#for the record. I’m not complaining
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Me, yesterday: Yeah I’m gonna draw out a family tree and pick names for Jia’s family bc if we’re gonna develop the storyline of Aiza moving in with them it will be useful. Just names though, nothing more
Me, not even 24 hours later: I have BACKSTORIES I have PERSONALITIES I’m going to BUILD A HOUSE IN THE SIMS FOR THEM
#genuinely. send help#you know. last year we officially doubled our OC count. went from 24 to 48#and when I found that out I went ‘oh haha imagine if we could double it next year too’#AND I MEANT THAT AS A JOKE#A. JOKE.#but apparently I should have learned by now that there’s no such thing as jokes in this multiverse#so um. yeah. guess who has 24 new OCs now#seriously. it took. originally. 9 years to create the first 24#then one year to create the next 24#and this 24? a day. a fucking day#good fucking god#I’m gonna hold off on adding them to the official OC roster until they’re fully developed but still#fucking hell#I’m hoping we’ll tackle Midori’s adoptive kids soon which will leave us with only 21 OCs needed to double the number#and I genuinely think it’s possible to pull it off#but let’s not get ahead of ourselves just yet#let’s take it one multiverse branch at a time. okay?#for the record. I’m not complaining#I feel like more OCs make the world itself feel more alive. characters having families makes them more than cardboard cutouts-#-who randomly soawned into existence. I’m happy with this development#just.. a bit shocked. that’s all#now excuse me. I have to go figure out how to fit 25 people into one house#Kat and Nia and their multiverse of madness
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I’m sorry it’s still crazy to me how fast shit hit the fan yesterday. Like Bad’s last conversation about Forever was a completely hypothetical, extremely early-stage venture into what might be making him act the way he’s acting. It wasn’t even really a plan. He literally had no information of his own, he was solely going off of what Phil and the eggs told him.
And then the next day @v@ pulls up - Bad had never even seen it before - with a gun to Dapper’s head and is like “get in the van”
#like huh waht#record scratch noise#q!bad wakes up and is immediately thrown into a hostage situation where the person in questions only request is ANOTHER HOSTAGE#usually there’s some sort of warning before we get thrown a double-hostage curveball but not on the fucking qsmp apparently#not that I’m complaining it was very well done#but q!Bad’s reaction to @v@ was pretty much just the equivalent of the ‘wait a minute who ARE you’ vine#qsmp#q!bbh
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being a debut stan hearing stans of other albums complain about taylor hating their album:
#FOR THE RECORD THIS IS A JOKE#COMPLAINING IS YOUR RIGHT#COMPLAIN AWAY#mine#taylor swift#eras tour#taylor swift debut#our song#should’ve said no#invisible#teardrops on my guitar#stay beautiful#i’m only me when i’m with you
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can i say something. i think unironically one of the reasons straight women are having such a bad time with men a lot of the time is that so many of them think it’s a red flag for them to be friends with other women. first of all it’s such a weird reductive thing to be like men and women can’t be friends. huh? what? i have guy friends! i always have! are they never supposed to find partners because of me? insane thought imo. and second of all to be honest why do you want to date someone who is only capable of seeing an entire fucking gender as sex objects? i would rather date someone who is friends with women, even if i KNOW he’s attracted to them on some level, because i know that a guy who’s capable of being genuinely friendly with girls will probably be more likely to respect me and treat me like a person. idk. maybe it’s the bisexual in me talking so it feels weird to exclude an entire gender from friendship based on your attraction to them. but just saying. there’s large groups of girls out there ignoring great guys because they’re the type who could be invited to a girls night??? could never be me
#also to be clear this isn’t a i’m blinded by my bf thing. he does have a couple girl best friends for the record but i thought this 100%#way before i met him.#and like tbh i was right! i can talk to him like a fucking human because he TALKS TO GIRLS REGULARLY#anyway happy 5 am#mobi#my post#text#sigh i guess there’s enough in here i should slap on a#bf tag#but i swear to god this is more just complaining about tiktok misogyny#OH ALSO. IF YOUR GUY LETS YOU PAY FOR THINGS. THAT’S ALSO A GREEN FLAG. WE STAN A GUY WHO LOVES FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE. ok by fr now.
