#give me my romance partner
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the jaiden-roier-cellbit dynamic is so important to me because like. cellbit treats jaiden and roier's relationship with the same level of respect and importance that jaiden treats roier and cellbit's marriage. which may not seem like that big of a thing but like. platonic relationships are often seen as "lesser" than romantic ones, and that your romantic partner should come first before all other bonds in your life. and seeing cellbit treat jaiden and roier's bond and relationship with the same respect that jaiden treats his marriage. as an arospec person it genuinely makes me want to sob
#icarus speaks#THEY ARE THE BLUEPRINT!!!!!!!#THE MOMENT THE EVERYTHING#everything about them in general is so. like some of THE healthiest treatment of aspec relationships ive ever seen#the fact that roier is hypersexual but cellbit is aspec. and there is no conflict with this. sex does not define their relationship#the fact that Everyone acknowledges the importance of roier and jaiden's relationship#they're seen as partners just as much as any of the romantic egg pairings#just. wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh#personally i was struggling a bit with acknowledgement of being aroace. bc a Lot of my friends have been getting into relationships#and i Know that there is a possibility Of me being the lesser of the two options bc romance is so prioritized#but seeing these three gives me so much hope#i hope they know how important they are to the aroace/aroacespectrum community :((
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Also I need people to appreciate how both Kaidan and Liara go from
“I’ll have them home by 10, sir”
To “Your kid calls me daddy too”
#Liara/femshep and Kaidan/mshep are the best romances in the trilogy#you cannot change my mind#gimme my gay shep and their bi disaster partner#or give me death#femshep x liara#mshenko
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I was curious and
I’m sorry are we looking at the same man here?
#i know it’s just what he’d say to anyone that isn’t MC but#having used Halsin to try is just too much#Halsin can take what you give sir#you’re the one concerned about him#halsin#bg3#my screenshots#bg3 drow twins#i always talk to them just to see my partner’s reactions to being asked to the foursome whether that Tav would or not#still disappointed you can’t do the foursome with a non-romanced Halsin#like sure I don’t have a (somehow obvious) partner with me or they don’t want to partake#but if they’re like ‘I’m good but you go ahead’ then why can’t Halsin join#‘come back with a willing partner’ what about a willing archdruid#mans is down bad with or without a confession
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Being bi and introverted is like "mmmmm...people" but also "ughhhhhhh...people"
#queer#being bi#bi#bisexual#lgbtq#love#introverted#thoughts#random#mmmmmm#people are annoying#they're hot tho#hot people#romance#single#bi and single#help me#anti social#i need a gf or bf or partner#but also give me space#h e l p#i cant#my god#h e l p m e#i cannot#oh my lord#oh god
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Ah, yes, my favourite Dandies in Danger ships!
We have:
Adrien and his fashion-forward love interests
Daniel's polycule of individuals who have experienced The Horrors (only one left to add is Zach)
And of course, my personal favourite
Zachary's surprising amount of bloodlust circa end of Arc 3
#dandies in danger#dind#dandies in danger spoilers#I am highly anticipating the Daniel and Zachary romance (if that's still the intended path for them) but I also love polyamory rep#daniel and his various partners who have all experienced the supernatural or are supernatural themselves my beloveds#also zachary should get to threaten to kill more people I think give me more Unhinged Transmasc Representation
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FINALLY I DRAW SOMETHING!!!!!!!
some Joseph, both young (around 1980 i'd say, when he was traveling w Stan a few years before the portal incident) and old (~2017, now an art teacher at Westchester High). i like to think the first one is a picture Stan took of him while they were traveling and the second one is his staff photo at WH. the more things change the more they stay the same. i might give em backgrounds and foregrounds to look like that
he's had that jacket since the 70s. real leather will last you.
