#harrassment cw

[the-lark-ascending69]

How would Nancy and Steve protect Robin from homophobic attacks?

I love this question. I love the idea of Steve and Nancy being kind of her... "protectors" in a way? The way she cried out their names and they both rushed to help her when the vines caught her... something in my cold heart melted. She's their lil soft bby lesbian, they must protecc (particularly love this in omegaverse AUs in which they're both alphas and Robin is an omega... ik it's not everyone's cup of tea but I adore it). I love the idea of Robin having two soulmates who recognize the danger she's in and how everyone will come after them if They Know so they promise to themselves (!! or each other!!) that they'll keep her safe.

Specifically, I'm thinking of a scenario in which Nancy and Steve kinda don't like each other. Maybe there are still hard feelings after their breakup, and they kinda give each other the side-eye, feeling uncomfortable when they need to share a space or when they're alone in a room without everyone else there making plans and stuff.

But every now and then, they find Robin being cornered at school, her head low, trying to make herself invisible and small as boys taller than her make horrible comments about frigid little dyke needing to see what she's missing, and Steve and Nancy don't even think. They walk up to where she is and push the boys away, eyes dark and voice severe, warning them to never come near her again if they know what's good for them. Boys often reply with something along the lines of "careful, Harrington, seems like your dyke girlfriend's got a hard on for Wheeler here", but they leave nevertheless. Robin remains silent, hugging herself, and mumbles a quiet "can you take me home?" or "can I stay over tonight?" She doesn't like being alone when these things happen, and she's reached a level of trust with Steve and Nancy in which she's comfortable seeking comfort from them, so she'll end up having dinner with both of them (because neither of them want to leave her, even if it means enduring each other's company). Steve will cook something while Nancy sets the table, hesitantly rubs her back and asks if she's okay, and then they'll watch a movie - Robin nestled between the two of them, playing with Steve's fingers or with the sleeves of Nancy's cardigan - touch and hand-holding has always been one of her love languages, especially when it comes to fear and comfort. Whether she falls asleep on Steve or Nancy's shoulder depends on the night, but regardless of it, Steve will carry her to bed and Nancy will tuck her in. They have this little routine, in that way. Nancy will lovingly observe her, kneeling before her bed, and very softly she'll tuck a strand of hair behind her ear while she sleeps. And Steve will stand nearby, arms crossed, watching both of them, a question in his expression, and heartbreak in Nancy's. They share a look - they can't let her face this alone. They can't let her get hurt. The entire world will be after her, and she needs them. Both of them. Because predatory jokes and insinuations are not her biggest problem - Jason Carver had given her a black eye a few months back because he saw her having a chat with his girlfriend (he attacked her in the way you'd attack a man, not a woman), and Billy Hargrove had made his intentions clear with her when she made the mistake of going with Steve to a party, and he saw her, and licked his lips, and he'd grabbed her by the back of her neck and told her he could help her with her problem. Robin's dark, self-deprecating jokes nowadays always hinted at something somber in her future - "okay, but don't cry when they find me dead in a ditch" or "Steve and I share the whole 'possibly becoming moms agaist our will' curse", and it always makes Steve and Nancy uncomfortable.

They might not get along nowadays, but they both adore Robin with their entire hearts. If it meant Nancy had to start keeping a gun in her glovebox, or that Steve had to make sure to never take his eyes off her at social gatherings, they'd do it. If it meant spending time together just to be with her, so she'll always remember she's not alone, they'll do it. Anything for her.

Safe to say that they always drive her to and from school and work, especially at night. Nancy has started cycling again just so she can be with Robin when she misses her bike. She always sits with her during lunch, and glares at anyone who dares to look at her. Rumors spread, of course, but people are much more afraid of Nancy than they are of Robin, and they rarely dare to do much more than whisper. Steve makes sure people see her with him whenever possible, as a reminder that she has people looking out for her and others should think twice before messing with her. Robin almost feels like a child, and she hates that she needs her friends to do this for her, but she's also so deeply thankful to have them. Truly, she loves them. She loves them both so much. She doesn't know how she's even going to make it up to them.

For now, she enjoys curling up in the Wheeler's basement couch with a blanket around her shoulders, a mug of hot chocolate in her hands, watching Steve and Nancy fight over which movie to watch. It's familiar. It's warm and safe and so full of love.

[ladyloveandjustice]

I know she's reacting like this because of his last-timeline murder of Mihui (and because he touched her fucking hair without her permission wtf) but I would react exactly this way to anyone who dared insult Rina in front of me.

YES MAKE RINA BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THIS INCEL. PLEASE, WE DON'T HAVE TO WAIT.