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maybe this is a hot take, idk, but some people in the mdzs fandom specifically get SO WORKED UP over people having opinions on their favorite characters
like there’s a huge group that loves to shit on jiang cheng fans, but seriously, it’s not that deep…? it’s just a story, and if people “interpret the characters wrong” does it really matter? who cares? if it makes someone happy then it’s not anyone else’s job to tell them that they’re wrong and morally wrong for liking a specific character. i mean, seriously, it’s literally a fictional character that doesn’t exist, so why does it matter so much? just mind your own business people
#mdzs#mxtx#mxtx mdzs#grandmaster of demonic cultivation#danmei#this shit makes me so mad#it is NOT THAT FUCKING DEEP#and for the record i fucking LOVE jiang cheng and i do not give a single fuck about the people who whine abt it#this shit tires me out to a great extent#maybe i just have anger issues#jiang cheng#hot take#complaining#i’m totally just complaining abt this
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Quick question: When and how did you start realizing that fandom tends to be hostile or anti-analysis? Was it just something that happened overtime?
i mean. have you ever made a textually-supported point contradicted by popular fanon? people seethe
but it’s also just sort of baked into what fandom is. the whole concept of ‘headcanon’ is inherently antitextual—things held to be true irrespective of the text—and the whole point of fanworks is to engage transformatively with the text. fandom is explicitly not a community oriented around textual analysis, and while analytical readings can (and do) support and enrich transformative works, they are also just not what fandom is about.
so within fandom receptivity to textual analysis is generally lukewarm and varies widely depending on how closely it happens to align with the fanon, and in my experience fandom has a particular difficulty parsing character analysis outside the blorbo framework (ie liking / disliking / personally identifying with a character).
there is in particular a tendency for analytical readings to get parsed in fandom spaces as critical of the story or the characters being discussed; for example i’ve had explicitly positive character analysis of mine (as in, posts where i directly state my appreciation for or enjoyment of the thing i’m talking about) get reblogged and tagged ‘anti-whatever’ because the thing i’m talking about is, like, a character flaw. or something bad that a character did that caused conflict in the narrative.
and i think that really gets to the heart of the, like, cultural divide between transformative fandom and analytical engagement, because in fandom spaces if you say, for instance, “yang has a hot temper she works hard to keep in check” that is generally going to be understood as a value judgment (either a positive remark on her maturity and emotional discipline or a complaint about her expressions of anger) whereas in an analytical context it’s just an observation that needs to be evaluated in terms of whether the text supports it or not.
the consequence of that is that if i write analytically about the role of anger in yang’s character arc—which is a facet of her that i personally really enjoy and think is done quite well—and if that breaks containment and travels outside of my immediate circle of followers (who presumably follow me because they like reading my analysis and who obv know what i’m about) then odds are it’ll land in front of someone who goes “UGH not ANOTHER person picking on yang for bEiNg AnGrY, she’s got good reasons to be mad when she gets mad and also she doesn’t get mad NEARLY as often as these assholes think” (which is true) (yang almost never loses her temper and she’s very quick to check herself on those occasions; and when she chooses to let it out she’s always justified)—because anger is culturally perceived as bad and the social norm in most fan spaces is that you don’t write lengthy posts focused on a character’s flaws (or ‘flaws’) unless you just think they suck.
(<- this isn’t a hypothetical btw. like i’ve gotten blocked over my yangposting being interpreted in exactly this way grbfksj)
the funny part is that while my analysis intermittently makes people SPITTING MAD, the fanfic i write (which follows from my analysis!) doesn’t. i’m sure there’s plenty of people who don’t like my fanfic, but if i write a character in a way that contradicts the popular fanon what happens is folks will comment stuff like “this is such a cool unique take on this character” brfhkg. and that’s primarily why i think it’s a cultural thing, where textual analysis—with its strict grounding in textual evidence and dismissal of ideas that can’t be supported by the text—gets people’s hackles up bc it’s a) examining the text at an emotional remove and thus hard to parse in a social environment where the primary mode of engagement is driven by emotional attachment to specific characters, and b) often perceived as telling people their headcanons are wrong, which is rude.
(sometimes headcanons ARE wrong, in the sense of being textually refuted. that is the entire point of headcanon. i think the experience of fandom is much improved by keeping this in mind. analysis is never a threat to headcanon because headcanon is supposed to be transformative. equally, headcanon is irrelevant to analysis because analysis is strictly concerned with the text.)
more broadly i just find fandom culture to be interesting in and of itself. so in addition to participating in fandom directly i also lurk a lot and pay attention to cross-fandom phenomena (e.g. migratory sapphic and slash shippers) and read discussions about fandom and that sort of thing. and i think approaching fandom from that perspective, it’s sort of a what it says on the tin situation; fandom is transformative by definition, ‘fuck canon’ is an ubiquitous meme, fanon… exists at all as a concept and is widely celebrated as superior to canon, AUs are terrifically popular, “fix-it” fics are terrifically popular, etc etc.
