#friends to lovers trope is so good
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What if they grew up together?
Revali having white feathers that turn navy after each molt is not my idea. I believe it came from @grooviestsadpapaya and I have not been able to stop thinking of it since. Hence this drawing
#love the idea of them growing up together#also teen link looks like aywin oops#revalink#friends to lovers trope is so good#digital art#farmers tan link supremacy#artbart#basically colored#scribbles
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when will my big skull man come back from the war,,,,,,,,,,
#my favorite trope for Ghost reader inserts is (surprisingly) childhood friends-to-lovers#but they're kinda hard to come by.............#like!! he and reader haven't seen each other since he enlisted and like!! when he comes back they accidentally run into each other#AND THE READER WOULDN'T RECOGNIZE HIM AT FIRST CUZ HE'S WEARING A BALACLAVA/THE MASK#and aND SUDDENLY THEY RECONNECT AND FALL IN LOVE AND RAAAAAAAAAAH#n e ways im so eepy good morning#my art#2023#call of duty#call of duty: modern warfare#call of duty: modern warfare ii#call of duty: modern warfare iii#cod#codmw#codmwii#codmwiii#modern warfare#mw#mw2#mw3#simon riley#simon ghost riley#ghost cod#art#fanart#digital art#digital drawing#sketch#doodle#video games
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Love Next Door is so good because of the way it shows the reality of taking breaks. You'd think taking a break would free you and rejuvenate you and give you that serenity that you've been craving. You'd discover and explore, carve out the space to think and decide on how you wish to move forward.
But it's actually a rollercoaster of guilt, anxiety, competition, losing self confidence, grief and longing for meaning, seeking clarity, doubting your beliefs, questioning all life decisions, feeling like shit, spending time with your mom and becoming friends with her, doing everything you used to love again and experiencing the little joys, feeling left out and lost, wondering if you've ever been right, wondering why you treated yourself like shit, wishing you could have continued the way it was so that you don't have all these unanswered questions, thankful that you prioritised yourself, wishing for something to love for, wishing you understood yourself and life, and repeat and repeat...
And not only that, Seok Ryu's experience at Greip is the quintessential immigrant worker experience.
When you leave your country to work somewhere else, you feel this sense of responsibility. Most people invest a lot of money and time and energy and they have expectations to live up to, both of themselves (especially if you're a high achiever) and their parents. So you work hard, which is so easy to exploit in general in life, even easier when you're an immigrant. Because as an immigrant, you also want to be liked and crave for a sense of belonging. So you do even more than you can handle, to be accepted, and then people like Chris target and manipulate you because they know what you need. It's easy to become a pushover when you think it'll get you an ally in your loneliest times.
It must have been cathartic when she punched him. :) I hope it continues to be good until the end.
#love next door#kdrama#orange pops#also childhood friends to lovers is one of my fav tropes#and their dynamic is soooo good#I love the playfulness and the support they share#so cute
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Hi!!!
I love your work (I've read some of your stuff MULTIPLE times already it's so good) and I just saw that you're writing another Eddie fic!!!!
I wanted to ask if you have any more information on it (like is it fluff, smut, angst) and if you have any idea of a release date :))
No pressure at all though!!! I'm sorry if it sounds that way you don't have to reply to this I'm just EXCITED!!!
thank you darling!! multiple times??? i'll propose marriage be careful!💀 i am writing an eddie fic! and i would love to say i'm so close to finishing, but it's gonna be a massive one and i am nowhere near the finish line.
and yes to all three. fluff, angst, smut, mutual pining, romcom vibes of the early 2000s. i'm shoving it all in. i'll drop a small hint under the cut for you.🖤🖤
People shoved you to the side as you walked. Doing what you could to refrain from slipping on the icy bits of the sidewalk. Taking a cab was out of the question. With what little cash you had stuffed in your wallet. Your boss decided to withhold your paycheck for the second time - claiming you should have come in the collect it.
