#gift guide for him

[111tblog]

FT GUIDE

GIFT GUIDE FOR HIM.↓

1.beaufort wax jacket by @barbour- an all time classic. goes with almost every outfit and it keeps everything snazzy, despite the “hunting on a sunday afternoon” vibe to it.

2.chess and backgammon board by @oreshakbg-

a timeless boardgame design. nothing to add really, except that for me it’s a must for every household and it’s handmade in bulgaria.

3. n°09 wallnut wood pocket knife by opinel - comes in handy in many occasions that we don’t actually think of. it is foldable and it’s stainless steel.

4.bleu note by @roseoverdosed and @nomad.ist - inspired by jazz… fresh yet, smokey and earthy. you can look up on their site to see the notes. this collaboration by those two bulgarian brands embodies the complexity of perfumery and jazz as acts of art.

5.safari fountain pen in charcoal black by @lamy_global - i recently got to the conclusion that a signature pen is actually so fun , yet nice to have. lamy is a perfect brand for your first one- it’s super light, german design a wide range of options to choose from and excellent quality.

6.meno pocket leather journal in black marble by @wearedarvart - a present that could help for that man to finally start shadowworking and facing all their traumas or just write down their tasks for the day. great leather cover that ages gracefully and is refillable.

7.kindle by @amazonkindle - at first sight a slightly overrated present, but honestly it does help with changing your habits and reading more. it has helped me personally because of its size to read more often which is better than doomscrolling on your way to work.

8.weekender bag made from genuine leather by @bogdaninbags - a standout by its quality , yet classic minimalistic silhouette. depends on a one’s daily needs, but for me a bag like this is a must and can add so much more flexibility to your day. a bulgarian leather craftsman that is worth checking out .

[safetyall]

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[itspileofgoodthings]

one of the things that continues to strike me on reread is how much the character of Darcy, and Austen through him, finds Mr. Bennet dead. And how much Elizabeth, in growing and changing and discarding her past blindness, has to move past her way of seeing her father and thus of seeing reality, because the two are connected! Darcy’s letter exposes her father’s flaws to Elizabeth in a way she’d never been able to see before. Most especially the way his laziness and neglect of his own gifts have hurt his family and that ultimately he doesn’t. care. Not enough to change. It literally says that she comes home from Hunsford and tries to laugh at her sisters’ and mother’s folly (the way she used to; the way her father has taught her to by example for her whole life) and she can’t anymore! It sticks in her throat. She is grieved by the failures that she sees in him, all the more so because she IS his favorite and she loves him! And the thing about Mr. Bennet is he never changes. The Lydia/wickham situation exposes to him sharply his own conduct and the consequences and he feels it! Because he is neither stupid nor unfeeling. But he, like everyone, has free will. And he chooses not to change when the opportunity presents itself. He even jokes about how quickly his feeling bad will pass and how soon everything will go back to normal, to his laziness and his selfishness. He is set in his ways and he serves as a contrast to Elizabeth’s personal journey because he embodies a version of a person she could have become and was in danger of becoming if her only goal at all times was to laugh at and judge people from the sidelines.

[afterthelambs]

i adore Maruki as a character because he's simultaneously the most relatable depressing character that will make you cry with empathy, and the goofiest wettest cat loser in the game like what do you mean youre a licensed therapist and your first response to trauma is to brainwash a girl, project ur relationship issues onto a 17 yr old boy, and then rule the world in a golden leotard? bro went from 0 to 100 so fast??? anyway he's like 30% of the reason why p5r works as well as it does

[nelkcats]

Parent's Day

Ghosts didn't have a father's or mother's day as such, but they did have a day where they combined both. A day to celebrate your guardians. Humans, Yetis, Amazons or Gods, it was a quiet day to thank them for your ghost adoption.

Dan and Ellie had spent a few years under the halfa's care but at the end of the day they considered him their guardian (although Dan did it reluctantly), so when they heard about Parent's Day they panicked.