so i don’t think my view here is even unusual necessarily except insofar as i articulate it in a very precise (and perhaps pedantic) way. like the average person in fandom is probably aware that playing in the sandbox is different from constructing a lego set and that people in the sandbox are, as a general rule, not all that keen to make sand castles in strict accordance with the lego instructions. because it’s sand. lmao
#for the record i recognize the hypocrisy of bringing legos into the sandbox and then complaining that there’s sand#however this is my house#and the important thing is i’m having fun
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Celebrating the last day of the full time job before I get to go back to only 1-2 days because of school. GET ME OUTTA HERE
#I should work more otherwise I’m gonna struggle even harder to pay tuition next year#but hey the worlds gonna collapse by 2050 anyway#I shouldn’t be complaining but my job could not get more boring#you’d think it be fun. it’s a record store#well#it’s not doing well business wise and so I have literally nothing to do#if I have to try and make alphabetizing the store stretch on for 7 hours one more day I might in fact implode#if I have to pretend to be busy for 7 hours I’m going to cause the apocalypse myself#I hope one of the pet stores get back to be about my applications#at least my boss and coworkers are nice#pet store hire me I know how to take care of turtles#back on the nothing to do thing I am not exaggerating this has been my life for like two months at this point#I have never felt more useless#but I have anxiety so finding another job will be hard#people don’t like hiring obviously anxious people as their customer service workers#besides I’ve already applied to like five different places and have heard nothing#grrrrrrrrrrrrr
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It’s kind of wild seeing people discuss whether or not Valgrace (which is at 1.2k tagged ao3 fics) is a rarepair when the last fandom I was in had like 6k fics total
#For the record I am not complaining I’m so glad to be sitting on this particular picnic blanket with so many people#But that was still really strange to see haha#Fandom scale is the craziest thing#valgrace#Let’s see if this shows up in the tags because new sideblog tend to be a bit of an issue on that front
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Oh
I blew through wallaru in 3 days
Oops
#three days is definitely a new record for a world I’ve never played#all I gotta do is the final dungeon because the servers went down last night before I could#and then I’m done#And hopefully Ryan will FINALLY get their man back#Ryan going on walkabout to save their supernatural boyfriend is the most insane thing they’ve ever done by far#@ everybody who complained about the cheating bosses: shut#in terms of gameplay this is what w101 should be#billabong resort gives MAD otgw vibes#I’m gonna be thinking about the music forever hello???#THE EMU CUTSCENE WAS BADASS TOO
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Annoyed rn because recently *several* random accounts that I followed for the art, fashion, or other aesthetically pleasing shit they posted have been turning out to be crypto(ish) T ERFs (typed like that bc I don’t want those obsessive ghouls on this post or really just anywhere near me or my blog at all). I guess I’m just gonna have to start term searching every time I want to follow a new blog, cuz I never want to see that shit.
So I just wanna say if y’all ever see me reblog from an account that you know is a T ERF or adjacent 1) please let me know so I can block them and 2) it’s because I follow nearly the maximum number of accounts possible and also have a life outside the internet so I don’t see every single post that the people I follow reblog.
In general OOMFs, please do not hesitate to come into my asks or DMs and let me know if you ever see me reblog a post from a T ERF or anyone else that has straight up abhorrent, bigoted views, because I don’t want to interact with people like that and I don’t want to contribute to those people and their ideas having platforms on here.
#if you’re a terf or gender critical or you identify as a radfem idk why you would be following this blog.#but if for some reason anyone who falls under those categories does follow me… go ahead and block me. you’re unwanted here#and for the record. I feel very strongly pro intersectional/anarcho feminism and radically anti patriarchy.#but I’m not a radfem. and the experiences I’ve had with radfems tell me they’re not at all radical and actually quite regressive#I try not to worry too much about who I’m following bc it feeds into my OCD but then shit like this happens ughhh#gonna try to stop complaining now#misc#vent ish#our posts#ramblings#-mars
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Bro if I don’t stop feeling so lonely, isolated, and doomed soon I might just have to radically change my entire life
#feeling deeply unsatisfied with my life atm and extremely frustrated that I’m having trouble changing that#I’m having too many bad weeks lately and it’s just exhausting#I’m so fucking tired#and stuck#but I feel bad complaining#I sound like a broken record
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I’m sick of the drama about feminine Louis. They’re not trying to protect Louis at all, they’re just mad that for once a black man is being portrayed as soft and now they want to gatekeep the fics. But notice how when the reverse happens these blogs have NOTHING to say. Transparent ass bitches. I’m gonna write some loustat mpreg with bottom louis especially for these haters. Black fandom can’t have anything for themselves bc of people like this.
I’m not disagreeing anon. If anything, I support you.
