#good partner drama

[atimeofbeing]

you know, its wild that Good Partner, with in the first couple of eps, sets up an idea of marriage that is "strangers who become family" and then relentlessly goes out of its way to show that that is exactly what cha eunkyung and han yuri are.

like. yuri is basically jae hui's main confidant, and the adult who seems to be the only one (early on, eun kyung definitely gets better at this) who can balance jae hui's precociousness with the fact that she's still a child

and yuri's mom is the person who comforts eunkyung in what is arguably one of her worst moments! she picks eunkyung up and comforts her and also looks out for her professional reputation

of course this culminates in eunkyung ultimately reaching out to yuri instead of woojin when she feels weak - reaching out to someone she's known for maybe a few months instead of the person she's known more than a decade - because she's a stranger who has become family

[mineonmain]

Tell me i'm wrong...

[bonefall]

i found a god awful doc about this one person (who, too, is a god awful being) trying to reason why mudClaw would be a bad leader. I'ma try to find the doc but meanwhile I'll submit this because someone could have the link, I'll need your honest thought about it bcs why are we defending oneWhiker now

Anon, buddy, I'm gonna have to sit you down and gently discourage you from casually calling random human people "god awful beings" in my inbox like this. Not when you're just talking about relatively basic media analysis. That isn't ok or normal.

I hope that when I speak harshly, it's coming from a place of condemning hurtful actions and the tangible harm that they cause. I don't appreciate people trying to get me to directly beef with other people directly by requesting I break down their individual posts or analysis documents (when I ask for people to share links, it's so I can see and prepare to counter the ideas because they usually "float downstream" if they get popular); but in a second ask, you linked this document and there's nothing harmful in it. In fact, it's got a far more neutral tone than I'd take if I was writing an analysis about Mudclaw.

If you couldn't tell the difference between a document like this and one that contains active abuse apologia rhetoric, I would be filled with concern. But I don't think you read it. I think you maybe skimmed it and stopped reading, or just heard the title.

Because this document literally says this;

and your takeaway, something you felt so strongly about that you came to me hoping I'd validate it, was "Why Are We Defending Onewhisker Now."

Art is a tool we can use to explore our own biases, and teach us something about ourselves. That overwhelming sense of anger and disgust that you probably felt when you saw "Mudclaw Would Be A Bad Leader" made you jump to an emotional conclusion and you assumed something that was not said. I know the feeling. You might have had a reactionary impulse.

You are not a bad person for doing that-- you're human. You can grow.

Why did it upset you this much, though? Is there something very personal about this that set you off? ...are you spending a lot of time in spaces online that keep you angry? These are questions for you to reflect with.

I do not know the owner of this document or "what they've done," if anything, so I will not link it, because their Discord is at the bottom of the doc. If they are truly a "god awful being", please do not engage, just block and move on. Nothing is accomplished by following around 'A Bad Guy' and boosting their cat takes.

But something VERY bad WOULD be accomplished if I indulged an anon for a situation I know nothing about and unwittingly became part of a harassment campaign. How do I know that you've got good intentions?

I usually just delete unsolicited links to docs and videos that are 'fightbaiting' like this-- trying to get me to beef publicly with a 3rd person. But I've seen more of these than usual lately so I would like to try and cool it down.

[sotc]

missin my crow familia so baddd rn 💔

[printed-paws]

I love thinking about aus where Billy raised Sam

He'd be such a bad dad it's hilarious

[altarfates]

I want to preface this by saying that I am holding myself accountable for not stepping up and either breaking off the friendship sooner or defending myself properly. As it stands even now I am not someone who copes well with confrontation and would rather stay as far away from it as possible. I’m speaking now because other people are coming forward with their stories and experiences. Whilst I have very few actual screenshots of conversations please understand that the interactions I’m discussing impacted me quite a lot mentally. It’s up to you to decide if you think I’m overreacting but by the end of those six months I had basically decided I no longer had a place in the rpc where I was welcomed after losing that friendship. I’ll be putting this under a read more so look at your own discretion. I won’t be speaking about this again after this.

If terios / ty sees this and decides they wish to unblock me and speak about it in order to see these feelings discussed and resolved im okay with that and if anyone else who has been in a similar situation needs someone to talk to or discuss it with in also open to that.

At the beginning of our friendship things were pretty intense and feeling like you were the main writing partner for someone who had already established themselves a place in the rpc was such a good feeling ? It’s like you really belong and you have someone who is so invested in your portrayal that you feel really important. There were many times where this once good feeling became tarnished by negativity, bitterness and what to me, felt like being bullied or belittled.

I’ll touch on a few things I really do remember quite clearly and be understanding that my adhd / ptsd and other things impact my capacity to retain information all the time I try to be very clear with this when talking with mutuals to avoid them becoming frustrated when I don’t remember everything all the time. they would tell me I wasn’t listening or paying attention when I tried to explain this.

there was a lot of time monopolising that I ended up enabling, this one in particular was mentioned to me by my partner who ended up feeling like I really distanced myself from them and even when I did want / try to spend time with them terios’ reaction would always be to change their tone to speaking bitterly or giving off this change of energy and if you recognise it you know it’s the sort where you’ve done something wrong and you need to fix it immediately.

There were also times where other friends became an issue, terios had problems with someone I was interacting with on dash. At the time I wanted to be in their corner because we were really close, they were my closest friend but these people had also been nothing but nice to me and I didn’t have issues with them. This tension went on for a while until terios let me know that I was two faced for not taking their side fully and I ended up blocking them which I thought was the right answer to appeasing someone who was upset. Yes, this was my fault I should have said no but they were a really important friend to me and I wanted them to feel like they were heard and understood. In the end I lost both of those friends and another friend who told me that if I continued to always take terios’ side in arguments like that I would have no one else left but them in the end.

It also happened when I mentioned that I was watching things with my mutual, we had only just started writing again after not speaking for a long time and terios was instantly making comments about it, usually vague and never good and when I finally said hey you know this isn’t cool to be saying this their response was just that I should have told them that sooner.

They were always unpleasant about Gepard ships that weren’t ours and I don’t know if that was because they just had a bias or not but I remember plotting an almost au verse with a firefly writer and dropping it because they were telling me when and how would that happen why is this something you’re writing ? basically implying that I owed it to some how justify what I was deciding to write for my muse ?

This also happened when I was creating an au for Gepard around being a vampire hunter I was so excited about it and I wanted to tell them and their response was to pick it apart reminding me oh this doesn’t make sense for Gepard’s canon age or this doesn’t make sense for his family and whilst I get caring about canon it really made me feel ? like my spark had just been squashed something I was so excited about just being torn to shreds completely and I never spoke about it again, tobias was there when this happened I had just came home from the gym in tears because I was so upset about it.

As those who interact with me know I am someone who is always earnestly trying to expand my vocabulary and learn new ways to incorporate cool stuff into my writing and there was one time one time when I used a word wrong and I did apologize for it and they ended up bringing it up over and over again for three months and whilst it was a joke in their eyes I don’t doubt it really just made me not want to try to improve my writing anymore and minimised myself to be someone they would approve of.

it also felt like anytime I began to get the confidence to bring up how I was feeling that it was turned around to make me feel worse or shit and like the whole situation was my fault rather than looking at it and both taking accountability and working to find a solution. I found this so challenging because so many times I left feeling like I was truly in the wrong because they had told me I was.

SC:

The last thing I will mention is that they will jump between gepard writers quite frequently. I wasn’t on the receiving end of this but I do know that when they blocked me only a day later then were dming a mutual and friend of mine who they had all but ghosted for those six months asking to write again. While this isn’t the worst thing ever I can only imagine how shitty that must feel and I know when they spoke to me and I said this it really hit home for them that they had been second best for those whole six months despite being there before me. This has happened with other Gepard writers too not just me and that person.

In the end a lot of this shit could have been amended if I told them your behaviour is shitty and it’s making me feel like shit but who wants to be put in a situation with a friend or writing partner where they feel like they have to make that choice.

I still do think terios is a good writer and they’re committed to the sampo they’re shaping but there are ways to interact with people that are kinder and not always with this undertone of being nasty or mean or spiteful. Again, if they or anyone else does want to talk to me about this they can and I trust that everyone can decide who they want to write with themselves. I just want my feelings and story to be heard and others to know they can speak up too.

