#gender is fake

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Coworker: Hi my name is Remus. I am a Remus Lupin fictive, NOT from Harry Potter because it’s transphobic!!! I’m from All the Young Dudes. I do not identify as a trans man I actually identify as a man in an AFAB body because I am an alter in a system and the system happens to have an AFAB body but I am a fictive of a man. My system stems from the trauma I endured when I read JK Rowling’s tweets! :)

Me: …how did you use an emoticon smily face in real life.

[thomas-flynn]

So much of me going masc again was influenced by afab people staying "lesbians" and being more welcome in the community than trans women.

Just give up being a lesbian. They'll never accept you. Deep down they hate you and they're afraid of you. You'll say some weird mentally ill or horny shit (man coded) and scare their cozy vibes.

Just do what they do, fuck gay men. Transmascs can be lesbians so transfems can be f*ggots. Most t4t transfem lesbians are girlcock perverts anyway. Just admit you're all gay men, give up fighting like labels change anything.

They're all "gynosexual" and you're a f*g. They're all saying "gender is fake" too. They're right. You're a crossdressing man. Man up and accept it, be proud of all the gay men that fought for your rights.

[depressdbitch]

When It comes to criticize Dylan Mulvaneys new song, TRAs go by "oh but cis girls makes songs about stereotypical girls things too!"

The difference Is that these cis girls are forced into female stereotypes from birth and they suffer from internalized misoginy, or ironize their experience.

Dylan was Born and raised a male, and everything about their online persona Is a caricature of a woman. Their Song Is a mockery.

[shitty-goose-quack]

psa: you don't have to look a certain way to be enby

you don't have to wear oversized button downs and bagy jeans to "pass"

you don't have to wear intricate and colorful makeup so people know you're queer

you don't have to shave your head to look more androgynous

you don't have to bind everyday to prove that you're really trans, and not just faking

you don't have to use they/them or he/him or fae/faer pronouns to not be a girl

jesus christ i just want to go and shake 14 year old me and tell her she can wear dresses and miniskirts and bras if that makes her feel good

tell her that if wearing mascara threatens her carefully crafted gender identity, then its not a great gender identity

just because you came out as "genderfluid/enby/gender queer/agender/transman/demiboy/unlabelled", masculinity doesn't mean shit (neither does femininity for that matter) and if coming out makes you feel like you're in more of a box, coming out did not serve it's purpose

screw that teacher who asked "why are you wearing girl clothes?" because you came to school in something pink

screw the imposter syndrome you felt wearing a bra instead of a binder

screw the people that say you're misgendering yourself when you call yourself a girl

I can be just as trans in a miniskirt as i am in mens jeans

i can have a gender crisis with or without lipstick on

i can be a lesbian with french braids or a buzz cut

i can flip off gender with long, unkempt cuticles, or 2 inch acrylics

my gender expression is for me, and me alone. if someone with shaved legs, eyelash extensions, waist length hair, and a pushup bra asks you to use he/him pronouns for him, you had better damn well respect that

[star-is-cool]

it/its pronouns

people tell me my pronouns are de-humanizing.

however, darling, THATS THE POINT.

im not human, im a funky little alien that happened to land on earth. it didn't get birthed, I fucking spawned from chaos.

so no, you may not only use he/him for me.

dont be a pussy, use my damn pronouns.

[j4zz4lop3]

Where all my bros who are nonbinary not in the sense they're dysphoric being their agab or euphoric being androgynous and in the way that you have no feelings about gender whatsoever and feel detached from the whole thing. Like, I'm just vibing why you care. I don't wanna bind. These are my non-gendered boobs, thx. I don't wanna get a haircut. This is my genderlessly long hair. I've come to a point where fem and masc are just aesthetics to me, and I need to make an effort to acknowledge that someone has a gender.

[number1racoon]

no more cis, trans, and nonbinary. there is only boring, cool, and normal

[ashtastiic]

NORMALIZE FEMININE TRANS MEN

[nezu-mi]

they're definitely dating

[urfavuritedoll]

DOLLIE'S INTRO !!

Haiii!! >_< so uhh I'm Dollie! I have a BUTT TON of pronouns but my main ones are she/they/it/that/lu/<3! If you want the full list, don't be scared to ask! Gender and sexuality are irrelevant to me but i am feminine!! I will refer to myself as a guy, a girl, nonbinary, whatever floats my boat! ☆ ～('▽^人) call me whatever you want, idc!

Ssssoooo I am a system and technically the cohost, so i may talk about system/alter related things here! I WILL NOT talk about things I feel are personal such as alter count, other alters names, what type of dissociative disorder I have, ect ect! You are not entilted to information, remember thaaaat!!! (⁀ᗢ⁀)

I have autism and I suspect BPD, but I'm not reeeeeaaaally certain on that yet. I alsooo have some stuff like chronic pain, so I may or may not vent about that here!!! Who knows?? Not even I know yet! ☆*:.｡.o(≧▽≦)o.｡.:*☆

DO NOT INTERACT ..

- endogenic "systems" (you either aren't a system or you have trauma you don't know of!!!! This includes "mixed origin" or "trauma endo" or whatever tf you wanna label urself as)

- +30 / -14 (unless I interact first)

- anti age regression / pet regression

- people who fake claim based on ONE tiktok video / tumblr post

- ppl who just give me bad vibes!!!! I block freely!!!!!

PLEEEEEASE INTERACT ..

- other systems / neurodivergents (ALL types of neurodivergency)

- NSO, Madoka Magica, Steven Universe, DDLC, Heathers fans

- neopronoun / xenopronoun + xenogender users/hoarders

- otherkin, therian, nonhuman, alterhuman, ect ect

- former gacha / 2015-2018 creepypasta kids (or both!!!! Even better! :3)

[unavailableapple]

The insanity of the trans movement is how genuinely hateful they are of female anatomy. Any slight mention of vulvas just EXISTING is met with such animosity and anger. I love my vag and I love every other pussy on earth and that’s never gonna stop. This is not sexual. I LOVE FEMALE ANATOMY. It deserves to be made into art, to be celebrated, to be worshipped. If you cannot hold space for that, I will not hold space for you.

[blackfemm3]

when i feel like a boy its always gonna be a “femme boy” way not a “straight guy way”

[iwasateenagebordigist]

God was supposed to make me transfem but he made me a cis bisexual and I think that's terrible

[korva-the-raven]

But seriously though, forget gender...

I need to know what cute animal eraser you are: