#femmegender

[genderstarbucks]

Transfemme!!

Transfemme is a term for transitioning into femmeness; a term used to describe trans people identifying with femme gendered feelings to a greater extent than with other gender qualities.

Intersex to Femme | Male to Femme | Female to Femme

The femme version to transbutch!

This is not to be confused with transfem / transfeminine as it is the transition to being femme rather than femininity (however; one can use both labels if they wish!) Transfemme is also not exclusive for lesbians as it's for any transgender femme person who wishes to use it (not exclusive to feminine-aligned individuals either)

Transfemme can also be used by those who identify with the transfeminine label, but don't feel comfortable using it, for whatever reason

[revenant-coining]

Sillyfemme

(pt: Sillyfemme /end pt)

(id: a rectangular flag with 6 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors in order from top to bottom are dark red, red, light orange, white, red-pink, and purple. /end id)

(id: a rectangular flag with 6 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors in order from top to bottom are dark red, red, light orange, pale yellow, light blue, and blue. /end id)

Sillyfemme; a gender connected to sillyness/being silly & one’s femme identity; a sillygender & femmegender combo term.

Sillyfutch; a gender connected to sillyness/being silly & one’s femme identity; a sillygender & futchgender combo term.

etymology; silly, femme/futch

for anon!

tagging; @radiomogai, @thecoffeecrew404

[neopronouns]

flag id: a flag with 6 stripes, which are dark purple, pink, medium light pink-red, light yellow-orange, cream, copper brown, and dark silver. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

femmecatten: a gender related to being femme and cats; a femme cat gender

[pt: femmecatten: a gender related to being femme and cats; a femme cat gender. end pt]

a femme version of butchcatten for anon! the top three stripes are adjusted from the femmegender flag and the bottom three represent cats. the term is 'femme', 'cat', an extra 't', + 'en'!

tags: @radiomogai | dni link

[losergendered]

Butchbodiment | Futchbodiment | Femmebodiment

Butchbodiment: a gender related to being the embodiment of butch/being butch

Futchbodiment: a gender related to being the embodiment of futch/being futch

Femmebodiment: a gender related to being the embodiment of femme/being femme

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[ID: A flag with nine horizontal stripes, all the same size. The colors are lighter in the middle and darker at the edges. The colors are, from top to bottom, dark violet, teal, light green, pale tan, white, light peach, washed-out light red, magenta, and dark purple. END ID]

Guroboyfemme: Being both femme and (a) Guroboy

The colors are inspired by the Guroboy flag, as well as flags for various other femme genders

No Suggested Pronouns

[leo-is-bedrotting]

Happy coming out day :3 !

I first came out as gay when i was 12 and then i came out again and again to different people, you know how it goes. I also had a gender crisis right after (at 13) and felt like a trans girl but unfortunately i felt like i couldn’t tell anyone in my life or online about it… being a girl was too hard so i let that girl die and numbed my dysphoria. It all came crushing down during the pandemic cause i was alone with my feelings, didn’t shave as often cause i didn’t go outside and the feelings of dysphoria finally caught up to me. I used a bunch of non-binary specific labels like demiboy, genderfluid, agender, xenogenders etc but i’ve settled for just transfem and genderqueer guy.

But in truth my gender is more of a story, it’s not just what i am, i also know why i am— i don’t feel like what i am now is what i was born as, but i did feel every stage of development my gender went through. When i felt like a girl i was truly a girl, when i felt genderless i was genuinely genderless. Also being gay and loving my gayness has made me find joy in my gender as a guy, my feelings surrounding gender are very much connected to being gay, for me being gay is the only reason i enjoy having a gender identity in the first place.

I could make a diagram but im bored but basically, i realized i liked boys as a boy, i realized i was a girl but i had to develop a different gender because the pain of being a trans girl forced my brain to stop being a girl but i have dysphoria residue and im transfem now and also genderqueer. Being autosexual and polyamorous are just byproducts of being gay lol, when you’re queer you might as well do what you’re inclined to do yknow!!

This is just how i feel, every experience is different, not every queer person’s gender intertwines with their orientation BUT FOR THOSE WHO DO!!!!!!!!!! SHOUT OUT TO NONBINARY LESBIANS/BUTCHGENDER/FEMMEGENDER/GENDERD_KE/LESBIANGENDER LESBIANS <3 also bisexuals that are fluid and multigendered because of their bisexuality, aces/aros that lack gender because of that etc, but i relate to lesbians the most cause transmasc lesbians and me transfem gay.omg.we’re matching.

Anyway love you always and forever 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[flag-mashups]

Femme Lesbian + Femmegender =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Femme Lesbian - A Lesbian who behaves or presents more feminine.

Femmegender - Someone who feels like their gender identity is tied to being Femme.

[dream-sans-mogai]

Lazy flag combos pt.38

Ft. Nullic/aloeian/x loving none with...

