#friend synastry

[sillybruja]

Synastry Observations: Frenemy/"enemy" edition part 1

DISCLAIMER: I am not a professional astrologer, this purely my observation based on repetitive patterns I notice within the signs, placements, houses etc. Take what I say with a grain of salt and understand not every astrology observation will resonate.

↳Heavy 8th House Synastry and/or negatively aspected 2H synastry↴

This one is a doosey. Personally, I never had 8H synastry with anyone that I have ever considered a friend, but I have seen this play out with other friendships. This synastry can suggest an imbalance of give and take, as well as a friendship that can be "obsessive". Feelings of jealousy, envy, and even resentment build over time. I've seen this also manifest as jealousy over the person's other friends, family, and sometimes even romantic partners. Very karmic & a difficult bond to break, but it could also be very emotionally harmful. It also highly depends on the emotional state of the people involved, especially the emotional state of the house person as they seem to be the most "reactive" in this situation.

↳Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus in 12H↴

These placements can definitely indicate secrecy created in a friendship dynamic. Either the friendship itself is kept secret, or one/both parties feel suspicious of the other, no matter how much time has passed or trust has been earned. Another heavily karmic synastry aspect to have. Usually the planet person is more aware of the pain each other causes, but the house person also feels the intensity. A lot can be ruined due to misunderstandings with this placement, but in the same regard -- this placement does also indicate two people who are magnetically connected, but eventually have their perception of each other morphed over time into something more negative. Truth be told, both parties see each other in a more "tainted" and deluded way as time goes on because both parties are secretive about their suspicions. Suspicion left undiscussed only has room to grow. Not always the case, but when this manifests in an "ex-friendship" or in a synastry chart of frenemies, its easier to see the ways either one or both have deceived each other in a connection. I've also noticed specifically with Moon/Mercury (sometimes venus) in 12H synastry shows how one person "prys" in the other's life. For example, having Mercury in 12H synastry could mean that one person oversteps and over-inquires about the other. Maybe this person listens to, inspires, encourages, or spreads misinformation about the other. Or, this person generally feels "superior" in the themes of mercury like communication, travel, intelligence, logic, etc. It also gives "pick me" vibes, or like those female friends you have that enjoy laughing at you or embarrassing you around others for validation. Icky.

↳Chiron conjunct personal planets and/or the nodes↴

These aspects are the definition of fated to me. When this is present in the chart of two frenemies, I know these two really hurt each other in various ways. When its chiron conjunct sun/moon for instance, I see a lot of damage to the ego, and self-confidence when dealing with each other. One person feels massively insecure in the presence of the other, and in enemy cases, its almost as if one person (usually chiron person) clings onto sun person even if chiron person harbors hate, bitterness, or resentment towards the sun person. Chiron conjunct personal planets can bring a lot of instability on so many levels -- on a soul level, physical / material level, emotional level, 3D, 5D etc etc. These connections are usually very painful because at one point in time, these two individuals could have been very close or trusted each other, and things took a left turn when both began to trigger each other. I've also seen this in complicated friendships where the two are not exactly true friends, or honest/genuine friends to each other, but there's a weird sense of loyalty toward one another. Maybe you two are in secret competition, and you feel the other person does not like you. Typically you would end communication with someone like this, but with this person, you find excuses for them and reasons to remain in their energy. kinda odd tbh. Chiron conjunct the nodes says all the same but speaks more so to the soul missions of the individuals. This could mean you both agreed to be here to have problems and to learn lessons together lol. But with chiron conjunct NN/SN, the connection will feel very electric but will most likely fizzle out over time.