no glasses alts + the first sketch below
#[holding him in my hands like a tiny baby bird]#idk if hes hiding something on his neck. he might be. those neck covers just happened. probably less embarrassing than Ford's tattoos thoug#also im not super interested in “what if Stan had a romance partner who helped him run the shack” type Stan/oc buuuuuuuut#unfortunately i am not immune to old man yaoi and have been thinking “ok BUT what if Jojo helped Stan run the shack” during this rewatch#i think theyre not super open about their relationship so Dipper & Mabel have no idea until the manotaur ep when Mabel realizes “woah......#“Grunkle Stan do you have a crush on Grunkle Jojo???”#[Joseph so called Grunkle Jojo bc “we've known each other long enough hes basically family”]#anyway Mabel tries to “fix Stan up” to help him ask him out & Jojo is fully aware its happening and says nothing bc Funny#they do tell her and Dipper at the end of the day bc since she went through all that trouble trying to set em up they should know#plus kids these days tend to be a lot nicer about gay people sometimes#also good: Jojo giving Stan A Look every time he's shitty or sexist but otherwise not caring about any other morally dubious/bad thing#like Jojo can excuse regular tax fraud/stealing/scamming people but he draws the line at almost getting Waddles eaten by a dinosaur#hes the worlds most “not my circus not my monkeys” moral compass#hes said that before. and Dipper points out that it IS his circus bc he helps run the shack#to which he responds “hah. yeah :)” bc he helps do the fraud and scams <3#fuck i have to draw that as a comic or fake screenshots or something#anyway im not planning on focusing on a Mr's Mysteries AU but i may talk about it occasionally#ANYWAY ANYWAY i wanna talk about him i love talking about him send some asks let me talk about him <3#oc: Joseph van Dyke
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I'm getting overwhelmed again with wanting to rewrite the entirety of Lupin III - Goodbye Partner as a fic my own way, because I am still salty about how Jigen's betrayal was handled and I am pretty sure I could do a better job than TMS did (hell, they handled that same premise better in Seven Days Rhapsody, and it was a B plot!!)
Except I can't do that because 1) I have to finish writing Hanafuda and 2) I have like. zero plot for it right now (but I know if I put my mind to it I could)
In the meantime please have this song that makes me think about what that movie could have been, while I daydream about magic tricks and lighters and proceed to chew at my walls 👍
#i was already going insane about the use of the lighter in Goodbye Partner#but in retrospect with the added symbolism from ZERO i am losing my entire SHIT#and i'm sure there's something that could be done with the magic trick other than a cute throaway reference to cagliostro#because. cagliostro. the opening credits. the road trip. fire treasure.#cagliostro being canon as backstory for goodbye partner deepens the hurt of the betrayal SO MUCH because HOLY SHIT-#(yes I am still going insane about fire treasure/the opening credits of cagliostro. it's been three years. leave me alone.)#i did like the fact that the kid's relationship to jigen was never explicited though. i'd keep that i think.#mostly i just want to rewrite the way lupin and goemon took jigen's betrayal because it was just NOT handled realistically in that movie#give me some ANGST! give me some TURMOIL!#anyway. that's probably gonna be my next big project after hanafuda IF i can actually figure out a plot#but for now i'm gonna concentrate on my silly little au and its silly little romance 🥰#lupin iii#daisuke jigen#lupin iii : goodbye partner#the hobbit writes
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I hate being loveless. Send post.