#mpreg isn’t really my jam but i still support you#bc at this point that is what it sounds like#and i do agree that there are no problems when lestat’s flamboyance is interpreted as femininity#but any attempts to do that with louis and suddenly it’s political#it’s tiring and boring and I’m sick of it too#and ik i sound like a broken record but just block these people#bc they’re just spouting nonsense at the end of the day#and they run around engaging with things they know they won’t lie (bottom!louis or loustat mpreg with a barefoot pregnant louis at home)#so they can complain like these types of domestic fics aren’t popular as hell#go to any ship with two white men and I guarantee you’ll see fics like this all over#but there’s no problems with these types of fics apparently#but of course when black fans want a peace of that pie it’s ‘holding up gender roles’ or ‘it’s homophobic’ and whatever#it’s bullshit if you ask me#so yeah…just block em 💞#they’re not worth the effort or emotion love#and their opinions on these things mean jack shit#write what you want to read!#fanfic is for you
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is everyone just super ok with being filmed all the time? am i uniquely avoidant to like surveillance? because the number of times i’ve had to argue with people i live with about me not wanting to be filmed seems high. like i’ve had multiple conversations about not wanting security cameras inside my house/apartment (especially ones i can’t access but other people who live with me can), not wanting to be in someone else’s streams while i’m just like… chilling in my own bed in full view of the camera, people filming/sometimes just audio-recording conversations we’re having. and to me that seems…. awful. like, i’m in my house. i do not want eyes on me all the time. this has happened with literally everyone i’ve ever lived with—roommates and family are both included in that. and i know im more sensitive to this generally than most people i know, but in these situations it feels entirely reasonable to be upset?
#personal#i just got into an argument bc i was just talking and someone said ‘im going to record this’ and i said ‘well no’ and they got mad#like that’s so bs especially if you’re only threatening to record because you want to annoy me#i’m very vocal about when i do not want to be on camera (in my house!) and i don’t think that’s weird#but if it’s so reasonable for me to think & want then why does no one i’ve lived with seem to echo this?#and when i’ve complained about it to people—most often the streaming one—they wonder ‘why i even care’#why do i care that people are watching me sleep in bed? why do i care people are making recordings of me?#and it’s always the counter of ‘well if you’re not doing anything wrong’ which is insane to me!! WHAT!!#ok it’s whatever i’m just super upset i keep having the same conversations
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i’m so jealous of people who can go on long walks in the summer bc i live in arizona like i literally cannot do that
#my dad does it pretty much every day but his body doesn’t have issues with temperature regulation 💔#it’s so ungodly hot here like it’s not even funny especially the past couple years#last july it was 115+ in phoenix for over 2 weeks straight i think it set a new record#and i’m a 20 year old girl so there’s no way i’m going for a walk at night when it’s cooler#ugh like i complain a lot but i think it’s justified this time like all i want is to take a fucking walk why can’t i have this#lj.txt
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Oh jeeOh gosh-Oh how did that happen
#magia record#i- blacked out#I-#went full feral fomo#luckily I got them on step 1 :)#and then my 2 innocent gems evaporated the second I got that second slot#now they are in full glory and fully slotted :)#but I went all the way to step 4 on Shii and I STILL DIDNT GET A SECOND SLOT I-#*looking off into the distance* she hates me#I saved literally all my gems for her and that still was not enough#I shouldn’t complain…. as least mitama is always there for me#it’s why I named my shiny mimikyu afyer her#the black out ended after step 4#I’m done with Shii and her shiiiiit#i don’t think these units make the anniversary cutoff but if they do I will roll agai for Shii#I really like her:)#she’s pretty strong paired it iroha and Kuroe#even at one slot#I just want to four slot her more for fun than anything#…put this all in the post? 🙅🏻 put it in the tags? 😊☕️
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Four fifty year old women with their original, naturally aged faces in mother-of-the-bride get-ups singing their old hits to sold out auditoriums across America in 1978… never not low-key thinking about this. 😍😍😍😍
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#4 girls 4#girl group of all time! to me!#margaret whiting#Helen O’Connell#rosemary clooney#rose marie#thinking about this again because I had a really weird discussion with my boss today about women with gray hair#and also I’ve been thinking about my childhood crush on rose Marie#and I’ve been thinking about in a lot of the 70s media I interact with it’s like pretty normal for women who kinda just look like just some#lady are regarded as whole people who are interesting#but who are noticeably just older and maybe a joke is made here or there about it but it’s good natured#I mean I’m not complaining about Sheryl Lee Ralph being hot on red carpets#but it’s way more meaningful to me that she gets to wear granny cardigans and sing gospel songs and be just some lady on Abbott elementary#Youtube#also this rose Marie Hollywood squares monologue is so corny I love it#and like I just am not sure this sort of thing could be replicated because of the way music has changed so much#I’m pretty sure none of these women were sex symbols per se they were just making records#who was just making records in the 90s who would do something like this today?#Pop records top 40 radio to be clear
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