The temptation to scream at him in person left the second you realized the money wouldn't even cover the rent next month. So like an idiot…you booked a flight to New York (much to Eddie's delight) and packed a bag large enough to stuff two weeks worth of clothes in it. He believed it was his incessant nagging that finally got you here; you didn't have the heart to tell him that you held no other option.
"Watch it," you snapped at a man who's coat probably cost more than your grandmother's gold ring you wore around your neck.
He scoffed, turning back to the conversation he was invested in on his phone. Getting into a fight wasn't exactly a part of the plan. But the anger began to eat away at your heart - gnawing at your patience the longer you were here. Wandering the city streets. Alone.
"Now that's not the Kit I know."
You whipped around, eyes wide and hair upright on the back of your neck as Eddie's broad smile came into view. The leather jacket he wore complimented his tall figure; the once skinny shoulders you remember now grown into a broad form you certainly didn't expect. Hazel eyes sparkled with a joy that still managed to entrance you in a single glance.
It felt pathetic how quick you turned into a simpering girl in his presence. Still the eleven year old he used to push into muddy puddles because it made him laugh. Somehow that made heat spill into your cheeks - a flustered expression flashing across your face.
He squinted, hands on his hips, as he bent down slightly to push his face directly in front of yours. "What'd you do with her? My little kitten?"
"Fuck off Eddie," you scoffed, shoving at his shoulders.
#witch aunt responds#anon darling✨#it's that good old fashioned he's so obviously in love and reader is so helplessly oblivious trope#and childhood best friends to lovers#eddie alden x reader#eddie alden
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i’m alright with a slow burn by lesbiseresin
Maverick’s eyes lower to focus on the figure whose head barely reaches Copperhead’s hip, a blonde boy that looks to be around Bradley’s age. “And this must be Jacob.”
“Jake,” the boy corrects. He only crosses his arms when Copperhead taps his shoulder in a silent reprimand, but Maverick doesn’t seem to mind.
He laughs and exchanges an amused look with Copperhead before moving his hand into a similar grip on Bradley’s shoulder. “Well, Jake. It’s nice to meet you. I’m Maverick. This is Bradley.”
Bradley blinks owlishly at them both until Maverick nudges him. “Hi.”
(alternatively: jake & bradley over the years)
#my writing#well. im back with another hangster fic who is surprised.#but in this one theyve known each other since they were kids bc childhood friends to lovers is a good trope#and so is childhood nemeses to lovers!#hangster#sereshaw#hangster fic#hangster fanfiction#sereshaw fic#sereshaw fanfiction#hangman/rooster#hangman x rooster#jake seresin/bradley bradshaw#jake seresin x bradley bradshaw#jake x bradley#tgm fic#top gun maverick fic
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thinking soft childe thoughts again. this man truly does live rent free in my brain
falling in love with him, i think, would feel a lot like learning to walk with the knowledge that the space beside you is no longer empty.
there aren't any grand signs when you first meet: there is no moment of déjà vu, no sudden flurry of butterflies in your gut when you lock eyes for the first time, no hushed internal whispers of "have we met before?". there is no higher power guiding him when he approaches you and introduces himself, bright eyes and boyish grin on full display. there is no higher power guiding you when you test the feel of his name on your tongue and introduce yourself right back, cautious but curious of who and what he is. you're just two people who happened to be in the same space, at the same time, and that's how your story starts.
the days pass by like a warm reel of laughter with childe at your side. he's a wonderful friend; funny, charming, with a tendency to spoil you and insist even when you refuse because "this is what friends do! besides, i'm gonna eat your food anyway, so at least let me pay—". he's thoughtful and courteous, but he keeps your life exciting with all the mischief and stark joy he brings along with him. you know what he is, and though you don't completely know what his job entails, neither of you bring it up in the times you spend together. in the comfort of your company, he is not childe the harbinger or tartaglia, the waker of the deep. when he walks and fills the space beside you, he's just childe, your friend who raids your cupboards when he's feeling snacky and slips mora into your wallet when you're not looking. who wakes you up in the morning by knocking on the window right by your bed (instead of knocking on your door, you know, like a normal person). who goes on walks with you around the harbor to admire the sights and maybe work on his liyueren accent and vocabulary by conversing with you about anything and everything under the sun. who holds your hand like it's second nature, and matches the length of his strides to your own like he doesn't want either of you to ever be too far apart.
