#feminim

[evinanime]

Feminim Dress

[6pillars]

(via Parliamentary Briefing on Iran @azadi network

[vampiric-fangirl]

this outfit change was her unlocking Cis+ btw. if anyone cares

[freckled-radfem]

Women and girls do not have to be smile at or make niceties with homeless men. Homeless men still harass and assault women, and men blame women for being assaulted because they apparently encouraged the perpetrator if they were nice to him. Homeless men are still misogynistic; they are still men, and their feelings do not outweigh women and girls' comfort and safety.

[woodlaflababab]

Aang and Androgyny

This is gonna be a bit ramblish but I've been thinking about it, A Lot.

I keep seeing people describe Aang as 'feminine' and that's always kinda sat wrong with me but I couldn't really tell why because they usually had a point, but recently I've realized it's because Aang isn't feminine, he's a great representation of androgyny but people see an absense of masculinity (especially in comparison with Sokka, Zuko, and even Toph) and read that as feminine.

He has a few 'feminine' moments, like the flower crown and the jewlery making, and he also has plenty of 'masculine' moments, the first that come to mind being him shutting people up in The Great Divide and him giggling with Sokka over buttresses.

And I've heard people point out that he has many personality traits associated with women, passivity being a big one, along with his empathy and care, but he also has plenty associated with men like confidence and, uh, I don't know what the word for it is, the only word that's coming to mind is tomfoolery, but that vibe. Being a tomfool.

But I think the kicker is, the two (positive) traits I see most often associated with him are his love for fun, and his wisdom. Both of which are genderless traits. When you think of wisedom you either think of an old man or an old woman. The gender of 'wise' is old. And fun loving is also not a trait strongly tied to either gender either, it's one that bring to mind children or the 'young at heart' (and isn't that interesting, that Aang can be most well known for acting both too young and too old)

Even Aang's basic character design has andogyny in it. He's bald, which is something usually associated with older men bc they lose hair. Among the young, both men and women can be bald, it's an unconventional hair choice either way. His outfit for two thirds of the show is one that is canonically genderless, it's simply the outfit given to those who are learning airbending, regardless of gender or age. And even when he gets out of that one, what does he go to? A school uniform. One both boys and girls wear. His final outfit is sorta ??? on the gender scale because like, clearly a woman would need to wear something under that, but also looser more revealing clothing is typically reserved for women (looking at Katara's fire nation outfit). I feel like there's a reason most genderbent art of Aang I've seen retain his outfit just with wraps underneath.

Aang is almost perfectly androgynous in just about everything he does. He's literally the fucking avatar, the symbol of balance, a being that has been both male and female many times.

But, because he's a boy, people see androgyny and think feminine, just like people see girls who lack feminimity as masculine. They're not. Androgynous is a thing a person can be.

I'm not saying like, Aang is genderqueer or anything, his reaction to the Ember Island Players alone shows he's connected to his sense of gender, but I just don't like people calling him feminine, or watching people debate this by pointing out masculine traits. He's neither.

He's just Aang.

[yeyayeya]

The new changes to the uncensored TGCF revised version are 👀

[dress-this-way]

~ Pink | Plush | Glam ~

[fashv4mp]

Some outfits made by me ੈ✩‧₊˚

[milkbloodguts]

Putrid Feminine

There's something so horrifying and putrid about my femininity. Every time I lean into it, I become a God. I can't just be pretty, I want to fuck, destroy, possess, be the centre of attention, be the best.

I want to cut others down with my tongue, persuade with my breasts, and lather myself in blood to soften my skin. I want to take a knife and pull myself apart at the seams, like a cheap pair of stockings yanking each vein out like a loose thread.

I've never understood how to be feminine, every attempt I make is monstrous, bitter, putrid.

I am holding a lighter up to the wax of myself trying to reshape myself into something pretty and quaint. Instead I am just fleshy and pink, writhing and seething.

-H.R.

[fobnsfwdoodlesbackup]

the Patrick nude sketch is so beautiful oh my god when you draw that man it is like... indescribably beautiful, it's like historical art pieces depicting naked people but it's Patrick beloved

Thank youuu 🥺 I'm very passionate about treating bodies as art, and especially bodies that historically aren't associated with beauty

I'm really grateful that so many people find beauty in the same things/people I do 🫶

[her-penetrating-soul]

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🤍 ‿I bid you all a romantic moonlight, my darling souls. Thank you kindly for accompanying me today. For adoring my frails. Thank you for all my new followers. Much adoration & love.⁀🤍

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[melaninmanifestation]

This is for my ladies who wear weaves, wigs, ponytail etc.

I was recently talking to a male friend and he commented on the smell of my hair. What he thought was the smell of cookies was my hair. It was Sol De Janeiro Cheirosa 71. He couldn’t believe the scent was coming from my hair especially because my hair was straight. He expected to smell “burnt hair”. Long story short find a scented hair spray/ hair perfume.

[iceyrukia]

This has over 100k tweets people will just say anything

[barefoot-a-pregnant]

Tried a new hairstyles today! Love it!

[francisforever2014]

i loveeee being in gws and mas . everytime i “waste” my tuition money and undergrad degree studying things i love but people think are useless i rub my little hands together and chant this is the future liberals want

[jewishdainix]

Ooooooh ooof. Elend is going through THE most frustrating thing ever