#despite the scrambling to accept loveless folks that ended up fucking over romance and love favorable people#I still feel broken. I feel like I'm misleading my partners because the truth is that I don't love them like they love me#and they know this. we're open and I haven't misled them at all but I feel like a fraud still.#I want to be included in things or at least thought about even though I don't give people a second thought#but when I voice this: 'you didn't care about them anyway. they tried to reach out before'#I still value connections. after years of being pushed away by peers I still try to make connections with people#and when they inevitably feel stronger about me than I do them#or see things differently than I do#I feel... inadequate. like my attempts at being a person are futile#It's part of why I don't see myself as a person at all anymore. Because I can't FEEL like a 'normal' person.#it fucking sucks. and no amount of 'oh you're no less a person than someone who feels love uwu' can fix that#I can't even love my family. do you know how much that sucks to not be able to love your own mother?#years ago when I was 7 I had a nightmare where my mom said 'you don't love me anyway' while I was trying to convince her#not to jump into the water in front of us. that phrase has appeared in arguments years later#imagine the horror I feel trying to come to terms with the fact that that's a true statement.#I do care about and appreciate people but it'll never be enough#I'LL never be enough#it hurts.#and the performative bullshit on this platform doesn't help#loveless#aplatonic#afamilial
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i dont think i actually like shipping for like normal shipping reasons im pretty sure i only like ships cause i like seeing boys kiss and girls kiss especially if what they have going on is fucked up and weird
#⚠️#my favourite characters always seem to be the ones that dont really have much romance shit going on#like jerome just doesnt have anything romantic going on. spencer reid i remember like no one wanted him lmao except that one girl who died#so fast it was kinda funny pretty sure later he gets with jj but i genuinely couldnt give less of a fuck lol#and ash is more like sex focused compared to romance probably cause yknow having your girlfriend die and then attack you probably#gives you a couple like issues around romance and shit#like he never really gets another partner does he#he got close with that one cop but she died#i mean he did get married to that one lady candace barr i remember her name cause its a pun and i like pun names#pretty sure her name was candace#but like that didnt last very long so#hes so so awful thatw as so fucked up of him i need him so bad but still#herbert is more focused on his work than on romance and sex hes very aroace to me#but the whole fandom is just danbert which is fine i agree theyre gay as hell but like after a while i started losing interest lol#same happened with ed its all just nygmobblepot
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it's a really small detail, but I love how you see m.akoto soften a little whenever y.uya and him talk about his daughter
#ash rambles 💚#my partner in (not) crime 🔍#i know he hasn't always been the best sad to her so it makes me really happy to see scenes like this and the hug in the first game#I'm really glad he's fixing things with his daughter because i know he really does love her#i love her too <3 she's a really sweet kid!#I've no intentions to try to be a mom to her but i will absolutely be there for her! aksjjaksjsj i cant believe how big she is in the later#games!!! m.akoto is a grandpapa!!!!#ash is a grandma too sort of to them! since by that time her and mako are married#but ajskshdjq i love how we see a softer mako in 2#how he praises y.uya in this scene is so cute#and that one interaction he has with k.aoru in the tent?? he was so soft towards her!#i feel like the Girl Dad instinct really kicked in when he met her ajdhjajs but she's pretty similar to s.aya i feel#speaking of k.aoru isnt that much older than s.aya is she.......#actually I'm not gonna dwell on that because then I'll get mad about her romance with k.iryu- dont get me wrong. the ship dynamic is great#but the age gap gives me the ick qjdhajdja#anyways back to mako#i love him so much sjdjsjsjqjs silly little detective dude!!! i do love me a good sad single dad 👉🏽👈🏽
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do relationships actually work when it’s also a D/s one? or do you end up giving up one or the other?
I mean yeah! All relationships are work and an effort to find a balance, sometimes it’s easy to fall more into one side or other but I never feel like I have to prioritize one or the other, and definitely not that I have to give up anything in my relationships. But dominance and submission are very intimately connected to love for me, so I’m a little biased !
#asked and answered#anon#I know the *particular* flavor of mix I love is like#when i feel like I’m dating my sub you know?#my partner isn’t subbing to me#my sub is dating me#makes their submission feel inherent and the romance feel special and lucky on top of it#but yeah! no reason to give up one or the other#just put in the effort on communication and the relationship#¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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“I may teeter the line between pretty stupid and pretty beautiful, but the important thing being is that I am always pretty!” a very tipsy but not exactly yet drunk, Steve McGarrett stumbling home wanting a smooch from his husband, having just been delivered by the other now out and proud navy buddied who’s op that night was getting Steve home because it’s the only way to shut him the fuck up about his Danno who he obviously missed so damn much, but it’s very much not Steve’s fault that this reunion fell around the same time Danny was getting back from Jersey after visiting for his sister’s birthday.