when your days pass like this, gradually getting to know the familiarity of his touch and presence in your life, falling in love isn't as daunting as it should be. the realization comes slowly to you though. it's when you find yourself tilting your head to whisper to the waiting ear beside you, when you stand and wait in an ever-moving crowd once you recognize the sound of his approach. it's when you set out two bowls instead of one at night and attach an assistive band to one pair of chopsticks because even after all this time, he still doesn't know how to use them.
falling in love with childe feels a lot like a gradual shift of colors in the ginkgo leaves of your homeland as the seasons pass by. he walks with you through the harbor often now, like a routine he can't give up. and while he admires the sights of liyue in the beauty of fall, you admire him.
it's in the glint of those golden leaves framing his fiery hair and blue eyes that you realize: "i've loved him for a while now, haven't i?"
i think that's how it all starts, honestly. you fall first, before you even realize, and your life suddenly becomes all the more colorful with the feelings you couldn't recognize before suddenly intermingling with the casual comfort he brings with him. it could open the door to something angsty, where you think your feelings are unreturned and try to cope, or maybe something soft and silly, where everyone can see just how much you like childe while he remains oblivious to your affections, but still sweet all the same.
in the end though, it wouldn't really matter if you really were the one who fell first. because childe, who saw you in that moment and took the first step to something bigger than he could've ever expected, would definitely be the one who fell harder.
#miyo.muses#childe.togo#get this man out of my HEAD#he is so!!#idc if u guys think friends to lovers is boring bc this trope is precious to ME#hes so dorky and cute and i love him so much aaaaaa#“she fell first but he fell harder” im going to shove this dynamic into every soft post i make just watch#its up to u if u want him to be the one who fell first AND fell harder#thats why its a semi open ending hehe#i think he deserves a soft and happy kind of love#something that quiets the urge for violence in his bones#good company that makes the remnants of the abyss within him settle#even if its just for a while#grand romances are great and i love them#but i like to imagine softer loves too#ok rambling over wdeehd#genshin impact#genshin childe#childe x reader#tartaglia x reader
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There's a scene that I wrote in the next chapter of The Walk Home that has me rattling and gnawing at the bars of my jorty cage
#I'm so feral over them#jorty#my boyssss#the friends to lovers trope is just soooo good#sparrow's writing in the field
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Prev reblog, imagine if they all fought for Fernando's love 🥹
Flavio who devoted and then killed his career in service to Fernando, Carlos Sr. who Fernando has looked up to and known for 20+ years, Lawrence who can provide for Fernando with his deep pockets, Adrian who has the potential to build Fernando a winning car
Who will he pick!!!! I vote Carlos Sr 🤭🤭
#uhhhhh hmm what are the tropes#idk i feel like both flavio and lawrence have a sugar daddy vibe but in different ways#like lawrence is a straight up sugar daddy literally putting so much money towards fernando#Flavio was/is more like offering a path on which Fernando can succeed#adrian is hmmmm yeah idk if theres any trope for that hsjfjf#like. to me i feel like newey was drawn to aston for several reasons#1. money obv 2. location/ease 3. the potential to build a midfield team into a top team#HOWEVER 4. finally getting to work with Fernando which he's said he'd like to do#so the trope is like. getting to give him a redemption arc#(<- i wanna cry cause ive seen Nando say he probably won't stay long enough to reap the rewards UGH)#anyhow#carlos sr is obviously longtime friends to lovers#aaagghhh even apart from joke shipping i really think their relationship is so cute 😭#there were so many moments in his show that made me 🥹 like wow they're such good friends#anyways. having many old man yaoi thoughts lately......#i think its so funny how we consider him to be the old man of f1#but he has like at least 4 actual old men who hes sedu- i mean befriended and works with of course#time to make ship names everybody!!!#(i is why he was nicer to seb after he came back. cause he was an old man! dhfjkf in the context of f1)#fernando alonso#f1#catie.rambling.txt
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The rise of "let people enjoy things" is single handedly the backbone of the rise of anti intellectualism
