#god forbid women have personalities i swear

[beanghostprincess]

the mean lesbian stereotype is so frustrating bc so many of us literally get called that for standing up for ourselves or simply being uninterested in men. anyway I think we should be more evil.

[thousandyearphantombunker]

"women need to be meaner! Men shouldn't dictate a girls boundaries"

You couldn't handle Connie Maheswaran setting healthy (and much-needed) boundaries with her best friend. You freaking called her toxic and abusive. While season 3 of Amphibia is a hot mess Sasha Waybright being upset with Marcy isn't the problem! It makes sense she'd be pissed that she found out her friend borderline kidnapped her! Even if she can be read as kind of hypocritical, I think she has every reason to be upset! She's like what 14 at the oldest? In a terrifying situation?

It's always "set healthy boundaries" until they set boundaries with your favorite baby and don't spend 100% of their time supporting them/don't forgive their friends for their actions that hurt others

I'm sorry that Steven is your woobie child and Marcy is your comfort character but Connie and Sasha have a right to their feelings and a right to focus on their needs! It's always 'don't feel guilty about focusing on your needs' except not really because apparently focusing on yourself is actually selfish and it's morally wrong to feel certain ways about people! Connie isn't toxic- she acted really mature about the whole situation and while Sasha definitely is toxic- I think she has the right to be mad her friend borderline kidnapped her and broke her trust.

I am a firm believer in setting healthy boundaries and never letting anyone decide your boundaries for you especially when it comes to being supportive. Even if the person you are helping is a good person going through a rough patch you should still have boundaries with them- you can be supportive if you want but you should be your main priority in the need and as callous as it sounds it's not mandatory to give support to everyone especially if your being worn thin

[yuridovewing]

i understand the frustration with “i made this gay pairing cis x trans so they can still have biological babies” with no thought to other methods and how ppl assume thats the case when it comes to mothpool aus where mothwing is also the mother of the three, but also…. idk i kinda dont give a shit if someone wants to do that and i dont really think its inherently transphobic as long as its handled with care and respect.

what really concerns me about this debate is how some people are adamant that you cannot portray trans people having biological children in media or youre being disrespectful. and im gonna say as a nonbinary person who doesnt want children for themself- thats kinda fucking weird? like i understand that for some people, theyre trans themselves and theyre speaking from a place of dysphoria, and i absolutely get that, which is why i think the topic should be handled with nuance and diversity in trans characters, but like…. guys. pregnant trans men exist irl. trans women get people pregnant irl. trans ppl’s ability and right to parent and have biological children are being debated irl. we get denied the opportunity to adopt as well.

in a climate like this, are we SURE we want the stance on rewrites and headcanons in the silly cat books to be “if you portray trans characters having children, especially with a gay couple, youre a transphobic freak no matter what!” does it really matter? especially if its being done by a trans person handling the topic with nuance who has a lot of trans characters with varying perspectives?

obviously yes, remember that thats not the only way certain gay couples can have kids, remember that not every trans person is fully comfortable with it and keep that in mind, remember that surrogacy and adoption are also perfectly valid ways to give fan babies- but remember that there are OPTIONS. not that you need to condemn the idea of transgender parents in the first place unless they fit the very specific criteria of “proper transgender representation” and anything that dares deviate from that is proof the op is a transphobic monster (bonus points if theyre a trans creator bc i mostly see trans people getting shit for this and it kinda pisses me off. although idm if cis people do it either as long as theyre handling it with respect)

[deepseawave]

obsessed w the tags on ur last reblog

Omgg, thank you haha, it was a quality post so I just had to appreciate it in full force 😂❤️

Can‘t believe someone would actually enjoy my yapping :,D

[diagonal-queen]

Uuuuuuh, an idea has just arrive on my mind🤭 you know that boys usually tease girls they like right? I’m really curious how Tachihara and tecchou would do it… (I’m really curious for tecchou😭)

Teasing their crush

♡ pairing: Tecchou Suehiro, Tachihara Michizou, Dazai Osamu, Fyodor Dostoyevsky x fem!Reader

♡ synopsis: How do these boys tease the girl that they like (that's you!)?

♡ cw: Swearing, Jouno suffers a lot, Fyodor is toxic as always, mention of suicide, I somehow manage to bring Astarion up here?? (sorry)

note: i know i know. it's been a while, and i apologise. i just have been so so busy. right now i'm in an exhausted trance writing this and i'm certain i'll wake up tomorrow with no recollection of writing it at all. also threw in dazai and fyodor for the sillies i hope you don't miiind~ as always apologies for errors and i hope you enjoy x

Tecchou:

I cannot see him teasing you.

I'm sorry anon but I just can't see him teasing a girl he likes. He would either be generally nice to her, super awkward but still okay, or just come off as cold and aloof. He wouldn't go out of his way to tease a girl or exchange playful banter with her

If he ever tried to tease he would probably just straight up be mean and insult you or something. And then he wouldn't understand why it didn't work

(Jouno is smacking his head against the wall)

Don't worry. If he's gonna cope with his feelings for you he's gonna do it in a way that benefits you i.e. he's just going to be super obvious about it and not even try to hide it

(update: Jouno is still smacking his head against the wall. someone help him)

Like he'll just openly buy you food and presents and tell you he likes you and like hold your hand and shit?? Tecchou is no-nonsense. He wants to date you, he'll let you know.