[wickjump]

ok wick is kind of upsetti spaghetti so im doin a little rant here. that’s it

people get very weird about proshitters. they give a billion arguments to why its not that bad but at the end of the day it’s consuming or supporting people who consume fictional child porn.

“but XYZ was proven false!” i don’t care about the jaws effect or the slenderman stabbing. i am talking about grown ass adults getting off to drawings of little kids getting raped. why is that so controversial to think is disgusting. why is it something that people are so quick to defend. i do not see any reason why a grown adult would get off to that unless there is something genuinely wrong with them and that should not be a controversial thing. an adult should not be aroused at the concept of a child being raped, even fictional.

if you hear: “an adult should not get off to drawings of a child being raped by an adult” and your immediate thought is to try and justify it, there might be something wrong with you, too. at the end of the fucking day, regardless of whatever shit you want to spout, you have to see the common fucking sense that is “a grown adult should not be jacking off to drawings showcasing the rape of children”. why is this a sentence so hard for you to accept. how come saying this gets people mad. how come grown adults with a 9-5 think this is okay. you are old enough to have raised the kids you’re getting off to in art form. that is not a good thing. you should not be left alone with a child.

if someone hired you to babysit their kid and saw your ao3 history you wouldn’t be allowed near that family ever again. if your coworkers saw your tumblr you’d be ostracized quicker than you can blink. if your parents saw your twitter you’d be disowned. getting off to kids is weird. you are the chronically online ones.

(do not harass proshippers. it is never productive, never causes any actual change, and only serves to make everyone in the situation stressed. proshippers do not change their minds because someone sent “kys” in their inbox. not to mention multiple younger pros were groomed into the community and all harassment will do is push them further into it and away from recovery. block pros and move on.)

[saewokhrisz]

average first sapphic breakup

[gothghostiie]

Creep!gaz would be so underhanded. Prolly readers some quiet invisible thing, maybe not even really a solider but some random admin on base. Someone whos just too meek to stand up for themselves among all the big bad soldires. Gaz would probably start small whenever he interacts with reader, maybe just touches that are just a little too friendly, hands just dipped too low down on readers back whenever gaz follows them somewhere and hugs that last too long.

Then it escalates into some really unprofessional questions. Asks all friendly like if they're still a virgin, how they like to masturbate, if they'd ever thought about being pissed on. Reader either tries to laugh it off or just shrinks up when he starts asking stuff like that hoping he'll get the hint but he just calmly stares back

It all keeps escalating until one day readers comes home from work and gaz is just in their apartment and he's not leaving until reader shows him a good time. Deff takes readers panties when he's done.

It's not like reader can even get help from anyone, cuz everyone knows gaz is so sweet and respectful, he'd never do anything like that. Reader really just needs to kiss and make up with him cuz clearly readers misinterpreted whatever happened.

MMMMMM. GAZ NATION RISE TF UP

seriously I need more of gaz in general but i NEEED perv!gaz in my life ugh

[powerpolyculeshowdown]

A vent about the poll runner that got doxxed:

I was originally going to reblog the post, as many people have - and I don't blame anyone for doing so, it's something people will want to spread awareness about, especially among other poll runners, because the stakes just got a lot higher. It's not just worrying about mean and hateful people in your inbox or your notes - which can be extremely harmful on its own and has led some mods to abandon their polls - but it adds a new layer of concern.

doxxing is very serious, it comes with it's own mess of fears to the victim: there's the same psychological harm you might get from the hate, but also a physical danger, because letting someone know you have their address is a threat. It's a very clear and serious threat, even if you don't say you'll do anything. It can be traumatizing, a lot of us are already neurodivergent and/or mentally ill in ways something like that can cause more harm than it would to a mentally healthy/neurotypical person, and those would probably be heavily affected by it as well. If you struggle with paranoia as a symptom of anything, or just very high anxiety, this could change your life drastically. If you don't struggle with those, you might start to. I don't know what kind of sick fuck would doxx someone without knowing how awful their action is, but on the off chance there's people out there that would do it and somehow don't realize the gravity, please have some compassion. You don't even need empathy, you just need common sense. Think critically about how you're going to hurt that person. Hurt people around them. Why do you want to do that?

In the end I decided against reblogging the original post. I don't know OP, i don't know how they're feeling right now, I can only hope they're as okay as they can be, and they're safe. But I know that in their place I wouldn't want notifications reminding me of the whole thing. I know you can turn those off, but I felt more comfortable not reblogging it. I also won't say who the victim is, I don't feel comfortable exposing them like that, but there's lots of other poll runners reblogging it* and you might find out through them.

