#getting my tubes tied

[liminalweirdo]

Poll: Health and gender re medical malpractice

if you feel comfortable please share your choice as well as whether you have ever experienced medical malpractice

not to be that person but please consider reblogging this, my tumblr don't have a ton of traffic and i'm genuinely interested in the results.

[wegotisms]

This is why the right has been demolishing education in this country for the last 50+ years. We can froth at the mouth about what kind of person votes against their own interests or how this could have happened and it isn't going to change the fact that this has BEEN happening for decades.

As sad and disappointed and disgusted as I am, I am not surprised because this is the result of decades of bad policy and division and propaganda.

Get your tubes tied.

Protect your trans friends.

Support your community at the local level.

Radically love yourself and the people you care about and do not stop fighting for a world that is better than the one we got.

[corvidstrike-pt2]

true pain is wanting to yap about ii18 but not having the words to yap about ii18 so you're just sitting there sobbing

(spoilers in tags btw!)

[not-a-space-alien]

Nothing sends me spiraling quite like stories about people arguing abortion should be necessary to save a life using a mother's already existing children as fodder for why she needs to live. Did u know? It's okay to want to live even if you didn't already give birth to other children lol the value of your life doesn't hinge on your importance to children lol misogynists are so evil the only way to convince them women don't deserve to die in childbirth and earn Valhalla or something is if they can't leave children behind in the care of a lone father

[moonagedaydreamsofrhiannon]

In preparation for a possible national abortion ban, I will no longer be bisexual. For the next four years I am a practicing lesbian. Women hit me up, men, stay the fuck away from me.

[iamroyalgayness]

Look, I usually don't get serious on this app, but after the election yesterday, I feel just devastated. I am a trans disabled queer satanist, with him winning I don't feel safe.

I'm not trying to play this up for laughs, I am being serious. I don't feel safe. I don't want to feel like this, but with project 2025, I am terrified, and I don't know where else to post this. How could this happen? I don't want to be afraid I don't want to be contemplating what the hell am I going to do... I don't want to be in this country.

Are we going to have to move? We can't afford to! I can't move! We can't move! My mom works 2 jobs! My twin is in college! I'm about to be in college! I live in Michigan! When I was younger, it was relatively progressive! Now it's getting more conservative, and I'm scared! Am I going to have to get my tubes tied? I was never planning on having kids, but if abortions became basically impossible to get or even outright illegal, I don't want to be forced to give birth! What if something horrible happens?! I don't want to die! These bans have already killed!

[fortjester]

ur supposed to get one period a month yea? not me. i'm periodmaxing. we're on the fourth month of the year and guess how many periods i've had. brother, we are solidly on no. 7

[gunkbaby]

I would not want to get Shuu Tsukiyama pregnant like imagine the impact the nausea and food aversions would have on his spiritual and emotional wellbeing.

[fruitytboy]

been off this blog for a bit cause i've been BUSY and i'm getting SPAYED tomorrow. everyone say goodbye tummy hair you will be missed

[samethstarr]

It's time for my birth control appointment where my doctor thinks of new and creative ways to tell me that being able to breed is in my medical best interest. She's pulled the age card. The "your future partner" card. The "you haven't tried everything else yet, let's not go nuclear when there are other options" card. I'm getting close to 34. I've been in a stable relationship for 10 years with a partner that also doesn't want kids. I HAVE tried everything else. What is she gonna give me this time?

Find out later this afternoon, after she fails to convince me that IUD recovery is easier than surgery recovery (It's not, learned that the hard way, not making that mistake again, oof)

[domwitch]

Genuinely so fucked up that I can't just turn off my ovaries. Are u telling me the easiest way I can fuck raw is using birth control????? Fucked up.

[valentinoappreciator]

i just want a way to ensure i can never ever get pregnant ever why do i have to pay for that????

[mallgothchloe97]

I don’t want kids(RANT)

I really don’t understand why people especially conservative Republican women make such a big stink about other women not wanting kids. I mean we all know why because patriarchy, but it still puzzles me how it’s looked at like it’s such a sin to not want kids or even dislike kids.

I don’t want kids.

I don’t like kids.

I don’t want the responsibility of being a parent and I don’t wanna deal with messes, the expenses, the yelling, the crying the screaming, the tantrums, the list can go on.

What also annoys me is when people ask you “when you gonna have kids?” and I say “I don’t want kids,” they go “why not?” and I just say “because I don’t want kids,” “oh you’ll change your mind,” yeah they always hit me with that “you’ll change your mind, your young,” crap.

Hell even when I was a kid I knew I didn’t want kids and they would even pull that stunt with me.

Here I am 27 about to turn 28 next month and I still don’t want or like kids.

“How could you hate kids?”

I never said I hate kids.

I just dislike them and I don’t want kids.

But apparently that’s a no no especially when it comes to women.

As a woman you are expected to have kids and I don’t want to be a part of that.

That doesn’t mean I want bad things to happen to children, that doesn’t mean I want kids to be unhappy or hurt, that doesn’t mean I want to hurt children and that doesn’t mean I am one of those douche canoes that makes “hating children,” their entire personality.

“But you’ll die alone with your cats!”

Good! I’m perfectly fine and in content with that.

I will admit I am selfish.

I like my free time, I like my money, I like my sleep and I like being alone.

Wanna have children, go ahead and have your happily ever after, I support you and I support the mamas out there but don’t get all pissy with me when I say that’s not the life I want.

That is all.

[meatheadmutt]

why am i having to hold a gun to googles head to show me articles on the long term effects of hormonal birth control on the endocrine system in adult patients who began usage as a teenager

[tittyinfinity]

*handing my doctor my cup of piss* I'm gonna get such a good grade in Hydration

[wasteland-lover]

i think i want a baby