And it's not like Tecchou's trying any 'techniques' or anything like that. There is not a THOUGHT behind those beautiful eyes; he's just following his heart <3

Tecchou might be a bit dense when it comes to such socially complicated things as courting, but he's a genuine person and wants to make you feel appreciated, and let you know he loves you. He just does it in the only ways he knows how <3

Tachihara:

The opposite of Tecchou

He's such a teaser. He likes to make jokes with and poke fun at his love interests, but sometimes might go a bit too far with it (If he does he genuinely feels super bad and apologises dw T-T)

Like he's one of those kinds of guys who you would get so caught up in the flirty banter with that you just talk for hours

If you're texting you guys are both kicking your legs and squealing in between texts lowkey, like you're secretly such lovesick dorks but you play it so cool

Some kaguya sama love is war type shit you guys have going on

And god forbid you do this in front of other people. They're probably SO uncomfortable. Like oh my god get a room already (this dot point was ghostwritten by Jouno)

As you two get more and more into it, he becomes less tease-flirty and more sweet-flirty. He genuinely compliments you instead of exchanging little jabs and backhanded teases, and it's so CUTE

He also, for some reason, gets more shy instead of less shy. He blushes, he messes with his hair- AUGH he's so cute

In all honesty no matter what way, shape or form Tachihara flirts with you, even if he's awkward and fumbles each time, he's still such a charmer that you can't help but love him anyway. some messy hair and a sweet boyish grin goes a LONG way!

Dazai:

This is what I like to call Egotistical Flirting

He will tease you by telling you how much you love him, how much other women love him, how wonderful of a guy he is and how great of a deal he's constantly offering you. Yes, the 'deal' in question is dinner and a movie double suicide

And of course you roll your eyes and chuckle, and while he pretends that he's all offended that you aren't openly falling for it, he LOVES that. He loves your affectionate sarcasm and he could milk it out of you for days if he had the time

And he doesn't even wait to even learn your name before he immediately goes full on womaniser. He would just approach you like 'Heyyy~' and it's all downhill from there.

Dazai is a man on a MISSION is what I'm saying

He will also tease you by embarrassing you. He just says the most oUT OF POCKET stuff out of nowhere in public?? He absolutely delights in seeing you get all embarrassed and having you swat at him and scold him

(He's a bit of a masochist don't question it)

Naturally, this is generally a facade to hide the fact that he is hopelessly infatuated with you, and kinda scared of commitment. He hopes you'll accept him as he is but just in case... it's easier to put up a nonchalant front.

Don't worry Dazai. you've got nothing to worry about. :)

Fyodor:

Mind games. Mind games. MIND GAMES

And not the good kind!

He will tease you with this neat little trick he uses called psychological warfare. In his experience it's 100% effective

Fyodor is a toxic little shit. He doesn't often really 'tease' so much as 'neg'. He doesn't quite care too much about your esteem as long as he's able to make you like him back.

You guys know this thing called Ascended Astarion? yeah this is basically just that but ✨ Russian ✨

All this being said he actually does feel affection and love towards you, and he DOES care. He just doesn't want you to reject him, so he'll use any trick necessary to prevent that (regardless of general ethics for the most part)

Fyodor is an all rounder. He'll tease, show genuine affection, neg, flirt, stalk, lovebomb...the whole shebang (I'm sure he asked Nikolai for tips, and I'm even more sure Nikolai had MANY)

Fyodor is just so emotionally out of touch when it comes to other people that he genuinely has no idea how to just...flirt, or even really be casual, like a normal person. It would be sad if he wasn't such a motherfucker

Honestly all of you 'I could fix him' girlies would fall hook line and sinker for this (and I'm allowed to say that because I am one of you)

In the end...man, just date Tachihara

taglist~ ♡ @gettinshiggywithit, @fyodorhatr, @flower-of-darkness, @bejeweledgirl, @kokoenjiandco, @pinkiipeachiikeen, @call-me-albie

[sturniolo-rat]

✨Matt Sturniolo Headcanons✨

For True And Certified Yapper Girls🗣️

🤍 Matt loves talkative women

From what I gather Matt isn’t naturally a loud person with paragraphs and paragraphs to say. He thinks a lot and says things in a very efficient so he doesn’t use so many words. I think he would absolutely love to have a yapper girlfriend that’s really engaging and asks tons of questions. He’d never have anxiety about being boring or sounding awkward because you’d carry and direct the conversation. He would worry about how to respond to statements because you’d ask him questions to direct his thoughts to.

🤍 You always make sure he’s included

You tend to dominate and lead group conversations. It’s easy for his voice to be overshadowed by yours so you’re always keeping an eye out for him. When you notice he’s making a face like he wants to say something you make everyone listen up. “Thank you, Baby. I wasn’t sure they heard me before.” Sometimes depending on the crowd he’ll get really anxious whisper to you his thoughts. You immediately redirect your attention and start yapping away loudly to him so the group is interested in what he has to say.

🤍 He likes watching you be outgoing

Matt doesn’t always want to be a part of conversations but he does like to watch you when you’re in your element talking up a storm and telling fun stories it’s and silly jokes. He’s happy to see you being yourself. It even turns him on a little bit. If he’s been watching you talk all night at a party he’s definitely railing you when you get home. He slips his hands into your panties and pulls you onto him. “Come sit on my lap and talk to me, Baby. Tell me if you want it rough or gentle.”