*to clarify, i'm not trying to claim me not reblogging it is somehow the "morally correct choice". its not a matter of what's correct, it's just a personal choice. In fact, i'm thankful that people are reblogging it because I was made aware of the danger, as I didn't follow op. There's pros and cons to either decision, mine was to not reblog.

And not to make this about myself, that's really not my intention, but i'm fucking terrified after reading that. I haven't given up on the poll, but I might need some time to recover because i'm not exactly the most stable person and shit like this rlly messes me up. I hope you can all understand if the round one polls don't come out on sunday. I won't apologize if they don't, cause i think this is a pretty good reason to need a break.

Once again, I hope the mod for that poll is safe, and i hope they can recover from this soon.

[the-shipper-center]

Random Proshipp rant + vent ?

— Antis pls block me

"Oh cos all minors that are proshippers are just actually being groomed." All the antis that I've met always tried to harras me even though I didn't even was in their space. I got SO MANY rape threats from "nice antis" that "just wanted to help me recover from being a proshipper" that I just realized that it would be better for me to simply go anon for months so i could avoid them.

Antis are harrasers by their meaning. If you think that promoting non abusive spaces i = being wrong, then you are promoting abusive spaces. When I first was introduced to anti culture, back in 2022, I was convinced to join them, and it's ridiculous how much it's normalized to be totally aggressive towards people that you don't even know. For many antis, rape jokes and "kys!!" Bullshit is nothing. They "care about the victims," but they are the first in the list to spam your DM with rape threats.

It's hard to have conversations with them because not only are they actually uneducated about the terms they use, but they also tend to just be mean when they can't answer questions. Tiktok antis are the raw proof of that behavior, and for their circle, this is completely OK to do so.

There is such trivialization of traumatic experiences that I see kids around 13 saying things like "Oh I love seeing proshippers sh themselves !1!1!1!" (Wich, btw is the translation of one of those comments I got months ago, the 4th, sended by Stanley). Do you guys understand how DISGUSTING you need to be to wish to some one to get SA'd cos they enjoy a shipp?? In what world are we living in man💀

I get that you can think age gape/incestuous shipps are gross, and that's totally okay!! But don't take your free time to doxx a random teen over an anime shipp. Those things are actually illegal, not the shipps. "Oh, but I don't wanna see proshitterss on my dash." BLOCK THEM, FILTER/BLOCK TAGS, STOP INTERACTING WITH EVERY SINGLE PROSHIPPER U SEE IF U HAVE "PROSHIPP DNI" ON UR BIO !!!!! TRUST ME, WE DON'T WANT TO SE YOU GUYS ON OUR DASH EITHER !!

[cold-red-venom]

I'm sure you've all seen this tumblr, taythewho, before. They spend their time making single word responses to multiple different people in the replies of various different posts, such as, "what", "wrong", "no", and the occasional "yes", "shut up", "i'm a woman", "maLe", "exactly",and a correction or two.

Since they did this to me once, I have taken to copying them and just spam replying to them with the same words they use, they continue their thing with me before eventually it dies.

However they do not like that so they have messaged me directly so they can be directly transphobic to me, presumably so that no one else will be able to see and say something about it. I just kept up with the parroting, as you can see they try to bait me into saying certain things to get me to argue with them, I don't care, I continue, they blocked me, I noticed they unblocked me so I went for some more because I'm petty, they blocked me again.

They might unblock me again and see this, but I don't care, just beware of them because they aren't just annoying, they are also transphobic :D

(There is also a section of the messages in the first screenshot that repeat completely, this didn't actually happen, idk why it's like that)

[slugass]

for the love of god why is the “war flashbacks” meme still a fucking thing to this day

(because people thrive on stereotypes about serious mental illnesses)

[girlfox]

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[thisiswhattheycallafinecareer]

Ok. I opened a can of shit worms by crossing to the TERF side of Tumblr. But good fucking God, "it's logically inconsistent" --so identity is based on rigid soulless reality and nothing self-referential or conditional?

An AFAB person who thinks their experience as a woman is similar to another woman, but they have different coffee orders--is logically inconsistent?? An AFAB person "I feel girly today" is to be cross-examined by any AFAB person in a five mile radius for its measurable, conformed girliness?

TERFs are just conservatives who haven't figured it out yet. Just say you hate women, and YES I mean cis women.

(there is no self ID loop you're just literally making word salad)

[thedeafprophet]

Saw a thing of "dont harass people in fandom if they haven't done anything wrong!!" And uh no, the first half of that sentence is all you need. Don't harras people, period.

