#he was wrong asf for that

[c-t-r-l14]

Another small rant about Alex (Yes I know I talk about him a lot, no, I won’t stop)

A small part of me, a very small and petty part, really wants listener to move on from Alex’s gaslighting, excuse-making, crybaby ass.

Go back to therapy to see what went wrong, and learn from their mistakes.

Get they money up and not they funny up, and find a new man who will love them and actually TRY to make their relationship work despite their shortcomings. Men who are into communication. Men like Kayson or Jonah—two guys who love their partners, and won’t give up on them if it’s the last thing they’ll ever do.

And I want Alex to see them, with their successful life, and with their new partner.

And I want him to REGRET.

I want him to regret making excuses. I want him to regret the gaslighting. I want him to regret the way he broke up with them; and I want him to miss them, and what they had. I want him to grovel for them, and I want listener to deny his apology and tell him to take a hike. That they’re doing much better without him and his excuses, and walk away from him—leaving him alone to drown in his regret.

BUT.

A much bigger part of me, really wants listener and him to get back together. I want them both to try to work things out, too. I want both of them to recognize their own faults, talk about it like adults. A conversation without gaslighting, or making excuses. Before the argument, they had such good chemistry together, and it’s crazy that it went all up in smoke because of one stupid ass spat. I want them to both acknowledge that they are BOTH at fault for the way things turned out—not one party blaming the other under the guise of “kindness”, and “doing this for the greater good”.

Because the way Alex broke things off with them was not for the greater good, man. When it comes to the greater good, you don’t make excuses. You don’t gaslight. And you most definitely don’t put all the blame on one party.

I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if listener ended up with even more trauma because of this break up. Imagine you lose your cool, and act irrationally—and it’s the ONE TIME this ever happens—and you lose the person you care about? And then they make up excuses to leave you, all the while fully acknowledging that what you did isn’t who you are? And they BLAME you?? And gaslight you?? Omg, ya’ll���I would NOT know what to do in that scenario, bro.

I know I call out Alex a lot, and point out all the holes in his argument, but I feel like if I was ACTUALLY in the position listener was in, I’d believe every word he said. All of it, because it’s so easy to believe what people say when it comes from the mouth of the one you love. I can point out the flaws in his reasoning because I’m listening from an outside perspective. I can call him out because listener and and I are separate (I usually think of them as their own person). I really hope that listener has a good support group—one that tells them that the break up was not entirely their fault. I want them to call out Alex on his B.S., and reassure listener that the way he ended things was not right.

As for Alex, he could go on and frolick in the smog filled streets of New York City, if that’s what he wants. I live there, and there’s nothing special about it anyway—unless if rats the size of possums, smelly, disgusting subway stations and overpriced train fares is something that he finds appealing.

I’m glad that more people are realizing that Alex was wrong for this, though. I look at the comments of the break up audio and see so many people criticizing him, and even on Jonah’s newest video I see people comparing him to Jonah, and how Jonah and Kayson was “everything Alex should’ve been”. I love it so much.

It’s so refereshing to see more people on listener’s side.

[lilislegacy]

when i say percy is one of the only people in the world who will stand up to annabeth or call her wrong, i do NOT mean she’s a horrible person and he calls her out for being one. allow me to write a long incorrect quote scene to show you what i actually mean:

*in some battle, post-heroes of olympus*

annabeth, fiercely in control and leaning over a large map: okay, here’s what’s gonna happen, everyone. we are going to evenly distribute our forces and deploy them in successive waves. we must avoid further division to ensure that each wave remains strong and concentrated on the central target. we are going to systematically weaken their core. once their primary fleet becomes depleted, we will expand our focus to engage secondary targets. we will defeat brute force by gradually eroding their strength over the course of several hours. anyone got a problem with that plan?

everyone in the strategy tent, including the smartest children of mars and athena:

annabeth: that’s what i thought. okay so-

percy: actually, i do

*everyone’s eyes widen in surprise*

annabeth, raising her eyebrows: what do you mean?

everyone: *backing away slowly in fear of her wrath*

percy: i get what you’re saying, and usually you’d be exactly right. but i know these guys better than you do, wise girl. i’ve actually been here and fought a couple of them before. yes, they are insanely physically strong creatures, but you’re overestimating their intelligence and positioning. if we do what you’re saying, they’ll just pick us off little by little. we need to be quick and dirty. force their hand

annabeth, pinching the bridge of her nose: percy, you’re talking about a full frontal assault on their strongest point. that’s reckless. we’ll be outnumbered and overwhelmed.

percy, stepping closer to the map and pointing to the terrain: not if we use their terrain, which i personally know. if we concentrate our forces here and here, we can create the illusion of a weaker center. they’re crazy strong, but much more arrogant than you’re assuming. so knowing them, they’ll all focus on our main assault, assume they have us outnumbered, and put all their energy into trying to punch through. but if we’ve got our best fighters hidden in the valleys, instead of holding back, we can hit them from both sides once they commit

annabeth, her brow furrowing as she considers percy’s plan: we’d be baiting them into a trap. they’d think they’re winning, but the second they overextend, we surround them. they won’t see it coming because of the way their ranks are arranged.

