bad that he didn't take Krile's words serious enough. That he inadvertly caused the attack on Tuliyollal by ignoring the warning signs. It also reminded him of the whole thing with Zenos, making him a bit moody for a while (dw, he got over it after moping around a bit and talking about it with both G'raha and Krile), but in the end he once again had to accept that he wasn't responsible for actions of others and that Zarool Ja's hatred was as unyielding as Hawu'li's conviction to protect the peace.

Bakool Ja Ja: Hmm, Bakool Ja Ja was more of a bully right from the start, so Hawu'li actually felt like the man would deserve to get bonked with a staff a few times to teach him a lesson. Or like, a really long lecture. He did think that Bakool Ja Ja was young and possibly afraid of... something, causing him to act like that, but the actual reveal still came as a complete surprise. He felt sympathy, of course (as he always does), but still had this strong annoyance over his actions putting so many lives at risk just to get ahead in a competition. There definitely were some angry hissing and a long lecture after everything haha, but he hasn't given up hope that Bakool Ja Ja would change really after all this, like he seemed to be doing after the invasion.

#wao rare pouty/angry hawu'li mention haha #he really feels like even someone like EVERYONE can change #so when he fails to get them to change and has to fight them he takes it as a personal failing #feels like HE failed for not convincing them to change course #zenos case was worse for him than zarool ja #but the latter reminded him of the first so understandably he was in a bit of bad mood for a while #aaaalso writing this made me realize bakool ja ja might be fun ship for hawu'li lol #don't think i'll actually add it to his canon #but like. as someone who's enough of a dickhead to get hawu'li annoyed #it's fun to think how they'd go together you know?#tiny angy hissing catboy and big bratty lizard going “yeah? what you plan on doing about it little kitty? bonk me with your staff?”#and hawu'li getting so annoyed he'd actually get bahamut out and kick his ass lol #the secret non-canon hate ship lol #also yes hawu'li doesn't get angry often but when he does it usually involves someone voluntarily endangering multiple people #and he will hiss at you like a cat for it #flash his canines and all #bakool ja ja seems the type to find that really funny so he might bully him a bit just to get on his nerves haha #anyway uhh yeah #lamaty'i is his sister now #koana is friend/possible date #zarool ja is (dead) lost case that reminds him of zenos a bit #and bakool ja ja is a prick but at least he has some morals #answered ask #purple catboy #dawntrail spoilers

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numetaljackdog · 1 year ago

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headphones grins

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#ok i know these don't look all that special but the choruses on this song are fuckin massive #i really like pete loeffler's singing i think it's a big factor of why i like chevelle. both fun and really challenging to sing #i've often said that i believe them to be the underappreciated peak of second-wave post-grunge #which is admittedly as unimpressive as it sounds #anyway this record is pretty good especially for a band with so many albums over so much time #this was the lead single and it's about how science deniers are stupid dickheads who are ruining everything for everyone #not a first-time topic for chevelle either! if you dig this check out in debt to the earth <3 #& grins back #*char noises*#char asks #talking pop

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anotheruntitledsong · 7 months ago

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i did like the hidden palace but (SPOILER if anyone hasn't read it?) i'm genuinely so annoyed at how Arbeely is handled like... I wish i could be sad but i'm just fucking irritated. I was overly invested in him and that's def why but i just feel like they did him dirty

#the golem and the jinni #i was scrolling goodreads and the take i kept seeing was 'oh I wish Arbeely could've had his family too bad the jinni FUCKED IT UP'#but idk that's just not how i read him. like thats not where i feel the problem is #his whole shtick is being content as the jinni's foil and like! things can change! but the way it's done leaves him totally unresolved #which in turn means the jinni's shit is also never getting resolved because there is like no way to #when Arbeely describes his future family in the first book it's all 'someday... vaguely...' and AGAIN! what you want can change!#and honestly it's really interesting and sad that he makes this sacrifice for the jinni #but it's a layer of complexity that like clashes with how little he is there for and how little the author's invested in him #and like the way the no marriage literally did not ruin his life at all... sure it sucked but the man is still like idk rich #what has continuously fucked with him throughout both books is that he wants (or at least spends half his page time thinking about)#emotional connection to the jinni in a human way #which is something the jinni cant\wont give him even though he's basically Arbeely's only close friend #(besides ig maryam who was rlly funny hinting at her dislike for the jinni like someone trying to get their friend to dump their toxic bf)#anyway the vibe in the first book is that he only thinks about wanting a wife when the jinni is being a dickhead #BECAUSE the jinni eases arbeelys loneliness by just being there because at the end of the day that's what humans need #but then it's made really weird in the second book by Arbeely getting 'trapped' by the jinni (and yet they just grow further apart)#which means that the only thing arbeely actually spent half his life discontent with and then literally died without is not a wife #it's emotional intimacy with the jinni. which is insane to me #arbeely is obviously already tragic but this seems TOO tragic entirely because the book doesn't give af about addressing it #if it was like a plot thing then all of the above would be fine and gutwrenching because it ties back into the jinnis self isolation #BUT IT'S NOT. like i get arbeely isn't that important to the plot but he was important to the jinni and the jinni was important to him #alsoo necessarily disclaimer i'm not trying to say he's in love with the jinni or anything like that #although a queer arbeely (divorced from the above idea) would also been interesting cuz I dont think the jinni has a grasp on homophobia #so idk theyd be keeping each others secrets (arbeely x the biscuit man? JOKE)#BUTTTT! I don't believe he needs romantic energy! him and the jinni having awful vibes up until arbeely's literal death is what bothers me #The jinni is a bad communicator ik but come on... not once? not even before the diagnosis? The jinni also thinks about how distant they are #could they not talk a little? for me? there are ways to do it within the bounds of their characters FOR SURE #im sure this is the point but i do dislike it either way. anyway sorry arbeely u remind me of my uncle #the hidden palace

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honestlyvan · 2 years ago

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Also Earthspark team I am begging on my knees pls gieb Bulkhead and have Bulkhead and Jawbreaker have an intergenerational autie friendship. Pls pls pls pls, it would be so perfect

#HE CAN EVEN BE OLD FRIENDS WITH BEE #you could demonstrate Bee being... like BAD at communicating to Bulkhead who has to do a lot of the conversational heavy lifting #with his extremely allistic friend who never learned not to be a bit of a dickhead #like Bee clearly thinks he knows Bulkhead really well and it's pretty obvious that he actually doesn't #and it could be a lesson about how people don't always understand you and that's fine #they should still treat you well #you still deserve respect #kid media should also have adults who are neurodivergent #ESPECIALLY DEVELOPMENTALLY DISABLED ADULTS #so kids know that you don't necessarily 'grow out' of being yourself #it would be totally in line with the themes of the show #PLEASE I just want. Bulkhead. I yearn. Pls #fannish

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svturn-exe · 1 year ago

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some bitches rly r just mean as fuck for 0 reason like damn go outside. go get laid if that's what you need

#svturn talks #anyway. i'm done (jokingly) apologizing for listening to the like 3 kpop groups i like bro #i just wanna listen to the fuckin music i like man #some of these mfs aren't even hating bc of the horrors of the idol industry or bc of people getting Way Too Weird With It #(looking at you rpf smut writers & kpop twt at large)#some ppl rly just hate it either bc it's in korean or because its ''for 15 year old girls''#or both even. like pick a struggle already #r u a misogynist tht thinks things for teenage girls are shit simply because of the demographic/audience or are you racist pick one #if ur reason for disliking kpop is anything OTHER than how horrific the industry/idol culture is i want you to look into yourself #and think about why that is #i don't listen to 1d but it reminds me of how a lot of the ppl who were hating on one direction #were only hating bc it was ''for teenage girls'' instead of like. anything to do with like idfk #if a band member was a dickhead or killed a puppy or something idk shit abt those guys #but it's like. come on now

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chaoswillcalmusdown · 2 years ago

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i haven't been able to let go of glass onion (in a bad way) bc there's just something so frustrating about it and earlier today, i was trying to explain it to my brother and i said something about it feeling like "baby(aka rian) just saw get out and wants to write an equally clever script but for some reason it's also a murder mystery" and like. i think i got there. i think my main problem is how heavy handed everything is. but it's acting like it's so subtle and cool and smarT. saying "millionaire is bad bc he's dumb, actually!" is so lazy. saying "haha influencer thinks sweatshops make sWEATpants" is lazy. whatever the fuck he was saying about duke, the "haha alt-right man lives in mama's basement and is bullied by her hahaha" is lazy ?!?!?!?

get out(as my example of an actual clever movie) was smart because when you watch a second time you're like "oh shit that's why he said he couldn't bare to let them go after his parents died. he MEANT HIS PARENTS ANd NOT THE HELP" but in glass onion, a second viewing would just be you sitting there like "that's not actually andi, that's helen." that's not clever ?!?!?!?!?