Harming others isn't okay even if they did something wrong. And let me tell you, what one person considers 'justifiable' for harming other people *vastly* differs from person to person. Don't be like that

[slugass]

how to call out anti-autistic ableism:

USE A FUCKING BRAINLET, THE VISUAL VERSION OF CALLING SOMEONE THE FUCKING R-SLUR, SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED TO MOCK DISABILITY, BOTH PHYSICAL AND MENTAL, TO REPRESENT THE BIGOT, BECAUSE IT COULD NEVER BE NON-(MENTALLY) DISABLED PEOPLE DOING THE BIGOTRY MOST OF THE TIME, RIGHT???

I’M SURE THAT WON’T MAKE YOU LOOK HYPOCRITICAL AND ABLEIST AT ALL.

[connoisseur-of-love]

some ideas/headcanons on each variant of the mabill/mawill ship.

i love all of them equally

Mawill (reverse Mabel X Will)-i like to think this ship has a wierd maternal side to it, I hc that Will essentially raised the twins since they where like 12, so theres some love to them in the form that they are his children. but being a demon, theres a disconnect, and its not the proper thing. I think ppl portray MaWill with it entirely being abusive on Mabels side way too often, and I don't fully like this idea, in my honest headcanon, its a type of relationship where both strive for dominance, and in situations where Mabel is fully vunruble, Will takes advantage of that and vice versa.

Will especially, since in my version of the au. will was essentially like Bill prior to being a butler for the pines (I don't like when they go by gleeful), so in scenarios where he can, he can finally exert his power he has been lacking for years

anyway

reverse-Mabill (reverse mabel and bill)-Semi partners in crime where they both look to manipulate eachother for their own inherent selfish acts, but fall in love with them. in my hc for this relationship, Mabel is clingy to Bill, but Bill can put her in her place every once awhile.

I like this ship, cause Unlike Mawill, its so obviously abusive and even chaotic, while I find Mawill to have so many layers. while this is so much more "simple" (even though its not really-it still has layers), and its also slightly less-idk, depressing? I have more to say about this ship, but I can't think about it

Mabill (normal)-of course, this is a little more easier to explain. I just love the almost cliche enemies to friends to lovers trope they obviously have. Honestly, other than slight power imbalance, i think antis blow there "toxic" traits out of propertion. of course, some others may disagree, but I don't think they are that bad of a toxic couple, Mabel and reverse mabel are very different due to circumstances and so are the bills so. idk man.

anyway, mabill is generally also a funny ship, they have such good moments of comedy in them, that i also LOVE

Normal mabel x will-I like to think that mabel goes into the relationship thinking. "I can help him get out" to "Okay, but first I have to fix HIM"

other than that, I like to think there pretty sweet together, Will is able to keep a composure of how fucked up he is so he doesn't tread over mabel as a person. ignoring that Mabel is definitely strong enough fo r him. there so cute

[hook-line-and-sinker]

Hi,

I know this might sound like a live under a rock but i just found out about the absolute fuckery happening in the US regarding Trans-Folks right now. Im not even talking about the horrible bills passed over the past year or so, but more so the terrible violent protests often including people welding straight up nazi symbols and rethoric.

I watched a german news report about the bud-light boycott today which included clips like these and was so shocked I almost started crying. As a german who's ancestors lost their lives in WW2 fighting for this exact ideology, seeing ideas like this on the rise again is seriously scary. Especially seeing the rage being directed at queer folks and religious minorities.

I've repeatedly noticed people peddling conspiracy theories and bigotry on posts of mine that included jokes with queer (especially trans) themes. Ive been harassed and told to kms over fish jokes. Im not even trans. Let alone an activist.

I hope ya'll are doing okay. I can only imagine how the this hostile atmosphere and political climate must be affecting the folks actually in the crosshairs of these people.

I really try to make my blog into a safe space for all kinds of queer and other marginalized folks and block comments, replies and tags as well as blogs that appear in my notifs with questionable views on sight. Though sometimes I might overlook them/ not be on tumblr for a while, in which case, please don't make yourself a target by interacting with these users. I will delete their comment/ block them as soon as I get to it.

Please stay safe. My heart goes out to you. I hope I can provide a cozy and secure place for you filled with squid fun facts. 🦑

-Hook

[lemonofthevalley]

oh i forgot about my world religions diversity paper . i have to either attend a religious worship of a religion other than my own (no thanks) [THE NO THANKS IS BECAUSE OF MY SOCIAL ANXIETY . /srs] or do an inperson/video call interview with someone of a different religion (i have not spoken to the only people ik irl who arent christian/atheist since like 8th grade . urgh)