🤍 He listens to you really closely

The boy isn’t a yapper but he’s a damn good listener. He’s quite possibly the only one of the triplets who reads so he loves a good story. He’s always asking you to tell him story stories about your childhood and before you met him. “I swear to god you’re the most interesting woman in the world” “I know I am. Now sit and listen.”

🤍 He gets really concerned when get quiet

Matt does NOT like when you get quiet. God forbid you become deep in thought about something and go silent. If he hasn’t had a debriefing about your day whenever you come home he’ll notice and come up to you with your favorite snacks. “Tell me what’s wrong, Sweetness. I brought treats and we can talk shit about whoever upset my baby.” Even if you’re not actually upset you take the opportunity to talk shit anyway.

🤍 He loves getting voice memos from you

You’re his safe person and your voice is so calming to him. He’s always so excited when you’ve had a day that’s so interesting everything that happened can’t be said in a text. He listens to your messages like it’s a true crime podcast. When he misses you or if he’s on tour he goes back and listens to the messages he’s saved. Sometimes if he’s having trouble going to sleep he calls you and asks you to talk to him until he falls asleep.

🤍 You make sexy audios for him

Yes, your voice is calming but to him it’s equally as erotic. He most definitely gets bricked up to your voice. One day you send him a voice message along with a text that says “LISTEN WITH AIRPODS!” He does and it’s just you touching yourself while moaning his name. He gets hard at the family function and has to punish you when he gets home.

Masterlist

@rafecameronsbitch @daddyslilchickenfingers2 @mrsmiagreer @lovergirl4387 @gdsvhtwa @ashley9282828 @j-worlds-blog @stephanienwf @achrisgirly @draculaura123 @abbypost @Cind2224 @crazychrisl0v3r @ryli3sworld @bkwrld @pinkishpearls @pepsienthusiasts @stunza @chrattstromboli @sturnssmuts @angelic-sturniolos111 @69isabella69 @maryx2xx @sturniolo04 @bigbeefybitch @klaus223492 @r93339 @sturnzsblog @spotconlon55 @robins-scoop @junovrsmp4 @sturnlover4eva @blahbel668 @lilahnowheretobefound @luxy-nyx @tuffsturns @m0r94n @sturnstvs @pepsicolapussy333 @maddyslifesstuff @dogblof @honeymoonxxz @xplr-sturns-e-m @hayhjelmstad15

[sharklovingaquarist]

I'm having a grand old time laughing at something and it reminds me of a video I have saved on Instagram. So I open insta. Automatically, I get recommended a video of a woman talking about how her niece is physically damaged after her fetus "miscarried" (I'll explain my gripe with that term) and didnt recieve proper medical care. It just reminded me how being a woman is literally a living hell, and as much as you can try to escape, you can't. And it's not even a deeper issue within medical care, it's so bad it's a debate if we can access medical care.

I think I've grown too picky... or too aware. Im sick of the pro choice people too. Every time abortion comes up within the context of a miscarriage it has to be played up or justified with emotions. It cant be focused on a woman's well-being, her SURVIVAL. They go on about the mental turmoil of the woman in question... but you dont wanna question the culture you're feeding into that makes it that way? If its about emotion you might as well start bitching about the father (if modern men even had the capacity for empathy). I'm so sick of the breeder mindset. I'm sick of these situations being about a "mommy in pain" not "a woman who is dying". Be mature for once, this is a physical process. They would if it was a man. It'd be about him as a person.

As for my issue with the term miscarriage, it's because of the one-sided focus on women. Men actually cause a lot of fertility issues... almost like they make up half the fetus. It almost sees the woman as a flawed incubator. And I hear too much about this health issue to think it's normal. People shit themselves over a pregnant woman eating chocolate but then actual health doesn't matter. It all points to this never being about life, for the woman or for a "baby". Breeders lack priority. It all feels so mechanical, its all a facade that makes it look like an emotional familial thing. You can't ride a horse while pregnant but sure go to work in a car and get yelled at by people! And God forbid I suggest a man has a part in the gestation of HIS child, including its health and how its health effects his partner. Nah men are flawless beings, sperm is just the catalyst he implants to power up the baby factory. His pregnant wife is the machine that operates under his eye. Its so fake, it lacks emotion yet swears it's the most emotional thing to exist.

The culture we have created around pregnancy on all sides makes me sick. It makes me want to rip my uterus out. I'm in a bad mood yall. Idc if this makes people mad

[sillygoofyqueer]

Not to be a Debbie downer during these amusing, light hearted times, but I recently left a group chat where some of the people in it had the wildest fucking takes and now I really just need to rant about it before I go insane. So, uh, rant about society and women below (crude language, I guess?)