↳Busy 3H synastry / lilth 3H / Chiron 3H / Pluto 3H / Neptune 3H↴

Ugh, the gossip. The lies. The bullying. the fakeness. This synastry is like toxic sibling rivalry except they're supposed to your friend. When you have this synastry with a frenemy, you will experience a lot of bs from them and vice versa. These placements also suggest heavy gossip about each other and usually what's being talked about involves the rough stuff. I am talking, the stuff you told this person with confidence that they'd never tell a soul. These people can hit below the belt when they're scorned. I've seen these enemies being very direct towards each other as well, so not only is there open gossip involved, this person will also own up to it! They're the type to be like "yeah b!tcH! I said that. Do you want me to repeat myself??" very confrontational, which could also lead to yelling matches or serious mutual moments of rage. Lilith in 3H is roughest when it comes to exposing the other person's darkness when scorned. When you have this aspect with someone, you should probably be cautious of what you tell them because you might think they forgot, but really, they just stored it in the back of their mind to use for later. Pluto 3H will force one or both people to evolve in terms of how they communicate -- harsh lessons about communication, connection, community, and even relationships with others come from this aspect. Chiron in 3H (and even Neptune 3H) will really put you through the ringer. You will have to go through hardships that can constantly trigger your communication and intelligence wound with this person. One last thing I have noticed is that these people were (or still are to a weird degree) typically close to the point where their families are very intertwined with one another. This can manifest as one or both of them getting each other's families (specifically cousins and siblings) involved with their drama, or "picking sides".

[astrosky33]

Sun conjunct Moon is the best friendship aspect in Synastry

[astrologicalsstuff]

Unpopular opinion/astrology observation

I think synastry is very important, but one thing I noticed amongst friendships is similar aspects. You may not be conjunctinf or trining with a person, but in your own individual natal chart, you have a square between the sun and moon, I noticed friendships formed by that similar  internal experience.

[moonastrogirl]

Let's collectively leave astrology out of toxic patterns

Credit @moonastrogirl

Can we all please collectively leave astrology out of toxic patterns ? No, it’s not because that man you dated was a scorpio or a gemini venus that all scorpio or gemini venus are bad or have issues. It’s not either because your mom has her sun in her 5th house that she is narcissistic. No it’s not because you’re an Aries that you have anger issues. And if you do seek help, do some therapy, reflect ! Let’s leave toxic patterns and behaviours to what they are toxic patterns and not personality traits based on zodiac placements…

*synastry can be more accurate to understand the dynamic of a toxic relationship rather than just personal placements so someone could have been horrible to you because of how their chart has interacted with yours ! And be the perfect person for someone else and that is fine. Sometimes the energy doesn’t match. Sometimes it does. And sometimes that person is just toxic alone and need to seek therapy not because they have a certain placement or sign.*

Why am I saying this ?

(Update of my post thanks to the comment section I always appreciate your feedbacks thank you 🙏)

1) Because it can create stereotypes for some placements or zodiac signs and make people not take astrology seriously…

2) Based on the birth chart the energy of a placement can change drastically especially after looking at the aspects and the dominant planets.

3) Some people use astrology to justify their toxic traits or behaviours and it’s not okay at all. Placements create an energy and a dynamic and we all have the will power to overcome the obstacles of difficult placements and do better.

Credit @moonastrogirl

[astrologylife1]

⁉️⁉️OVERLAY VS APSPECTS ⁉️⁉️

A lot of people get confused or ask what is “stronger”. Let me breakdown how it works:

The ascendant is top two of the most important things Gurus and Ancient astrologers look at. That and the moon. 🌑This is becuase your house 🏡 systems are not negotiable or an option. Meaning if you have Aquarius ♒️ in your 4th house of the Home/Mother. The way you describe your childhood will be different, detached or unconventional. 🌑Depending on your moon sign and the aspects will show how you and your mother actually interacted.

So for synastry 🩷

I’ll use a personal example. My second year in college 📑

I met this Athlete online. He had been trying to get my attention but the first time I saw his profile I remember seeing “NY” and I was in “OH”. 📍

Also I just wasn’t that interested 🤣

Around 5 months later he messaged me again. I decided to look at his page again and looked up his information lol. He went to college in my state and He studied Law just like me☺️

Also “NY” was the state I had planned on moving too 😃

That was my first impression and only interest of meeting him.

From my POV we had COMMONALITIES (things in common).

Whereas on his side he told me he was interested because I was beautiful and wanted to have a good time. 😂🩷

🔥🔥🔥Low and Behold

-my ☀️Sun, Mercury and Venus all fell in his 9th house 🏡

*9th house of college/ universities. Travel, leaning, law etc 😂😂😂

-His☀️ sun, Mercury fell in my 5th House 🏡

*5th house is fun, romance , love, sex, good time, laughs etc 🤣🤣

If anyone can Second this comment below and give examples I’d love to hear some⬇️⬇️:

[lv-iceprince]

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[venusianbbaby]

My friend & I’s Synastry 🌸🧘🏻‍♀️

I’m a Libra rising, Aquarius Sun (4H), Sagittarius Moon (3H), Capricorn Mercury (4H), Sagittarius Venus (3H)

She’s a Scorpio rising, Leo Sun (9H), Capricorn Moon (2H), Virgo Mercury (10H), Leo Venus (9H)

💜🩷

* I wouldn’t call her my ex best friend but we aren’t as close as we used to be. We have had some major fallouts. There’s still great love and respect for one another tho *

We met online and instantly connected when we met each other. Both of us came from a harsh childhood but our families are different. Our friendship has went through a lot over the years. I’ve always thought that she is the Sun while I am the Moon in our friendship! I love her dearly.

🩷💜

< I am a very girly and introverted person. She has more of a darkish aura and is very extroverted >

< Her sun is in my 11th house. My sun is in her 3rd house. We still consider each other family even though we’ve had a few fallouts >

< Her moon is in my 3H and my moon is in her 2H. We have both impacted the others life. We consider each other sisters basically 👯‍♀️ >

; We have many 11H and 3H placements and I think that’s why we feel like we are friendship soulmates.

💜🩷

Aspects* (lots of opp and squares)

My Jupiter conjunct her Venus - “You experience true joy together” Can feel at home together, love just being around each other. We’ve always supported each other in life and love. I just want the best for her as does she for me. 🩷

My Ascendant square her Saturn - I have learned many lessons with her. Especially about the way I express myself! I also feel like she is more mature in me in many ways, I learn a lot from her in general. She has helped me get out of a rough relationship and was my anchor. 💜

My Mercury conjunct her Chiron - I understand what she’s been through and we have a similar childhood filled with bad things that have happened to us. We tell each other about the things and understand each other on a different level. 🩷

My Neptune square her Ascendant - I am *very* sensitive and maybe she didn’t see that about me? I may have been different than what she expected? She is more direct and can hurt my feelings easily without even meaning to. “A spiritual connection and unconditional acceptance” 💜

My Sun square her Ascendant - We’ve had many misunderstandings between us. The way we express ourselves with each other and the way we express ourselves to other people is very different. “Sun can feel wary around ascendants big personality” 🩷

My Moon square her Mercury - My feelings and moods can differ from her thoughts and the way she communicates. She is more logical while I’m all about my feelings. There is a balance between us tho!💜

My Mars square her Mars - The way we do things is different. Her mars is in Pisces while mine is in Sagittarius. Even our actions or the way we do the same things can be different. We have had fallouts from not agreeing with each other, or just having anger towards the other. 🩷

My Neptune opposition her Venus - “These individuals may feel a strong attraction and profound emotional connection” !!!! We’ve always felt like we are each others soulmates in a friendship way. The Venus person is likely more extroverted than Neptune, and this is literally so true. Both will try to escape the harshness of the world together 💜🌎🩷

(our song) 🫶🏻

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[sillybruja]

What are you thoughts on mercury in the 12th house synastry?

I actually just did a post sort of touching base on my thoughts but let me further explain :) I have had this synastry aspect with 2 very close, long-term friends in my life. We are no longer in contact, but I can say these relationships profoundly affected me. That's the thing about 12th house synastry in general -- you will feel the weight of the connection, and the other person's' energy despite not speaking. But more on mercury in the 12H. The BIGGEST issue the two of you will face with this aspect is of course, communication & communication of feelings more specifically. Using my own example -- I was the planet person, trying to "figure out" what the house person was thinking always because they never expressed themselves or how they felt about me. As the planet person, I feel I was more on the receiving end when it comes to confusion. That happens a lot with this placement -- mercury focuses a lot of energy on the mental aspect to things so in this synastry one (or both) of you could truly feel a little mind f*cked about what the other person feels for you. Mercury is of course about exchanging info, communication, etc.. so, with this synastry, you will find two people who love talking to each other. They talk about anything and everything, and things they will not talk about with other people. With one friend, we did sort of develop a trauma bond, but she was the only person I confided in with my deepest secrets. I also see this manifesting as always having an interest in talking about spiritual things and the paranormal. You two could ask a lot of "what if?" questions, or proudly wear tinfoil hats discussing conspiracy theories. You two could enjoy the uncomfortable, the grotesque, the unspoken about, the taboo etc., together and feel completely natural. I've also noticed that this is the type of placement that makes a person sorta sacrificial. Remember I mentioned there's a lot of talking and communicating etc.,? Well, this placement can also make a person self-sacrificing in terms of having an expectation to hold an endless amount of emotional space for the other person, but seldom getting that energy in return. There is no equal give and take when it comes to emotional availability and it can feel taxing. Lastly, I have also noticed this placement can have issues with consistency. While communication can be fast, I have noticed people can also suddenly stop talking randomly and for random periods of time for no reason. This gives ghost energy, or like those relationships you have with people who mean a lot to you but you do not talk to everyday. When you do eventually talk it feels like no time at all. Most of the time this energy works for this pair because they do tend to retreat from the world, but when they connect they find those intense feelings and curiosity about each other has not faded.

[girlypopastro]

ignoring what my best friend says until she has a life shattering entanglement with somebody whose venus is in her 12h triggering her 12h mars and their sun exactly conjunct her saturn and their mars in her 8h while the eclipses are in her 1 and 7h

[glitter-troublewind]

Some fun friend synastry

- Sister signs ( sun)

- Sun - Moon conjunction

- Trine Suns

- Ascendant opposite Sun

[capricores]

send me a placement (ie: gemini sun, virgo venus, moon in 10th, etc) and i'll list out their green vs red flags!!!! (one placement per ask please!!!)

or send a synastry or composite placement for the green/red flags [or moreso positives/negatives] (ie: moon in 12th house synastry/composite chart) (or pisces sun x gemini sun synastry is fine! two placements like that is ok in this case)

[astrologylife1]

Astrology Best Friend matching!!

Aries & Sagittarius = Wild, Fun, Energetic and Passionate 🔥❤️

Capricorn & Scorpio = Chill, Vibe, Tension, Loyalty 🥰❤️

Aquarius & Cancer = Long talks, Dependable, Givers 💙😭

Pisces & Leo = Productive, Trust, Encouragement, Empathy 🌍☀️

Follow for more !

[miss555star]

7h & your enemies! Sun in 7h synastry observations & mini storytime.

[lv-iceprince]

MY SHIPS ARE FINALLY OPEN AGAIN!!! + new ship

YOU HEARD ME I'M BACK AND UP AND RUNNING kind of, All writing requests are open and all ships except for the idol life, synastry, join the group & k-drama ships, these will be available when I finish the halloween ships.

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[tearinarainstorm]

Sorry to bother you too, how about a taurus sun, leo moon, pisces rising, aries mercury & venus and leo mars ?

this is interesting, same sun and moon as rúben! (same big three if i do say myself)

i think it could go really well, you both have similar personalities, or you could clash bc of it. i believe friendships are more beneficial between fixed signs, than romantic relationships.

if your mercury and/or venus are conjunct his saturn (15° aries) it can form a strong and long lasting bond, very commited to each other. great for friendships imo, my saturn is conjunct my friend’s sun & venus and in 13 years we have never fought and we’re very open and honest.

taurus is physical and drawn to the senses, but i wouldn’t say physical affection is their love language. you both would have more personal, unique ways of showing affection 💞