They wanted to show Danny that they really appreciated him but a mug or coupons were not enough. In the end after some brainstorming they decided to give him the closest thing to a mug that was in the Realms: Constantine's complete soul.

John Contantine was a very annoying human, they knew this because they heard Danny complain about his paperwork many times. Apparently their father had 99% of his soul but couldn't do anything until he had 100%, and what better gift than to help him get rid of the paperwork? He hated paperwork! It was perfect!

With some help from Clockwork they traveled to DC's dimension, determined to take the last of the hellblazer's soul. Dan wondered if he should steal a star from the dimension while they were there (Danny liked space didn't he?), as an extra gift.

John Constantine was in the middle of explaining the holes in reality to the Justice League when a shiver ran through his body. He had an instant bad feeling.

[ratatatastic]

"im excited to be here [in Finland]" is the understatement of the century matthew ill be real

Primetime Panthers | 11.6.24 (x)

[spotaus]

Thinking about Orchid and her connection to my take on Gender (because this was meant to be about her and the Crew but it just devolved into a character analysis kinda??? More trauma-dumping maybe???) This is very much an oc/personal rant so feel free to ignore it 🫡

So, Orchid started off as a character I didn't really think much of (hear me out this is going to be relevant) because I wanted to add a 'girl' character but didn't know what to *do* with her, y'know? She was always going to be the strongest one there, she had the odds stacked in her favor with her parents. She was always going to be the gloomy side-character to match Reset's energy. But I think she's gone through every stage of Generic Woman I could possibly find.

At first she was angry and abrasive (think Fell!Sans) where every other word was a curse and she was likely to throw the first punch then laugh as she kicks her enemy while they're down. This was when Reset was a cartoonishly self-centered villain whose goal was simply to prove others wrong. Then Orchid became a sort of sisterly figure. This was short-lived, but she was the one comforting people who Reset would torment, but would ultimately follow his orders, because at this point he was actually a danger and sadistic. And then there was the phase where the story mellowed out and she became the token Goth Girl who, yes she was strong, but was heavy on the 'whatever' energy. Then there was her Era of deep self-loathing and anxiety about her worth that held her back and made her a much more timid and meek character who would only lash out on occasion.

Now, Orchid is the best of those iterations I've written yet. She's calm, level-headed, and a natural leader. Her father raised those traits into her. But she's very reactive, and can be silly, and when she's comfortable it's likely that air of importance transforms into something more comfortable and familiar. She laughs loudly and grins wide, she likes loud video-games but loves to read in the quiet. She's extremely disciplined, and normally no one can get through her tough exterior besides her best friend, Reset. She does what she does for her own enjoyment, sure, but she's thought of every angle and makes her choice to help Reset and control the others with her whole chest. She still worries she won't live up to her invisible expectations, and that and her loyalty are her two driving forces.

I know that Orchid is important to me because she's the longest-running female oc I've had. I have a rough relationship with womanhood/girlhood and I know looking back that Orchid recieved every ounce of my distaste for being a woman that I could shovel into her. That never made her less of a character, she was actually always one of my favorites, and rarely was she a 'punching bag oc'. I just... projected onto her a lot. And she's a good sign of how I've learned who I am. I've decided that my own femininity is something I could live without. I'd rather not associate myself with it, and I'd like to leave it in my past, focusing on a future where I'm not tied down with any gender roles or expectations. That won't happen, but I've come to terms with it myself. Orchid though? I figured out through her that I don't have to hate women characters. My own distaste for my circumstances doesn't mean I have to push it onto my characters (on God I've never expressed anything rude to actual people, that'd be rude as hell and uncalled for, but I have a bad habit of disliking fictional women in media). So, Orchid is a well-roubded character finally. She has motivations abd goals and a *lot* more depth than I ever expected her to. She's happy with being a woman, she's content. She's not treated differently for it in unfair ways by those she cares about, so she doesn't mind it. She likes to wear pretty outfits and lets Reset add bows to her ribbons. She doesn't let being a woman hold her back in the slightest.

So, yeah. Orchid is one of my babies. If I ever leave this Fandom behind for good, she's one that's coming with (Ichor, Orchid, and Pretender all have human designs I can use elsewhere lol-) but in the meantime I'll just rotate her around in my brain for a while longer.

If I'm right, she's been with me for nearly 5-6 years and I went through a *lot* with her as an outlet. So, she's kinda just like an old stuffed animal. A lil ripped, matted fur, maybe a stain or two, but there's a story there and that makes it important beyond belief.

[illustriousaestheticc]

[rebelrainfall]

why am i having such intense hiccup and astrid feelings tonight it is 2023 i though i was like 6 years past that

[dmempowermentshop]

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[plantskiddo]

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[blazingbladezz]

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[brotherslayer]

If Derrick eckart had decided to court og Penelope, how do you think he would go about it? Your headcanons please🧐🤨

[military1st]

Christmas Gift Guide

It's Gift Giving Season!

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[luvcraze]

A Guide to Writing Love Letters

Writing a sentimental and meaningful love letter is a heartfelt way to express your deepest emotions and affection for your partner.

1. Set the Mood:

Find a quiet and comfortable space where you can focus on your thoughts and emotions without distractions. Play soft music, light candles, or surround yourself with items that evoke fond memories with your partner.

2. Start with a Greeting:

Address your partner with a sweet and endearing salutation, such as "My Dearest [Partner's Name]," "My Love," or a nickname that holds special meaning between the two of you.

3. Express Your Feelings:

Pour your heart out and express your love and affection for your partner. Use descriptive language to convey the depth of your emotions. Share specific qualities you admire about them and recount special moments you've shared together.

4. Share Memories:

Reflect on cherished memories and experiences you've shared as a couple. Recall significant milestones, inside jokes, or moments of intimacy that have strengthened your bond.

5. Acknowledge Their Importance:

Let your partner know how much they mean to you and how they've positively impacted your life. Express gratitude for their presence, support, and love.

6. Be Vulnerable:

Don't be afraid to show vulnerability in your letter. Share your hopes, dreams, and fears with your partner, and let them know that they're a source of comfort and strength in your life.

7. Promise of Commitment:

Reassure your partner of your commitment to the relationship. Promise to stand by their side through thick and thin, and affirm your dedication to nurturing your love and building a future together.

8. End with Affection:

Close your letter with a heartfelt expression of love and affection. Use phrases like "With all my love," "Forever yours," or "Yours eternally," followed by your signature.

9. Personalize It:

Make the letter personal by incorporating your partner's name, inside jokes, or references to shared experiences. Write in your own voice and let your personality shine through.

10. Edit and Revise:

After writing your letter, take the time to read through it and make any necessary edits or revisions. Ensure that your message flows smoothly and resonates with sincerity.

11. Handwritten Touch:

Consider writing your letter by hand for an added personal touch. Handwritten letters are more intimate and convey a sense of thoughtfulness and effort.

12. Add Some Flair:

Get creative with it! Sprinkle some magic on your love letter by adding adorable stickers, doodles of hearts and smiley faces, colorful ribbons for a touch of whimsy, or even include a small surprise like a dainty ring or a tiny trinket. Let your imagination run wild and make it uniquely yours!

12. Delivery:

Decide on the best way to deliver your letter to your partner. You can hand it to them in person, leave it in a place where they'll find it unexpectedly, or send it through mail for a romantic surprise.

Remember, the most important aspect of writing a sentimental and meaningful love letter is to speak from the heart and let your genuine feelings shine through. Your partner will appreciate the time and effort you put into expressing your love in such a heartfelt manner.

[chilapis]

speaking of. do you ever fuck yourself over immensely