I'm sick of people sexualising breasts. The whole point of breasts is to feed babies and make sure they have the necessary sustenance to survive. That's it. They aren't there for sexual pleasure or men's entertainment or any other bat shit ideas for it. Get it out of your fucking head that they are something scandalous and wild - and yes, people don't want to show their breasts or anything because society has framed them to be linked to modesty and sex rather than anything else. The fact that we can't picture a life where that is normal is because we have never lived that life - people have never been given the chance because god forbid people with breasts don't cover them up!! Scandalous!! They must be a whore trying to tempt me!!!! Fuck that shit. AND, AFTER I EXPLAINED THAT BREASTS WERE SEXUALISED, ONE OF THESE GUYS tried to be like "hm, I disagree" and I said "all due respect, I don't think you have thr necessary experience to disagree" and he said "what experiences would I need?" And I was like "???? HAVING TITS???"

Linked to this is a comment one of the people in my group chat made being like "oh, what are your guys' opinions on the new Halloween trend" and, although I don't know what it's about, it was described using the phrase of women wearing "nipple covers and body paint", implying they are shirtless. And what do I say to that?? We don't get a fucking opinion!!! It doesn't fucking affect you in any way that is actually fucking remotely important so shut the fuck up! You wouldn't be saying shit like this if a cis guy was doing the same "trend" so why make a big fucking deal about it now?? Awh, are your sensibilities being offended? 🥺 Is baby too pathetic to see that he is the problem 🥺🥺?? Shut the fuck up. Keep your nose out of other people's business and stop commenting on shit like somebody else showing off their body. It doesn't fucking concern you and your stupid beliefs don't fucking matter here. "B-But they're just doing it for a reaction"- once again SO WHAT?? It's not your body, and you don't own these people. Get a grip on yourself, you fucking dumbass.

Finally, let's talk about how the same guy said that he wouldn't date a woman with a high body count because "it shows that she's not loyal" and like...hello??? What the fuck do you think a body count is? Unless someone has cheated whilst in a relationship with someone, body count doesn't even remotely come into play when deciding a relationship. Body count is about sex, and who someone sleeps with outside of a relationship is none of your fucking business. If they want to tell you then great, woohoo, whatever, but it actually does not fucking matter. "Oh, what if someone has a body count of fifty by 22" was this from someone who was cheating? No?? Then who fucking cares. A person's body count does not fucking define them - come on, this is the BASICS of a healthy relationship. Are you implying that someone who has a high body count cannot possibly want to settle down with someone eventually? (Because that's what he did) Would you tell someone who didn't want to have kids but now does that they aren't allowed to be a parent because, at one point in their life, they didn't want kids? Bro was saying "oh, if they can prove that they want to settle down then I'd date them" and I said "how would someone prove that??" and this motherfucker said "by not sleeping with other people like they have for the past five years" LIKE THAT ISN'T THE DEFINITION OF A RELATIONSHIP. LIKE, LIKE HE WAS MAKING SOME SORT OF GRAND STATEMENT. Motherfuckers are so dumb I swear to god.

And god forbid you point out how much of an INCEL they sound like, because nooo, they could never be an incel, they're soooo respectful of women, as if I haven't been having to deconstruct their views on women for the longest fucking time. I give up with that shit. Fuck. Them. "Oooh, I want my woman to have never slept with anyone else and to only ever sleep with me" this isn't the fucking nineteenth century. People don't give a shit about that anymore. Get your head out of your ass and learn to be better or fucking suffer.

GOD. I'm so sorry but I had to get this off my chest, it has been plaguing all of my thoughts since it happened and I'm just really glad I left that groupchat (even if I didn't explain to them how fucking stupid they were for the trend comment)

[bi-kisses]

I swear to god you can never win with radfems and TERF's lol. If you're a woman who likes traditional feminine things you're just following the patriarchy's gender roles for women and have internalized misogyny, if you're a tomboy woman who likes more masculine things you're just a pick me trying to suck up to men and you have internalized misogyny. If you're a man you're evil as soon as you're concieved and are biologically programmed to want to assault any female you see, if you're a woman you'll have to follow all of their stupid "how to not have internalized misogyny" rules and if you don't they'll bully you

(because radfems are only feminists when it comes to women they approve of, if you're any different from that you are an internalized misogynist and handmaiden of the patriarchy!! How dare you be your own person and not have the exact same opinions as them! They're totally not like the sexists who also try to make women act and think exactly how they want and not let them be their own person)

If you're a transgender woman you were born male meaning as soon as you were concieved you want to assault any female you see and you're just pretending to be a woman so you can go into womens spaces and perv on them (or if the radfem is "trans inclusive" they'll make up some bullshit where "Oh if you're a transgender woman as soon as you transition all of your urges to assault women are magically washed away"), if you're a transgender man you're just an extreme pick me who only transitioned not due to gender dysphoria but because you want to avoid the patriarchy or whatever, they'll also probably treat you like a baby for some reason (or if the radfem is "trans inclusive" they'll either exclude you from the man hating because "Oh well you're different than the other men cause you know what its like to be a woman" or they'll include you in their man hating because "trans men are men, and I hate men, go die you evil man, the day you transitioned was the day your brain magically got those evil urges to assault women!!!")

