#fujoshi positivity

[c0derra4lyfe]

up.. bored.. ;-;

Hey guys -_-... I'm at my grampas house with bad reception and I can't even read my yaois... ;-; 😢.. luckily tumblr works but it's SO FREAKING SLOW. Also I totally just saw a post earlier about Owen LAWL it said he was a little bit special- (slow...) sorry butt ITS TRUE XDDD. Owen idc if ur mad IM IN THE BIG CITY!!!!!!!!!!(not as big as u though.... -_-) Bai ;-; anywho- I miss my whittle codykins so much ;-----; Also tomorrow I get to go SHOPPING with the GALS... #city girl.. cody gimme a big HMU💋

[fujophile]

Fujoshi oppression is real.

A few days ago an anti-fujo made a deepfake with my face because I'm a fujoshi

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

I support people doing whatever they want with fiction, including fujoshi here, y’all are loved and safe on my blog however there’s a certain type of fujoshi that makes me uncomfortable

It’s those kind of people who let their internalized misogyny bleed into their fandom hobbies and shit on female characters for “getting in the way” of their ship or just generally being a “not like other girls” because understand this, I’m very pro women as much as I am proship

[confessyourship]

Most of the times on fujoshi discourse people keep saying that most fujos are lesbians, or trans people and so they aren't "fetishizing" because of that so it's okay but I'm here to say that straight cis woman fujos are absolutely also valid too! Go get that Yaoi! ✨❤️

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[mrmeepsmadmind]

they are ignoring my big beautiful pathetic himbo wife and his cute little platypus tail that he has for some tank part reason im too dumb to understand why

[sunsetforestzone]

hi. hello. message for the girls who talk about wanting to be friends with guys the way guys are friends with guys, girls who see mlm relationships and wish they could have a relationship like that, lesbian girls who want to date other girls but in a "masc" way, girls who want to be like their favorite male characters, girls who "wish they could be fem the way men are fem", etc:

hi. its okay to be a man. its okay to be a boy and to want to be a boy and to love being masculine and a man and a guy. you dont have to be a trans man to be transmasculine (butchness is a beautiful thing), or even masculine in general, but it is okay to be a man. im sorry if people online or even in your real life have made you feel ashamed about it, i'm sorry that people have framed masculinity as undesirable, i'm sorry rad "feminists" told you that being a man is something awful. masculinity isn't inherently toxic, masculinity can mean whatever you connect with.

but most of all if nobody has told you this yet if you want to be a boy you can just be a boy. im dead serious. its genuinely objectively okay to be a man. ily. take care

[youraveragebtsstan]

My Fellow Fujoshis, Enjoy: "A 9-1-1 S7E5 Buddie/BuckTommy Magnum Opus"

An Ally...? Not Anymore Babe.

Hey Tim, if you need any inspo for Buck "helping out" Eddie, I got a few fanfics for you. *Wink* Pretty sure Ryan and Oliver do too.

My Buddie heart is so content. 🥰🥰🥰

He's sooo whipped... And yes, I love it. 🥰💕

[snekdood]

rewatching that video natalie made about cringe and she gets to a point where shes talking about how there were trans women using “cringe” trans women as examples of Bad Transgenders Which They Are Not and how they’ll go as far as to misgender and dismiss their transition to justify their exclusion. and i really think yall need to read this and internalize it and realize you’re doing this about trans men who talk about our oppression:

(in reference to the video clip she’s responding to, she says;) “Rose… gorg. Jessica Yaniv is not one of "the biggest characters in the world" at any moment. This is not a world historical figure. At the end of the day, this is a more or less random civilian sex fiend off the streets of Vancouver BC. The only reason anyone has heard of her at all, is that Vanessa decided to go full "To Catch a Predator" and turn this grimy reprobate into a minor anti-celebrity. She's not one of the biggest characters in the world. But it sounds like what she is Rose, is one of the important characters in your brain.

This is distorted thinking. It's like A-Log comparing Chris-Chan to Hitler. You're so deep in the morbid cringe obsession that you've lost perspective. And I'm sure you have what seem to you like perfectly logical reasons for devoting so much attention to this. And I know that videos about Yaniv get a lot of views, so I'm sure that's a factor too. But Rose, I also know a morbid cringe obsession when I see one. And I know that being a visible trans woman on the Internet is more difficult than most people can imagine. And I know that pretty much every trans person is bullied or shamed or humiliated at some point in our lives. And I know how good it can feel to take all the horrible things that transphobes and bullies and TERFs have said about us, and repeat those things verbatim about some “big, fat, fake, dangerous, delusional, disgusting male fetishist”.

Oh, it feels good to get to be the TERF for once. It feels good to be the judge rather than the judged. Because when you point the finger at someone else, you're also pointing away from yourself. And it's not lost on me that in conservative circles, queer people are often treated like suspected sex criminals by default. So there's safety in being the one who spearheads the “think-of-the-children” type moral crusade. And when you expose a trans predator, you get that feeling of safety plus the relief of having someone in particular to blame for the shame and the stigma we all feel. Jessica Yaniv is the reason people hate us. But that's just not true. It's a simple answer to a complicated problem. It's scapegoating.

When I look at the Yaniv obsession on trans YouTube, I see a community trying to cope with stigma and hoping that destroying a scapegoat will bring relief. It's basically a blood sacrifice. It's not rational. It feels good for a moment, but it's an addiction. It won't ever erase the stigma and the shame. And Yaniv is simply the latest and most deserving in a long line of bad transgenders who aren't real transgenders and are giving us a bad name and are the reason people hate us and must be condemned and destroyed.

But when Yaniv is finally gone, when you get her sent to prison or whatever your goal is, you're just gonna find a new scapegoat to take her place. And the shame cycle continues. The humiliation and bullying we've experienced is internalized as shame. When we project that shame onto scapegoats and onto each other, it becomes cringing and contempt. And we voice that contempt by shaming other people, which starts a new cycle.

So you can keep finding new scapegoats, new punching bags, new shamedumps, new lolcows, and you can wind up like one of the people who's been archiving Chris-Chan for 13 years. But that will never really heal us.”

‘n i kinda feel like thats whats going on right now....

[moonshynecybin]

i wish i could convey to you all the exact intonation of the “oh godddd” this patron let out when art and patrick started kissing

[the-proest-shipper]

I am the nasty proshitter your parents warned you about!!

[proshippers-against-censorship]

Being a fujoshi is cool, but have you considered being a 腐女 / fǔ nǚ instead?

My only argument on the matter is that danmei characters tend to look cooler and have a higher chance of being sword gays.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

[queenrizzardnthelizardscissored]

why does every fandom have so much more yaoi than yuriiiii

:((((

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

Ngl I’m kinda curious

[amplexadversary]

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[hobgoblinns]

pre-2016 tumblr: yaoi:)))

2016-2020 tumblr: if you even think about men kissing you should kill yourself

2020 onwards tumblr: yaoi:)))

[hyumjim]

Btw when I read this comment I had to hold myself back from being like OH GOD FORBID WOMEN WRITE ANYTHING!!!