#i need to talk about this#disclaimer : im beyond terrible at putting my point across#so with that being said let me attempt at it#let's take look at the hate and misogyny women receive for liking a certain genre of books#that is so often simply countered with let people enjoy things#but we cannot let that narrative take over a whole as if critical thinking is “bad”?#booktok has made it so that disliking a popular books makes you the person with the superiority complex who should just let people enjoy-#-things#but when did criticizing actively target audiences who like that peice of literature? When did that become the narrative?#its all mindless consumption without a second thought to the actual material which can easily be credited to the tropification of books#the enemies do turn into lovers and the best friends do fall in love 10 years down the line#classifying books into tropes and then fulfilling that promise gives books an illusion of being “good” since it checks those boxes-#-that the reader picked up the book for in the first place#the act of reading has kind of been substituted by the act of being a reader and just owning stacks of books#we have turned away from any form of analysis or criticism#if it scratches the itch then its automatically the perfect book without further thought#i cant help but contribute the mere existence of that “itch” to how mordern books are classified into tropes with set plotlines#intelligenctualism is almost always looked at as elitism#reading only classics doesn't make you an intellectual individual but looking at any book with a critical lens may it be a classic or a rom#-com does#criticizing certain aspects of your absolute favorite books is intellectualism and not bullying people who like anything but classics#that distinction is so far lost in translation that talking about how a popular book is objectively bad is being a “hater”#well then im a hater#this is not a hate post for people who actively enjoy booktock or the more popular books#im just trying to introduce any amount of nuance into the conversation thats all#i can honestly go on forever but i think ill end my ranting here#literary criticism#literature#books#anti intellectualism
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enemies to lovers isn't "he's generally an unpleasant person to be around, he constantly puts other people down and disrespects/condescends/ostracizes them, he's cruel and a bully... but his one redeeming quality is that he looks attractive" like. bestie that's not a redemption arc!! or a redeeming quality!!! a person can and should control their behaviors, but how they look literally has no bearing on their worth as a person!
like... this trope is about an initial misunderstanding and miscommunication that leads to mild conflict and resentment of each other,but eventually they move past this rocky start by revealing to each other their humanity and good qualities, and communicating what happened the first time they met so that they can clear up that situation, and slowly becoming good friends who enjoy spending time with each other and eventually become really close, and the realization that one accidental mishap/slip in behavior/aashole mistake isn't what defines a person and sometimes your first interpretation of them is sometimes wrong!! an entire opinion of someone should be formed based on their behaviors, values, actions, and morals, and quality time spent with this person, not because they have nice cheekbones.
#and i can speak to this from experience#because i didn't outright hate this guy we just had very contradicting personalities and were polar opposites which is why we didn't#get along well when we first met#but then i realized how charming and sweet and kind and intelligent he was and i liked him so much for the same things#that I initially found as off putting and negative traits at first#and he had a similar experience with me and we found that our opposing personalities complemented each other#and THEN i noticed that he was literally so fine and had an amazing back and really nice eyes and a charming smile and good hair#he became one of my best friends first and the person i wanted to spend time with the most LONG BEFORE i ever found him physically appealin#or attractive at all#also this post is calling out middle school me because i read tlc and i wanted iko to have a love interest#and it was very heteronormative at the time too#and then the author literally didn't develop her or her love interest character AT ALL and designed them so poorly#and i didn't realize that this wasn't the correct way to do enemies to lovers#or that iko stood on her own as a character and kinney was completely unnecessary and so boring and bland aldjfkfkf#wait i might have to tag this#anti kiko#anti iko x kinney#the way I haven't thought about this book series in years akdjfkdmdl#enemies to lovers#tropes#anna speaks
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A dynamic I enjoy....