If you're a woman and you try to bring attention to things like men being laughed at or ignored when facing sexual abuse or just simply disagreeing with the whole man hating thing and wanting actual equality, again you're an evil internalized misogynist and a handmaiden to the patriarchy!! If you're a woman with short hair, a woman with a bigger nose, a woman with broader shoulders, a woman with bodyhair, or a none white woman, be prepared to be told you're an "evil transgender who use female spaces to prey on women" even if you're not. Despite how so many radfems say that women shouldn't have to live up to beauty standards of the patriarchy and how some of them say we need to empower non white women, they sure do love accusing every slightly non conventionally attractive or non white woman of being one of those "evil transgenders!!" (So scary)

If you're a bisexual woman and you're in a relationship with (or god forbid even married to) a man, get ready to be the butt of many jokes, told you have internalized misogyny, told you should've dated/married a woman because men are evil or even being accused of faking your bisexuality (because I guess the whole point of being bisexual isn't liking both genders)

If you're a man who's into certain kinks (BDSM for example) you're told that your kink is proof that you get off on women being harmed, even though people with kinks like BDSM are against actually harming people or doing non consensual things. If you're a woman who's also into certain kinks (again I'll use BDSM as an example) you're told you've been brainwashed by the patriarchy into thinking abuse is sexy, even though BDSM doesn't equal abuse (there are obviously people who use BDSM as a cover up for actual abuse which is horrible, but BDSM in general isn't abuse). If you're someone who doesn't fit into the box of what a "non misogynistic person" is to these radfems (which if I'm being honest is just most people because most people radfems hate aren't actually misogynistic) you'll be bullied, told to die, told to end yourself and if you're a woman that they see as having "internalized misogyny" they might even say you deserve to be raped and face violence because like I said before, radfems are only feminist if you're the right kind of woman to them, if you're not they don't give a shit about what happens to you

Oh and if you're a woman in a country where violence against women is a big issue and misogyny is normalised, get ready to be ignored because radfems have more important issues to deal with like some bisexual woman marrying a man or a transgender person existing

This is so spot on lol.

[helloimsoverybored]

A Pretty Long Rant on RPF shippers in the context of David Tennant and Michael Sheen

the entire georgia/anna discourse is so. bullshit. because those are actual, real people, with real lives and real relationships with those around them

Regarding dt and gt, just saying, no one has five children together as part of a pr stunt. Same with Michael and Anna.

And the fact that rpf people fail to realise this is concerning- taking the "my wife" jokes quite literally. News flash, it's a fucking joke. It's not something gt and al are making up to cover up for the fact that their respective partners fell in love with each other (yes, this is an actual take i've seen on this matter)

And idk if the rpf people are just dumb or are fully aware of what they're doing, despite the fact that they're completely tearing apart the lives of real people.

Another retort I've often seen is that fans have the right to criticize celebrities. Yes, yes they do. But breaking down a marriage spanning over a decade isn't criticism! You're creating fake problems out of thin air and for what? Genuinely, for what?

Rpf shippers just automatically assume the worst in both Georgia and Anna, and you know what? God forbid women do anything. Because that's exactly what this is.

They're completely vilifying gt and al because... they're in a relationship with their "blorbo actors?" They're acting like gt/dt and al/ms are fictional characters that you can play around with like dolls but you can't play around with real people's lives! Simply put, it isn't ethical.

I feel like the rpf people just fail to understand the meaning of “real”, because I don’t even know how one can feel so alright and happy by tearing apart the lives of real people. The fact that people are finding every possible way to find problems in their current relationships to suit their fantasies is so fucking disgusting.

Okay now if you're with me so far, I'm impressed. Stay with me because I'm not done yet.

Regarding Georgia, don't rpf blogs just love to criticize her and her parenting methods? That Georgia's just lazy and only wants to drink wine, but omfg. wtf. She has fucking 5 children. I don't care what you think, managing those many kids is NOT an easy task. But also... posts I've seen on this matter never seem to bring up David? Why? Isn't he a parent? Shouldn't he also have a role in parenting? Whatever Georgia does surely won't be against what David believes, right? Wake up, rpf shippers, wake the fuck up.

David almost definitely does have a role in the parenting (anyone willing to fight me on this, come off, I'll give you the reasons) but since he’s all over London at the moment, he probably doesn’t have much time. Which means that gt has to manage 4-5 kids all by herself. So she does actually deserve a break, more than anyone else. But she doesn’t because wahoo god forbid women do anything.

And putting all that aside, what the hell gives rpf people the right to hate on her as if they know her irl. Their default behavioral status is set to mean and bitchy and that’s just. concerning. rpf people need to understand the difference between real life and fiction istfg.

Okay, i swear I'm nearing the end of this rant, please don't go yet.

Sometimes fans do have the right to speak up against an UNHEALTHY relationship. There are multiple examples all over the place where one person has expressed dissatisfaction but no one took them seriously. Except… neither gt/dt nor ms/al have expressed dissatisfaction. At all. It’s actually the exact opposite where they keep fawning for each other. There’s 0 suggestions of any of them being unhappy in their respective relationships apparent from yall overanalyzing their body language to the point where it becomes false.

Do Georgia and Anna ship themselves with each other and ship David with Michael? Yes. But that's a fucking joke. Learn to take a joke, yalls, it will get you a long way. And even if they are the ones doing the shipping, so what? That doesn’t give you the right to. It’s their lives. You’re just a person viewing their lives from a small peep hole known as Instagram.

[anonymousredactedconfessions]

I'm gonna be real I'm like 80% sure I know who the "People are being so over the line about other people not wanting to hear Sam call Alexis a bitch." anon is. And listen.