percy: exactly

annabeth: it’s based off the assumption of their own tactical shortcomings, but… it’s brilliant. come here and show me all the pathways, and i’ll plan for the side attacks. do you have any advice there?

percy: nope, i need you for that part

*them working seamlessly together as everyone else stands around in shock*

[carbonatedketchupp]

hellloooooooo sailor 🫡🫡🫡

[errruvande]

I found someone who's gonna talk with me about about G Dragon 24/7 😭 She was so close this whole damn time, she's my bestie's friend. We've already talked for like 3 hours and she's fed me 26$72872819 pics of soft goofy GD I wanna cry

[cowboylikeghost]

oh I know Otto Hightower laughted his ass off when he read about what they did with that dragon's head

[destinyesque]

why the fuck do people like vein. i'm genuinely asking, because it seems like the only info we have about him is that he's crazy and eats people either literally or metaphorically. now, i can get down with cannibalism as much as the next guy, but from the way things are looking, there isn't an interesting reason for it. vein just seems like another one of those "batshit insane but for no discernible reason" characters. It's a tired trope already and hardly ever makes for interesting character or drama, but link click--emotionally grounded as it historically has been--is the last place i'd want to see that type. i personally don't see vein as anything more than a bad sign for the series, which is why i'm worried about s3. so i'm genuinely asking: why the fuck do people like vein?

[shigussy]

i keep getting tiktoks of these younger gen z kids referencing a time they did something relating to fandom in public and now they're embarrassed by it and everytime i see one i sit there thinking over all of middle and high school and having genuinely 0 moments that i feel embarrassed by, like i definitely did a lot of shit these kids would be embarrassed by but i think these are all just really fucking funny

also photographic evidence of the kinda kid i was. these are from 2014/15 when i was in 8th grade

-desolation row one shot(still on wattpad gerard way/reader smut)

-twerk it on (mcr crack fanfic no longer on wattpad but i have another fic in my library called twerking in taco bell which definitely ALSO used for my reading log)

-frank iero must die(a serial killer/assassin frerard fic, still on wattpad)

-hair (really vague maybe a phanfic? nowhere in my wattpad library rip)

my binder i used in 7th grade i had a blue one that looked pretty similar to this for 8th grade but idk where it went, also the parts i scribbled out are my full legal name i had written on it. i wrote it normally and then the big spot is where i wrote my name REALLY BIG in elysian code from the vladimir tod books. also the lines are from when i used an exacto knife to cut up some papers and forgot that my binder was underneath

in conclusion yall can now see why im so shameless about talking about shigaraki the way i do

[starch1ldz]

Thinking about the Spencer edit I did to doubt by twenty one pilots that got misinterpreted as a thirst edit when it was supposed to be sad 😔

[daveyfvckingjacobs]

I could make the circle tweets race is in trouble for but it’s kinda funnier if I leave it up to interpretation

[thothunter-420]

Does old man Pete still got cake??? For science

unfortunately my pinterest stash of 1k images of pete alone is somehow not providing evidence for the point i'm about to make (refusing to look this up on google also because i fear i will manifest smth) (you attract what you fear aaa beautiful man with dark hair and blue eyes and cake) but lemme speak anyways. my incredibly scientific theory is that all the fat in pete's body was originally allocated to his ass. so that's how he was built like a stick but still working overtime at the bakery, but the rest of his body absorbed it as he got older. but it's still spiritually there, y'know??

[thephantomhivefuckboi]

Ya'll, I'm fr about to beat my brothers' ass I was re-reading Chapter 206 of Black Butler--Specifically this part of the manga:

He asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was Black Butler, and his smart ass had the nerve to tell me that this scene of the manga including Doll reminded him of this image:

Now thanks to him, I can't fucking unsee this 💀

[valeffelees]

so sad the mage was an evil politician when he could've been such an annoying theatre kid instead

[hellwurld]

anons crazy 4 this one im not sorry. like truly calling it a ZERO out of TEN arc. u must be crazy im not sorry

[wriokitty]

Ughh I get u. Like seeing how much sweeter and kinder mincheol was in their hs years compared to now is so sad and honestly like my worst fear LOL.. but i love where the author is going though with the flashbacks and everything they’re literally cooking💆‍♀️.

No because I SO understand why she can’t stop thinking about him and why it’s so hard for her to move on bc fuck I’d be the same way if he romanced me that way when we were young 😭😭😭😭😭😭 marriage is so fucking scary bro imagine you marry a young mincheol and then he turns into the same guy who says this:

LIKE WHAT. THESE?? ARE?? THE SAME MAN????????

I’m devastated. That being said taeha is cute too I do think she’s at least blessed with not having a single man who isn’t a fine piece of work

[i-c-u-p]

going to start using this platform like twitter again and by that i mean posting relentlessly and going on rants in the tags

[screwoffdotnet]

when i was in 8th grade i was arguing with a boy in my class about the classroom party playlist that he put on and he told me "ohhhh my god shut up why dont you go listen to Wonderwall"