#also imagine. the trope of the redeemed awkward villain who is trying to be good but REVERSED...#the hero struggling to adapt#I'm so crazy for them#this is bc of gamma 2 btw#also shinso#ship dynamics#character dynamics#tropes#writing tropes#enemies to lovers#enemies to friends to lovers#gamma 2#bnha#hitoshi shinsou#mha shinsou#mha
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"and i don't blame you, dear for runnin' like you did all these years i would do the same, you best believe." - Stubborn Love, The Lumineers
#ahsdahdahdh i really want more context on their past relationship#can u believe we got a good ass friends-to-lovers-to-enemies trope in a COD game but no peek into how that developed AAAAAAA#i've never been so deprived of my LIFE#call of duty#call of duty: modern warfare#call of duty: modern warfare ii#call of duty: modern warfare 2#cod#codmw#codmw2#codmwii#valeria garza#alejandro vargas#colonel alejandro vargas#el sin nombre#valejandro#art#fanart#digital art#digital drawing#digital painting#sketch#doodle#video games#activision#infinity ward
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I don’t know if you like F1, but I was thinking driver!reader & chris fake dating for PR & they both actually catch feelings.
Kinda like those “She fell first, but he fell harder” situations
Also maybe they are bffs and they agreed to fake date for PR
i'm not sure if you meant this as a full fic or a concept but i don't know almost anything about f1 so i went ahead and made it a concept :)
but she's a long one, so buckle up
i can totally see this as a childhood friends to lovers scenario where you grew up together and were always super close and kept in touch after he left for Europe to pursue soccer. as you grew older you made your way up the ranks in the world of F1 and racing, and anytime it brought you near London (or Germany when he was still at Dortmund), the two of you jumped at the opportunity to see each other
it started out as a joke, actually. you had been ranting to Christian about how your PR manager was on your case about doing something to boost your image and get yourself into the public eye. you and Christian had both always been the type to avoid the limelight when possible, despite the flashy nature of your chosen career paths, but according to your PR manager, that wasn't a good thing. without thinking, you had blurted something about needing to date someone famous, maybe an athlete-- "at this point, you and i might as well tell people we're dating. the media already thinks we are and people would love it" you laughed to yourself, expecting Christian to laugh with you. instead, to your shock, he just shrugged his shoulders and stated that it could totally work
so, after running it by your PR manager who was thrilled at the idea of you "dating" America's most famous footballer, the two of you started appearing in public together more, dropping casual photos on Instagram that become more and more "couple-ey," and sure enough, the fans and the media both loved it
but although the relationship wasn't real, the way that your heart skipped a beat and the butterflies in your stomach sprung to life surely were. the longer the fake relationship continued, the further you fell for this stupid boy you had known since you were 4. sure, the thought of you two together had crossed your mind, especially as all of the adults back in Hershey, PA had teased the two of you as you grew up, but you always dismissed them without a second thought.
and now, all you could think was that by initiating a PR relationship, you had ruined your chances of things ever going back to normal with him. how could you, after you had held his hand while walking the streets of London, felt him pull you into his side by your waist and press soft kisses to your temple? how could you, after you had memorized the backs of his hands while they rested on your thigh as you sat next to each other, noting the small blemishes and imperfections on his skin? how could you after you had breathed in his scent while your face was buried in his chest in a tight, warm embrace?
no, you could never go back to the way things were before. but you were terrified of telling him that.