My take on the Alexis situation? God sake move on. Me and my little dm of friends have been giggling our asses off because we as a collective have NEVER seen some fucking discourse over the word bitch in ANY fandom. ever. This isn't just target at that person but literally everyone that's said it's sexist to say the word bitch.

Grow up.

Have you been off you computer? gone outside? how chronically online are you. The main two people I saw saying that bitch is a sexist word and no one should be calling Alexis that were. lets just say 18 and under. I need y'all to know in the Adult world people are gonna say those words a lot. if you're finding them that offensive you need to settle down and assess how you're gonna enter the real world.

It's really stupid for discourse like this to be from an audio rp channel. Erik wasn't like "oh she's a bitch because she's a woman." Y'all need to realize how normalized the word bitch is. celebrities call people bitches all the time?? in good and bad ways? how the fuck do you feel about them??

I understand if you're uncomfortable with the word, confused, but whatever. If you're going to be this up in arms about it though you NEED to take a step back. People are gonna call her whatever they want, and if you find it that hard to deal with then if you make a post put your boundaries in your tags. no one is going to check your whole tumblr blog to see "don't call women bitches". most people just scroll the tags to find fresh content.

One last thing. The two people that were saying that bitch is a bad word to say. why did both of you so freely say the f slur then?? if that word is unoffensive, and allowed to be said, why not bitch? If we go down history lane you can see 'f slurs' being killed for just being gay. Not trying to compare or debate what's worse, but being brutally murdered for being queer is pretty bad. almost like your whole speech about how bitch was used to silence woman. so...

C'mon guys. this is an audio rp fandom. if you're not careful this WILL get back to erik and god forbid you all make him more afraid to add any kind of swearing to his fucking videos. christ. (sorry this is so long lmao been pent up about this for agesss)

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[rhazimpulsivelyposts]

So like ~

I don’t know how good this is for ph health xD but I’ve been doing it so long that I can’t even imagine how self conscious I would feel if I didn’t do it, and there has been times I forgot or didn’t have one to do it with and someone actually commented on it 😭🙃 but,

Any time I know or even suspect that anyone is going to be around my pussy or my ass, I religiously “freshen up” with makeup wipes or baby wipes any time I feel like I’m sweating or after I pee 🤣 because the thought of smelling like sweat down there as a female gives me so much anxiety. And normally I don’t like receiving oral so I never think so much about what that must taste like 🤣

I’ve had my ♐️ once tell me that it does taste a little “chemically” and that he would prefer it not, but like then what? My ass smell like sweaty ass and you smell or god-forbid taste what ever is causing that smell while you are down there?! Fck no.

And I know that just like how dck has a specific taste I’m sure guys who eat pussy like what ever pussy is supposed to taste like? But sorry I CANNOT imagine not “freshening up” before anyone is even close to that area. I legit will wipe all up in my ass too in case any fingers are going in there the last thing I want is for that to be gross >.<

Like I’m sure I am over thinking this and guys don’t care but I care! I’ve gone down on a girl who didn’t do this and I could … I swear I could taste the ammonia. Like I’m sure she wiped well because she’s an adult but like , or maybe it was sweat? . I would rather taste makeup wipe on the outer lips and pussy inside than taste sweat or piss or something . No , y’all getting makeup wipe pussy no objections.

Buuuut if I was the first person he’s eaten 😅 what kind of weird expectation did I just set with that? Because I don’t think other women do that, I think I’m just super weird about smells. What if it’s a bad expectation too what if talks to someone and is like “she tastes super weird” 😭

Receiving oral is so awkward 😭 I love giving it but so much self conscious sht runs through my head when someone has their nose, mouth, and tongue on me like that. It feels good though 😭 especially after learning to play with my little sucker mushroom guy and then feeling someone actually do that with their mouth 🥵 

[stormoflina]

https://www.tumblr.com/stormoflina/745487268350935040/and-many-were-pretty-disgusting-to-that-poor

i totally understand you. i used to be obsessssed with trent at a point to the point that i made a tumblr (why i originally made this account lol) to keep up with him and i followed an account who was basically a trent gossip account and i found out things that i shouldn’t even know, i don’t even know how the person that owns the account knows that info which made me think what the hell am i doing? you can loveeee a celebrity but don’t get obsessed it’s honestly weird and exhausting

i keep it at loving their looks and talent, and watching interviews that’s it lol

about declan, i genuinely feel some of these men are gay the way they care so much about their fav footballers’ s/o. utterly disgusting. for God’s sake that’s the mother of his children. he finds her beautiful and that’s what matters. why does she have to be a typical insta baddie? shallow men i swear

Recognising this is such a mature thing to do! I mean there's absolutely nothing wrong with reading gossip or being obsessed with players, but when you do feel that certain line crossing (or about to) it's so important to just clear your head. Some of those gossip pages are insane lol, like they can excuse their favourites sleeping around with escorts and stuff, but heaven forbid they get a girlfriend! 😭

Agree! They are just too invested, there's no heterosexual explanation for saying some of the stuff they are saying. Or even if not gay, they are just pathetic incels, who never even held a real life conversation with a woman lol, because normal people don't (shouldn't) speak about women like that.

[sapphsorrows]

encouraging people to medically harm themselves will never be okay. especially when it comes to extensive genital surgeries. especially when it comes to surgeries like double mastectomy which are typically only used to cancer patients.

your actions do not exist in a vacuum. when you take on these surgeries, your harming not just yourself, but others. when you begin to have nightmarish and predictable complications that require follow up surgeries, when you get sepsis, when you almost die because of cosmetic procedures you elected to have.... you're taking medical resources away from people who need them. people who didn't choose to cripple themselves. you deserve to live, yes, if you need surgery to fix your phallo or your top surgery or whatever, you deserve to have that to save your life. but you never would have needed it had you never gotten those surgeries.

i promise you, you will not die if you don't get your breasts removed. i know. my chest dysphoria was at it's absolute worst in 2019. but i moved past it, i learned more about my own body, i learned to love the sex that i was assigned at birth, and I'm so glad I did because it saved me a LOT of pain.

comparing these surgeries to tattoos and piercings is just ridiculous. but it's even more ridiculous to say that you need them to live. these procedures are cosmetic surgery. they're more like BBL. they're certainly as dangerous as something like BBL. but to lie to dysphoric people and tell them they need these to live is, in my opinion, evil. to make taxpayers and insurance customers pay for them is also ridiculous. i wouldn't be happy about it, but if these were viewed as the cosmetic, optional, elective, you-do-not-need-this-to-live that they actually were, that you could pay out of your own pocket to get, and not at the expense of the taxpayer, it would be fine. go ahead. go ham.

BUT. like I said. your actions do not exist in a vacuum. and by getting them, you're not just hurting yourself. you're hurting people who care about you. you're hurting other women and girls by encouraging this.

I know it's free to mind my own business. but I can't. if my blog can convince just one person to avoid getting these horrible procedures, i'll be happy. it would be so easy to go with the other 99% of tumblr that is pro-trans. do you know how fucking easy it would be to slip into the background noise of tumblr, and high five about how cool getting top surgery is, and how hrt is like a magic potion that switches your sex, and how terfs are just mean nasty old feminists who hate everyone and want to ruin their fun? i could do it. but i don't. because i have a lot to say. and i feel like my words and experiences can help people avoid going down the road that tumblr and the q*eer community as a whole pushed me down since I was like 14. the road to lifelong, unnecessary medicalization. because i was made to believe i was born in the wrong body. when there was never anything wrong with my body to begin with.

@loveandheresy i'm sorry you got top surgery, and i'm sure you'll roll your eyes when (if) you even read this and be like "haha this stupid terf doesn't know what she's talking about", but I swear to god we are more similar than you might think. I really hope it works out for you, I hope it's great and you love it and you don't regret it. seriously. but if you do come to regret it, god forbid, just know that there's a community of women you can fall back on. even if you don't regret it, radical feminism is open to all women, trans-identified or not.

@croziers-compass i wanted to respond to you specifically because I feel like we have a lot in common. I was a lot like you once, and I may still be like you. Call me a bigot if you want, I don't really care. I just don't want to see women and girls suffer for another unobtainable beauty standard (which has become being male for some reason... something you absolutely cannot ever attain as a female). You seem empathetic, and you seem like you have good taste. you like the Terror. That's one of my favorite shows, even if there are only like 3 women in it. Goodsir is my favorite character.

I wish I could make you see what I see, but I can't. I know you think you're helping people by encouraging this, but I promise it's harmful.

I know I don't have to "care"... but I feel that by not caring I'm allowing other dysphoric people like myself to walk blindly into the meat grinder of the medical industrial complex.

it's one thing if you need to be medicalized for life because you're physically ill and you need the medicine to live. it's another if you chose to be medicalized for aesthetics and fashion.

I gotta be real. It sucks so much how telling someone not to get their genitals cut up by opportunistic doctors is considered bigotry. telling someone not to get a double mastectomy typically only done for cancer patients is bigotry. telling someone not to take hormones, which will increase their likelihood of getting cancer and osteoporosis and a myriad of other health problems just for cosmetic changes is bigotry.

This is not normal.

[theramblingteenagegirl]

friday, march 24th. 2023

I realize i am all the things i swear myself not to be. i realize everything in front of me is slipping faster than i can close my fingers. there is this anger that has nested itself so deep inside of me that it only bleeds and drips to my stomach of acid. while i have experienced no beauty of womanhood, i have experience the paralyzing imperfections. the large boy yelled for me to listen to him and my hands shook with anger. he spoke over me to another boy. and in that god damn moment, i realized not even the other women will speak for you while the wolves bite at your neck and swallow you whole. (funny that wolves are softer than any man that has ever roamed this sphere of purgatory.) angry men are everywhere. in my childhood home, in my math class, in congress, through the sidewalks. it is inevitable to abuse i will continue to face at the palm of another man. and while my brother jokingly pins my hands, i cant help but to think of how easily i can be pinned like a fly in dissection. i wonder how long it will take for people to realize every piece of me is blacked. sure, i may move and laugh and joke to appeal to you but i feel nothing. when i lay in this once oversized bed- i don't feel a thing. i can barely ever feel my heart beating. i can't even cry for the 'sister' i lost today because she's not the first. she's not the first sister to make me feel like nothing. like a piece of past that can easily be replaced by new fast experiences. why can no one hear my cries of sullen? i feel nothing and i can't even cry for the loss. the world is so fucked i can't even mourn the several deaths that take place inside of me daily. shove soap into my mouth and try to clean this char that covers every inch of my bones. peel open my brain and watch my thoughts unravel into a stream of melancholy screams that come from my gut. look into these green pools that sit atop my cheekbones, see yourself as the only reflection of life. all of my dreams have been gutted like soft-belly fish. the last bit of hope for a baby, drained as i watched forest aflame. dreams of marriage snuffed as i watched another man murder his wife. illusions of love slick with dark tar from the hands of any person i have ever blanketed with it. the heat is coming but I've never been so cold. the sickness of giving in only gets sweeter and more appetizing by the day. i wonder how long i can stomach this hades. a hell where men can rape, mass murder, abuse, and mutilate- and the only price they pay is a couple therapy sessions. and after they rape us, we must carry the cells and learn to love them. because god forbid you can't love a child formed from violence. why must men hate us so much? i cannot comprehend. you see softness lies nowhere within man. and i fear that god suffers from the same condition. some part of me hopes that after this affliction there will be a pure heaven for only women. where our souls can rest and we won't even feel the hands of men gripping our cold corpses.