[vindicated-truth]

Oh the stories you can tell just from this specific set of photos alone

[whos-hotter-jjba]

[mikuni14]

Last Twilight - Ep 11

So basically Mhok is traumatized because he didn't do something, he didn't take care of something, he dismissed something at the wrong moment and he lost his sister, he was left alone… and now he is doing something all the time, watching over, caring all the time and… he lost his loved one and was left alone. Again. Mhok just can't win right?

Well, I don't judge whether it was good or bad that they broke up. What pisses me off is the execution of this scene, i.e. completely breaking, trampling and throwing away Mhok's heart. Mhok didn't lie to Day to hurt him, on the contrary, Mhok shows complete, selfless, pure love for Day, from the beginning. Whatever his motives are, they are ALWAYS good.

I just… don't understand the cruelty of this scene. He was happy one moment and completely destroyed a few minutes later, accused by a loved one as if he had done something, idk, criminally wrong. What amazes me is that they have been together for a long time, they have been through a lot, they have shared so many difficult experiences, Mhok has ALWAYS stood faithfully by Day's side, put up with his bullshit, moods, whims and never imposed anything on him. And Day, instead of fighting with him, even asking him for to stay away for some time, but after that TALKING about it, working on it, asking other people for advice (I'm sure other blind people have had such experiences with their loved ones, probably even On), simply completely ignores their entire relationship and dismisses Mhok from his life. After Mhok told him why he did it and that it was about his sister.

I REALLY don't understand the cruelty of this scene. My heart bleeds for Mhok, who just keeps giving to people who don't give him a chance, who abandon him without a word of explanation. It was as if the whole world had conspired against him.

Idk, I just think Mhok deserves better. ​

[gummysharkzz]

TDAU Chapter 13 Spoilers

This is so sad. Alexa play Margaritaville in D Minor

Based off of @squirrelpatties and @hostilemuppet s Twitter Drama Au!

[lemonfreshlysqueezed]

Biting is a love language!

- Part 2

Here’s a link to Part 1 Because i was not done after that one. So here we go:

Old Fashion Cupcake

Nozue x Togawa

Gif by @wanderlust-in-my-soul

2moons2

Forth x Beam

Gifs by @nammminn

Gen y - Multiple times

Kit X Mark

Gif by @227moons

Gif by @longinglook

War of Y

Achi - Most

Gif by @wanderlust-in-my-soul

Gap The series

Mon x Sam

Gifs by @heretherebedork

Badbuddy

Pat x Pran

Gif by @thesoupofthetruck

Secret Crush on you

Nuea x Toh

Gif by @pharawee

[eveneechan]

Good Partner Eunkyung x Yuri: Opposite Attract

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Eunkyung and Yuri described as divorce lawyer who have very opposite personality and method, but yet compliment each other and have similar principal.

Like Yin and Yang.

This got emphasis in their visual design too both Eunkyung and Yuri oftenly wear black because it's their uniform, but in some scenes, for example like in title drop scene:

Yuri wear White and Eunkyung wear Black.

Like saying how they are contrast to each other, but can be Great Partner to each other.

Another important detail that maybe not many people take noticed, interestingly Eunkyung and Yuri always wear earrings:

Eunkyung = Silver

Yuri = Gold.

Silver is symbolism of Moon, and Gold is Sun.

Also Yuri is described as warm hearted person, like a Sun. While Eunkyung is the opposite.

One of Good Partner ost have title "Talking to The Moon". I kinda believe the Moon refer to Eunkyung.

That's why I drew Sun in Yuri and Moon in Eunkyung

[trashgoblincreature]

yknow. if smollusk was made from tartar's data, that would. technically make tartar its parent. right.

lil judd. was created from a cloning device. which tartar's creator also made. so. lil judd is technically his brother, like judd is. right.

not only does he have a problematic kid he doesnt know about who was evil once. he also has a little brother that stole grizz's company as soon as grizz was defeated

and judd. just. has nothing to do with it

[marymekpop]

⟢ highlight of the hour: d.p. 2 [6/6] ⟣

closure

[princess-aeducan]

I loveeee Handers art where it’s supportive and they help eachother and they’re fugitives together, but anytime I play the Anders romance ingame I have a deep need to make it as unhinged and dysfunctional as possible.

[mysicksecrets]

ex boy pet had to unfollow me on everything when i broke it off with him bc he “couldn’t stop thinking about me” AND JUST NOW HE FOLLOWED ME AGAIN 😭😭😭😭😭😭