Femmegender × ace-jump × gay

Aroace × aro-jump × libraman

Abiamorus × gay × NBLA

Credit not needed

[gender-jargon]

[Image ID: The Chemme flag created by coiner Gent of Gender-Jargon, 2024. The flag consists of seven horizontal stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, the horizontal stripes are burnt orange, orange, coral, white, lilac, light purple and purple. /.End ID]

Chemme: a combined Butch-Femme identity.

[PT: Chemme: a combined Butch-Femme identity. /.End PT]

When referring to gender, Chemmegender may be used.

Etymology

From English, "Ch" from "Butch" + "-emme" from "Femme". Coined by Gent of Gender-Jargon, 2024.

Elaboration

Chemme describes any individual who is both Butch and Femme. Chemme is similar to Butchfemme, but specifies Chemme as being distinct from Futch. In this context, Futch is conceptualized as a being between Butch and Femme. Whereas Chemme is a term to describe a coupled Butch-Femme experience. This experience can be (in)distinct, simultaneous, fluid, fluctuating, (un)equal, partial, etc.

Like Butch, Femme, Futch, etc., Chemme can be a queer subcultural identity or a gender identity specifically. When specifying a Chemme gender identity, Chemmegender can be used. Chemmegender describes an individual with a Butchgender-Femmegender bigender.

Flag

The Chemme flag was created using two common Butch and Femme flags, created by tumblr user Butchspace and tumblr user Noodle, respectively with slight color adjustment. The topmost three stripes are taken from the aforementioned Butch flag. The middle stripe is white, like it is in both the Butch and Femme flags. The bottom three stripes are taken from the Femme flag. From top to bottom, the Chemme flag is burnt orange, orange, coral, white, lilac, light purple and dark purple. The stripes have the following meanings:

The burnt orange, orange and coral stripes represent Butch identity.

The white stripe represents Multigender experience.

The lilac, light purple and dark purple stripes represent Femme identity.

Flag by Gent of Gender-Jargon, 2024.

[ghosting-plural-userboxes]

hi! could we request a headmate pack? they have a kind of soft/pastel theme and they're also associated with stars, i don't know what the term for their role would be but they're protective and they help calm down other headmates when they're upset. also they would like feminine names and fem/neutral pronouns and genders!

Name(s): Aino, Ceri, Aimi 

Age: 2,500(Mentally 17-21)

Pronouns: She/Her

Neopronouns: Shy/Shyr, Vy/Vim, Shi/Zir, Sugar/Sugarself, Yume/Yumeself

Gender: Faesari, Femmegender, Yumefempresentic, Adorablecute, Magicagirlcute, Cutehoarder, Sinisweet, Angel?Girl, Cute, Ciarte, Hynagonia

Orientation: Bambi Lesbian, Asexual, Reciproromantic

Role(s): Comforter, Soother

Origin(s): Brainmade(?)

Species: (non biblical)Angel?

Likes: Sleeping, Dreams, Imagining fantasy lands, Pokemon, Animal crossing, Helping those she likes, Sewing, Plushies, Blankets, Cozy clothes

Dislikes: “Ugly” colors, Spring, Mosquitoes, Dogs, Bright lights, Math class, Seeing others hurt

Aesthetic: Yume Kawaii, Fairy-Kei, Magical Girl

Extra: Catkin, Creampuff, Strawberry Milk, Can sew pretty well, Knows basic sign language, Doesn’t actually speak using shyr mouth!

Handwriting: 

Color palette(s):

Song Suggestion: Where We Used To Play -Omori

Potential Faceclaim(s): 

Hopefully this is ok(I luv making cute headmate packs >.<!!)

requests are closed :D!

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[mogai-headcanons]

Sonic the Hedgehog from Sonic the Hedgehog is an autistic aromantic gay speedcoric xDgender trans guy with ADHD who uses he/him pronouns!

He's in a queerplatonic relationship with Shadow the Hedgehog, an autistic voidpunk aromantic omnisexual nonbinary autigender gendervessel agender ahaze gendervoid benevoid genderpunk nyctogender gendernoctis genderdox vacugender fuckgender eldritchonum voidestral calighn lachrymosian stargender chaosgender errorgender hedgehog with dissociation, derealization, and CPTSD who canonically uses he/him and it/its pronouns and also uses that/thats or no pronouns!

Sonic's best friend Miles 'Tails' Prower is an autistic autigender questioning nonbinary fox who uses he/him pronouns!

Amy Rose is a trans genderfluffy cutegender pastelgender pastelpinkgender pinkgender femmegender cuddlegender genderblanket kawaiicoric lesbian with ADHD and a comphet crush on Sonic who uses she/her, bun/buns, sweet/sweets, pink/pinks, and pastel/pastels pronouns!