#i'm convinced i would have enjoyed glass onion if they had shown us that andi was dead from the start #and cut between helen & blanc and the dickheads throughout #like. the “terminally online in 2020” references would have still annoyed me a lOT #but i would have watched it and been like 'sure whatever'#instead of 3 days of 'why the fuck did he exposition the entire fucking plot at me after i wasted an hour' 😠#i hate when a writer of a movie makes the audience feel stupid for watching their movie and buying what they showed us #it's not CLEVER that this woman was actually her secret sister all along!#that's lazy writing #i get so riled up abt this bc you know how much hype this is all buying rian sdfghfdsfg johnson?#every time this white mediocrity gets swallowed up by people en masse #i feel so sad for the good stories we won't get to see from miniorities #like. one rich white straight man writes some 'quirky leftist oneliners' and it's like we're back in the height of the mcu fandom #but now everyone thinks it's progressive bc it's making fun of unwoke people or 'elon musk'#i also hate how much rian's writing makes it seem like all these horrific rich people are bad bc they're dumb #i'm gonna go watch get out a 50th time and maybe some day glass onion will not be on my dash and then #i won't have to have a stroke abt it #i feel like janis ian with you people #the 'did you hang with AWESOME people and drink AWEOMSE shoooters?????' but it's about glass onion #i don't care if people enjoy it #i care that people genuinely think it's smart or good #i love bad movies #i love practically every early 2000s romcom #maid in manhattan is not a masterpiece just bc i love and enjoy it #i'm gonna go watch maid in manhattan and cry sdfvvds

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myfandomrealitea · 4 months ago

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I actually love hearing about reformed people's stories. I love hearing about people who were in toxic communities or people who used to objectively be dickheads talking about how they got out of that. How they made themselves better.

I hate how most people's initial reaction to stories like that are things like:

"How could you have ever done those things?!" "Oh my god, you believed those things?!" "Well it doesn't un-do the harm you did!"

People incessantly advocate for change but then refuse to allow people who have changed the grace of being acknowledged and given opportunities and chances.

I love hearing about ex-antis talking about how they don't spend their days being angry and sending death threats anymore.

I love hearing about ex-homophobes who realized there's no magic law about what is "natural."

I love reformed bullies talking about how they made amends with their victims and spend their days being considerate of others.

You can't scream about wanting people to change but then expect them to spend the rest of their lives stuck in the past and on who they used to be. You can't expect people to spend the entire rest of their lives grovelling and apologizing and demeaning themselves.

Instead of clinging to who they were, latch onto who they are.

Ask how they got out of it. Commend them on changing. Enjoy that there's one less cause of harm in the world.

#sephiroth speaks #myfandomrealitea #fandom #proship #reality #proshipping #society #community #bigotry #bullying #change #world issues

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pikachu-says-peekaboo · 2 years ago

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I agree, and to the people who are applauding the lawnmower neighbour, can you get out of your individualistic mindset that makes you the victim in every single person's lives and realise other people deserve to be happy.

sorry but in my opinion this is so rude

#the people in the notes here are actually so damn entitled lmfao #you can tell most of the assholes who are applauding lawnmower neighbour are at the very least american if not white americans #people cry on here everyday about how mean people around them are and don't realise they are also the dickheads in other people's lives #there was never going to be a way for them to win #if they didn't request quiet at a specific time then people would be mad that they didnt know beforehand #if they threw an extravagant wedding and rented out a hotel you would have called them wasteful pricks throwing money around #whilst there are people starving #like in any other place in the world #if you put this polite request in your neighbours doors #then you would see hundreds of well wishers with cards and balloons congratulating you #remember when people were roadting swedes for not feeding their guests #yeah you're not any better Karen you would be outed to the whole world as a scrooge who makes everyone unhappy #people asking for a few hours of quiet to celebrate a very happy occasion are not entitled pricks #if you are mad that you are beigm asked to take a break from being a public nuisance #then you must understand that you dont have enough real problems in your life #also can tell by the spelling of neighbour here that the people onvolved are british #so when i say white people are entitled #i mean white americans and white british people #because lets be real you wouldnt see this in like the other 90% of the world

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kyogos · 6 months ago

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Yes calling someone a slur should be at minimum a 5 week ban. Yes the bans for what's basically assault should also be increased from the 1-2 weeks at current. These thoughts can co-exist

#Different sport same old dickheads #Also all these people against the 5 weeks are like “boohoo words don't hurt” and then get upset when you call them snowflakes #pot meet kettle #This is about afl but honestly applies to most sport probably #ALSO #You go to almost any work place and start calling people slurs and you're being sacked not just suspended #“learn how the real world operates” you're the idiot here buddy if you think slurs are tolerated in the 'real world'#Okay im done now it's like 4am im tired

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theglizzardwizard · 6 months ago

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You're a pussy, dude.

#Why is this fandom full of whiny cowards that can't squash their beefs themselves #Talk to your friend bitch #I don't know or care about either of y'all #Sure I'm mean I make people uncomfortable bla bla bla that's their fault for bothering me in the first place #Cry white lady tears elsewhere #All that shit apparently started over a post I made about how training trap in dream land buildings is obnoxious #And guess what? My opinion has not changed take your dinky little level four trap to the streets you dickhead

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