the two of you agreed that no kissing was necessary to convince the public that you were actually dating. you could maintain the image of a relationship without it and it would unnecessarily complicate things. you simultaneously thanked and cursed yourself for suggesting the rule, because you knew that kissing him would only make you fall further, but you also knew that there was nothing more in the world that you wanted to do right now.
as you started to realize you were in too deep with him, you started trying to distance yourself, canceling plans and spending a little less time with him day by day. of course christian noticed-- he had known you for nearly two decades, after all. he noticed the forced smiles and the way you pulled away from him much more quickly than you did before. he noticed how you no longer tucked yourself into his side when you sat next to him, instead putting a few inches of space between you.
after they had noticed his change in mood, he talked about it with mason and ben, his closest friends and the only two people that he had confided in about the nature of the relationship, telling them about how you had drawn yourself away and he worried that he had done something wrong.
he feared that he had gone too far, doing too much and making you uncomfortable. but with your absence, a small void, an empty feeling made its way into his heart. he missed your touch, being able to hold your hand or hold you close to him. he missed being able to kiss the top of your head and breathe in the scent of your shampoo. he missed you like he had never missed anyone before.
and that's when it hit him.
he'd fallen for you... hard...
when the realization hit him, he couldn't wait a second longer, grabbing his things from the bench and rushing out of the door as training had just ended. he raced to your house, pounding on the front door.
when you opened the door, he was met with your wide eyes and a startled expression, thinking that something was horribly wrong with the way he had been frantically knocking, but instead you found a desperate and lovesick christian.
"what on earth is going on?"
his words came out in a jumbled mess. he hadn't even gotten his head on straight enough to think about what he wanted to say to you when he got here-- he only knew that he had to talk to you.
"i-i-i just missed you and i realized that this whole PR relationship thing wasn't working for me anymore and i knew i had to talk to you, and... and i just want to be able to hold your hand again."
your heart sank briefly thinking that he had raced to your house in desperation to end the relationship. perhaps a better option had come along for a relationship. a real one. but his last statement caught you off-guard.
"chris, what are you talking about."
he started taking deeper breaths, just trying to calm his racing thoughts and form a coherent sentence. "i realized that... this whole thing isn't fake for me anymore, y/n. i just... i think I'm in love with you and that terrifies me and i'm worried that you don't feel the same way and i made you uncomfortable, and i don't want to ruin the friendship we had, so i knew i had to--"
his ramble was cut off as you grabbed him by the jacket, pulling him toward you and pressing your lips to his in a stroke of confidence and adrenaline. it didn't take longer than a moment for him to kiss you back, cradling your jaw gently in his hand.
you finally pulled back after a moment, looking at each other with misty eyes.
"this is such a cliche."
"i know, and i don't really care."
#wow i went a little crazy on that one#i just love childhood friends to lovers though#and any fake dating trope is SO GOOD#i could totally run with this and make it a full fic so if you want that let me know#h concepts#christian pulisic
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tysm for the tag @wiltedrosier !! these are so much funn, i love getting tagged in games sm.
hardcover or paperback? bookstore or library? bookmark or receipt? stand alone or series? nonfiction or fiction? thriller or fantasy? under 300 pages or over 300 pages? children’s or ya? friends to lovers or enemies to lovers? read in bed or read on the couch? read at night or read in the morning? keep pristine or markup? cracked spine or dog ear?