[kiraofthewind]

My Fantasy Books

All my stories take place in a fantasy world called the Pentagonal Dominion. It's a collection of planes connected to Earth, but I don't include humans (with one exception). Any time I mention a year, it's that world's year, not in any way connected to years on Earth.

Please be aware that ALL my books are for 18+ only. Though they vary in the exact kind of content, you can expect them all to include some degree of violence, swearing, sexual content, or dark themes not appropriate for MG or YA books.

Map of the PD made by @dewiwrites

Merchants of Knowledge and Magic is my first novel, taking place in the year 561.

STATUS: Published

Cover was drawn by @crossroadart-seabear . In fact, for the sake of making tags easier, all the art I'm going to include in this update post will be by them, lol.

It follows the journey of an intersex dragonfly-person, Calinthe, who travels across the many planes of the Pentagonal Dominion in search of secrets which she feeds to her boss in exchange for goods and promises of retirement. Calinthe follows a religion which forbids its followers from using money. She is sent on a quest by her boss, the Demon Lord of Ignorance, to retrieve his henchman who was captured by slavers in the Women's Republic of Ophidia, a land where women enslave all men, intersex, agender, trans, or any people they deem "not female enough" by their standards.

MoKaM is the 'brain' or 'mind' of the Merchants trio. Calinthe is intelligent, clever, sassy, and a little bit arrogant. She devoted to her God, Lucognidus, but around others, she can be brash.

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Merchants of Light and Bone is my second novel, taking place in the year 561 concurrently with MoKaM.

STATUS: Due to be published in August 2023

Pictured above: Su, one of Amiere's two spouses.

MoLaB is the story of a father who lost his daughter in a freak earthquake accident and his journey through coping with trauma, saving a girl who is being abused by her father, and seeking answers for his own daughter's strange death (after all, how can a freak earthquake happen in a world with no plate tectonics? They don't even have a word for 'earthquake').

MoLaB's setting is tropical, taking place almost entirely on Aloutia, on the equatorial coastline. The main character, Amiere, is a polyamorous bisexual lion-man with a wife, enby husband, and several kids. He works as a merchant of light, carving glowing crystals into statues for customers.

MoLaB is the 'heart' or 'soul' of the Merchants trio. It emphasizes powerful, sad emotions, contrasting beautiful scenery with the tempest of emotions bubbling inside Amiere's heart.

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Merchants of Dance and Hedonism is the third Merchants novel, taking place in the year 561 concurrently with MoKaM and MoLaB

STATUS: On hold

MoDaH is about a genderless shapeshifting person, Tynan, who came into existence at the start of the book. Born with the power to transform into almost anything (within a size limit) and the power to *know* anything they wish, they are born as the perfect assassin. Which is exactly what a "merchant of dance" is: a magic-using assassin sent to eradicate other magic-users, demons, or high-class targets. If Tynan chooses not to engage in such activities, their country will end up going to war with Ophidia (feminist nation which enslaves all non-women) and the Makai (demon nation that kills all people to recycle their parts and revive them as demons). And if that happens, their sisters will be drafted into the war as child soldiers.

MoDaH is the 'body' of the Merchants trio. Tynan is a shapeshifter and many of the problems they face are solved through creative and clever use of transformations.

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Good Thyme With Bad Company takes place in the year 300.

STATUS: Currently writing

It's less of a traditional novel and more of a collection of short stories, microfiction, and completely out-of-place smut about the cast of characters who have infested my mind palace for the last few months.

It's best described as "Polycule of characters living in a dystopic capitalist steampunk hellscape fighting to change the genre of their book to cozy fantasy."

The characters live and work in a warm, steampunk/fantasy aesthetic inn called the Good Thyme Inn, working to pay their ever-increasing rent while finding joy and love in their fellow found family members, many of whom have faced horrific traumas.

The second half of the book, once some of their problems have been 'resolved', focuses on the cozy aspects. These characters love and adore one another and many scenes in this part of the book will be cute, slice-of-life, or smutty in nature, while laying low on the trauma or violence.

This book is currently my precious. It's near and dear to my heart. I am obsessed with my characters and their dynamics. I hope my readers will fall in love with them as much as I have!