Rouge the Bat is an aroace lesbian who uses she/her and they/them pronouns!

dni link

[obscurian]

[PT: fxmmegender / afemmegender: a genderness that is both agender and femmegender (a gender influenced by one’s femme identity in some way), and / or somewhere between agender and femmegender; an identity that is mostly femmegender, but has a connection to genderlessness and / or agendered feelings; a femmegender person who feels they have null / no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to femmegenderness

fxtchgender / afutchgender: a genderness that is both agender and futchgender (a gender influenced by one’s futch identity in some way), and / or somewhere between agender and futchgender; an identity that is mostly futchgender, but has a connection to genderlessness and / or agendered feelings; a futchgender person who feels they have null / no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to futchgenderness

bxtchgender / butchgxnder / abutchgender: a genderness that is both agender and butch (a gender influenced by one’s butch identity in some way), and / or somewhere between agender and butchgender; an identity that is mostly butchgender, but has a connection to genderlessness and / or agendered feelings; a butchgender person who feels they have null / no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to butchgenderness /end PT]

fxmmegender | fxtchgender | bxtchgender

fxmmegender/afemmegender: a genderness that is both agender and femmegender (a gender influenced by one’s femme identity in some way), and/or somewhere between agender and femmegender; an identity that is mostly femmegender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a femmegender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to femmegenderness

fxtchgender/afutchgender: a genderness that is both agender and futchgender (a gender influenced by one’s futch identity in some way), and/or somewhere between agender and futchgender; an identity that is mostly futchgender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a futchgender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to futchgenderness

bxtchgender/butchgxnder/abutchgender: a genderness that is both agender and butch (a gender influenced by one’s butch identity in some way), and/or somewhere between agender and butchgender; an identity that is mostly butchgender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a butchgender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to butchgenderness 

agender + femmegender/butchgender and futchgender terms! for bxtchgender, i offered butchgxnder as an alternative, as ‘bxtch’ can look like it’s censoring a swear rather than placing a neutral ‘x’ within the word ‘butch’. also, like the original terms, these are inclusive of femmes, futches, and butches of all genders and orientations!

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 14 images in 7 pairs. each has one image of the listed monster high g3 character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Draculaura from Monster High (G3) is a arospec, cupioromantic, bi, asexual, librafemmine, agender, agender girl, femthing, gxrlthing, magicthing, faesari, gxrl, girlflux, hyperfem, sapphic, magigirl who uses she/it pronouns!

She is dating Clawd Wolf, a transmasc, boyish, demiboy, nonbinary boy, lunaboy, moon transmasc, demiromantic, bisexual, who uses he/him pronouns!

Clawd's sister and Draculaura's best friend, Clawdeen Wolf, is a moongender, femcreature, lunefem, athing, genderqueer, cassgirl, gender apathetic, lesbian, who uses any pronouns, but prefers she/her!

Clawdeen's girlfriend, Toralei Stripe, is a fembitch, transfemme, girlfreak, femmegender, nonbinary girl, demisexual, lesbian, who uses it/she/they pronouns!

Clawdeen and Draculaura's best friend, Frankie Stein, is nonbinary, transgender, patchgender, puzzlegender, consueric, queer, strangething, genderweirdo, polyaffectionate, polyamorous, demiromantic, bi, asexual, and uses they/them pronouns!

They are dating Cleo De Nile, a genderfluid, aroace, azurgirl, femmasc, genderfluid fem leaning, polyamorous, bisexual, who uses she/him pronouns!

Frankie and Cleo are also both dating Deuce Gorgon, a polyamorous, aromantic, bisexual, transgender, trans man, who uses he/him pronouns!

For phantom anon!

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Butchpresentic: A gender that presents itself in a butch way/as butch/as a butch. Can be used as a descriptor for other terms

Futchpresentic: A gender that presents itself in a futch way/as futch/as a futch. Can be used as a descriptor for other terms

Femmepresentic: A gender that presents itself in a femme way/as femme/as a femme. Can be used as a descriptor for other terms

The flag colors are inspired by flags for various butch/femme/futch genders

For anon

No suggested pronouns

[queersekai]

Day 4 of @cocajimmycola's April Icon Event: Favorite ship

They are T4T and in love your honor. MafuMizu for life

Flag(s): Transmascfem, transtidal, gendervoid, apagender, kenochoric (Mafuyu); Transfem, xenogender, translunar, femmegender, gendercute (Mizuki)

[coinzofgenderz]

FEMGENDER!

Femgender (also known as femmegender and fegender) is a non-binary gender that is feminine in nature. It may best be described as femme and typically feels feminine in either appearance, personality, or both. It can be used to describe one whose gender identity is tied to being femme. This may be used in combination with other genders or used as a gender on its own. It is also described as a gender influenced by one's femme identity. It is similar to fingender.

The masculine equivalent is mascgender.

This was not coined by me!