tags under the cut (it's a lot)
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pretty sure there are like, almost all of my mutuals. if any of you would rather i don't tag you in games PLEASE let me know!! (*^▽^)/★*☆♪
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#litterally so against dog earring pages#mot even like personal preference but every single librarian i've ever met has STRESSED not to do that and now i just cannot bring myself t#it feels like a crime#also the crease is just so ugly to me#as for the 'keep pristine or markup' it depends but i almost always(9.9/10) would keep it pristine#i only ever mark it up if i don't give i shit about the book and have to find a way to keep myself interested#or if it's for school and i have/want to annotate#tbh i love friends to lovers but you can never go wrong with enemies to lovers#it's a top tier trope#paperback is great but hardcover is just so nice for me#don't get me wrong#i ADORE paperback books#but hardcover feels so nice to hold and you don't have to worry about the front curling and it just looks nice#but paperback is so nice as well#they both have their pros and cons#i love stand alones#so much#forever and always#series are good too but they will never be as good as stand alones#books#reading#literature#can this fall into the fanfiction tag?#fanfiction#mutuals 🤍
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Hi, feels like it's been a longtime but alas I've only been here since the Era of Vash lol. Anyways I think you've made a great point about reader inserts and in general that's my concensus like it's impossible for a reader insert to be one hundred percent inclusive. Not to mention people should be allowed to read and interact with what they want howver they want. I think the only thing that does somehow bother me is the trend with people treating reader inserts as cringe. Like I've seen a lot of takes where people complain that using things like (F/n) or (Y/n) feels so cringe to them. Which again ok cool you do you, but we're all mentally ill here. Bashing on something isn't gonna help if you don't like don't interact is usually my go to. But don't try to force others to change something just cause it makes you uncomfortable. Like sadly I think Fandom culture has become sort of toxic and everyone policing everything makes me tired honestly.... but anyways, you're a good noddle. Stay safe, drink water. Keep slaying.~
HI FRIEND!!
i'm happy to hear that my extremely long-winded tirade resonated with someone!! it's always very nerve-wracking to express opinions online, even if they are something you wholly believe in, so having someone echo or express solidarity with it feels very comforting!!
i agree that x reader bashing is an issue, but ultimately i just try to remind myself that not everyone is going to like the things that you like—nor do the have to!! though, i think this speaks to a larger issue of people being unable to recognize that their personal, subjective opinions and preferences are not OBJECTIVE measures of correctness or value. something isn't bad just because YOU personally don't like it. and this isn't even just about x reader—this goes for fic tropes, ships, characters, even entire pieces of media. there's a huge trend online that rly glorifies being a "hater" as though it's cute and quirky or somehow funny, but i think at the end of the day it's senselessly unproductive and rly poisons the figurative well of online fandom spaces. but like hey—if u get your rocks off talking about all the things you hate, congrats! who am i to judge! when it comes down to it i'm just here for fun, and instead of being preoccupied with what other ppl are saying or doing or hating i would always rather spend time focusing on the things i like and earnestly working towards creating a space that doesn't make anyone feel bad for the things they like too.
#liv got mail#i think your (Y/N) comment in particular is a great example of this! i don't personally use Y/N in my fics bc that's my personal preference#that doesn't mean i'm right and other ppl are wrong. or that my way of doing it is good and the other is bad. it just Is What It Is#i once was in the process of actively writing and posting about a childhood friends to lovers series (that i was sooo excited abt)#and a mutual took it upon themselves to make a post about how childhood friends to lovers is a bad trope and that they hate it#which like ok word! live ur truth! find ur peace! but also like.... that kinda hurted?? did ya rly have to hit post on that one#also i mean this in the nicest way but like this (fandom! tumblr! life!) is all so UNSERIOUS#like it's FANFICTION!!! ABOUT MADE UP CHARACTERS!!! i'm a GROWN UP!!
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The pipeline of Angel's Friends kid to Good Omens adult is real
#the nostalgia gets me but yeah Angel's Friends was a wasted potential tbh#I mean. AF had the potential to show a toxic version of the divide between angels and devils. It was kinda there if you're paying attention#when Raf is sometimes judging Sulfus for being a devil. Sometimes in unfair ways#but because she has to because she's an angel#but it's never explored#this show had so much potential for a kid show and I'll never get over how much it was wasted in bad writing#rewatching it after Good Omens makes me realize even more#anyway I've always been into the “angel becoming friend and/or lover with a demon” trope lmao#not talking about the AF comics tho – could've been a very good new view of the trope#but also a wasted potential for being cancelled :(#angel's friends#good omens
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