Danny’s listening to him ramble about how one of his friends called Steve pretty annoying but Steve corrected him.
The imagery could be added with Steve tripping and stumbling to the ground before ninja-ing(tipsy) onto the couch desting his head on Danny’s lap. Trying to get comfy and hug Danny while in this position. Telling him about his night, momentarily forgetting his goal before he’s reminded again and trying his best to get a kiss.
#McDanno#Steve McGarrett#Danny Williams#things I randomly get compelled to write#this came out of nowhere#my favorite thing about McDanno is that you can have so many sides to them#the hot and sexy side#the epic friendship that's led to the best romance ever!#the angst with their individual past. the angst of canon they've been through together. angst of a mix and match!#but you also get the sillier side that comes from just how much friendship is between them#(it's one of the things as an ace that's always confused me about some the mindset of allo's i've seen irl#they categorize romantic/sexual relationships as different as friendships in a weird way that SOUNDS like they don't want to be friends with#their partner....which is odd but for another post)#taken some liberties of giving Steve gay navy friends who are good bros#next morning they video chat to know if their op was a success and Steve proudly shows off some hickies he acquired#Danny comes into the kitchen hearing a bunch of navy/SEALs cheering them on#I like them to be happy in the midst of angst I throw them into xD#but anyway this is an example of how I literally get possessed by a thought or a phrase#and it a lot of the time becomes a McDanno scenario#if it bugs me enough...it gets turned into a fanfic#silly fanfic inspo for the boys
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I have also been told, by multiple sources, that I have a whole entourage of ancestors and miscellaneous entities hanging out with me, and I like to believe that's because I have the most adorable and interesting-to-observe love life of any of their potential descendants. I mean, who doesn't love a great rom-com!
#I'm kind of a lapsed polyamourist right now due to being immunocompromised#but I am in the talking stage with an enbie friend#and a few ladies have given me their numbers for when I'm well again#my primary relationship is also romance goals for some#my manager has previously said that she's giving up on love if he and I ever break up#and my very Catholic grandma very seriously called him “St. [Partner]”#I'm super lucky in that respect#surrounded by love indeed#we do not have an OPP by the way I just lean extremely queer
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Every time I go on a dating app I feel hopeless -.-
#rant#genuinely frankly i would probably do better at speed dating im person but that doesnt exist here#i go on app. i see poly partnered people looking for another partner. i do not seek to be that#i almost talk myself into just trying to be friends in case They know someone id like before i realize#thats a bit convoluted. i see one person actually just looking for friends like me and feel relief#and maybe i could make a friend but i want love i want romance and is pursuing that instead primarily#exactly why im a great friend whos been single for years? i see several men who absolutely did not read#rhat im fucking nonbinary. i see a person whos single and wants only hookups so my demi ass is out#i see a single person with no fucking hobbies jn common who i dont personally find aesthetically appealing#i see someone hot finally and immediatelt wonder what Red Flag theyre unavailable i must be subconciouslt clocking into#ah. yes. theyre oceans away making our chances of intimate long term commitment slim unless we both are significantly interested#and they give one word answers indicating theg dont want to chat. which us the only way i have to build a connection for now.#and then i wonder if im picky cayse im noticing incompatibikities. or cause no one compatible is around on my app#or is it self sabotage? or would Dating a red flag be sabotage?? or am i too demi to fucking do this i fucking hate this#i dont even know if id like someone in 5 months IF they were compatible and single. and then rhe chances of them liking me thay long?#well lers just say ive not yet had a partner ever say they liked me back. i mean theyve lied for several months. then come clean rhat#they never actually liked me and i was just convienient so :/#i am so tired. i hate dating apps. i could probably self sabotage in 1 minute tho and message a married poly person#who cannot therefore marry me and who i cannot be the primary priority of. then i guess that would be self sabotage#cause id So clearly be letting myself crysh on someone unavailable wooh. -.-#jm so so tired man. i jusr wanna crush kn someone. kiss someone. bang regularly for decades.#oh and id Reallt like to fall in mutual love. the awful state of things? mt parents suggested to me#i get with someone i dont like romanrically and just make myself have a relationship#cause i guess they have no faith in me finding mutual love. which ngl makes me so incredibly sad even rhey dont believe i can
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nothing to see here
#ok plz i wanna rant about how the new season of good omens is making me lose faith in humanity#girl tell me how ive trudged through 4 episodes of this season and i still dont know what the damn hell is going onnnnnn#every time i think we're getting somewhere with the 'story' the show slams the brakes to let me know that there're gay people on screen#does the coffee shop chick ever apologize to the record store chick bc i cant staaaand their romance.#like record store lady. girl. this isnt banter shes just straight up dissing your passion and life's work.#im scared to finish the season bc i just KNOW theyre gonna pull the whole 'i made u leave ur toxic partner now date me immediately' trope#ok so story beats aside my other gripe is how contrived the queer representation is in this show#i am a bi woman! my reaction to seeing wlw on screen should be 'yay! im happy theyre together' and not 'ugh this shit again?'#and also with az and crowley! what happened to their chemistry from the first season???#like on the one hand the whole 'bickering like an old married couple' schtick is lovely. but. theyre just faffing about most of the time!#remember the first season? when these characters had agency? and a semblance of intuition?#i am convinced that the majority of the characters in this season couldnt find their way out of a paper bag#i get theres a whole memory loss plot device thing happening. but it feels like Gabriel's cluelessness is like fucking infectious or smthn#i feel like an idiot for assuming that the characters i knew from the first season will be just as competent in this season. they arent!#i hated the whole 'continued' story in the wwii era. i feel like it was a pathetic ploy at giving mark gatiss more needless screentime#did they think people would find the nazi zombies amusing or something? why are we playing this off as a joke?#just admit you dont know what to do with the story and move onnnnnnnn#im gonna finish the season bc i feel like im owed the scene of david tennant sucking face with michael sheen.#itll be like reparations for having to slough through the rest of this nothing burger of a story jesuuuuuussss#ok rant over#good omens critical
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having Big Feelings in the tags. you neednt read them, but you should go drink water and stretch your eyes
#makin one of those posts thats all tags bc i need to just do emotions for a sec#98% of the time i fuckin love being aroace. i like how i exist in the world and our flags fucking baller#but wooo boy that 2% of the time (my current state)#nothin makes you stare into space despondently while crying silently like knowing therenothing *wrong* w you per se#but there something fundamental to your existence that means your emotional needs will very likely never be met the way you need them to be#my roommate whom i love with my whole entire soul has their partner over whom i also love with my whole entire soul#and its making me so agonizingly jealous bc i want what they have so badly it actually literaly fucking aches in my chest#i want the banter and the cuddling and the intimacy and the love. the goodnight phonecalls and the undeniable proof that i am loved just#as much as i love and that i am a peiority in someone else's life to the same degree that i prioritize them#but i know i dont get to have that because i cant do it the way almost anybody wants#i want to fall asleep next to someone but i dont want to date. i wont do it. it makes me so uncomfortable#but without performing romance theres almsot no chance ill get to have that kind of deeply intertwined life#and like. i love my friends dearly and deeply. i vall them the loves of my life bc they are#but even those relationships wont get to be like what i want so bad. they all have or want romance and i know how that works#it doesnt matter that they love me too because when you have a partner thats the priority. i get it. its fine.#i dont mind stepping back from my friends to give them room to build the lives they want.#i jusy want somone to want to build a life with *me*#dont mind me in just tired and sad and experiencing the agonies of being 22#theres a part of me that looks at all this and just says 'maybe someday' but ive been living off nothing bu 'someday' most of my life#and im dead fucking tired of it#idk man maybe im just mentally ill and have mommy issues who knows#anyway im going to bed now#if you know me irl and you read all this 1)this is NOT meant to imply youre doing something wrong. not your fault amatonormativity is this#2) ill be fine i just need to sleep and 3) i love you more than i know how to say and i always will no matter what shape our lives take
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